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No idea how to set up my bio

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By *all-lad OP   Man
11 weeks ago

rotherham

Tried different pics, texts and titles. How long until you can decide to write yourself off. Any advice appreciated but not too harsh please.

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

Use the search function

There's 100s of advice threads

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By *haringisCaring1208Couple
11 weeks ago

Lurgan

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By *all-lad OP   Man
11 weeks ago

rotherham

You say that but everyone likes different things a good pic seems to be most important but women also want a bio about everything

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By *ellhungvweMan
10 weeks ago

Cheltenham


"You say that but everyone likes different things a good pic seems to be most important but women also want a bio about everything"

You are right everyone likes different things. That means there is no one right answer.

My advice: you have to work out who you are and what you are looking for. And then write a profile that shows you to that person. Most people on here don’t know the answers to either of those questions which means their profiles are crap and their advice is even worse.

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By *elix SightedMan
10 weeks ago

Cloud 8

Just be yourself OP. Write about you, what you like, what you’re seeking etc. Prospective partners should be interested in the authentic you and anyone who isn’t, isn’t for you. It may take some time to find the right person, perseverance is key 😊👍

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By *ir tootMan
10 weeks ago

Burton-on-Trent

My bio is due a makeover but you got this op.

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman
10 weeks ago

Markfield

*takes a deep breath*

You’ve only been here two weeks.

Your pictures are terrible.

You have mistakes in your written bit.

Your status makes you sound like someone I wouldn’t want to spend time with as it’s full of self pity.

I’m sorry it’s harsh, but it’s my opinion on your profile which is what you seem to want.

Keep dick pics in your friends only area and make any other pics ones that have great angles and good lighting and a tight crop if necessary. Make them interesting.

Read and re read and read again when you put your profile up. Look at it as others will look at it. Wouldn’t to spend time with your profile?

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By *ipsforlipsMan
10 weeks ago

Midlands

Truth is, you never get it right. Even if you did at some point, if you keep growing and changing as a person, your bio needs to move too ...

Just get it as right as you can on the night, and then be prepaired to keep it updated ...

Good luck

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By *issFussyWoman
10 weeks ago

hitchin

Your bio is your opportunity to stand out and sell yourself!

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

I can’t see why you don’t have any face pictures, usually it’s “job role” etc why people don’t. Thinking alot of people will scroll past due to lack of images. Stand out from alot of others, I’m to me personally it says you’re serious, not just someone hiding being a keyboard.

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By *ir tootMan
10 weeks ago

Burton-on-Trent


"I can’t see why you don’t have any face pictures, usually it’s “job role” etc why people don’t. Thinking alot of people will scroll past due to lack of images. Stand out from alot of others, I’m to me personally it says you’re serious, not just someone hiding being a keyboard. "

I guess I'm only scared of my family knowing, but honeslty I gave up caring about that a while ago so.

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By *revaunanceCouple
10 weeks ago

Exeter


"Tried different pics, texts and titles. How long until you can decide to write yourself off. Any advice appreciated but not too harsh please. "

Walk into any bar or club in the land and systematically ask every woman in there if she wants a shag.

Now, if you haven't been arrested I'd be surprised. But the point is everypne is 'here for the same thing' as the saying goes; so surely that would mean that eventually someone would say yes, wouldn't it?

The point is, that although we all know the possible final result, we have to find someone for whom there is a mutual attraction first. Therefore it should go without saying that there is no 'one size fits all' approach to writing a profile.

It's time to pull up your big boy pants and tell us all about you, what you offer, and why we should be interested in you. Because if you can't make yourself sound like a worthwhile meet, who can?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
10 weeks ago

Central

Make realistic expectations for yourself. You've been here for 3 weeks, which is nothing.

As others state, read some of the many posts from men, where copious help, tips etc given. Go to socials and clubs.

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By *penminddmanMan
10 weeks ago

Lisburn

First and most important rule for me is to have some kind of accurate picture or description of what you actually look like!

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
10 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Try stuff.

If it doesn't work....try so.ething else.

There's no magic formula and everyone likes different things.

Just be you. 🤷‍♂️

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By *all-lad OP   Man
10 weeks ago

rotherham

To be fair camera on my phone is shite keep trying but still look like I'm a fuzzy d*unken alcoholic and I'm not prepared to go down to a passport office to get a decent one

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By *eroLondonMan
10 weeks ago

Mayfair

OP, take onboard all the good advice given above. Peruse the forums and look at other people's profiles to get a general view of what seems to be the prevailing 'look and feel', and hopefully gain some inspiration too.

Good luck.

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By *all-lad OP   Man
10 weeks ago

rotherham

Thanks everyone means a lot and hope you are all well x

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
10 weeks ago

1127 walnut avenue

Maybe you need the services of a ghost writer..👻...

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By *antasdeerideMan
10 weeks ago

winfrith


"Tried different pics, texts and titles. How long until you can decide to write yourself off. Any advice appreciated but not too harsh please. "
Look at somebody who would appear to be populars profile and adapt your profile to theirs ,things to look for the veries non sexual and the odd sexual one and pics take varying pics dressed and a few undressed and smile in your pics trim your body hair and humour works ,good luck .

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By *andadbodMan
10 weeks ago

Liverpool


"To be fair camera on my phone is shite keep trying but still look like I'm a fuzzy d*unken alcoholic and I'm not prepared to go down to a passport office to get a decent one "

your phone will have a time delay, set it up and have good lighting, practice practice practice till you get the shots you want, remember to be creative too.

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