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"Anything a guy says to me, on here, in person, in bed, it's just....fluff. It's not that deep and it doesn't really mean anything. Guys say all kinds of crap in the moment. " So you never ever believe what they're saying is genuine? | |||
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"I think it's probably genuine if they're willing to bone me and especially if they come back for more. There's the slight chance I'm just a warm, wet hole but being such special needs, the other person has to make special effort. I'm much more skeptical about the random compliments and praise on the forum and via DM. I'm shit at accepting compliments anyway though "Your blowjobs are 10/10, though. | |||
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"The fact that they have taken delight in spending time with me, ensconced in naked entwinement is flattering enough. Sometimes the unspoken gestures speak volumes." Do you have mute sexy meets Nerø?  | |||
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"Anything a guy says to me, on here, in person, in bed, it's just....fluff. It's not that deep and it doesn't really mean anything. Guys say all kinds of crap in the moment. So you never ever believe what they're saying is genuine?" I don't think it's done deliberately, but no, it's just words, it's doesn't mean anything. Whatever they say to me I can guarantee they've said a fair few times beforehand to others. | |||
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"The fact that they have taken delight in spending time with me, ensconced in naked entwinement is flattering enough. Sometimes the unspoken gestures speak volumes. · Do you have mute sexy meets Nerø? "• Only with women who are fluent in Makaton, just like me. 😈 | |||
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"Told a date that she was beautiful during foreplay which made her suddenly stop and accuse me of bull shitting her. She was though and I find it hard to say things to people that aren't true. I'm like gollum with a shit beard so find it hard to take compliments." Completely irrelevant to this thread topic but your last cock picture looks like it's got wings. I don't know if it was intentional, but it's some excellent work. | |||
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"I think it's probably genuine if they're willing to bone me and especially if they come back for more. There's the slight chance I'm just a warm, wet hole but being such special needs, the other person has to make special effort. I'm much more skeptical about the random compliments and praise on the forum and via DM. I'm shit at accepting compliments anyway though
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"The fact that they have taken delight in spending time with me, ensconced in naked entwinement is flattering enough. Sometimes the unspoken gestures speak volumes. · Do you have mute sexy meets Nerø?
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"...For instance I know I do not have the body of a woman half my age. " • I am in awe (and lust) of your moth-eaten torso, your lådyship.  | |||
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"...For instance I know I do not have the body of a woman half my age. • I am in awe (and lust) of your moth-eaten torso, your lådyship. ".  | |||
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"Healthy skeptic here . I dont believe it on the whole . Self preservation ... dont believe the bull ..dont get hurt " ah but which hole dont you believe it on hmmm | |||
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"Healthy skeptic here . I dont believe it on the whole . Self preservation ... dont believe the bull ..dont get hurt ah but which hole dont you believe it on hmmm "Whichever it is in at the time | |||
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"Healthy skeptic here . I dont believe it on the whole . Self preservation ... dont believe the bull ..dont get hurt ah but which hole dont you believe it on hmmm
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"I believe the flattery I know to be true and I don't believe the flattery that is clearly bs. For instance I know I do not have the body of a woman half my age. " So would you say if they compliment something you're insecure about, you believe it to be bs? | |||
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"I guess would believe to be not true, as I've ways been insecure about being skinny. 🤔 " Some people are really into skinny guys. | |||
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"I guess would believe to be not true, as I've ways been insecure about being skinny. 🤔 " Some of us married very slim guys. It's not a particular "thing" for me, body shape isn't what I'm looking at. Mr KC was VERY slim back in the day. | |||
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"I guess would believe to be not true, as I've ways been insecure about being skinny. 🤔 Some people are really into skinny guys. " That is true, I suppose that's a different issue for me all toghether. | |||
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"I guess would believe to be not true, as I've ways been insecure about being skinny. 🤔 Some of us married very slim guys. It's not a particular "thing" for me, body shape isn't what I'm looking at. Mr KC was VERY slim back in the day. " Yeah, I'm probably rably just over thinking this one. | |||
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"I guess would believe to be not true, as I've ways been insecure about being skinny. 🤔 " The worst is getting the "She'll snap you like a twig" comments when talking about fancying someone 
But don't worry Toots, us skinny guys rock | |||
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"I guess would believe to be not true, as I've ways been insecure about being skinny. 🤔 Some of us married very slim guys. It's not a particular "thing" for me, body shape isn't what I'm looking at. Mr KC was VERY slim back in the day. Yeah, I'm probably rably just over thinking this one." Probably as much as I over think the fact I'm fat and am incredibly self conscious about that. | |||
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"I guess would believe to be not true, as I've ways been insecure about being skinny. 🤔 The worst is getting the "She'll snap you like a twig" comments when talking about fancying someone
But don't worry Toots, us skinny guys rock "Appreciate it man, I do want to go gym when this new job gets up, not too crazy mind you, but just some stuff to make feel abit more healthy. | |||
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"I think it's probably genuine if they're willing to bone me and especially if they come back for more. There's the slight chance I'm just a warm, wet hole but being such special needs, the other person has to make special effort. I'm much more skeptical about the random compliments and praise on the forum and via DM. I'm shit at accepting compliments anyway though "It heard that saying in a long time 😂 just bone me You’re photo are fantastic X | |||
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"I guess would believe to be not true, as I've ways been insecure about being skinny. 🤔 Some of us married very slim guys. It's not a particular "thing" for me, body shape isn't what I'm looking at. Mr KC was VERY slim back in the day. Yeah, I'm probably rably just over thinking this one. Probably as much as I over think the fact I'm fat and am incredibly self conscious about that. " Yeah I guess so, silly us right? 🤣. | |||
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"I guess would believe to be not true, as I've ways been insecure about being skinny. 🤔 Some of us married very slim guys. It's not a particular "thing" for me, body shape isn't what I'm looking at. Mr KC was VERY slim back in the day. Yeah, I'm probably rably just over thinking this one. Probably as much as I over think the fact I'm fat and am incredibly self conscious about that. Yeah I guess so, silly us right? 🤣. " Silly us for sure  | |||
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"I guess would believe to be not true, as I've ways been insecure about being skinny. 🤔 The worst is getting the "She'll snap you like a twig" comments when talking about fancying someone
But don't worry Toots, us skinny guys rock
Appreciate it man, I do want to go gym when this new job gets up, not too crazy mind you, but just some stuff to make feel abit more healthy."I've been there, hell I still am there lol Others don't see it as an issue either, you try to tell someone and you get the Reponses like "I wish I had your figure" "Wish I could eat anything I like and not put on weight" It's tiring. body dysmorphia is body dysmorphia even for skinny people. Hope you learn to love your body soon, Toots. | |||
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"I guess would believe to be not true, as I've ways been insecure about being skinny. 🤔 The worst is getting the "She'll snap you like a twig" comments when talking about fancying someone
But don't worry Toots, us skinny guys rock
Appreciate it man, I do want to go gym when this new job gets up, not too crazy mind you, but just some stuff to make feel abit more healthy.
I've been there, hell I still am there lol
Others don't see it as an issue either, you try to tell someone and you get the Reponses like
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"Wish I could eat anything I like and not put on weight"
It's tiring. body dysmorphia is body dysmorphia even for skinny people.
Hope you learn to love your body soon, Toots. "Tbh ever since I've been here it's been better, alot more confident. Things will better they always do.  | |||
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"I believe the flattery I know to be true and I don't believe the flattery that is clearly bs. For instance I know I do not have the body of a woman half my age. So would you say if they compliment something you're insecure about, you believe it to be bs?" I don't think so 🤔. I'm not insecure about my body or my age but I know I don't look like a 34 year old woman. | |||
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"I believe the flattery I know to be true and I don't believe the flattery that is clearly bs. For instance I know I do not have the body of a woman half my age. So would you say if they compliment something you're insecure about, you believe it to be bs? I don't think so 🤔. I'm not insecure about my body or my age but I know I don't look like a 34 year old woman. " You don't look a day over 40, though 😘 | |||
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"I believe the flattery I know to be true and I don't believe the flattery that is clearly bs. For instance I know I do not have the body of a woman half my age. So would you say if they compliment something you're insecure about, you believe it to be bs? I don't think so 🤔. I'm not insecure about my body or my age but I know I don't look like a 34 year old woman. You don't look a day over 40, though 😘" You're absolutely right, I don't 😅 | |||
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"Depends on who the person is. Sometimes I take it as genuine and cringe inside because I dislike compliments. Other times I cringe inside because they don’t know me and their compliments seem to be the type trying to butter me up for God knows what. The one person I do genuinely believe without any second thoughts is someone that knows me, has seen me vulnerable and exposed, and I don’t mean without clothes. But that takes time…" Well this was a beautiful response  | |||
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"It really depends who is delivering the compliment, what it’s about and when. Most of the time I see it all as bullshit, these are the same people I could pass in a supermarket aisle and they wouldn’t look twice. Others who know me, I’m more inclined to accept the compliment as something they believe even if I don’t always believe it about myself. " 😘 just saying. | |||
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"It really depends who is delivering the compliment, what it’s about and when. Most of the time I see it all as bullshit, these are the same people I could pass in a supermarket aisle and they wouldn’t look twice. Others who know me, I’m more inclined to accept the compliment as something they believe even if I don’t always believe it about myself. " If you were in the supermarket dressed like you are in your profile pictures...I'd look twice! | |||
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"How many of us who've answered that they're skeptical take part in the "compliments" threads?" • I don't believe there is a correlation to that. The compliments threads are simply 'feel good' threads, offering an all-encompassing carmarderie and solidarity. It's harmless fun. | |||
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"How many of us who've answered that they're skeptical take part in the "compliments" threads? • I don't believe there is a correlation to that. The compliments threads are simply 'feel good' threads, offering an all-encompassing carmarderie and solidarity. It's harmless fun. " You're probably right. It just got me thinking because I do participate in those threads on occasion, yet when faced with someone in DM's I'm fairly cynical at first. It seemed a contradiction. | |||
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"Willy would you be flattered if I told you during the act that you had the perfect penis for anal? "I wouldn't think too hard about the implications, just enjoy the compliment. | |||
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"How many of us who've answered that they're skeptical take part in the "compliments" threads? • I don't believe there is a correlation to that. The compliments threads are simply 'feel good' threads, offering an all-encompassing carmarderie and solidarity. It's harmless fun. You're probably right. It just got me thinking because I do participate in those threads on occasion, yet when faced with someone in DM's I'm fairly cynical at first. It seemed a contradiction. " But this is where I was, taking part in those forums you don't lie, you comment on your favourite features of that person. I agree it doesn't completely correlate but it helps to flip the thinking when you receive compliments | |||
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"Willy would you be flattered if I told you during the act that you had the perfect penis for anal? "Ha ha, nope, I would take it as an invitation! | |||
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"How many of us who've answered that they're skeptical take part in the "compliments" threads? • I don't believe there is a correlation to that. The compliments threads are simply 'feel good' threads, offering an all-encompassing carmarderie and solidarity. It's harmless fun. · You're probably right. It just got me thinking because I do participate in those threads on occasion, yet when faced with someone in DM's I'm fairly cynical at first. It seemed a contradiction. " • That's fine. In fairness the OP was talking about compliments in the bedroom. There's a world of difference between me bending you over a leather Chesterfield and bestowing compliments on your pocket-sized derrière versus telling you how much I like your vanilla Mønøchrome Monday™ photograph. | |||
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"How many of us who've answered that they're skeptical take part in the "compliments" threads?" I don’t. With regards to the question, If I say something I mean it. It took me a while when first joining here to realise so many people aren’t like that so I’m very skeptical now, unfortunately too much so 😕 | |||
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"How many of us who've answered that they're skeptical take part in the "compliments" threads?" I don't. I don't say nice things unless I mean them UNLESS there is good reason. If for instance a woman about to walk down the aisle asked me how she looked I would say "breathtakingly beautiful" whether I meant it or not. | |||
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"How many of us who've answered that they're skeptical take part in the "compliments" threads? I don't. I don't say nice things unless I mean them UNLESS there is good reason. If for instance a woman about to walk down the aisle asked me how she looked I would say "breathtakingly beautiful" whether I meant it or not. " Exactly the same for me. Many a time I’ve messaged someone privately on here and given a compliment but I just can’t look for a compliment to give. Those threads just aren’t for me, they feel too false but I get why people like them and may get a boost from them x | |||
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"How many of us who've answered that they're skeptical take part in the "compliments" threads? • I don't believe there is a correlation to that. The compliments threads are simply 'feel good' threads, offering an all-encompassing carmarderie and solidarity. It's harmless fun. · You're probably right. It just got me thinking because I do participate in those threads on occasion, yet when faced with someone in DM's I'm fairly cynical at first. It seemed a contradiction. • That's fine. In fairness the OP was talking about compliments in the bedroom. There's a world of difference between me bending you over a leather Chesterfield and bestowing compliments on your pocket-sized derrière versus telling you how much I like your vanilla Mønøchrome Monday™ photograph. "Nero! You know those people who can't picture anything in their minds at all? Aphantasiacs? I'm not one of them 
Anyway, I get your point. However, those threads, as much as any thread, can serve as a precursor to (or extension of) that DM flirting.
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"Willy would you be flattered if I told you during the act that you had the perfect penis for anal? "I'd see it as a back handed compliment | |||
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"Oooh me me!!! i know this one! Im a massive skeptic. Lmao. Huge. Folk ive met through fab i believe theyre just saying what needs be said to get in your pants. " Mostly just think this. Though I now believe I've a decent bum due that's all men compliment me on physically. | |||
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"I think as a female on here it's really difficult to separate the genuine from the ones just blowing smoke up your ass, especially as you get older I think when you've met someone in person it's maybe easier to believe that they are genuine.. But even then i imagine people are more generous with compliments 'cos it's a sex site after all and we all wanna get our leg over / end away 🤔🤔" Yep, some people say all sorts... Years ago I met a bloke who told me that I tasted gorgeous after going down on me. This was a lie, because I'd just that day used Magic Powder hair removal stuff for the first time. It smells horrendous, and I could not scrub the scent away, however hard I tried. I did warn him about it in advance. I think he just wanted to ensure I'd sleep with him again. That, or it was just a habit of his to say something positive about a foof in the name of good manners. Either way, it didn't do him any favours. | |||
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"The only reason I think I’m pretty is because women tell me during sex. "I like your moustache | |||
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"The only reason I think I’m pretty is because women tell me during sex. "19th October and backwards, you're definitely pretty | |||
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"The only reason I think I’m pretty is because women tell me during sex. "Oh but you are very much | |||
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"I think as a female on here it's really difficult to separate the genuine from the ones just blowing smoke up your ass, especially as you get older I think when you've met someone in person it's maybe easier to believe that they are genuine.. But even then i imagine people are more generous with compliments 'cos it's a sex site after all and we all wanna get our leg over / end away 🤔🤔" *All*. I give compliments to people who I have zero desire to have sex with. Absolutely zilch. Because sometimes I think I want to share how I feel/view something. Not all of us are shameless horndogs, only most. | |||
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"How many of us who've answered that they're skeptical take part in the "compliments" threads?" I do because I know I mean my compliments, doesn’t mean I believe any or all I get back | |||
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"I think as a female on here it's really difficult to separate the genuine from the ones just blowing smoke up your ass, especially as you get older I think when you've met someone in person it's maybe easier to believe that they are genuine.. But even then i imagine people are more generous with compliments 'cos it's a sex site after all and we all wanna get our leg over / end away 🤔🤔 *All*. I give compliments to people who I have zero desire to have sex with. Absolutely zilch. Because sometimes I think I want to share how I feel/view something. Not all of us are shameless horndogs, only most. "Yeah but how do you tell the genuine from the not-genuine?? is a compliment from a female more genuine 🤔🤔 | |||
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"Why would you give an insincere compliment, once you're both naked in bed? 🤔" No idea why but some men do x | |||
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"Told a date that she was beautiful during foreplay which made her suddenly stop and accuse me of bull shitting her. She was though and I find it hard to say things to people that aren't true. I'm like gollum with a shit beard so find it hard to take compliments. Completely irrelevant to this thread topic but your last cock picture looks like it's got wings. I don't know if it was intentional, but it's some excellent work." No idea what you're on about and have looked back a few times | |||
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"Having such a beautiful penis, handsome face, perfect hair and the body of an Adonis I don’t really pay much attention to that sort of compliment. Its like telling an apple it’s an apple." You're a peach, Sam | |||
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"Told a date that she was beautiful during foreplay which made her suddenly stop and accuse me of bull shitting her. She was though and I find it hard to say things to people that aren't true. I'm like gollum with a shit beard so find it hard to take compliments. Completely irrelevant to this thread topic but your last cock picture looks like it's got wings. I don't know if it was intentional, but it's some excellent work. No idea what you're on about and have looked back a few times " the feet it's the feet | |||
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"Told a date that she was beautiful during foreplay which made her suddenly stop and accuse me of bull shitting her. She was though and I find it hard to say things to people that aren't true. I'm like gollum with a shit beard so find it hard to take compliments. Completely irrelevant to this thread topic but your last cock picture looks like it's got wings. I don't know if it was intentional, but it's some excellent work. No idea what you're on about and have looked back a few times the feet it's the feet" Oh yeah! Assumed last to mean my most recent. Dick doesn't look like that anymore wings or no wings | |||
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"The fact that they have taken delight in spending time with me, ensconced in naked entwinement is flattering enough. Sometimes the unspoken gestures speak volumes." Loving the language..lol
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"Told a date that she was beautiful during foreplay which made her suddenly stop and accuse me of bull shitting her. She was though and I find it hard to say things to people that aren't true. I'm like gollum with a shit beard so find it hard to take compliments. Completely irrelevant to this thread topic but your last cock picture looks like it's got wings. I don't know if it was intentional, but it's some excellent work. No idea what you're on about and have looked back a few times " It's an angel penis | |||
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