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‘Safe’ words

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
15 weeks ago

It recently dawned on me that the missus and I have never employed a ‘safe’ word….

Out of interest - what’s everyone’s ‘safe’ word?

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

As a lover of geography I try to keep mine related to places, my 2024 safe word is Llanfairpwllgwyngyllgogerychwyrndrobwllllantysiliogogogoch.

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By *CExeCouple
15 weeks ago

Lincoln/Exeter

'Minions'for Chels. She's obsessed with them so chose that lol. Never managed to get her to use it though

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By *vaRose43Woman
15 weeks ago

Forest of Dean


"It recently dawned on me that the missus and I have never employed a ‘safe’ word….

Out of interest - what’s everyone’s ‘safe’ word? "

Firstly do you need one?

Secondly your safewords should be memorable and personal to you.

Currently I don’t have one

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
15 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

My safe words are "Stop" and "No" 💜

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By *artfordBlokeMan
15 weeks ago

Dartford

Only used a safe word once, turns out "harder" wasn't that advisable

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By *iss CalicoWoman
15 weeks ago

Wakefield

Green, yellow and red

Plus a scale of 1 to 10

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
15 weeks ago

No offence meant, we’ve never really had the need (so far). Just a bit of fun

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By *CExeCouple
15 weeks ago

Lincoln/Exeter


"My safe words are "Stop" and "No" 💜"

It's quite sad how many girls I've chatted to who have had men perceive that as being encouragement. I once was in bed with a girl who suddenly burst into tears. Didn't say stop or anything like that, but pretty bloody obvious something was up. Turns out I was a rebound shag and she hadn't been used to a guy being gentle in bed. The ex had never respected her asking him to stop or if she wasn't in the mood. Grim. We had a lovely evening after that drinking tea and getting her to agree to having at least 6 months away from men!

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By *NormalMan01Man
15 weeks ago

Harrogate

I respond incredibly well to “no” and “stop”

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By *nya NeesWoman
15 weeks ago

Brum

Stop

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By *inxy777Woman
15 weeks ago

essex


"As a lover of geography I try to keep mine related to places, my 2024 safe word is Llanfairpwllgwyngyllgogerychwyrndrobwllllantysiliogogogoch."
😂😂

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By *eavenNhellCouple
15 weeks ago

carrbrook stalybridge

"red " but will have had a pretty long and open chat about wants needs rules limits etc way before we do anything that would nescitate using a safe word outside of no & stop

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
15 weeks ago


"As a lover of geography I try to keep mine related to places, my 2024 safe word is Llanfairpwllgwyngyllgogerychwyrndrobwllllantysiliogogogoch."

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
15 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"My safe words are "Stop" and "No" 💜

It's quite sad how many girls I've chatted to who have had men perceive that as being encouragement. I once was in bed with a girl who suddenly burst into tears. Didn't say stop or anything like that, but pretty bloody obvious something was up. Turns out I was a rebound shag and she hadn't been used to a guy being gentle in bed. The ex had never respected her asking him to stop or if she wasn't in the mood. Grim. We had a lovely evening after that drinking tea and getting her to agree to having at least 6 months away from men!"

If a no or stop goes unheeded they're about to learn a big lesson about consent.

I usually make sure that people know beforehand that I don't play with those words.

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By *aomilatteCouple
15 weeks ago

Midlands

STOP

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
15 weeks ago

Totally with ‘no’ means ‘no’ - I have never kept pushing after my wife has told me to stop. It’s all about respect.

I just wondered what others used as we’ve always just stopped with a simple stop, obviously if consent IS used and it gets consensually heavy/rough… that’s how I meant it.

Love to hear your words

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By *uacksplat.Woman
15 weeks ago

Star Trekking Across The Universe

goose. Px

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
15 weeks ago


"goose. Px "

Hahaha - love that!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
15 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

'More!'

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
15 weeks ago


"'More!'"

Not sure you’re getting the point but I’m sure I could run with it!

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