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"Not go" I’m not going. It’s wrong. For him to even consider bringing a guy over for fun while said persons are asleep upstairs is wrong. Should this be reported ? | |||
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"I wouldn’t go. But I’ve been on dates and gone back to theirs and they have flat mates/ house mates there. " I kinda feel like if it’s just housemates then there’s no need to report. If it’s not for you just ignore. | |||
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"I wouldn’t go. But I’ve been on dates and gone back to theirs and they have flat mates/ house mates there. I kinda feel like if it’s just housemates then there’s no need to report. If it’s not for you just ignore. " It’s not housemates. | |||
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"I wouldn’t go. But I’ve been on dates and gone back to theirs and they have flat mates/ house mates there. I kinda feel like if it’s just housemates then there’s no need to report. If it’s not for you just ignore. It’s not housemates. " 👀👀 | |||
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"Not go I’m not going. It’s wrong. For him to even consider bringing a guy over for fun while said persons are asleep upstairs is wrong. Should this be reported ? " Reported for what? He's been open about others being there and not hid the fact. You're not comfortable so won't be going. What would you expect the outcome of any report to be? 🤔 | |||
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"Not go I’m not going. It’s wrong. For him to even consider bringing a guy over for fun while said persons are asleep upstairs is wrong. Should this be reported ? " Who do you think it should be reported to OP? Are you concerned about some safeguarding issues, or is this simply that the circumstances don't meet your own standards or expectations? This might be perfectly acceptable behaviour to others, but I would suggest that unless there are safeguarding issues you simply excuse yourself from the communications and move on. | |||
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"Not go I’m not going. It’s wrong. For him to even consider bringing a guy over for fun while said persons are asleep upstairs is wrong. Should this be reported ? " Report to who? It's not against any law or rule that I am aware of | |||
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"Someone's home is their last bastion of safety, security and privacy. I wouldn't even entertain the notion of going there." It’s also someone’s shag pad, dungeon and playroom | |||
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"Someone's home is their last bastion of safety, security and privacy. I wouldn't even entertain the notion of going there. · It’s also someone’s shag pad, dungeon and playroom" • This is very true. This is why I keep a medieval oubliette in my catacombs. | |||
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"So a guy wants to meet at his. Some people will be sleeping upstairs. I said no thanks. As think it’s wrong to even invite someone over when said people are upstairs. The behaviour is quite concerning considering his position. What would you do ? " “Some people” - kids / wife? Then don’t go.. If it’s his Mum and Dad…. who hasn’t had the excitement of an illicit fumble on the sofa whilst parents are above… As far as reporting, don’t be daft. | |||
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"Someone's home is their last bastion of safety, security and privacy. I wouldn't even entertain the notion of going there. · It’s also someone’s shag pad, dungeon and playroom • This is very true. This is why I keep a medieval oubliette in my catacombs." The oubliette is a one way hole… I prefer holes with options 😈 | |||
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"Not go I’m not going. It’s wrong. For him to even consider bringing a guy over for fun while said persons are asleep upstairs is wrong. Should this be reported ? Who do you think it should be reported to OP? Are you concerned about some safeguarding issues, or is this simply that the circumstances don't meet your own standards or expectations? This might be perfectly acceptable behaviour to others, but I would suggest that unless there are safeguarding issues you simply excuse yourself from the communications and move on. " I’d say safeguarding to an extent. But then everyone’s standards are different. In someone else’s eyes there may be nothing wrong with it. I just wouldn’t invite a guy over if my **** were at home sleeping upstairs. | |||
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"Not go I’m not going. It’s wrong. For him to even consider bringing a guy over for fun while said persons are asleep upstairs is wrong. Should this be reported ? Who do you think it should be reported to OP? Are you concerned about some safeguarding issues, or is this simply that the circumstances don't meet your own standards or expectations? This might be perfectly acceptable behaviour to others, but I would suggest that unless there are safeguarding issues you simply excuse yourself from the communications and move on. I’d say safeguarding to an extent. But then everyone’s standards are different. In someone else’s eyes there may be nothing wrong with it. I just wouldn’t invite a guy over if my **** were at home sleeping upstairs. " Stop trying to make this a bigger deal than it is - It’s not a safeguarding issue, parents do a lot of naughty things whilst the kids are asleep, have done for thousands of years… It’s a choice for you. | |||
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"Not go I’m not going. It’s wrong. For him to even consider bringing a guy over for fun while said persons are asleep upstairs is wrong. Should this be reported ? Who do you think it should be reported to OP? Are you concerned about some safeguarding issues, or is this simply that the circumstances don't meet your own standards or expectations? This might be perfectly acceptable behaviour to others, but I would suggest that unless there are safeguarding issues you simply excuse yourself from the communications and move on. I’d say safeguarding to an extent. But then everyone’s standards are different. In someone else’s eyes there may be nothing wrong with it. I just wouldn’t invite a guy over if my **** were at home sleeping upstairs. Stop trying to make this a bigger deal than it is - It’s not a safeguarding issue, parents do a lot of naughty things whilst the kids are asleep, have done for thousands of years… It’s a choice for you." Without going into specifics here. You might see it in a different light if you know the full story. | |||
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"Not go I’m not going. It’s wrong. For him to even consider bringing a guy over for fun while said persons are asleep upstairs is wrong. Should this be reported ? Who do you think it should be reported to OP? Are you concerned about some safeguarding issues, or is this simply that the circumstances don't meet your own standards or expectations? This might be perfectly acceptable behaviour to others, but I would suggest that unless there are safeguarding issues you simply excuse yourself from the communications and move on. I’d say safeguarding to an extent. But then everyone’s standards are different. In someone else’s eyes there may be nothing wrong with it. I just wouldn’t invite a guy over if my **** were at home sleeping upstairs. Stop trying to make this a bigger deal than it is - It’s not a safeguarding issue, parents do a lot of naughty things whilst the kids are asleep, have done for thousands of years… It’s a choice for you. Without going into specifics here. You might see it in a different light if you know the full story. " So why ask for advice if you only give half the picture? You've already made your decision over whether to go or not, you now need to follow your conscience using the full facts that you are choosing to withold. Make your decision and deal with it. | |||
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"Not go I’m not going. It’s wrong. For him to even consider bringing a guy over for fun while said persons are asleep upstairs is wrong. Should this be reported ? Who do you think it should be reported to OP? Are you concerned about some safeguarding issues, or is this simply that the circumstances don't meet your own standards or expectations? This might be perfectly acceptable behaviour to others, but I would suggest that unless there are safeguarding issues you simply excuse yourself from the communications and move on. I’d say safeguarding to an extent. But then everyone’s standards are different. In someone else’s eyes there may be nothing wrong with it. I just wouldn’t invite a guy over if my **** were at home sleeping upstairs. Stop trying to make this a bigger deal than it is - It’s not a safeguarding issue, parents do a lot of naughty things whilst the kids are asleep, have done for thousands of years… It’s a choice for you. Without going into specifics here. You might see it in a different light if you know the full story. So why ask for advice if you only give half the picture? You've already made your decision over whether to go or not, you now need to follow your conscience using the full facts that you are choosing to withold. Make your decision and deal with it." Rules on here …. | |||
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