FabSwingers.com forum: Compersion

By *onsShlong OP Man
5 weeks ago

bury

Does anyone else get incredibly turned on by this?

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By *onely lover40Man
5 weeks ago

Sheffield

Yes I do and as often as possible

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
5 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

I feel joy knowing my partners are having happy and positive experiences.

I don't think getting horny over it is quite the same thing. To me, at least 💜

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By *ora the explorerWoman
5 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

In the sexual way? No not at all

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By *arvey67Man
5 weeks ago

Grimsby

What is it?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
5 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

"What is it?"

A feeling of joy or happiness for 'the other' when you see them enjoying something e.g. sex with someone else. You feel joy because someone you like/love is enjoying themselves.

It is a word but you won't find it in mainstream dictionaries yet.

It is on Wiki and it is in Psych mags and poly mags ..... it's getting there

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By *ickyKlungespeareMan
5 weeks ago

St Leonards

I feel a happy relief when people exit control dramas and celebrate increasing freedoms with others exercising the same sort of thing.

That can be children exiting toxic parenting/peer groups, nations exiting authoritarian yokes, shaggers, or any range of things.

It doesn't give me a stiffy, but it does make me think, and feel, there's a prize, loosely labelled freedom, worth aiming for and bringing about.

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By *arvey67Man
5 weeks ago

Grimsby

Thanks Granny

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By *adyBugsWoman
5 weeks ago

cognito

I don’t have any partners but if I did, I’d like to experience this 🥰

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By *adyBugsWoman
5 weeks ago

cognito

"I don’t have any partners but if I did, I’d like to experience this 🥰"

To clarify, I mean in a non sexual way. I don’t think it’s sexually arousing but it definitely is emotionally arousing which can lead to other fulfilments 😊

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By *ell GwynnWoman
5 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

I experienced compersion with my ex. It was an amazing feeling, but it didn't turn me on.

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
5 weeks ago

near Putney Heath

"Does anyone else get incredibly turned on by this?"

yup me!!

Seeing a guy that I've fucked, fuck someone else, makes me privileged to have my very own porn show where I've actually fucked the male actor. Lol!

Plus autistic brain gets a sensory break.

Unfortunately, there have been points where I actually became overstimulated when the male partner still wanted to keep going. At least I know what it is now and I don't feel embarrassed like a lot of other women must feel.

Not all of us have high libidos and high stamina and some of us over 35 have injuries and health conditions which mean we can't keep going forever.

It's something that needs to be paid attention to..aftercare. Rehydration, re-fuel, sensory de-stimulation and soothing any sore muscles or taking any necessary medication.

But the best thing about sex and intimacy and physical connection is that it can be done in a variety of ways and if you are so inclined with a variety of people.

Like if one person can't handle a particular position, kink or fetish...I find it interesting and sexy for them to play with someone else who can.

I get compersion not just with sex but when I go out to music and dancing events. I love just watching people smiling and enjoying themselves even if I'm not an active participant.

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By *otwife Snowy and MeCouple
4 weeks ago

Carshalton

"Does anyone else get incredibly turned on by this?

yup me!!

Seeing a guy that I've fucked, fuck someone else, makes me privileged to have my very own porn show where I've actually fucked the male actor. Lol!

Plus autistic brain gets a sensory break.

Not all of us have high libidos and high stamina and some of us over 35 have injuries and health conditions which mean we can't keep going forever.

It's something that needs to be paid attention to..aftercare. Rehydration, re-fuel, sensory de-stimulation and soothing any sore muscles or taking any necessary medication.

But the best thing about sex and intimacy and physical connection is that it can be done in a variety of ways and if you are so inclined with a variety of people.

Like if one person can't handle a particular position, kink or fetish...I find it interesting and sexy for them to play with someone else who can.

I get compersion not just with sex but when I go out to music and dancing events. I love just watching people smiling and enjoying themselves even if I'm not an active participant."

This

Never really understood compersion until conversation with another fabber. Astounds me how much I adore seeing Snowy enjoying herself but also over the years how I've enjoyed the pleasure of so many delightful pervs. Am very lucky to have found a partner who lets me be me. Like getting under her nightdress this morning and licking her nipples until that first moan comes through...

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By *avid 50Man
4 weeks ago

kendal

Yes, I have seen it when I’ve been with couples and not just for the male who seeing his wife satisfied but also the other way round, I’ve also seen it years ago in my wife when she went out with her friends and comes back so happy and revitalised

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