FabSwingers.com forum: Private message questions

By *naswingdress OP Woman
35 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

If someone asks, in their first message, whether they can ask a question, what do they want to ask you?

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By *aughty_Smooth_OperatorMan
35 weeks ago

Birmingham

Confused dot com

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By *ir tootMan
35 weeks ago

Raccoon city

"If someone asks, in their first message, whether they can ask a question, what do they want to ask you?"

Not sure, maybe its like nero said, its a sneaky way to get past filters.

I don't know.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
35 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Leeds/London

They’ve already asked a question.

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

I never find out, ‘cause I always tell ‘em “no, you can’t”

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By *ife NinjaMan
35 weeks ago

Dunfermline

Cake they make me a chocolate orange cheesecake

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Something weird like if Mary had a little lamb, would you let it fuck you? And could I be the lamb? Do you have cotton balls and some superglue?

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
35 weeks ago

Manchester-ish

Usually whether you fancy taking part in wrestling or cat fighting 🤷

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By *obilebottomMan
35 weeks ago

All over

Last time someone did tbat they asked me for money. That was not expected at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

How about what would happen to Pinocchio nose if he said my nose will grow now.

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By *eroLondonMan
35 weeks ago

Mayfair

Nothing. They want to ask you nothing. All they want to do is instigate a conversation...and then, when given half the chance, they fumble their words because they never planned on getting this far.

Same as Jehovah's Witnesses: they always get turned away when they knock on your door. But if you ever (in a parallel universe) invite one in they are totally flummoxed because they've never got that far before. Their crib sheet doesn't get as far as ringing the door bell.

I'm rambling.... apologies...

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By *iker64worceMan
35 weeks ago

redditch

Probably be "Hi hope you don't mind me messaging you?" instead of taking the time to write a proper msg and wondering why they had no reply.

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By *ornucopiaMan
35 weeks ago

Bexley

"If someone asks, in their first message, whether they can ask a question, what do they want to ask you?"

You are lucky that they make it so clear.

In Tobago I get people saying they want to 'axe a christian'.

That can be a bit spine chilling the first time you hear it.

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By *he AmbassadorMan
35 weeks ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

Does the carpet match the curtains.yes is the answer.

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By *elix SightedMan
35 weeks ago

Cloud 8

Could you finish a big toblerone in one sitting?

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By *ittlebirdWoman
35 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

If a grown man and a giant hamster fought in the woods who is the one who does a big shit?

If they don’t ask me this exact question I’m fucking disappointed.

But then most of the questions come from men and men tbh in life are just a massive disappointment.

Yawn 🤷‍♂️

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By *ougarsilkWoman
35 weeks ago

Pleasure heaven

I delete those. If they want to ask they should just message it. Probably still get deleted though

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By *haneleviMan
35 weeks ago

Kidderminster

My last one was some lad my age. Asking if he could call me daddy or sir 😮‍💨

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By *naswingdress OP Woman
35 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

In my experience it's something ghastly. If I'm stupid enough to be curious

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By *eroLondonMan
15 weeks ago

Mayfair

"If someone asks, in their first message, whether they can ask a question, what do they want to ask you?"

They don't want to ask you anything. They simply wish to instigate a vapid conversation.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
15 weeks ago

little house on the praire

I wouldn't know as I've always said no

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
15 weeks ago

Central

I think they already know the answer, so I don't need to reply

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By *ayronfeetMan
15 weeks ago

Cardiff

It's generally guys who ask can they suck my cock to be honest 🤣

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By *icker76Man
15 weeks ago

Caithness

Phone fun. Edge me please as I'm horny

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By *bitofaslutWoman
15 weeks ago

Cannock

"If someone asks, in their first message, whether they can ask a question, what do they want to ask you?"

"Are you a man or a woman?" Every time

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
15 weeks ago

Usually something randomly stupid, like what would you do if you are at a bar and you find a tiny man in your cocktail

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By *cLovin2Man
15 weeks ago

West Drayton

"Usually something randomly stupid, like what would you do if you are at a bar and you find a tiny man in your cocktail"

I'm curious, what do you do with a tiny man in your cocktail?

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By *uriousscouserWoman
15 weeks ago

Wirral

Normally I find they want to ask me something weird and repulsive, but if they send that as a first message they get blocked.

If I have told them they can ask it's like I've given the OK for them to ask unhinged shit, and they think the responsibility for that then lies with me, because I said yes.

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By *mmaleiaWoman
15 weeks ago

Trowbridge

It’s usually so they can get a reply, because they think curiosity will make you want to reply

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By *weet and SpiceCouple
15 weeks ago

Around the Midlands

"It’s usually so they can get a reply, because they think curiosity will make you want to reply"

We were curious and replied, to which they then asked whether we would tie them up, do whatever we wanted, rob them and leave 😱

Ermmmmm, no thanks....block!

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By *veragecouple2000Couple
15 weeks ago

South Wales

"Usually whether you fancy taking part in wrestling or cat fighting 🤷

It’s nearly always this!! Xx 😄

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By *inkShyWoman
15 weeks ago

near Windsor

Usually something along the lines of a question about their mum or step mum, or if they have a small willy

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By *issmorganWoman
15 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

The ones I've had are if I mind men that are uncut/cut or what size my boobs are.

I don't give them chance to ask anymore, I just block anyone who sends that message.

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By *rown_Bread78Man
15 weeks ago

Leeds

Answer their question with a question.

Let's get some Monty Python going on

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
15 weeks ago

Coventry

"It’s usually so they can get a reply, because they think curiosity will make you want to reply"

Agree. The trouble is it has the opposite result because we don't indulge in that sort of messing about and make us not want to reply. We possibly may reply if their profile was really hot because I guess attraction buys a little credit. But as a rule of thumb not a good tack with us. Just say it if it's a question or just state your intrest if you're interested in us.

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

They don't ask anything!

I've had several of these kinds of messages. Or " I need to tell you something" I've never had them ask anything! There is never a question, I think like someone said above its to engage and start a conversation.

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By *cLovin2Man
15 weeks ago

West Drayton

"They don't ask anything!

Ok I'll ask you something, what in the heck have you been feeding those knickers? Jesus Mary and Joseph...

And I'm not even Irish

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By *naswingdress OP Woman
15 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Normally I find they want to ask me something weird and repulsive, but if they send that as a first message they get blocked.

If I have told them they can ask it's like I've given the OK for them to ask unhinged shit, and they think the responsibility for that then lies with me, because I said yes."

Yes.

"I give you permission to ask *a* question. Therefore I am exempted from all social norms, decency, morality, legality, etc."

No, I can't elaborate on what I mean, it's the kind of stuff we're not allowed to discuss on Fab for many good reasons.

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By *ansoffateMan
15 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

If they can suck my cock.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
15 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"It’s usually so they can get a reply, because they think curiosity will make you want to reply

This 100% 👌

When we've had (on the couples profile) that kind of message, or just a 'hi' or 'how are you' it's a straight delete. Ofncourse those are natural things to say when meetingbsomeone face to face in a club, but they lack any thought, creativity or originality when sent as a message.

We'd rather see anything at all than the same, repetitive opening lines that rock up daily. 🤷‍♂️

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
15 weeks ago

Central

"Usually something randomly stupid, like what would you do if you are at a bar and you find a tiny man in your cocktail

I'm curious, what do you do with a tiny man in your cocktail?

Will he provide a cocktail sausage?

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