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"Right ok been on for a while now ( recently single male) and had no luck whatsoever lol im an easy going lad who is clean and good looking (been told, I don’t think it). I get that woman on here get 100’s of messages off guys etc and is probably ridiculously difficult to reply to all but seriously how does one get his first verification?? Any guys or ladies have any advice because I feel like im giving up. " You’ve already answered how to get a verification in your status update. Go to cupids. Speak to a few people. Have a chat with some of the staff. Keep it casual. | |||
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"Yeah, be patient, don’t force it, be yourself and be prepared for lots of different reasons why meets don’t happen. Mostly, enjoy the forums, don’t take things too seriously. " Thanks mate I will be patient | |||
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"Right ok been on for a while now ( recently single male) and had no luck whatsoever lol im an easy going lad who is clean and good looking (been told, I don’t think it). I get that woman on here get 100’s of messages off guys etc and is probably ridiculously difficult to reply to all but seriously how does one get his first verification?? Any guys or ladies have any advice because I feel like im giving up. You’ve already answered how to get a verification in your status update. Go to cupids. Speak to a few people. Have a chat with some of the staff. Keep it casual. " Great advice cheers pal I’ll go and see what it’s all about tonight 👍 | |||
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"Remember that you are one of 1000's of single guys, and that most people will read your profile before they decide whether they want to interact with you. If your profile is good, then your chances improve massively. There are 100s of threads giving profile advice too. Cal" Thank you this is massively helpful | |||
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"Right ok been on for a while now ( recently single male) and had no luck whatsoever lol im an easy going lad who is clean and good looking (been told, I don’t think it). I get that woman on here get 100’s of messages off guys etc and is probably ridiculously difficult to reply to all but seriously how does one get his first verification?? Any guys or ladies have any advice because I feel like im giving up. You’ve already answered how to get a verification in your status update. Go to cupids. Speak to a few people. Have a chat with some of the staff. Keep it casual. Great advice cheers pal I’ll go and see what it’s all about tonight 👍" I was given really great advice by people on this forum before I went to my first club night as a single guy. Smile, say hello, don’t wait for them to say it. Keep the conversation friendly. Don’t go expecting anything, your reputation is what matters. Don’t worry about being nervous, everyone has butterflies including those that have been going for years. Just be respectful and you’ll be fine  | |||
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"Right ok been on for a while now ( recently single male) and had no luck whatsoever lol im an easy going lad who is clean and good looking (been told, I don’t think it). I get that woman on here get 100’s of messages off guys etc and is probably ridiculously difficult to reply to all but seriously how does one get his first verification?? Any guys or ladies have any advice because I feel like im giving up. You’ve already answered how to get a verification in your status update. Go to cupids. Speak to a few people. Have a chat with some of the staff. Keep it casual. Great advice cheers pal I’ll go and see what it’s all about tonight 👍 I was given really great advice by people on this forum before I went to my first club night as a single guy. Smile, say hello, don’t wait for them to say it. Keep the conversation friendly. Don’t go expecting anything, your reputation is what matters. Don’t worry about being nervous, everyone has butterflies including those that have been going for years. Just be respectful and you’ll be fine "Thanks mate, that is my plan. I’m going to have a drink and won’t be playing. Just to observe and chat to different people. I’ll be nervous but I’m sure that will pass 🤞 | |||
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"Right ok been on for a while now ( recently single male) and had no luck whatsoever lol im an easy going lad who is clean and good looking (been told, I don’t think it). I get that woman on here get 100’s of messages off guys etc and is probably ridiculously difficult to reply to all but seriously how does one get his first verification?? Any guys or ladies have any advice because I feel like im giving up. " How can we help it's down to you and what you do ,think about the women which I know you do they have to waste their time reading lots of shite messages from people who don't fit their profile demands ,they have to look at ugly hairy dick pics and ugly face pics and can't be arsed replying because that further wastes their time ,so it's in the rules no reply not interested even though in your case they well may be ,so my advice just be patient make your profile the best it can be and your pics after all that's your advert then wait for the influx of lovely messages. | |||
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"Right ok been on for a while now ( recently single male) and had no luck whatsoever lol im an easy going lad who is clean and good looking (been told, I don’t think it). I get that woman on here get 100’s of messages off guys etc and is probably ridiculously difficult to reply to all but seriously how does one get his first verification?? Any guys or ladies have any advice because I feel like im giving up. How can we help it's down to you and what you do ,think about the women which I know you do they have to waste their time reading lots of shite messages from people who don't fit their profile demands ,they have to look at ugly hairy dick pics and ugly face pics and can't be arsed replying because that further wastes their time ,so it's in the rules no reply not interested even though in your case they well may be ,so my advice just be patient make your profile the best it can be and your pics after all that's your advert then wait for the influx of lovely messages. " 💯 mate I get it’s hard for some women on here and I ALWAYS read their profile and only message if I think I match the criteria! I guess patience is the key | |||
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"Just try your best you can’t do more than that. Good luck OP" Thank you ☺️ | |||
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"Dear OP, you've only been here 9 weeks. That is but a picosecond within the Fab timeline. It takes much patience and resolve to get any traction on here. This will help, sort of... https://m.fabswingers.com/forum-search/No%2bluck%2b I will check it out appreciate it Good luck. ☮️" | |||
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"Post on the forums, keep an eye on local meets and message any that work for you. Be respectful and self deprecating and you'll be fine. " Great advice I will stick with it | |||
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"I'm been on this site on and off for around 15 years now and, I've never actually met anyone. In fact, it's only really in the last year and a half that I've even had any responses to messages and most of them have been polite "not interested"s. I still live in hope but, I've given up caring or worrying about it. Now I'm just here for the forums and the yuk-yuks. Fab is no different to a dating site. Men outnumber women 100 to 1 and sadly, that does mean most of us are largely invisible but, if you engage with the forums and don't act like an angry horny teenager, you will at the very least get to have some fun and interesting chats with some fun and interesting people. " Get down Cruisers on a Saturday night and you'll be fine  | |||
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"I'm been on this site on and off for around 15 years now and, I've never actually met anyone. In fact, it's only really in the last year and a half that I've even had any responses to messages and most of them have been polite "not interested"s. I still live in hope but, I've given up caring or worrying about it. Now I'm just here for the forums and the yuk-yuks. Fab is no different to a dating site. Men outnumber women 100 to 1 and sadly, that does mean most of us are largely invisible but, if you engage with the forums and don't act like an angry horny teenager, you will at the very least get to have some fun and interesting chats with some fun and interesting people. Get down Cruisers on a Saturday night and you'll be fine "Oooh where is cruisers?? | |||
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"I'm been on this site on and off for around 15 years now and, I've never actually met anyone. In fact, it's only really in the last year and a half that I've even had any responses to messages and most of them have been polite "not interested"s. I still live in hope but, I've given up caring or worrying about it. Now I'm just here for the forums and the yuk-yuks. Fab is no different to a dating site. Men outnumber women 100 to 1 and sadly, that does mean most of us are largely invisible but, if you engage with the forums and don't act like an angry horny teenager, you will at the very least get to have some fun and interesting chats with some fun and interesting people. Get down Cruisers on a Saturday night and you'll be fine "Cruisers hasn't existed for years! Besides, I'm not that desperate yet. I still have some dignity! | |||
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"I'm been on this site on and off for around 15 years now and, I've never actually met anyone. In fact, it's only really in the last year and a half that I've even had any responses to messages and most of them have been polite "not interested"s. I still live in hope but, I've given up caring or worrying about it. Now I'm just here for the forums and the yuk-yuks. Fab is no different to a dating site. Men outnumber women 100 to 1 and sadly, that does mean most of us are largely invisible but, if you engage with the forums and don't act like an angry horny teenager, you will at the very least get to have some fun and interesting chats with some fun and interesting people. Get down Cruisers on a Saturday night and you'll be fine
Oooh where is cruisers?? "A really crap nightclub in the town BrillPhill lives. I was teasing him. A club isn't a bad shout though, places like Quest do daytime sessions and a great way to meet folks from the scene in a no pressure environment. | |||
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"I'm been on this site on and off for around 15 years now and, I've never actually met anyone. In fact, it's only really in the last year and a half that I've even had any responses to messages and most of them have been polite "not interested"s. I still live in hope but, I've given up caring or worrying about it. Now I'm just here for the forums and the yuk-yuks. Fab is no different to a dating site. Men outnumber women 100 to 1 and sadly, that does mean most of us are largely invisible but, if you engage with the forums and don't act like an angry horny teenager, you will at the very least get to have some fun and interesting chats with some fun and interesting people. Get down Cruisers on a Saturday night and you'll be fine
Cruisers hasn't existed for years! Besides, I'm not that desperate yet. I still have some dignity!
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"I'm been on this site on and off for around 15 years now and, I've never actually met anyone. In fact, it's only really in the last year and a half that I've even had any responses to messages and most of them have been polite "not interested"s. I still live in hope but, I've given up caring or worrying about it. Now I'm just here for the forums and the yuk-yuks. Fab is no different to a dating site. Men outnumber women 100 to 1 and sadly, that does mean most of us are largely invisible but, if you engage with the forums and don't act like an angry horny teenager, you will at the very least get to have some fun and interesting chats with some fun and interesting people. Get down Cruisers on a Saturday night and you'll be fine
Cruisers hasn't existed for years! Besides, I'm not that desperate yet. I still have some dignity!
I don't think I've been there since I was around 17, truly grim!!"I regret not going there more now, if I'd known I could have found a hotty like you down there...  | |||
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