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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

so what makes the perfect first message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's no such thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's no such thing"

You aint doing to bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"so what makes the perfect first message "

A face shot of someone better looking than Brad Pitt and "I know I am a multimillionaire with a 9 inch cock but I hope you will not discard me without giving me a try."

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"There's no such thing"
I totally agree, whats one persons idea is another ones shite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you took everyone's idea of the perfect message, moulded it into one. All you'd have is some generic BS that in no way reflects you or your personality.

My humble opinion of course.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"If you took everyone's idea of the perfect message, moulded it into one. All you'd have is some generic BS that in no way reflects you or your personality.

My humble opinion of course. "
I know what you mean but then again "Fancy a fuck" works for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you took everyone's idea of the perfect message, moulded it into one. All you'd have is some generic BS that in no way reflects you or your personality.

My humble opinion of course. "

Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you want lambrini and a chippy?

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto


"so what makes the perfect first message "

Top o' the morning to you fair maiden.

And go from there.

(I'm kidding)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perfection doesn't exist!

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Do you want lambrini and a chippy?"
What kind of Lambrini?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's no such thing"

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By *ighland_RoseCouple
over a year ago

Brigadoon

I think the best opening message is one tailored to the recipient with information gleaned from their profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perfection doesn't exist! "

I would be perfect if I wasn't so humble.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Perfection doesn't exist! "
Tell that to Mary Poppins.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is no such thing as an ideal first message or a perfect profile or pics. So many people seem to blame this for the lack of meets rather than accept rejection.

The best way is to really be yourself, if the recipient likes you they will reply and the conversation will just flow. If you had the greatest writer in the world craft that first message I still bet there would be the same amount of no replies etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the best opening message is one tailored to the recipient with information gleaned from their profile. "

well thats about 20% of us it would work for then, what about the other 80% that don't read profiles

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

'hello' is a good start.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"'hello' is a good start..... "

then on from there even a 'Perfect " message ( which there isn't one) would change all the time, depending on mood when being read , etc. The best thing is to be yourself and start with hello

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By *ighland_RoseCouple
over a year ago

Brigadoon


"I think the best opening message is one tailored to the recipient with information gleaned from their profile.

well thats about 20% of us it would work for then, what about the other 80% that don't read profiles "

They can bugger off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like messages that make me laugh, a bit of humour works well, pleasantness and good grammar too.

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

one that someone has obviously put a little thought into and makes me want to write something back .all to often its how are you or what you up to ?

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