FabSwingers.com forum: Verifications how many is too many

By *hris-1980 OP Man
9 weeks ago

Nr Tamworth

So if your verifying someone after meeting them and having a great time and then end up meeting them again multiple times, how many times is to many to verify them? Should it be once and once only, should you do it after every meet? Is there any specific etiquette for verifications when someone is genuinely a nice person and you want to shout about the amazing meets you have had?

What are your views?

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By *vaRose43Woman
9 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

Ask them?

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By *he ExcaliburMan
9 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Definitely not every time, maybe just once or twice.

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By *aggy dollsCouple
9 weeks ago

bradford

3 times per meet, before during and after every time.

Mr H

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By *heSofaDestroyersCouple
9 weeks ago

HereAndThere

We had a couple chatting and then decided they didn’t want to meet us as we had two many veris.

Most are from clubs or socials,

So they clearly didn’t read them anyway

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By *olly MistlehoeWoman
9 weeks ago

Somewhere

I've met a guy several times. I did him two veris, he asked for more which I declined to supply...

1) I pointed out it'd look like lamp post pissing.

2) It'd appear we're seeing each other more than we are.

3) There's only so much you can say without sounding odd

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By *icentiousCouple
9 weeks ago

Up on them there hills

It’s how you interpret them and open and closed minds from my perspective.

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By *ik NaksCouple
9 weeks ago

Wigan

Twice is enough as sometimes the second meet is normally better than the first

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By *tevieboyyyMan
9 weeks ago

Waterlooville

If I gone one that would be fine. Tinder was easier!

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By *eroLondonMan
9 weeks ago

Mayfair

There is no right or wrong answer, OP. It's about how they are interpreted by different people and what purpose they are serving.

Personally, I've never really understood repeat verifications within a short time frame (e.g. within months) because I cannot grasp what they offer above and beyond the preceding verification/s from the same person within that relatively short time period.

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By *naswingdressWoman
9 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

Some people want none, some people want them every time, some people are in between.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
9 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

I have a couple from the same people.

Either because the initial one was from a purely social meet, or there was enough of a change in circumstances for a second to be justified.

People can do what people want to do with veris. None, one, more than one....their profile so up to them. 🤷‍♂️

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