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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How many people actually like meeting up socially before you want to hookup and have fun with someone or are you more let’s just get it on kinda personal?

If you do like to meet up socially what do you like to do I always think drinks/coffee is a laid back chill vibe

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By *ir tootMan
over a year ago

Burton

Ooh ooh me me!

Its fun and it helps my.nerves in general.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

🙋‍♀️

99% always a social first

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline/Leeds

Love a social

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By *aughtydealcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Walmer, Deal

We're happy either way but yer socials are good we meet a couple that we now class as good friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social meets are an important gateway. It allows for a face to face interaction and affords an out to protevt feelings if the connection isnt there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like a coffee and a chat before we hook up with anyone. Because you can learn alot from how someone treats a server.

Its also a great way to get some jitters and nerves out the way.

Our preferred stop is Tim Hortons, because we like a donut too 😂

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
over a year ago

your head

Always

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, it generally helps, although a couple of times we’ve both been happy to go further so each person is different.

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By *red and daphneCouple
over a year ago

in the middle

We insist on a social first. Made some good friendships this way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a social, no.

A drink before the hotel, yes.

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
over a year ago

wonderland.

We only play at clubs.. so have usually chatted somewhere first but not always x

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By *he Old School RockersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

We always have a social meet first.

Kink (mrs)

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A


"Just a social, no.

A drink before the hotel, yes.

"

How about just grabbing a bottle of rum on the way?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a social, no.

A drink before the hotel, yes.

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Same here x

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By *ere There EverywhereCouple
over a year ago

A Town Near You.

Never, we like to just meet have fun and move onto the next guy. It's worked for us so far. Only had one bad experience and that was many years ago.

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By *mmaleiaWoman
over a year ago

Trowbridge

Social, I have to meet face to face to see chemistry, no amount of chatting & flirting online will let me see that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always a social first as there might not be any chemistry in person. Occasionally that social turns into more the same day.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

It's a social first.

The socials are usually elaborate light-luncheons, a quick walk around an art gallery, museum, tea served with cake or a coffee in some dainty little coffee shop. If we get on marvellously then we would take things further.

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By *porty_and_NaughtyCouple
over a year ago

Swansea

We have experienced no social and straight to fun, social first with fun scheduled for a later date and also social leading straight on to fun. So I suppose it depends on the people involved and everyone's preferences.

We prefer to meet at organised social events, where our paths may cross and there's zero pressure for anything more than a brief conversation. For those that prefer a one on one social then we are happy to oblige ideally a coffee and walk with plenty of chat.

I (her) prefer the social event setting as that way I'm getting myself ready once (with that little bit of extra effort) and not every week or every few days as we simply do not have the capacity in our personal life to dedicate to Fab. In all honesty activities such as walking, hiking, running and gym will get prioritised over a fab social.

Mrs

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By *inxy777Woman
over a year ago

essex

Definitely a social first, well unless they are miles away, then it’s different! 🙈xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always a social meet first 😉

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By *inks_apeyCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

We like to get along with the people we meet, so yeah.

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By *ceKweenWoman
over a year ago

Bolton

Always a social… flirting is a requirement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social first... to see if there is that spark when meet too.

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By *andadbodMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

my socials have included: drinks at a pub, drinks at a costa coffee, a walk round a park, a walk round a museum. The museum visit was one of my favourites with a particularly sexy lady, her knowledge of egypt blew me away, was a great insight to her love of history and needless to say, we hooked up a few times after that to create a little history of our own. 😊

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always have a pure social meet first. I'm looking for a FWB anyway.

Bugs the bejaysus out of me that men expect a snog, fumble, bj or whatever on a social meet, be it coffee or a drink. I literally have to spell it out on my bio. Gotten grief from guys about it, very dissrespectful 😏

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a must for me. You can't really tell what kind of person they are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always a social, and so far always been at a pub for a drink, won't play without a social first,

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By *outhsuffolkcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Ipswich

Always a social first. If there is no chemistry then there is no play

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By *LiamMan
over a year ago

Midlands

I quite like a social

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman
over a year ago

Markfield

80/20

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually a social coffee first, I need that spark

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

WHEREVER I LAY MY HAT

Not a fan of just a social. I've never done this then gone on to fuck them. I prefer to meet for a drink, then if the chemistry is there... Fuck

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I do. I like to go for a drink or coffee. A walk can be good too. A fab meet once took me up the Malvern Hills which was probably the most impressive social.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do. I like to go for a drink or coffee. A walk can be good too. A fab meet once took me up the Malvern Hills which was probably the most impressive social."

You also like to push your social meets into a pond from what I recall...

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I do. I like to go for a drink or coffee. A walk can be good too. A fab meet once took me up the Malvern Hills which was probably the most impressive social.

You also like to push your social meets into a pond from what I recall..."

Only when they utterly deserve it.

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