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By *obilebottom OP   Man
19 weeks ago

All over

socials or other meets. Do you do them? I fancy coffee and cake this afternoon. Do you think anyone might be up for it? No probs if not really but curious to see if people do that sort of thing on general

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By *hatKlungeEnigmaMan
19 weeks ago

St Leonards

I like to plan my spontaneity 13 weeks in advance xxxx

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
19 weeks ago

Wherever

I sometimes do, especially if I’m out in a central London area lunchtime or otherwise. I think it’s pretty common.

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
19 weeks ago

wonderland.

We never plan as a couple and just go to clubs ... As a single lady I would often put a last minute social meet for a cuppa... but stopped as guys kept assuming it would lead to more.

Cali x

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By *obilebottom OP   Man
19 weeks ago

All over


"I sometimes do, especially if I’m out in a central London area lunchtime or otherwise. I think it’s pretty common. "

I never thought it was.

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By *obilebottom OP   Man
19 weeks ago

All over


"We never plan as a couple and just go to clubs ... As a single lady I would often put a last minute social meet for a cuppa... but stopped as guys kept assuming it would lead to more.

Cali x"

I know what you mean and sometimes all you want is a nice coffee/tea and a bit of cake and a good chat

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago

Love a spontaneous meet!

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By *sWyldWoman
19 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I would consider it. I work in the centre of Edinburgh and an after work and coffee/drink would sometimes be great. However it's actually really hard work to make happen.

In general a meet today thing gets you lots of messages from people you don't really want to meet or people who can't when you can.

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By *obilebottom OP   Man
19 weeks ago

All over


"I would consider it. I work in the centre of Edinburgh and an after work and coffee/drink would sometimes be great. However it's actually really hard work to make happen.

In general a meet today thing gets you lots of messages from people you don't really want to meet or people who can't when you can. "

Just added a coffee and cake meet. Testing the theory

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By *sWyldWoman
19 weeks ago

Edinburgh


"I would consider it. I work in the centre of Edinburgh and an after work and coffee/drink would sometimes be great. However it's actually really hard work to make happen.

In general a meet today thing gets you lots of messages from people you don't really want to meet or people who can't when you can.

Just added a coffee and cake meet. Testing the theory "

Good luck

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
19 weeks ago

Leeds

Let’s go.

The mr

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By *obilebottom OP   Man
19 weeks ago

All over


"I would consider it. I work in the centre of Edinburgh and an after work and coffee/drink would sometimes be great. However it's actually really hard work to make happen.

In general a meet today thing gets you lots of messages from people you don't really want to meet or people who can't when you can.

Just added a coffee and cake meet. Testing the theory

Good luck "

Thanks. I will add or anything else you fancy later and compare the responce

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By *obilebottom OP   Man
19 weeks ago

All over


"Let’s go.

The mr "

Where do you fancy going then? And are you a tea or coffee drinker. And I am having cake too though so that you know

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By *eroLondonMan
19 weeks ago

Mayfair

If by what you mean on the same day or planning something the evening before for the next morning then it's no. A couple of days' notice is usually what I prefer either for a quick luncheon or coffee and cake. I live and work in Central London and so a rendezvous in the City is always a welcome distraction - more favourable when meeting a forum-dweller.

I don't employ spontaneity for sexual encounters (they have to be planned). I'm one of those people who has the inability to create chemistry and a mental connection on a whim.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
19 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

It takes me a good hour or so to glam up, so no

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
19 weeks ago

East Sussex

I'd love to be spontaneous in that respect but life gets in the way.

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By *obilebottom OP   Man
19 weeks ago

All over


"If by what you mean on the same day or planning something the evening before for the next morning then it's no. A couple of days' notice is usually what I prefer either for a quick luncheon or coffee and cake. I live and work in Central London and so a rendezvous in the City is always a welcome distraction - more favourable when meeting a forum-dweller.

I don't employ spontaneity for sexual encounters (they have to be planned). I'm one of those people who has the inability to create chemistry and a mental connection on a whim. "

It's interesting and might be wrong but people might find the spontaneous sexual one easier to do than the social one - probably something to do with hormones I was of course was mainly talking social coffee meet and some of us find sometimes free last minute and orcwork as you say in a city or wherever that a short pleasant meet of that kind could be nice.

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By *oomerangBangMan
19 weeks ago

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I'd quite like a spontaneous meet, even if it was just for a coffee. Just never seen that happening on here for many reasons.

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
19 weeks ago

wonderland.


"I would consider it. I work in the centre of Edinburgh and an after work and coffee/drink would sometimes be great. However it's actually really hard work to make happen.

In general a meet today thing gets you lots of messages from people you don't really want to meet or people who can't when you can.

Just added a coffee and cake meet. Testing the theory "

Hope it works for you. X I've made some good friends this way

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By *obilebottom OP   Man
19 weeks ago

All over


"I would consider it. I work in the centre of Edinburgh and an after work and coffee/drink would sometimes be great. However it's actually really hard work to make happen.

In general a meet today thing gets you lots of messages from people you don't really want to meet or people who can't when you can.

Just added a coffee and cake meet. Testing the theory

Hope it works for you. X I've made some good friends this way "

Thanks but not working so far. Maybe I should add ambiguity

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
19 weeks ago

wonderland.


"I would consider it. I work in the centre of Edinburgh and an after work and coffee/drink would sometimes be great. However it's actually really hard work to make happen.

In general a meet today thing gets you lots of messages from people you don't really want to meet or people who can't when you can.

Just added a coffee and cake meet. Testing the theory

Hope it works for you. X I've made some good friends this way

Thanks but not working so far. Maybe I should add ambiguity "
if it makes you feel better mine rarely got taken up on

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By *uriousscouserWoman
19 weeks ago

Wirral

If I'm off work then I'm almost always up for a social.

The reason I seldom have impromptu socials is because the people I chat to who are up for them tend to assume it'll be a social and maybe more rather than an absolute social and nothing more.

I'm very rarely up for an impromptu more than a social unless it's someone I know very well.

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By *obilebottom OP   Man
19 weeks ago

All over


"If I'm off work then I'm almost always up for a social.

The reason I seldom have impromptu socials is because the people I chat to who are up for them tend to assume it'll be a social and maybe more rather than an absolute social and nothing more.

I'm very rarely up for an impromptu more than a social unless it's someone I know very well."

I know exactly what you mean. Incidently nobody is taking up the offer of coffee and cake this afternoon yet so I might just either finish the one I have here or get up, jump in the car and go to a favourite hotel of mine not far from here for a bit of afternoon tea. And if I am lucky, thete are aften some nice people there for a chat too

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