FabSwingers.com forum: Confidence

By *izbobby OP Couple
9 weeks ago

bristol

What’s the best way to make my partner and myself a little more confident?

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By *eon35Man
9 weeks ago

bradford

"What’s the best way to make my partner and myself a little more confident?

Confident in what way? X

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By *iminbigMan
9 weeks ago

nottingham

Hi lis

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By *kittMan
9 weeks ago

Warrington

I'd say read through you verifications for one way, you have great comments from people who loved being in your company, so that's got to do your confidence no harm at all.

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By *rHotNottsMan
9 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Take risks, When you demonstrate courage you become more confident in your own abilities - and resilience when you fail!

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By *sWyldWoman
9 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I'm still trying to figure this out myself. Usually it's a case of fake it til you make it

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
9 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

Get to know yourself - accept the parts of you that you cannot change - change the things you can change little by little.

Learn to love yourself.

STOP WORRYING ABOUT WHAT OTHERS MIGHT THINK

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By *nya NeesWoman
9 weeks ago

Brum

"Get to know yourself - accept the parts of you that you cannot change - change the things you can change little by little.

Learn to love yourself.

STOP WORRYING ABOUT WHAT OTHERS MIGHT THINK"

This 👌

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By *izbobby OP Couple
9 weeks ago

bristol

Thanks.

It’s hard at times, but seeing it come from others it makes alot more sense what your saying xxx

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By *oubleswing2019Man
9 weeks ago

Colchester

When we feel we lack confidence, regardless of why we feel that way, we need to understand that others do not know we feel that way. They are not in our heads and do not know our thoughts.

Confidence comes from having the ability to do thing comfortably. But we are not born knowing how to do things, so we are all, every one of us, faced with questioning our ability to do a thing for the first time.

Even the most confident people were not confident originally. They went through the same process. Kind and empathic people realise this, and should allow you room to learn. Very switched on and supportive folks should nurture.

In summary, no one else knows you are not confident except for you, so as the expression goes, "fake it till you make it", because no one else is any the wiser.

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