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"Does it take you on a first meet to decide ‘the sex’ is on? What normally makes you go oooft - they’re getting it!! ? " Less than a minute. (Till I decide, not till they’re getting it 🤣) | |||
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"Does it take you on a first meet to decide ‘the sex’ is on? What normally makes you go oooft - they’re getting it!! ? Less than a minute. (Till I decide, not till they’re getting it 🤣) " Glad to hear it - I have a min 5 min fingering by the bins rule… no fingering before 5 mins  | |||
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"It varies. Sorry OP, I know that's a dull answer. I'm a slow burner. A kiss can sometimes make me think that though. And then I have to wait and see if they feel the same way. " I may break my 5 min rule for you!! Get yer coat x  | |||
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"Does it take you on a first meet to decide ‘the sex’ is on? What normally makes you go oooft - they’re getting it!! ? " Doesn't always happen on a first meet... I need the connection to be there before I go ooft. | |||
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"Does it take you on a first meet to decide ‘the sex’ is on? What normally makes you go oooft - they’re getting it!! ? " Depends, if it’s just sex, straightaway, if it’s more, after 2 good meets | |||
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"It varies. Sorry OP, I know that's a dull answer. I'm a slow burner. A kiss can sometimes make me think that though. And then I have to wait and see if they feel the same way. I may break my 5 min rule for you!! Get yer coat x "You're such a smooth talker Todger. | |||
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"I'm with Meli it varies, sometimes I can tell immediately, sometimes I'm not sure until they kiss me and sometimes I think I'm sure then they kiss me & we aren't kissing compatible 😩 Mrs " Been there x | |||
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"If I didn't want to have sex with them, I wouldn't be meeting them. " so it’s for them to cock it up really x | |||
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"If I didn't want to have sex with them, I wouldn't be meeting them. so it’s for them to cock it up really x" Hopefully they will. | |||
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"If I didn't want to have sex with them, I wouldn't be meeting them. so it’s for them to cock it up really x Hopefully they will. " oooh you outrageous flirt… go on then seeing as you asked nicely x | |||
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"If I didn't want to have sex with them, I wouldn't be meeting them. " This | |||
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"What are some of things that gave made you lot go - ok now they’re getting it… a look, a smell, pants that bulge in an interesting and alluring manner? "You know when you're kissing someone and they're really in to it? Like they press their body more tightly against yours. They look at you with that hungry kind of lust? Well it's partly that. The problem for me is I'm happy to kiss and dryhump but to want to have sex with someone... I have to feel like a) I like them and b) they really want to have sex with me. If someone can make me feel relaxed and like sex with them could be really fun, that's a good start. | |||
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"What are some of things that gave made you lot go - ok now they’re getting it… a look, a smell, pants that bulge in an interesting and alluring manner?
You know when you're kissing someone and they're really in to it? Like they press their body more tightly against yours. They look at you with that hungry kind of lust? Well it's partly that.
The problem for me is I'm happy to kiss and dryhump but to want to have sex with someone... I have to feel like a) I like them and b) they really want to have sex with me. If someone can make me feel relaxed and like sex with them could be really fun, that's a good start."I think thats the secret on meets is to just help each other relax so you get a feel for them rather than being so nervous you can’t pick up on signals x | |||
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"Does it take you on a first meet to decide ‘the sex’ is on? What normally makes you go oooft - they’re getting it!! ? " I'm not turning up if sex isn't a given! | |||
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"Five seconds. The rest of the time is spent making him think he needs to win me over, of course. " Mustn’t appear too eager. Rookie mistake | |||
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