FabSwingers.com forum: Are we intimidating

By *uxurybubbles OP Couple
4 weeks ago

by the sea

When we are at events it's really rare for people to come up to us together. Once an organiser said we looked intimidating.

So we put it to you all do we look intimidating?

If you think please do say why as this not what or who we are

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By *ean directMan
4 weeks ago

havant

I don’t think so at all you look very friendly and welcoming

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By *uzzieboyMan
4 weeks ago

taunton

"When we are at events it's really rare for people to come up to us together. Once an organiser said we looked intimidating.

So we put it to you all do we look intimidating?

If you think please do say why as this not what or who we are "

Always been told I look intimidating, but I don’t think so

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By *aughty driverMan
4 weeks ago

Romford

Dont look intimidating to me. In actual your profile seems quite interesting.

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By *rightonsteveMan
4 weeks ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I don’t think so. There again I don’t get intimidated. More interesting than anything. I’d walk up and start talking to you both.

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By *rightonsteveMan
4 weeks ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Steve’s id says “bloody hell mate, it’s not Halloween yet”

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By *ociferu69Man
4 weeks ago

glasgow

maybe you guys have a death stare ?

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By *issolvedOrdersMan
4 weeks ago

Bristol

"When we are at events it's really rare for people to come up to us together. Once an organiser said we looked intimidating.

So we put it to you all do we look intimidating?

If you think please do say why as this not what or who we are "

Not at at all

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By *rHotNottsMan
4 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

No you don’t look intimidating. Approaching couples in a club can just be a bit awkward. I bet if Mr nips to the bar plenty of people approach Mrs!

When I see nice looking couples stood all alone in a club looking a little out of place I just imagine they are a/ out for a bit of nosey & not swingers or b/ waiting to meet another couple and have no interest in being approached by guys

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By *uxurybubbles OP Couple
4 weeks ago

by the sea

Thanks guys of we could get the thoughts of some lady's

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By *acey_RedWoman
4 weeks ago

Liverpool

I would say it's hard to sy from a profile alone. It depends on someone's presence and body language in person.

I wouldn't worry too much about it however as you're far more likely to enjoy yourselves striking up conversations in social areas than waiting for people to approach you. People also seem more approachable when they're regularly seen having warm and friendly interactions with others.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
4 weeks ago

East Sussex

You don't look intimidating in your profile.

You might have to make the first move to show you're not scary

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By *reo DreamMan
4 weeks ago

Berkshire

People say look serious and Intimidating in my photos and videos but when people actually meet me IRL they say I am the complete opposite so I say never judge a book by it's cover. BDSM and Dom me I take very seriously and is a passion of mine but I am actually very easy going with a great sense of humour. ODx

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By *ansoffateMan
4 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

Nah... more a cute couple.

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By *zChiefWoman
4 weeks ago

middle of somewhere

Not intimidating at all. X

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
4 weeks ago

wonderland.

We don't think you look intimidating x

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By *nalleesaMan
4 weeks ago

Bangor

You look like fun ..not intimidating at all x

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By *emorefridaCouple
4 weeks ago

La la land

A profile on fab and what you look like in a club are 2 totally different things. So it's impossible for us to judge. But I would say the fact you started this thread suggests you are not.

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By *arryherts777Man
4 weeks ago

Nr Stevenage

long hair on a bloke is a no no

just saying

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
4 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

It's not a fair question given the pics you have.

As someone else has already said , it's face to face that matters not a few still pics. I can only see you both on one of them anyway.

You don't look run of the mill....

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
4 weeks ago

Cheshire

On the night you may have looked intimidating and you got an honest answer from the person you asked.

I don’t think you look particularly intimidating in your pictures.

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By *urious Explorer 77Man
4 weeks ago

kink town

You look a lovely couple

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By *ellhungvweMan
4 weeks ago

Cheltenham

Very few people think they are intimidating. I don’t think I am intimidating but I know people can be wary of my height. I counter that by just smiling a lot.

You don’t look intimidating to me but maybe you are inadvertently doing something that people are reading more into.

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By *ooBulMan
4 weeks ago

Missin’ Yo’ Kissin’

Nah, I'm assuming "Luxury" is the fella & women are suppose to be pre-programmed to picking men taller than themselves (hunter gatherer), so bubbles is your female squeeze?

I would definitely talk to L & B cos "L" (sorry not taking the mick or back hand swiping), reminds me of a 70's wrestler (Cat Weasel - he used to pinch bums & other naughty things), so I would have to approach you both through me being a naturally inquisitive person. That does not mean I'm nosey, just curious....

You 2 would look great at a medieval night. Have I given you a Halloween idea?

From your photos your radiating a good vibe posture wise.... I think it was the other person perhaps? Their own insecurity?

I wouldn't judge someone like that any way... I'd chat 1st to see what they were like. Jokey or serious?

I can't talk - I look like a Mitchel Brother!!! Been told many a time in night clubs & pubs.

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By *ir Toot of the frostMan
4 weeks ago

Burton-on-Trent

"long hair on a bloke is a no no

just saying "

🤔 I'm gonna need my glasses because all I'm seeing is bullshit.

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By *olvespairCouple
4 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

I've been told that I'm intimidating at a club - to be fair I wasn't smiling very much as I was concentrating on not falling over in my heels for most of the night

Mrs x

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By *r Mrs FuckableCouple
4 weeks ago

Stoke

Not really. We sometimes get told we're unapproachable for some reason, no idea why.

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By *enfleetMaleMan
4 weeks ago

Hadleigh

I have a bit of a belly and feel self conscious around others that are slimmer. It's a me problem. So I'd say I wouldn't approach.

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By *enfleetMaleMan
4 weeks ago

Hadleigh

"long hair on a bloke is a no no

just saying "

Says the man with no profile

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By *ir Toot of the frostMan
4 weeks ago

Burton-on-Trent

"long hair on a bloke is a no no

just saying

Says the man with no profile "

Drinks are on me tonight.

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By *allipygousMan
4 weeks ago

Leicester

I can see it, Luxury. The 10/03 video before you open it has you with a very serious don't-fuck- with-me expression captured on your face and for me your eyes aren't smiling in any of the pics they can be seen.

Lots of people have an RBF (resting bitch face) which are transformed when they smile. Trouble is if you go around smiling all the time you'll probably be thought of as a bit weird.

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By *porty_and_NaughtyCouple
4 weeks ago

Swansea

OP it difficult to say if you are intimidating from pics, it would be different if you asked us to observe you both in a club or social setting. Body language etc plays a big part in how we get perceived. For example when I was a single lady my friends would say that I would never attract a guy on a night out as I have "fuck off" written across my forehead - not really, I haven't had a facial tattoo or anything. But they meant how I carried myself in a social setting may appear to distract people rather than attract. Yet when I am chatting my friendly, welcoming nature comes out.

So my advice to you both would be for you to initiate conversation in clubs and social events. To let people see your personalities shine and then others will see you as approachable.

Mrs

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By *vonne5exMan
4 weeks ago

Doncaster

"When we are at events it's really rare for people to come up to us together. Once an organiser said we looked intimidating.

So we put it to you all do we look intimidating?

If you think please do say why as this not what or who we are "
Not to me matey

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By *HUSH-Man
4 weeks ago

London

"long hair on a bloke is a no no

just saying "

Hell no.

If my hair didn’t look like I was dragged through a hedge backwards after 6 weeks of it not being cut I’d grow my hair long. It’s epic.

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By *ir Toot of the frostMan
4 weeks ago

Burton-on-Trent

"long hair on a bloke is a no no

just saying

Hell no.

If my hair didn’t look like I was dragged through a hedge backwards after 6 weeks of it not being cut I’d grow my hair long. It’s epic."

fist bump

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By *usyBusyGirlWoman
4 weeks ago

Brum

"long hair on a bloke is a no no

just saying "

For who?

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By *HUSH-Man
4 weeks ago

London

"long hair on a bloke is a no no

just saying

Hell no.

If my hair didn’t look like I was dragged through a hedge backwards after 6 weeks of it not being cut I’d grow my hair long. It’s epic.

fist bump"

🤜 🤛

That was one of those “Tell me you don’t listen to Metallica without telling me you don’t listen to Metallica” things.

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By *ir Toot of the frostMan
4 weeks ago

Burton-on-Trent

"long hair on a bloke is a no no

just saying

Hell no.

If my hair didn’t look like I was dragged through a hedge backwards after 6 weeks of it not being cut I’d grow my hair long. It’s epic.

fist bump

🤜 🤛

That was one of those “Tell me you don’t listen to Metallica without telling me you don’t listen to Metallica” things."

I admittedly havnt listened to much in awhile, but I do like them.

I'm not changing my hair.

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By *alcon77Man
4 weeks ago

under the sun & the moon

I find what is referred to as "long hair" is the like the length of my beard when I haven't shaved for 2 weeks..

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By *iker JackMan
4 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

"long hair on a bloke is a no no

just saying "

I’m sure all the metallers and rock musicians would disagree with you as well as a lot of the biking community and anyone who can do or wants to do what they want with their hair and body and life

Just saying

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By *penminddmanMan
4 weeks ago

Lisburn

No def do not look that way. Complete BS

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By *HUSH-Man
4 weeks ago

London

"long hair on a bloke is a no no

just saying

Hell no.

If my hair didn’t look like I was dragged through a hedge backwards after 6 weeks of it not being cut I’d grow my hair long. It’s epic.

fist bump

🤜 🤛

That was one of those “Tell me you don’t listen to Metallica without telling me you don’t listen to Metallica” things.

I admittedly havnt listened to much in awhile, but I do like them.

I'm not changing my hair.

I might have to get myself a wig for when I next listen to Enter Sandman. 🤘

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By *ir Toot of the frostMan
4 weeks ago

Burton-on-Trent

"long hair on a bloke is a no no

just saying

Hell no.

If my hair didn’t look like I was dragged through a hedge backwards after 6 weeks of it not being cut I’d grow my hair long. It’s epic.

fist bump

🤜 🤛

That was one of those “Tell me you don’t listen to Metallica without telling me you don’t listen to Metallica” things.

I admittedly havnt listened to much in awhile, but I do like them.

I'm not changing my hair.

I might have to get myself a wig for when I next listen to Enter Sandman. 🤘"

🤣 fuck yeah!

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By *layfullsamMan
4 weeks ago

Solihull

"When we are at events it's really rare for people to come up to us together. Once an organiser said we looked intimidating.

So we put it to you all do we look intimidating?

If you think please do say why as this not what or who we are "

You look like a young billy Connolly and he’s not intimidating

Unless you take a chainsaw to events I just think it’s personal preference that some don’t approach you

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By *rLordMan
4 weeks ago

Swadlincote

Yep one good loooking couple, would say hello straight away

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