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question for women - sensation with and without condoms.

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By *y3942 OP   Man
4 weeks ago

hastings

I think everyone on a site like this has heard the position "it feels better bare".

I had 2 recent experiences which make me question it now. the first, i met a woman recently. i wore a condom but during the intimacy i pulled out and pretended i took the condom off, then i told her i was going to cum inside her which she fantasized about in our messages, but she was unsure of when the time came. after i "came" she started to worry but i put her hand on my cock and she felt the condom as i pulled out. she never realized i had kept the condom on the whole time.

second, over the weekend i met a friend i have been seeing for over a decade and she is the only person i go bare with. however, both times we had sex i put a condom on, just to try it out without her knowing. she did not notice.

so both women thought i was bare inside them when really i was wearing a condom. if it matters, a lot of lube was used with the second lady, but none with the first.

so im curious ladies, is there THAT much of a difference between bare and condom? or is it just physcological? i am confused tbh.

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By *ad NannaWoman
4 weeks ago

East London

I don't feel much difference with a condom to without one.

Maybe I'm dead inside.

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By *eedyBBWWoman
4 weeks ago

Buckinghamshire

I'd say that sometimes I can feel the difference. Something about condoms can dry me out a little bit. And if the guy isn't hugely well endowed and the condom is a little baggy then yeah I can feel that sometimes.

But I would agree that it is much more psychological. It's become a taboo to go bare, so on the rare occasions that you do it just seems so much hornier. Also knowing that a guy definitely will feel the difference totally gets me going. I am so much wetter when it's bare.

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By *3 BlackMan
3 weeks ago

London


"I'd say that sometimes I can feel the difference. Something about condoms can dry me out a little bit. And if the guy isn't hugely well endowed and the condom is a little baggy then yeah I can feel that sometimes.

But I would agree that it is much more psychological. It's become a taboo to go bare, so on the rare occasions that you do it just seems so much hornier. Also knowing that a guy definitely will feel the difference totally gets me going. I am so much wetter when it's bare. "

The drying out can definitely be an issue, so plenty of oral inbetween is important. Although the taste of the condom does slightly take away some sweetness. The baggy thing is not an issue for me

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By *luebell888Woman
3 weeks ago

Glasgowish

I can not feel the difference.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
3 weeks ago

Leeds

It varies, if the condom is baggy as said above it's definitely noticeable, if we aren't really wet again it's noticeable, with lots of lube though probably not so much.

Mrs

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By *milie1994Woman
3 weeks ago

wellingborough

much better without but we have to be safe

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By *sWyldWoman
3 weeks ago

Edinburgh

In general I don't feel a difference physically.

Mentally there's a difference

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By *inkseeker13Woman
3 weeks ago

Aberdeen

I think my favorite pro with condoms is my pH levels not getting thrown off for days after 😂

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By *haiababeWoman
3 weeks ago

North devon

In generalmi cant feel much of a difference. The drying out isnt an issue for me. The enjoyment of it if i choose to go bare, for me is actually the feeling of having cum inside me. Which i do enjoy bitbits not the be all and end all.

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By *ig1gaz1Man
3 weeks ago

bradford

From a male perspective there is a difference to having a condom on to off.

depending on the person.

i can feel sliding into the lady and past the inner skins inside of her.

when shes wet i can feel her wetness along my shaft, you can feel her wetness being pushed out of the way with your head and sliding past your heads shaft.

when she cums you can feel her muscles contracting and squezing at your member inside of her, if shes a squirter you can feel that.

alot of this you dont feel when you have a condom on

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By *arnelianWoman
3 weeks ago

Ely/Cambridge - between the two

Use Skyns condoms and for me, there's no difference in what I feel. If the lady is getting a little dry from them, use some waterbased lube.

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By *usyBusyGirlWoman
3 weeks ago

Brum

Can't really tell the difference x

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By *a LunaWoman
3 weeks ago

South Wales

Condoms usually make it a drier experience. Also I like feeling the warmth of a Willy and sometimes you lose that when they’re wearing a condom.

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By *ir Toot of the frostMan
3 weeks ago

Burton-on-Trent


"Condoms usually make it a drier experience. Also I like feeling the warmth of a Willy and sometimes you lose that when they’re wearing a condom.

"

Hehe willy warmth.

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