FabSwingers.com forum: Are you...lonely?

By *ruceyy OP Man
11 weeks ago

London

Yeah look at me killing the vibe on a Wednesday night!

Just a curious question for regular forum users. Does the forum still entertain you and you get meets enough that you use it for that side of things?

Or are you just a little lazy, it's a distraction.

Or, lonely?

Just curious what people mainly use fab for here!

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By *iker JackMan
11 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

I wouldn’t say I am lonely

I also accept that the forums and the site are not the route to the supposed pot of gold

For me they are just a form of interaction

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
11 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

I just like the forums for entertainment. Though it happens I have met a handful of forumites as a result that I greatly enjoy the company of 💜

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By *parkle1974Woman
11 weeks ago

Leeds

Definitely not lonely

Don't use the forum for meets, use them more to spout drivel

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

I use the forum less and less and feel that i hardly know anyone!

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By *elix SightedMan
11 weeks ago

Cloud 8

"I use the forum less and less and feel that i hardly know anyone!

Who is this?

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By *ruceyy OP Man
11 weeks ago

London

"I use the forum less and less and feel that i hardly know anyone!

Me too! It's changed since my early days!

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

"I use the forum less and less and feel that i hardly know anyone!

Who is this?"

👀

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
11 weeks ago

Staffordshire

It’s my only media outlet, never been into the social media at all so when we’re chilling and Henny is doing insta, tikthing etc I come here.

It’s habit now.

It makes me laugh, mostly at myself these days but occasionally someone like yourself can do too.

We still use fab for events and the sex friends but we don’t actively seek meets.

Hope this helps brucie.

If you ever need a chat I’m always around and Henny will occasionally contribute if I badger her

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By *ruceyy OP Man
11 weeks ago

London

"It’s my only media outlet, never been into the social media at all so when we’re chilling and Henny is doing insta, tikthing etc I come here.

It’s habit now.

It makes me laugh, mostly at myself these days but occasionally someone like yourself can do too.

We still use fab for events and the sex friends but we don’t actively seek meets.

Hope this helps brucie.

If you ever need a chat I’m always around and Henny will occasionally contribute if I badger her

She does TikTok?! I would LOVE to see that 😂

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

It’s a bit of fun where i get the chance to make friendships and banter with likeminded people.

If we spoke like we do on here to people in the outside world…..well it doesn’t go down well 😂

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By *ruceyy OP Man
11 weeks ago

London

"It’s my only media outlet, never been into the social media at all so when we’re chilling and Henny is doing insta, tikthing etc I come here.

It’s habit now.

It makes me laugh, mostly at myself these days but occasionally someone like yourself can do too.

We still use fab for events and the sex friends but we don’t actively seek meets.

Hope this helps brucie.

If you ever need a chat I’m always around and Henny will occasionally contribute if I badger her

Oh and you're a legend, I'm not actually that lonely though these days. Single life can be boring but it's busy.

However you can badger Henny for a threeway, that would improve my mental health? I have heard you're good from an old friend ❤️

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
11 weeks ago

Staffordshire

"It’s my only media outlet, never been into the social media at all so when we’re chilling and Henny is doing insta, tikthing etc I come here.

It’s habit now.

It makes me laugh, mostly at myself these days but occasionally someone like yourself can do too.

We still use fab for events and the sex friends but we don’t actively seek meets.

Hope this helps brucie.

If you ever need a chat I’m always around and Henny will occasionally contribute if I badger her

She does TikTok?! I would LOVE to see that 😂"

You wouldn’t… it’s utter tosh!

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By *aizyWoman
11 weeks ago

west midlands

I just use the forums for entertainment.

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By *ell GwynnWoman
11 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

A little bit of laziness/distraction/entertainment, little bit out of habit.

If I was lonely I'd make a point of deleting my profile and finding things to do with non-fab friends.

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By *HUSH-Man
11 weeks ago

London

"It’s a bit of fun where i get the chance to make friendships and banter with likeminded people.

If we spoke like we do on here to people in the outside world…..well it doesn’t go down well 😂"

I also can’t talk about this stuff in the outside world. I’m already a massive disappointment to my family.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
11 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

I think I’m just nosey and pop on to see what’s going on and who’s doing who.

I’ll sometimes meet someone new but not that often anymore. If I have time I’ll do a secret service. I’d miss it if I went for good I think

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By *ags73Man
11 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

Take distraction when I can get it. My furry sidekick is usually here when I’m having a look

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By *elix SightedMan
11 weeks ago

Cloud 8

Fairly lonely

I’ve been single for years with the exception of two months this year. Life could be busier and more fulfilling for sure, although I am a bit of a loner so I lack the motivation to seek company.

I’m not on any social media so this is my outlet and window to the world. I did miss it when not logging in and I quite like reading funny posts and talking shite myself.

Finding a FWB would solve both problems and I agree with what others have said - it’s good to have a forum on which I can openly talk about bonking and perversions.

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By *elix SightedMan
11 weeks ago

Cloud 8

"Take distraction when I can get it. My furry sidekick is usually here when I’m having a look "

What’s her fab name?

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By *ruceyy OP Man
11 weeks ago

London

"I just use the forums for entertainment."

Your body entertains me 😘😂

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By *aizyWoman
11 weeks ago

west midlands

"I just use the forums for entertainment.

Your body entertains me 😘😂"

I'm glad I'm useful for something, Brucey 🤗😆

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By *uzzleMan
11 weeks ago

Hastings

Forums are the most entertaining part of Fab!

I am certainly not on here with an expectation of a meet!

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By *ucka39Man
11 weeks ago

Newcastle

I'm never lonely

I bounce between normal life and the site. And my meets mainly are away from the site

Pop on the site to add to the mixture,

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By *sWyldWoman
11 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I don't use fab because I'm lonely. It's more a force of habit when I'm bored.

Do I feel lonely? Sometimes. Not as much as I used to though. I've been single for a very long time and having someone to cuddle up with now and again would be lovely

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By *elboy1957Man
11 weeks ago

Weston-super-Mare

Like to scan the fourm, it's a good way to chat and hopefully meet people

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By *ir tootMan
11 weeks ago

Burton-on-Trent

Lonely not sure depressed most definitely

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By *weetiepie99Woman
11 weeks ago

cardiff

Sometimes

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By *afkaMan
11 weeks ago

Nottingham (ish)

"I just use the forums for entertainment."

⬆️ Same here

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By *andyman8607Man
11 weeks ago

sandhurst / andover

Don't have anyone in my flat to chat to and work in an office that deals with people remotely so lonely yes. But use this to see what's happening in people's lives and try to make people happy from time to time. But always try and send something nice to someone who is having a crappier day than me.

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By *oanmacMan
11 weeks ago

bantry

evening all new to this hope your all well

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
11 weeks ago

chichester

Just use the site mostly as mild amusement not really a hive activity for meets anymore I find for me .

It’s ok as it goes in waves over the years I find historically. I’ll probably leave after Xmas for a year and just goto clubs here and there and then come back following

Sometimes it’s good to just hard reset from here for periods of time I find

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By *ittlebirdWoman
11 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

I only use Fab these days for pure entertainment. That includes finding cock to suck 🤣🤣

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By *ake_or_deathMan
11 weeks ago

Manchester

"I only use Fab these days for pure entertainment. That includes finding cock to suck 🤣🤣"

Mine's hilarious.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
11 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

"I only use Fab these days for pure entertainment. That includes finding cock to suck 🤣🤣

Mine's hilarious. "

Yes. Yes it is.

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By *ruceyy OP Man
11 weeks ago

London

"I only use Fab these days for pure entertainment. That includes finding cock to suck 🤣🤣"

Mines still available!

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By *ittlebirdWoman
11 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

"I only use Fab these days for pure entertainment. That includes finding cock to suck 🤣🤣

Mines still available!"

Get it in my mouth then big boy 😉

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By *ruceyy OP Man
11 weeks ago

London

"I only use Fab these days for pure entertainment. That includes finding cock to suck 🤣🤣

Mines still available!

Get it in my mouth then big boy 😉"

Oh is this back open? 😘😂

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By *ittlebirdWoman
11 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

"I only use Fab these days for pure entertainment. That includes finding cock to suck 🤣🤣

Mines still available!

Get it in my mouth then big boy 😉

Oh is this back open? 😘😂"

My mouth is normally open darling. If you mean am I back on the fab-market… the answer is yes 😘

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By *ife NinjaMan
11 weeks ago

Dunfermline

Yeah. Aren't we all? 🤔

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

I wouldn't say I use the forums to meet people but the opportunities have come as a result of using them, but I wouldn't say it replaces that actual human connection.

So yeah, I'd say I am pretty lonely, whether it's trying to find a girlfriend in real life, or something regularly on here, it's been pretty tough going which kind of enhances that feeling of loneliness the longer I go without.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
11 weeks ago

North West

I'm often lonely, yes. I spend lots of time alone but when it's not my choice to be so. Even when I'm not home alone, I'm often sat alone because Mr KC is doing the jobs I can't do etc.

Since disability reared its head, my Grandad has died. I'm estranged from my mother. My Dad developed severe dementia and many "real life" friends have melted away. I don't really see many "real world" people, other than work colleagues. I don't have a social life, really.

So yeah. I'm lonely.

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By *agic johnsonMan
11 weeks ago

morden

Im not lonely even tho I been single years . I just love the forums to see the true side of people ,and believe me I see them .

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By *inkyycurvyyWoman
11 weeks ago

Manchester

I am quite lonely at the moment but not always. Trying to date again to see if that helps but seems like people only want to fuck me and I'm unlovable so I'm staying a lonely gal 😅

I haven't done a private meet from fab for ages. Mostly only use it to keep up to date with club friends and events and use the forums when I'm really bored.

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By *ir tootMan
11 weeks ago

Burton-on-Trent

"I am quite lonely at the moment but not always. Trying to date again to see if that helps but seems like people only want to fuck me and I'm unlovable so I'm staying a lonely gal 😅

I haven't done a private meet from fab for ages. Mostly only use it to keep up to date with club friends and events and use the forums when I'm really bored. "
lets just push Manchester closer screw the curse.

Could use a super close coffee buddy.

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By *eroLondonMan
11 weeks ago

Mayfair

"I am quite lonely at the moment but not always. Trying to date again to see if that helps but seems like people only want to fuck me and I'm unlovable so I'm staying a lonely gal 😅

I haven't done a private meet from fab for ages. Mostly only use it to keep up to date with club friends and events and use the forums when I'm really bored. lets just push Manchester closer screw the curse.

Could use a super close coffee buddy."

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It's the 'Curse that screws you and not the other way around.

I'm relocating to the fabled Cíty of Mådchester ⬆️

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By *ir tootMan
11 weeks ago

Burton-on-Trent

"I am quite lonely at the moment but not always. Trying to date again to see if that helps but seems like people only want to fuck me and I'm unlovable so I'm staying a lonely gal 😅

Could use a super close coffee buddy.

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It's the 'Curse that screws you and not the other way around.

I'm relocating to the fabled Cíty of Mådchester ⬆️"
Same! Onwards my dear fellow! Push!!!!!!

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By *cotlad178Man
11 weeks ago

falkirk

I would say I am sexually wise or companionship wise been single since high school so gave up on love years ago but im still hopeful to find some long lasting FB's or fwb's with whomever although don't know if there's better sites for that?

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By *ou only live onceMan
11 weeks ago

London

No, I'm not lonely. Life is busy and I enjoy it.

I like the Forums for a bit of fun and a distraction, though have been on here a bit less lately. Not been that fussed about meets for quite a while now (not sure why), but need to get my head back into the game...

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By *eroLondonMan
11 weeks ago

Mayfair

"No, I'm not lonely. Life is busy and I enjoy it.

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Have it lost your mojo YOLO? Don't you miss the groping down Bodily Function Alley and the halcyon days of woo'ing and courtship? 💌

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By *mf123Man
11 weeks ago

with one foot out the door

Not lonely just keep busy only here from time to time to feed the dog and check the post other than that im too busy livin

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By *inkyycurvyyWoman
11 weeks ago

Manchester

"I am quite lonely at the moment but not always. Trying to date again to see if that helps but seems like people only want to fuck me and I'm unlovable so I'm staying a lonely gal 😅

Could use a super close coffee buddy.

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It's the 'Curse that screws you and not the other way around.

I'm relocating to the fabled Cíty of Mådchester ⬆️"

Manchester is lovely, though getting more and more expensive.

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

Feel so lonely

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By *ir tootMan
11 weeks ago

Burton-on-Trent

"I am quite lonely at the moment but not always. Trying to date again to see if that helps but seems like people only want to fuck me and I'm unlovable so I'm staying a lonely gal 😅

Could use a super close coffee buddy.

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It's the 'Curse that screws you and not the other way around.

I'm relocating to the fabled Cíty of Mådchester ⬆️

Manchester is lovely, though getting more and more expensive. "

That's funny I thought life was in general.

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By *onesy1980Man
11 weeks ago

Telford

Newbie on the site, so using the forums to interact, as most of the women & couples on here seem to be inundated with messages & unlikely to reply to someone who isn't verified yet

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By *inkyycurvyyWoman
11 weeks ago

Manchester

"I am quite lonely at the moment but not always. Trying to date again to see if that helps but seems like people only want to fuck me and I'm unlovable so I'm staying a lonely gal 😅

Could use a super close coffee buddy.

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It's the 'Curse that screws you and not the other way around.

I'm relocating to the fabled Cíty of Mådchester ⬆️

Manchester is lovely, though getting more and more expensive.

That's funny I thought life was in general.

That too

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By *eroLondonMan
11 weeks ago

Mayfair

"I am quite lonely at the moment but not always. Trying to date again to see if that helps but seems like people only want to fuck me and I'm unlovable so I'm staying a lonely gal 😅

Could use a super close coffee buddy.

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It's the 'Curse that screws you and not the other way around.

I'm relocating to the fabled Cíty of Mådchester ⬆️

Manchester is lovely, though getting more and more expensive. "

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Are there any penthouse apartments near the centre?

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By *ir tootMan
11 weeks ago

Burton-on-Trent

"I am quite lonely at the moment but not always. Trying to date again to see if that helps but seems like people only want to fuck me and I'm unlovable so I'm staying a lonely gal 😅

Could use a super close coffee buddy.

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It's the 'Curse that screws you and not the other way around.

I'm relocating to the fabled Cíty of Mådchester ⬆️

Manchester is lovely, though getting more and more expensive.

That's funny I thought life was in general.

That too"

Sad but true

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By *inkyycurvyyWoman
11 weeks ago

Manchester

"I am quite lonely at the moment but not always. Trying to date again to see if that helps but seems like people only want to fuck me and I'm unlovable so I'm staying a lonely gal 😅

Could use a super close coffee buddy.

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It's the 'Curse that screws you and not the other way around.

I'm relocating to the fabled Cíty of Mådchester ⬆️

Manchester is lovely, though getting more and more expensive.

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Are there any penthouse apartments near the centre?"

Seems like there's a new apartment block/skyscraper in the city being thrown up every week so I expect so yes 😂

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By *icolasHidalgoDeCorazonMan
11 weeks ago

St Leonards

Lounge entertains me.

Swingers' Chat befuddles me.

Virus horrifies me.

I don't need meets currently, and that looks to be the case for a while to come, so I use it as a way of keeping mentally/humorously stimulated in a far more promiscuous way than I can get away with in real life.

You can jump from thread to thread in an instant, but in the flesh, and actual conversation, that would be rude and people would (justifiably) get a bit narked.

Lonely - god no. I would feel lonely if I was stuck in a room with 20 people who I had to devote enormous attention to. They're unlikely to stimulate me. But on here, I can spend two minutes on one thread, 20 seconds on another, play with a range of people, say and ask shit you normally get locked up for...and disappear the moment I want to.

It can be very satisfying.

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By *eroLondonMan
11 weeks ago

Mayfair

"I am quite lonely at the moment but not always. Trying to date again to see if that helps but seems like people only want to fuck me and I'm unlovable so I'm staying a lonely gal 😅

Could use a super close coffee buddy.

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It's the 'Curse that screws you and not the other way around.

I'm relocating to the fabled Cíty of Mådchester ⬆️

Manchester is lovely, though getting more and more expensive.

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Are there any penthouse apartments near the centre?

Seems like there's a new apartment block/skyscraper in the city being thrown up every week so I expect so yes 😂"

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Confounded! Bring back Edwardian townhouses!

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By *iss.BellaWoman
11 weeks ago

Wales

I didn't think I was. Until I started thinking about answering your question.

I'm not alone I live really close to my family and I have my daughter. But actually yes, I probably am lonely and I think I have been for quite a while.

I don't use the forum as a solution for that, as I generally don't have time to make plans at the moment. But it distracts me from life and provides a few laughs

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By *ags73Man
11 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

"I didn't think I was. Until I started thinking about answering your question.

I'm not alone I live really close to my family and I have my daughter. But actually yes, I probably am lonely and I think I have been for quite a while.

I don't use the forum as a solution for that, as I generally don't have time to make plans at the moment. But it distracts me from life and provides a few laughs

Do what we can when we can and sometimes need some conversation from grown ups for sanity

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By *oontuneMan
11 weeks ago

Menston

Yes and I hate it.

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By *orphia2003Woman
11 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

I can be very lonely. Sometimes fab can contribute to that, other times it helps.

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By *ags73Man
11 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

I think sometimes we look for people to reach in to us and it doesn’t happen. Everyone has their lives and it’s not an intentional snub.

Toughest part is reaching out to other when you don’t necessarily feel like it, again human nature ‘I don’t want to make a fuss’

Sometimes you have to find a way to do that and yeah, it’s awkward, yeah you can fall flat, but sometimes the effort is worth it

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By *eroLondonMan
11 weeks ago

Mayfair

I was lonely in someone's company. It's why I joined Fab.

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By *he Silver FuxMan
11 weeks ago

Uttoxeter

"I use the forum less and less and feel that i hardly know anyone!

Times change I guess…

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By *cotlad178Man
11 weeks ago

falkirk

"I only use Fab these days for pure entertainment. That includes finding cock to suck 🤣🤣

Mines still available!

Get it in my mouth then big boy 😉

Oh is this back open? 😘😂

My mouth is normally open darling. If you mean am I back on the fab-market… the answer is yes 😘"
if your ever up this way mines is too 😉😘

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
11 weeks ago

Leeds

No, I’m far too head strong to be lonely.

The fuck do you need people for, they just complicate things.

The mr

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By *mmaleiaWoman
11 weeks ago

Trowbridge

Wouldn’t say I’m lonely, but I kill far too much of my time on the forums or chatting to friends on here.

Wouldn’t say no if I met a guy who got me …

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
11 weeks ago

Maidstone

Since my marriage break up and moving away from my home, yes. I'm lonely and find it really hard to let people in. Fab is a distraction while I figure out me.

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By *oiluvfunMan
11 weeks ago

Penrith

I’ve been using Fab for over 12 years now, but have only met two people as a direct result of Forum interaction. So it’s not my ‘go to’ for meets, as geography kills that side of this for me.

I just like speaking my mind and seeing the reactions from others

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