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"So is the frustration that you are not getting enough replies? Or is it because you aren't having conversations leading to sex? The men that we meet are pretty much all from club nights or socials, the few we have met from here were people we have an actual interest in, who actually read and understood what we were about and had patience since we have jobs and kids. We do reply to the well thought out messages, but how often do you want to be told no?" | |||
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"The frustration is that no matter how I respond i don’t get a reply and I think it’s quite simply because the majority of single women and couples are just overwhelmed with messages. I have to be honest, this site alone is starting to give me a complex ha ha " We have been here a year, qe have had thousands of messages and we have met THREE men in total from fab. Like you could message us now and we would give a polite refusal. It would be a reply but your day wouldn't be any better ya know? You shouldn't be getting a complex from fab though. It isn't worth the stress. | |||
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"I'm only speaking for myself, when my filters were open the messages varied and you are right OP, certain messages will not get reply For me, it's all in the profile, a complete profile. I think of it as a form that all sections need to be completed. Most profiles aren't. Tongue in cheek bios or status's are funny but then there's a line of it turning into crude which I don't like. Comparing women to bicycles is one. Good luck OP "You misunderstood, riding ME like a bicycle isn’t what you are referring to and tbh I have changed my status regularly to see what difference it makes, the answer would be zilch | |||
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"The frustration is that no matter how I respond i don’t get a reply and I think it’s quite simply because the majority of single women and couples are just overwhelmed with messages. I have to be honest, this site alone is starting to give me a complex ha ha We have been here a year, qe have had thousands of messages and we have met THREE men in total from fab. Like you could message us now and we would give a polite refusal. It would be a reply but your day wouldn't be any better ya know? You shouldn't be getting a complex from fab though. It isn't worth the stress." If you replied to a message I had sent you yes it would be appreciated. This is exactly my point. I read someone’s profile that i look the look of and I send a polite message that was more than a one-liner it would be nice to get a response one way or another but sad truth is that people simply don’t reply no matter how much effort I put in | |||
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"The frustration is that no matter how I respond i don’t get a reply and I think it’s quite simply because the majority of single women and couples are just overwhelmed with messages. I have to be honest, this site alone is starting to give me a complex ha ha We have been here a year, qe have had thousands of messages and we have met THREE men in total from fab. Like you could message us now and we would give a polite refusal. It would be a reply but your day wouldn't be any better ya know? You shouldn't be getting a complex from fab though. It isn't worth the stress. If you replied to a message I had sent you yes it would be appreciated. This is exactly my point. I read someone’s profile that i look the look of and I send a polite message that was more than a one-liner it would be nice to get a response one way or another but sad truth is that people simply don’t reply no matter how much effort I put in " It happens to us too. If they don't want to reply that is entirely for us to deal with. Even with profiles we absolutely seemingly match with 100% we still wont always get a reply. But that's fine because nobody is owed a reply, if you send one word or twenty paragraphs. It is the nature of this website. Chin up yeah 👍 | |||
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"If they don't fancy you they ain't replying, it's really that simple, if they do reply to turn you down, why is that important? " This too. Does an inbox full of “no thanks” really make you feel better? | |||
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"If they don't fancy you they ain't replying, it's really that simple, if they do reply to turn you down, why is that important? " I get it, we can’t all be everyone’s cup of tea. I’m not sure which one of you is replying but you’re a hot couple by the way  | |||
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"If you're picture gets their attention they'll look at the profile, if they like that, they'll reply. Regardless if you just write hi or a 5 paragraph message." • This is a valid point ^ (of sorts). Most women on here have remarked that they will often look at the sender's profile before even opening a message, let alone even attempting to read or reply to the message if they feel inclined to do so for whatever reason. | |||
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"I'm only speaking for myself, when my filters were open the messages varied and you are right OP, certain messages will not get reply For me, it's all in the profile, a complete profile. I think of it as a form that all sections need to be completed. Most profiles aren't. Tongue in cheek bios or status's are funny but then there's a line of it turning into crude which I don't like. Comparing women to bicycles is one. Good luck OP
You misunderstood, riding ME like a bicycle isn’t what you are referring to and tbh I have changed my status regularly to see what difference it makes, the answer would be zilch "Re read and yes I see now you are the bike. However, as been pointed out...it's not a great status and can put people off | |||
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"Something should be done to stop new single female members getting flooded with messages and leaving because of that" Like using filters? | |||
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"Something should be done to stop new single female members getting flooded with messages and leaving because of that Like using filters?" When you set up a new account there's a big green banner at the top of the home screen and one of the suggestions behind that link is setting up filters. Blaming other guys for a lack of connections is a red herring. There's so many ways to skin the cat on fab. Mostly, effort is sexy. | |||
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"Something should be done to stop new single female members getting flooded with messages and leaving because of that" its too late many have already left since covid there are less couples and women on here now than pre covid and then add in how many men are running fake couples and women profiles .. that mean acually there are far less than you guys think ..so more rejection very little selection ... simple maths | |||
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