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By *ull_on_4_fun OP   Couple
4 weeks ago

Town Centre

My wife would love to meet a local ish lady for grown up no strings fun. My part in this would end when I handed over my wife's phone number. Can any lady on Fabswingers guarantee there is no man on her side wanting a glimpse or participation? My wife has plenty of men. She just wants a lady to herself for the duration of the meeting.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

4 weeks ago

East Sussex

I have to ask why your wife needs you to hand over her phone number.

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By *naswingdressWoman
4 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

I meet women, but this scenario doesn't appeal to me at all.

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By *usyBusyGirlWoman
4 weeks ago

Brum


"I meet women, but this scenario doesn't appeal to me at all."

Same here

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By *ull_on_4_fun OP   Couple
4 weeks ago

Town Centre


"I have to ask why your wife needs you to hand over her phone number. "

Because she asked me to.

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By *ull_on_4_fun OP   Couple
4 weeks ago

Town Centre


"I meet women, but this scenario doesn't appeal to me at all."

Your choice. I wish you well.

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By *tephanie63Woman
4 weeks ago

BRIDGWATER

If your wife wants a lady who has no man wishing to watch or participate, then you shouldn't be participating in the process at all. Wife should be looking for herself.

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By *tlanshiaWoman
4 weeks ago

Chatham


"My wife would love to meet a local ish lady for grown up no strings fun. My part in this would end when I handed over my wife's phone number. Can any lady on Fabswingers guarantee there is no man on her side wanting a glimpse or participation? My wife has plenty of men. She just wants a lady to herself for the duration of the meeting."

It screams married man seeking porn style chats, while pretending to be a woman. Not saying you are, but men do. So this situation doesn't appeal to a lot of women.

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By *ull_on_4_fun OP   Couple
4 weeks ago

Town Centre


"I meet women, but this scenario doesn't appeal to me at all.

Same here"

Your choice. I wish you well.

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By *ull_on_4_fun OP   Couple
4 weeks ago

Town Centre


"If your wife wants a lady who has no man wishing to watch or participate, then you shouldn't be participating in the process at all. Wife should be looking for herself.

"

She has asked me to do it.

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By *herrybakewellCouple
4 weeks ago

Staffordshire

There's a way of searching for people on here, this isn't it.

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By *ull_on_4_fun OP   Couple
4 weeks ago

Town Centre


"My wife would love to meet a local ish lady for grown up no strings fun. My part in this would end when I handed over my wife's phone number. Can any lady on Fabswingers guarantee there is no man on her side wanting a glimpse or participation? My wife has plenty of men. She just wants a lady to herself for the duration of the meeting.

It screams married man seeking porn style chats, while pretending to be a woman. Not saying you are, but men do. So this situation doesn't appeal to a lot of women. "

It is a side of her sexuality she wants to explore for herself but is not someone to take the lead.

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By *ull_on_4_fun OP   Couple
4 weeks ago

Town Centre


"There's a way of searching for people on here, this isn't it. "

Thank you.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
4 weeks ago

in Lancashire

She could do her own profile?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

4 weeks ago

East Sussex


"I have to ask why your wife needs you to hand over her phone number.

Because she asked me to."

Then I wish you both well.

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By *rightonsteveMan
4 weeks ago

Brighton - even Hove!

At least you can check them out maybe. See if there are any blokes about. Who knows, maybe do a sniff test.

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By *ull_on_4_fun OP   Couple
4 weeks ago

Town Centre


"She could do her own profile?

"

Too many fools playing "let's pretend I'm a girlie".

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By *ull_on_4_fun OP   Couple
4 weeks ago

Town Centre


"I have to ask why your wife needs you to hand over her phone number.

Because she asked me to.

Then I wish you both well."

Thank you.

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By *ull_on_4_fun OP   Couple
4 weeks ago

Town Centre


"At least you can check them out maybe. See if there are any blokes about. Who knows, maybe do a sniff test. "

And maybe smell a rat?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
4 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"At least you can check them out maybe. See if there are any blokes about. Who knows, maybe do a sniff test.

And maybe smell a rat?

"

Is your wife less capable than yourself of discerning real women?

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
4 weeks ago

in Lancashire


"She could do her own profile?

Too many fools playing "let's pretend I'm a girlie"."

Possibly but if she did have it would be perhaps more authentic than how this thread comes across..

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By *naswingdressWoman
4 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"If your wife wants a lady who has no man wishing to watch or participate, then you shouldn't be participating in the process at all. Wife should be looking for herself.

"

This is exactly it. I would want to deal with her and her alone.

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By *orphia2003Woman
4 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

There are certainly women here seeking other women who want no male participation. I am one such woman.

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By *orphia2003Woman
4 weeks ago

Tonypandy.


"If your wife wants a lady who has no man wishing to watch or participate, then you shouldn't be participating in the process at all. Wife should be looking for herself.

"

Seconded.

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By *8on33Man
4 weeks ago

winfrith


"My wife would love to meet a local ish lady for grown up no strings fun. My part in this would end when I handed over my wife's phone number. Can any lady on Fabswingers guarantee there is no man on her side wanting a glimpse or participation? My wife has plenty of men. She just wants a lady to herself for the duration of the meeting."
Remember Op the forums are just a small fraction of the total membership of the site the opinions you are getting won't reflect the whole site but I will say lots of women won't trust a guy with a telephone number but I suppose once you get a woman to ring it their will be a woman at the other end so at that point it should be sorted .

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By *ull_on_4_fun OP   Couple
4 weeks ago

Town Centre


"At least you can check them out maybe. See if there are any blokes about. Who knows, maybe do a sniff test.

And maybe smell a rat?

Is your wife less capable than yourself of discerning real women?"

She asked me to do it.

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By *ull_on_4_fun OP   Couple
4 weeks ago

Town Centre


"She could do her own profile?

Too many fools playing "let's pretend I'm a girlie".

Possibly but if she did have it would be perhaps more authentic than how this thread comes across.."

My apologies.

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By *ull_on_4_fun OP   Couple
4 weeks ago

Town Centre


"If your wife wants a lady who has no man wishing to watch or participate, then you shouldn't be participating in the process at all. Wife should be looking for herself.

This is exactly it. I would want to deal with her and her alone. "

Do you want her phone number?

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By *enk15Man
4 weeks ago

Evesham

My partner is looking for the same.

Which is why she has her own single female profile. Maybe she could try that.

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By *ull_on_4_fun OP   Couple
4 weeks ago

Town Centre


"There are certainly women here seeking other women who want no male participation. I am one such woman."

Do you want her phone number?

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By *ull_on_4_fun OP   Couple
4 weeks ago

Town Centre


"My wife would love to meet a local ish lady for grown up no strings fun. My part in this would end when I handed over my wife's phone number. Can any lady on Fabswingers guarantee there is no man on her side wanting a glimpse or participation? My wife has plenty of men. She just wants a lady to herself for the duration of the meeting.Remember Op the forums are just a small fraction of the total membership of the site the opinions you are getting won't reflect the whole site but I will say lots of women won't trust a guy with a telephone number but I suppose once you get a woman to ring it their will be a woman at the other end so at that point it should be sorted ."

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By *ull_on_4_fun OP   Couple
4 weeks ago

Town Centre


"My wife would love to meet a local ish lady for grown up no strings fun. My part in this would end when I handed over my wife's phone number. Can any lady on Fabswingers guarantee there is no man on her side wanting a glimpse or participation? My wife has plenty of men. She just wants a lady to herself for the duration of the meeting.Remember Op the forums are just a small fraction of the total membership of the site the opinions you are getting won't reflect the whole site but I will say lots of women won't trust a guy with a telephone number but I suppose once you get a woman to ring it their will be a woman at the other end so at that point it should be sorted ."

Thank you. I appreciate the fact that somebody has thought it through.

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By *ull_on_4_fun OP   Couple
4 weeks ago

Town Centre


"My partner is looking for the same.

Which is why she has her own single female profile. Maybe she could try that."

She tried and got fed up with the fake profiles. Hence my "let's pretend" comment earlier.

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By *naswingdressWoman
4 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"If your wife wants a lady who has no man wishing to watch or participate, then you shouldn't be participating in the process at all. Wife should be looking for herself.

This is exactly it. I would want to deal with her and her alone.

Do you want her phone number?"

No. I'm clearly dealing with a man here, which is explicitly what I said I do not want.

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By *naswingdressWoman
4 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"My wife would love to meet a local ish lady for grown up no strings fun. My part in this would end when I handed over my wife's phone number. Can any lady on Fabswingers guarantee there is no man on her side wanting a glimpse or participation? My wife has plenty of men. She just wants a lady to herself for the duration of the meeting.Remember Op the forums are just a small fraction of the total membership of the site the opinions you are getting won't reflect the whole site but I will say lots of women won't trust a guy with a telephone number but I suppose once you get a woman to ring it their will be a woman at the other end so at that point it should be sorted .

Thank you. I appreciate the fact that somebody has thought it through."

Is "thinking it through" a synonym for "agreeing with you"?

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By *enk15Man
4 weeks ago

Evesham


"My partner is looking for the same.

Which is why she has her own single female profile. Maybe she could try that.

She tried and got fed up with the fake profiles. Hence my "let's pretend" comment earlier."

You’ll come across the same fake profiles whether you’re searching from a single female profile or a couple profile.

The difference is the genuine ones will take it more seriously if she is contacting them, rather than you.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
4 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"At least you can check them out maybe. See if there are any blokes about. Who knows, maybe do a sniff test.

And maybe smell a rat?

Is your wife less capable than yourself of discerning real women?

She asked me to do it."

So she wants to find a woman with no man involved, but all initial interest is to be registered through her man first?

Sounds legit.

Good luck OP 💜

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By *naswingdressWoman
4 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"My partner is looking for the same.

Which is why she has her own single female profile. Maybe she could try that.

She tried and got fed up with the fake profiles. Hence my "let's pretend" comment earlier.

You’ll come across the same fake profiles whether you’re searching from a single female profile or a couple profile.

The difference is the genuine ones will take it more seriously if she is contacting them, rather than you."

Exactly this.

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By *ornucopiaMan
4 weeks ago

Bexley

Am I the only one to have bothered checking the age ranges of all the parties to be involved?

Just off to check the green arrow as well!

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By *ull_on_4_fun OP   Couple
4 weeks ago

Town Centre


"My partner is looking for the same.

Which is why she has her own single female profile. Maybe she could try that.

She tried and got fed up with the fake profiles. Hence my "let's pretend" comment earlier.

You’ll come across the same fake profiles whether you’re searching from a single female profile or a couple profile.

The difference is the genuine ones will take it more seriously if she is contacting them, rather than you.

Exactly this."

She is not one to take the lead. She never has and never will.

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By *AYENCouple
4 weeks ago

Lincolnshire


"My partner is looking for the same.

Which is why she has her own single female profile. Maybe she could try that.

She tried and got fed up with the fake profiles. Hence my "let's pretend" comment earlier.

You’ll come across the same fake profiles whether you’re searching from a single female profile or a couple profile.

The difference is the genuine ones will take it more seriously if she is contacting them, rather than you.

Exactly this.

She is not one to take the lead. She never has and never will."

Perhaps you should encourage her to take the lead rather than say she never will . . . .

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By *aomilatteCouple
4 weeks ago

Midlands

Xtasia have a Womens only night that would be ideal.

m.fabswingers.com/forum/events/1635609

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
4 weeks ago

Leeds

I have my own singles profile for meeting women it's far easier.

I find from couples that message there's always some man involvement.

I wouldn't speak to you to arrange a meet with your wife & only speak to her once you've handed me her number - from a woman's point of view we want to know if we have a connection with the women we are meeting not you.

Mrs

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By *orthern_knobberMan
4 weeks ago

manchester

My wife… Suzie, is very interested.

You give me your Mrs number and I’ll pass it to my Mrs, and then they can both 100%, definitely, without anybody pretending to be somebody else, talk.

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By *r Mrs FuckableCouple
4 weeks ago

Stoke

What if the other guy is watching from the bushes

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By *8on33Man
4 weeks ago

winfrith


"My partner is looking for the same.

Which is why she has her own single female profile. Maybe she could try that.

She tried and got fed up with the fake profiles. Hence my "let's pretend" comment earlier.

You’ll come across the same fake profiles whether you’re searching from a single female profile or a couple profile.

The difference is the genuine ones will take it more seriously if she is contacting them, rather than you.

Exactly this.

She is not one to take the lead. She never has and never will.

Perhaps you should encourage her to take the lead rather than say she never will . . . . "

See where your going with this and on here it definitely works .

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By *enk15Man
4 weeks ago

Evesham


"My partner is looking for the same.

Which is why she has her own single female profile. Maybe she could try that.

She tried and got fed up with the fake profiles. Hence my "let's pretend" comment earlier.

You’ll come across the same fake profiles whether you’re searching from a single female profile or a couple profile.

The difference is the genuine ones will take it more seriously if she is contacting them, rather than you.

Exactly this.

She is not one to take the lead. She never has and never will."

Never has? You literally just said she has already tried having her own profile.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
4 weeks ago

chichester

Take her to a club that does solo women nights. Drop her off pick her up. No men allowed inside boom problem solved

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