FabSwingers.com forum: What do verifications mean to you?

By *iggi3 OP Man
15 weeks ago

I have been on here for a Few years on and off and at 1st a lot of people didnt want to meet as i wasnt verified and now sometimes it seems like i have too many verifications.

Do you look?

Do you care?

Whats your preference? None, a few or a lot?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *oxychicWoman
15 weeks ago

Nottinghamshire

Sweet fa I sooner find out for myself x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *lowupdollTV/TS
15 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

A verification or two to confirm they exist. Other than it just starts to look like collecting reviews for the sake of it. Like it’s a loyalty card.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
15 weeks ago

East Sussex

All I need to know is that they look like the person on the photo. The rest means nothing to me

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ora the explorerWoman
15 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

I don’t show mine. I like to read other people’s though.

In answer to the question if they’ve loads of sexual veris I won’t be interested.

I’ve met a few people who had none at all and never had any issues.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ickleTheWonderSchlongMan
15 weeks ago

Ends

"Sweet fa I sooner find out for myself x "

😆 you’re brilliant

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

They mean I can see who put their pee pee in your woo woo.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *nya NeesWoman
15 weeks ago

Brum

"They mean I can see who put their pee pee in your woo woo. "

Eloquently put

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iggi3 OP Man
15 weeks ago

"I don’t show mine. I like to read other people’s though.

In answer to the question if they’ve loads of sexual veris I won’t be interested.

I’ve met a few people who had none at all and never had any issues. "

Whats the reason for not showing yours?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ora the explorerWoman
15 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

"I don’t show mine. I like to read other people’s though.

In answer to the question if they’ve loads of sexual veris I won’t be interested.

I’ve met a few people who had none at all and never had any issues.

Whats the reason for not showing yours?"

I don’t want to

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ickleTheWonderSchlongMan
15 weeks ago

Ends

Most people have loads from socials I assume. I don’t read veris

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *JcuriousCouple
15 weeks ago

Derby

Not a great deal, just a couple to confirm they are real and do actually meet.

Miss S x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *issmorganWoman
15 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

They are good for seeing what type of people they meet and that they turn up.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *weetiepie99Woman
15 weeks ago

cardiff

They mean nothing, waste of time, just one to say you are real. That's it.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *hat.coupleCouple
15 weeks ago

Dartford

I see verifications like reviews, I don't tend to judge people for having too many. I do read them and find that people who have a lot aren't all from people they have played with. A fair few of ours are from people we've met and not played with. We enjoy chatting to newbies and like to make new people feel welcome. Too many people gatekeeping in this lifestyle for our liking x

Mrs x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *annyDanielleMan
15 weeks ago

Street, Somerset

If they've been on here for quite a while and still don't have any verifications it's unlikely that i'll bother trying to arrange a meet. At least verifications show that they do actually meet.

Beyond that they don't mean a great deal to me, i see them as product or film reviews and as such will always give a lop-sided view and should always be taken with a pinch of salt.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *inAndTonic21Couple
15 weeks ago

Merseyside

we do always read them or if someone heavily verified the last few recent ones

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

It means they are a real human with the capability of turning up to a meet, that's all. I communicate directly with people and vice versa I've had a good time, it's for others benefit not mine.

Also every person has a different experience with someone so there's no point reading too much into them. One woman's alpha is anothers shit shag.. just saying.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iggi3 OP Man
15 weeks ago

"It means they are a real human with the capability of turning up to a meet, that's all. I communicate directly with people and vice versa I've had a good time, it's for others benefit not mine.

Also every person has a different experience with someone so there's no point reading too much into them. One woman's alpha is anothers shit shag.. just saying."

Facts

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ildTimes.Man
15 weeks ago

Colchester/London

I like to read a few , see they're genuine , but it's also kind of meaningless because everyone is amazing , everyone on fab must just be amazing at everything 😂 if there's like 50+ meets, it's off putting kind of reads like you have little to no standards

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *MCMan
15 weeks ago

London/EA

Occasionally read them but no one is ever going to publish a bad one are they…

Is somewhat off putting if they have 300+ meets but each to their own.. all use the site for our own reasons.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

I've met guys with multiple verifications, still wankers.

Met guys with no verifications, still wankers.

They don't mean a thing. If I'm not intelligent enough to work out if someone is real or a murderer I probably shouldn't be on here.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iggi3 OP Man
15 weeks ago

"I like to read a few , see they're genuine , but it's also kind of meaningless because everyone is amazing , everyone on fab must just be amazing at everything 😂 if there's like 50+ meets, it's off putting kind of reads like you have little to no standards "

What if 40 of those 50 are from socials

A lot of people on here are after quality rather than quantity and it doesnt mean they have no standards

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ildTimes.Man
15 weeks ago

Colchester/London

@ playtime Essex my reply as you've now blocked me,

Yes, I'm not counting web cam veris but meets with play it's a bit sus, obviously if you've been here for 5 years fair enough but that's few and far between, time period is relevant I agree time period is relevant, but if you've got 40-50 play meets in a year screams zero standards

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *illy IdolMan
15 weeks ago

Midlands

What is said in them doesn't mean a lot, but more who has verified them.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *electableicecreamMan
15 weeks ago

The West

What if 40 of those 50 are from socials

A lot of people on here are after quality rather than quantity and it doesnt mean they have no standards"

A lot of people here are equally as happy banging loads and loads of people and are not at all worried about what anyone thinks.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *oodmessMan
15 weeks ago

yumsville

People will probably give you the easiest reason without trying to offend.... If they say you're too tall - you'll say I can lay down. If too short - it doesn't matter when lay down. If too young - I'm old for my age and so on.

There's women on here with 500 plus that are meeting.. guys with 200 plus sometimes there's just a drought.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *inkyandthebrain2023Couple
15 weeks ago

Cheshire

Definitely prefer a profile with a good few veris. If you have no veris you stand very little chance.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *artfordBlokeMan
15 weeks ago

Dartford

Couldn't care less, we all start with none and I've conversed with enough people on here with a decent-large enough amount to know it's far from the Nintendo Seal of Quality as a recommendation sometimes but each to their own

Tbh, anyone doubting my identity just needs to see my photos to know I definitely didn't steal them to try and impress you all

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *aomilatteCouple
15 weeks ago

Midlands

"I have been on here for a Few years on and off and at 1st a lot of people didnt want to meet as i wasnt verified and now sometimes it seems like i have too many verifications.

Do you look?

Do you care?

Whats your preference? None, a few or a lot?"

We read a lot more into verifications than most on here, we follow the verification trail too. There's more to them than "yes they're real" for us. We don't want to see a graphic story of what went on (or apparently went on). There are many things in verifications that would stop us from replying. How many? A few to a lot is ok.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ophieslutTV/TS
15 weeks ago

Central

I look, as well as meeting unverified people. It suggests that they may be more reliable and specifically that they are more likely to be the people that they claim to be. I'm not interested in sexual performance stats etc, just reliability, from 3rd parties

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

That yes, they have actually done the sex/ appeared at Costa at the agreed time. There's some importance in showing that a person is likely to actually show up, and they can be handy for double-checking as well; think a person who claims to always have safe sex but their verifications say very much the opposite

🦇

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *imples24Man
15 weeks ago

tamworth

Never check rather find out for myself

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
15 weeks ago

Leeds

I don't really care about the amount it's easy to get 20 verifications at 1 social event, what's in them may put me off though.

Mrs

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *io--Man
15 weeks ago

Near Blackpool

"I have been on here for a Few years on and off and at 1st a lot of people didnt want to meet as i wasnt verified and now sometimes it seems like i have too many verifications.

Do you look?

Do you care?

Whats your preference? None, a few or a lot?"
One meet verification is enough if its from a well established account. Photo verified too I will usually talk if its not older than 3 months, but with that alone theres alot more fantasists who never actually have the intention of meeting. 10+ verifications in a month or 50+ total too many for me usually

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ags73Man
15 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

Just means someone else has met them. A lot aren’t that helpful in figuring out stuff as they’re quite general

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *lowupdollTV/TS
15 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

‘Had a great time and can’t wait to see them again’.

Ted Bundy.

Not too helpful.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ackformore100Man
15 weeks ago

Tin town

"I have been on here for a Few years on and off and at 1st a lot of people didnt want to meet as i wasnt verified and now sometimes it seems like i have too many verifications.

Do you look?

Do you care?

Whats your preference? None, a few or a lot?"

Nothing. Think it's a pretty strange concept to be honest but amazing how weird shit can become normalised.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *oxy jWoman
15 weeks ago

somerset

with the amount of people giving veris out just to help them out ie fake veris is high on top of pointless cam veris and pointless social veris it just mean the whole veri system is pretty point less ...

the only way it may serve is who they have been with that can help but otherwise they are now pointless as someone else has said best to findout ourselves ... last 4 ive met via fab had no veris all 4 turned up all 4 were great meets one of is about to become regular none wanted veris back as they prefer fab that way i dont ask or ever want veris anymore ...

and yes mine are hidden due to fools who like to play silly games and abuse

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ife NinjaMan
15 weeks ago

Dunfermline

I check they're real and not some crazy psycho lady, then ignore

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *itygamesMan
15 weeks ago

Don't mean a lot really.

bit like trip advisor , some liked the hotel or product they bought , others didnt.

i guess if folk left bad verifications as well as good ones,it could be a different story.

i'm sure folk do get bad ones but obviously dont show them.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *inger_SnapWoman
15 weeks ago

Hampshire/Dorset

I really only want to see a few recent ones, so I know someone is genuine, actually meets people and is as described on their profile.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iss KinkWoman
15 weeks ago

North West

At least a couple is good then after that I’m not bothered tbh.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *vaRose43Woman
15 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

As long as they’ve got the tick that’s all I need to see

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ommy trucker1Man
15 weeks ago

south wales

As a single man I think it's important to gain a few verifications just to show that they are genuine ?. I have met a quite a few fabbers and they won't and don't leave / want verifications too.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *eroLondonMan
15 weeks ago

Mayfair

"What is said in them doesn't mean a lot, but more who has verified them."

•

This wins the comment of the day ^ because it's such a compelling perspective. My experience of verifications is that I often find myself running with the fox and chasing with the hounds.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *porty_and_NaughtyCouple
15 weeks ago

Swansea

Others: I read them out of interest. I like to know they are who they say they are. I really am not interested in sexual content within some verifications.

Our verifications: It's convenient to have a few as some social events require them for you to be on the invite list. Plus it confirms to others that we are genuine.

I don't mind people having a lot of verifications, quite often they are from organised social events or webcams. However, the profiles that say they want quality over quantity yet have had sex with lots of people, makes me think there's actually quite a lot of quality people on Fab 🤐

Mrs

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *sWyldWoman
15 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I hide most of mine. Sometimes I like them as they make me smile, sometimes I think it's all a bit tacky.

When it comes to others, I don't really look at what is said, more who is saying it

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

I ask people not to write them so that nobody knows how terrible at the sex I am.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *uacksplat.Woman
15 weeks ago

Star Trekking Across The Universe

absolutely nothing. Px

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iggi3 OP Man
15 weeks ago

"I have been on here for a Few years on and off and at 1st a lot of people didnt want to meet as i wasnt verified and now sometimes it seems like i have too many verifications.

Do you look?

Do you care?

Whats your preference? None, a few or a lot?

To see who they've met?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

They meet people.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
15 weeks ago

wonderland.

We love to veri hop... we have found some great people that way.

We don't mind how many, although often get judged for ours.. even though most of our recent ones are social meets from people we spoke to or played next to at clubs.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *orl1971Couple
15 weeks ago

Glasgow

We look at verifications. We care about them and don’t meet people without play meets.

Too many fakes, pic collectors and dreamer so we’d rather they have a proven ‘service history’ .

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *rightonsteveMan
15 weeks ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I don’t add any more anymore. I’ve got enough and I don’t do repeats these days.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *orphia2003Woman
15 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

It shows that I've met people.

It shows that other people have met people, so if I agree to meet them, they should actually show up.

Really not interested in the graphic style ones, find them a bit pointless and off-putting personally. But your verifications are your business and nobody else's.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *carlet SeductionWoman
15 weeks ago

Maidstone

I hate them. I'm perfectly capable of making my mind up about someone without cumslutsally telling me about how many holes were filled and what a gent he is, or mrsdesperatetits telling me 20 different times how he's her soul mate so hands off (only joking)🤢.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *parkle1974Woman
15 weeks ago

Leeds

"I hide most of mine. Sometimes I like them as they make me smile, sometimes I think it's all a bit tacky.

When it comes to others, I don't really look at what is said, more who is saying it "

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *opeyXWoman
15 weeks ago

Dundee

They meet socially? They like gang bangs? Clubs? Whatever. They don't mean too much. I usually meet people at social events so take them at face value and not a written profile.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *luefire2Couple
15 weeks ago

just somewhere around here

Too many can kinda put us off, almost like "well they get about a bit".

We like to see that people have them though to show that they exist however, it has been known for people to just veri people as a favour?! So who knows....do they REALLY matter at all?

Also, I like to see where people have been.....it can be a deal breaker for us too.....

Mrs R

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

Not a lot

Most of mine and ones I leave for other people are usually just cheeky and having a laugh with what's included in them.

They should never be taken too seriously

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *herryEatersCouple
15 weeks ago

East Cheshire

"I have been on here for a Few years on and off and at 1st a lot of people didnt want to meet as i wasnt verified and now sometimes it seems like i have too many verifications.

Do you look?

Do you care?

Whats your preference? None, a few or a lot?"

Definitely not 100's !. To us they say they've probably actually met and 'slightly' less chance of being timewasters or pic collectors. We're well aware that folk won't write bad things in there so can be a bit misleading too

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *anted by NightMan
15 weeks ago

Shangri-La

Verifications trail is more important than just random verification. Most of mine are from regulars and they show I’m reliable and people like to meet me over and over again.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ackformore100Man
15 weeks ago

Tin town

"absolutely nothing. Px "

War... What is it good for?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *allipygousMan
15 weeks ago

Leicester

"I have been on here for a Few years on and off and at 1st a lot of people didnt want to meet as i wasnt verified and now sometimes it seems like i have too many verifications.

Do you look?

Do you care?

Whats your preference? None, a few or a lot?"

Your first verification was dated 02/11/2017, that's 10 days off 7 years ago. You've been verified by 22 people, that's just over 3 a year. Yeah, way too many veris.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *oved Up CoupleCouple
15 weeks ago

North West

Verifications can be misleading. We've been messed about twice this week by people with meet verifications spread over many years. I guess while the verifications tell you how many times they've met and how it went, they don't tell you how many failed meets and waste of times they've been responsible for.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *rHotNottsMan
15 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I don’t display mine but if someone I’m

Meeting wants to see them that’s fine, they’re a mix- different types of people give very different types of veri's, forum ones tend to be piss takes.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
15 weeks ago

your head

Nothing. I really don't see the point in them. They don't prove anyone is real because they can be faked, no one is going to post a bad one so they don't prove the person will actually show up just that they showed up that time.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *naswingdressWoman
15 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

That they are who they say they are. I sometimes look for a pattern in them to try to confirm my sense of them as well. Obviously they're only the good side.

They supplement my own sense.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *r MzchiefMan
15 weeks ago

Derbyshire

The user is not an AI bot. Apart from that I do t pay them much credence. I have a few but doesnt seem to have done me any favours.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iggi3 OP Man
15 weeks ago

"Verifications trail is more important than just random verification. Most of mine are from regulars and they show I’m reliable and people like to meet me over and over again. "

Never knew verification trail was a thing

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *vonne5exMan
15 weeks ago

Doncaster

Gives you a bit more confidence in they'll turn up.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *oney HoneyWoman
15 weeks ago

York

I look at the veris and see who they are from. Ie. Are they all couples? Are the people they have played with attractive? Have they been verified by the same person more than once?

I also then look at what “return veris” they have written for those who have verified them.

I hide mine though. Mainly because in the past I have experienced people contacting my friends or my previous veris to try to organise meeting them, or to try to get closer to me! Just weird!

It’s all a bit meaningless though isn’t it? No one would display a negative veri..

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iggi3 OP Man
15 weeks ago

"I look at the veris and see who they are from. Ie. Are they all couples? Are the people they have played with attractive? Have they been verified by the same person more than once?

I also then look at what “return veris” they have written for those who have verified them.

I hide mine though. Mainly because in the past I have experienced people contacting my friends or my previous veris to try to organise meeting them, or to try to get closer to me! Just weird!

It’s all a bit meaningless though isn’t it? No one would display a negative veri.."

So the people they have met in the past would have to be attractive to you?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *eyond PurityCouple
15 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

Means when I’ve got time I can go down rabbit holes and suddenly I find I’m 10 profiles away from the profile I was reading the first veri from

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ny1localMan
15 weeks ago

READING

I find that they don't mean much, reading some new veris for someone local they all said wonderful things..her status said 'last few meets 4/10,piss poor '.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

To me they only show a person exists other than that l don't even read them , why should l , ? You never see a bad one printed anyway, if a person gets a bad one they won't publish it .

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
15 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

Oh I love reading a good verification and look at whose banging who, who is getting jealous of who etc etc.

They're a double edged sword - and you can take that to the bank.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

Never been verified so can't comment

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ugehandsMan
15 weeks ago

Fife/ Newcastle

Most of them pretty much read the same, so read one you've read the all

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *tevieboyyyMan
15 weeks ago

Waterlooville

A verification would help a lot.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *eroLondonMan
15 weeks ago

Mayfair

"Most of them pretty much read the same, so read one you've read the all

•

You need to read the quality ones, the hand-crafted ones, the bespoke ones, the tailored ones...and refrain from the hackneyed ones.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ackformore100Man
15 weeks ago

Tin town

"Most of them pretty much read the same, so read one you've read the all

•

You need to read the quality ones, the hand-crafted ones, the bespoke ones, the tailored ones...and refrain from the hackneyed ones."

Treat him with the respect he deserves. He sucks like a Dyson.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *eroLondonMan
15 weeks ago

Mayfair

"Most of them pretty much read the same, so read one you've read the all

•

You need to read the quality ones, the hand-crafted ones, the bespoke ones, the tailored ones...and refrain from the hackneyed ones.

Treat him with the respect he deserves. He sucks like a Dyson. "

This is very true.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *hatKlungeEnigmaMan
15 weeks ago

St Leonards

I do perversely enjoy this FAB incarnation because it's unverified.

Wrong-foots a few people, and that makes for more psychological fun as we dance around each other.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ougarsilkWoman
15 weeks ago

Pleasure heaven

Ah the verification roulette.

We've all been non verified at some point. I've chatted with some ace guys who weren't verified as well as some tossers who were haha

They are an indicator which may help you decide about your choices ?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iggi3 OP Man
15 weeks ago

"Ah the verification roulette.

We've all been non verified at some point. I've chatted with some ace guys who weren't verified as well as some tossers who were haha

They are an indicator which may help you decide about your choices ?"

I dont read them and i also dont care if someone is verified or not and i dont get the whole veri trail thing.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *andadbodMan
15 weeks ago

Liverpool

verified by a meet is what i’m looking for, don’t care how many or the details of the verifications.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ce_BearMan
15 weeks ago

Worthing

I love verifications and in my old profile I had 70 I think. Having a couple is very important to show you are genuine. In all the years I have been on here and fabguys I have never shown them. I think who we meet is a private thing and I am discreet. We all have a life away from fab and I never tell anyone about others I have met.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *omRachCouple
15 weeks ago

Wirral

We use them just for the knowledge that the person actually does turn up.

We've all been on the receiving end of a no show, nothing more annoying.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ik NaksCouple
15 weeks ago

Wigan

We display them to let other people know we are genuine. We’ve got a few on there from people that we’ve met and not necessarily played with but it gives others a chance to check their profile out and maybe have a connection with them 🤷‍♀️ xx

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

As humans, we all aim to create a picture/perception of an individual or couple based on available information. The verifications add color to our perceptions from an unbiased view… although most people won’t write something terrible on the veris they give. However, at least they become something others write about you instead of you writing about yourself!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *eliWoman
15 weeks ago

Yes I look.

Sometimes I care. Most of the time I don't really. I don't display any erm sexy ones and I never will. People can think what they like really. We're naturally a nosy bunch.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *enrietteandSamCouple
15 weeks ago

Staffordshire

**clarification*

Treat her like a Dyson is a combination of the classics, Treat her with respect and sucks like a Dyson.

Carry on.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *lowupdollTV/TS
15 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

"**clarification*

Treat her like a Dyson is a combination of the classics, Treat her with respect and sucks like a Dyson.

Carry on."

Sucks like a Dyson, looks like a Henry, personality like a vacuum is the definitive version I suggest.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *llabouttheboobsCouple
15 weeks ago

wakefield

I find them very informative. Not so much ‘he made me squirt’ or ‘massive cock and knew how to use it’ but some reviews really show the nature and personality of the person. There help establish how long someone has been in the scene. And if they are still active.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *lderflower_AppleWoman
15 weeks ago

Basingstoke

Let's face it, no one is going to display a negative verification. So they're always going to reflect the good aspects of an individual. The whole purpose of them is to show that they actually are who they claim to be. Personally I don't like the explicit ones. I feel that they are unnecessary, but each to their own over what they chose to display on their profiles. We display what we hope will attract our target audience right?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ll-Knight-longMan
15 weeks ago

Derby/Notts(Long Eaton)

I recently contacted “ a couple “ I had previously played with but recognised from her pictures on a new profile. After messaging over a couple of weeks re- verified & arranged to meet a few times but let down at last minute. Then a message out of the blue that I had ignore messages for 2 hours

& profile disappeared. Was it a catfish with acquired pics or the husband ? Who knows….

..just goes to show verisimilitude can be false or faked

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ik NaksCouple
15 weeks ago

Wigan

"Let's face it, no one is going to display a negative verification. So they're always going to reflect the good aspects of an individual. The whole purpose of them is to show that they actually are who they claim to be. Personally I don't like the explicit ones. I feel that they are unnecessary, but each to their own over what they chose to display on their profiles. We display what we hope will attract our target audience right? "

If we have a bad meet and believe us we’ve had a few then we don’t drop them a veri and certainly wouldn’t expect to get one from them. Xx

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *enrietteandSamCouple
15 weeks ago

Staffordshire

"**clarification*

Treat her like a Dyson is a combination of the classics, Treat her with respect and sucks like a Dyson.

Carry on.

Sucks like a Dyson, looks like a Henry, personality like a vacuum is the definitive version I suggest. "

You’re my kind of dirt devil

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *lderflower_AppleWoman
15 weeks ago

Basingstoke

If we have a bad meet and believe us we’ve had a few then we don’t drop them a veri and certainly wouldn’t expect to get one from them. Xx"

That's exactly my point. I'm the same, and actually they're are occasions I've come away from really positive meets (and repeated them) but never received a verification back once I've left one. So really, once you've got one, there's no value in any more.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *allipygousMan
15 weeks ago

Leicester

"Most of them pretty much read the same, so read one you've read the all

"She can take a good pounding and has no gag reflex so you can really throat fuck her. Treat her well mmmmmmmmmm".

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *allipygousMan
15 weeks ago

Leicester

I display mine because they show I'm active and I turn up, though most are club meets. They also, as previously said, give an idea what I'm like face-to-face. I really am not a fan of the explicit ones left by some men (see above example) but if someone wants to overly praise me I'll happily slip them a tenner.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *viatrixWoman
15 weeks ago

Redhill

Lately, I’ve been using them as a guide for my own safety- as in they are a normal person 🤭

Also, to prove they’re real and that they look like their photos!

If people have too many veris, I honestly don’t care. I do care though if the people they meet are quite different from me, if I am going to be a veri “stamp” to collect and if meeting them is going to make me flavour of the day…

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ffervescentMan
15 weeks ago

winfrith

"I have been on here for a Few years on and off and at 1st a lot of people didnt want to meet as i wasnt verified and now sometimes it seems like i have too many verifications.

Do you look?

Do you care?

Whats your preference? None, a few or a lot?"
Some people won't meet you because of the people you've met .

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *eroLondonMan
15 weeks ago

Mayfair

"Some people won't meet you because of the people you've met ."

Equally so, some people will be more amenable and reassured to meet you because of the people you've met.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iss.BellaWoman
15 weeks ago

Wales

"Some people won't meet you because of the people you've met .

Equally so, some people will be more amenable and reassured to meet you because of the people you've met."

Agree with both of these.

There's a lady I was looking forward to meeting up with but I've been put off by the amount of veris she's displaying - we're talking 2 or 3 every couple of days and they are very graphic.

She's also met with 2 men that I was was hoping to meet, which I'm now reconsidering 🤦😂

On the flip side, if there's someone with only one or

two verifications, it can be reassuring if one of those is from someone you know, or at least know of

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
15 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

"**clarification*

Treat her like a Dyson is a combination of the classics, Treat her with respect and sucks like a Dyson.

Carry on.

Sucks like a Dyson, looks like a Henry, personality like a vacuum is the definitive version I suggest.

You’re my kind of dirt devil

Oh very good you bunch. Had me laughing.

Anyway, Bissell make you laugh...

I decided to sell my vacuum cleaner. It was just collecting dust.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iggi3 OP Man
15 weeks ago

"Some people won't meet you because of the people you've met .

Equally so, some people will be more amenable and reassured to meet you because of the people you've met.

Agree with both of these.

There's a lady I was looking forward to meeting up with but I've been put off by the amount of veris she's displaying - we're talking 2 or 3 every couple of days and they are very graphic.

She's also met with 2 men that I was was hoping to meet, which I'm now reconsidering 🤦😂

On the flip side, if there's someone with only one or

two verifications, it can be reassuring if one of those is from someone you know, or at least know of

Question:

Why seeing that she met someone who you liked made you reconsider?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *insBadMan
15 weeks ago

& around

"I have been on here for a Few years on and off and at 1st a lot of people didnt want to meet as i wasnt verified and now sometimes it seems like i have too many verifications.

Do you look?

Do you care?

Whats your preference? None, a few or a lot?"

I enjoy reading between the lines in a verification,

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ormorantMan
15 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

I love the stomach churning descriptions with reference to Dysons, takes it in every hole, took it like a pro etc etc then finish with show him/ her/ them respect…

Like you’ve just done you mean….!!!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ackformore100Man
15 weeks ago

Tin town

"**clarification*

Treat her like a Dyson is a combination of the classics, Treat her with respect and sucks like a Dyson.

Carry on."

Carry on up the Dyson?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ackformore100Man
15 weeks ago

Tin town

"**clarification*

Treat her like a Dyson is a combination of the classics, Treat her with respect and sucks like a Dyson.

Carry on.

Sucks like a Dyson, looks like a Henry, personality like a vacuum is the definitive version I suggest.

You’re my kind of dirt devil

Can we crow bar a shark in there somehow?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *lowupdollTV/TS
15 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

"**clarification*

Treat her like a Dyson is a combination of the classics, Treat her with respect and sucks like a Dyson.

Carry on.

Sucks like a Dyson, looks like a Henry, personality like a vacuum is the definitive version I suggest.

You’re my kind of dirt devil

Can we crow bar a shark in there somehow? "

My kind of dirt devil. Sucks like a Dyson, looks like a Henry, personality like a vaccum. Shark.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *eroLondonMan
15 weeks ago

Mayfair

She sux like an Electrolux™... ... ... ... ... ... ⬆️

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ermanentlyHorny8082Couple
15 weeks ago

Stockport (M) / East Lancs (F)

Definitely check them out - firstly to see if they’re genuine, secondly to follow the veri trail, to see if they’re lying about something significant (e.g. messaging to say they don’t do bareback, safe meets only, then you click on a hook up of a hook up, and they’re slinging it up anyone and everyone, completely unwrapped

) A large number of verifications is off putting - for us, anyway!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ack1971Man
15 weeks ago

Cork

I've been on and off here for years as a single, as a couple, had verifications, and it all amounts to.....nothing.

Some of the biggest gobshites have numerous, and others with nothing are decent.

I found people being verified as favours, so you got to read through them to see where they originated to suss them out.

And the flip side is if I give a verifcation, it means someone else will judge someone else based on what I put there??

Not a hope. At 53 I don't need or want anyone to validate me, and I dont want to validate others to prove some point. I'm not some teenager.

So with this proifle, I dont want veris or give them and I do just fine. Originally the verifications were great, but they did get used and abused so much, you can't tell the actual genuine ones from the BS!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *aysLegs2020Couple
15 weeks ago

Peak District

Don't look, dont care.. as long as we chat (swop pics) and have the same naughty ideas then its fine. J

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iss.BellaWoman
15 weeks ago

Wales

Question:

Why seeing that she met someone who you liked made you reconsider?"

Fair question. In my head, which may or may not be ridiculous, I feel like they are looking for notches on the bed post if they aren't put off by so many meets in such a short space of time. I don't want to be a notch.

Or maybe I'm just fussy 💁😂

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *eroLondonMan
15 weeks ago

Mayfair

"Question:

Why seeing that she met someone who you liked made you reconsider?

Or maybe I'm just fussy 💁😂"

•

I interpreted it as you making an informed decision based on what you could glean - to some extent - from the plethora of verifications, allowing you to be more discerning and not being just another 'conquest'.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *exxyyDy11Man
15 weeks ago

North West

I put my verifications up to show I'm genuine and not fake or a timewaster.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ora the explorerWoman
15 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

Question:

Why seeing that she met someone who you liked made you reconsider?

Or maybe I'm just fussy 💁😂"

Noooo. Not ridiculous. This is how I think. Fussy maybe but fussy isn’t a bad thing ❤️

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *glyBettyTV/TS
15 weeks ago

About 3 feet away from the fence

I have my veris showing atm (for a specific reason), but they will be hidden again before too long.

There's people on here who might use things like your verification info to try and gaslight you.

A tangential anecdote, a few weeks ago some random guy approached me in a club attempting to claim credit for "introducing me to this club". I didn't say nothing at the time, but I was thinking 'nah... I'm pretty sure I remember googling it, mate'

This is the kind of stuff people in this space will try to pull for a shag or some other underhanded reason. I fully understand why many people choose not to show their verifications

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *electableicecreamMan
15 weeks ago

The West

Sometimes reading a woman's verifications can be an exercise in cringe. There's the guys who gush sonnet's and the ones who write paragraphs of lurid details.

Then there's Veri Bingo 'don't pass this one by guys!' 'mr was a gent' 'show her respect' 'glint'

My genuine favourites are the ones guys leave for each other. Short and to the point 'Turned up. Great cock and took my load like a champ.' Perfect.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *allerthanaverage79Man
15 weeks ago

Ayrshire

Verifications mean I can go onto the forums and wind people up!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iss.BellaWoman
15 weeks ago

Wales

[Removed by poster at 25/10/24 09:23:50]

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
15 weeks ago

Chichester

I don’t read them so don’t care for the details. Only thing I like seeing is the verification number

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *zChiefWoman
15 weeks ago

middle of somewhere

If they have a lot in a short space of time ( not social ones) i am put off. Its not the way i play ... i prefer not to see myself as one in a long line of meaningless encounters. I know its foolish as some i meet will be doing just that not displaying the evidence.

I dont show mine. I dont have loads but someone did use ones on my couples profile as a stalkers charter.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *anted by NightMan
15 weeks ago

Shangri-La

"Verifications mean I can go onto the forums and wind people up!

This

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iggi3 OP Man
13 weeks ago

So basically damned if you do or you don't lol

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ony MannMan
13 weeks ago

Lagos, Portugal/ Ilfracombe Devon/ Anoover

A verification means they are real and may meet if I put a little effort into a conversation.

It can be revealing to follow a verification and see what the lady I'm interested in has said about the men she meets.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iggi3 OP Man
13 weeks ago

"A verification means they are real and may meet if I put a little effort into a conversation.

It can be revealing to follow a verification and see what the lady I'm interested in has said about the men she meets."

Why would you want to know what she has said about the men she met. What does that change in terms of you being interested in her?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *riar BelisseWoman
13 weeks ago

Delightful Bliss

I like reading them and following them on to see the sexual past trail. That leads to questions I would find pertinent to us meeting, I'm not bothered about quantity, but would wonder if he is at clubs every weekend, would he have enough time for me.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iggi3 OP Man
13 weeks ago

"I like reading them and following them on to see the sexual past trail. That leads to questions I would find pertinent to us meeting, I'm not bothered about quantity, but would wonder if he is at clubs every weekend, would he have enough time for me."

If that happened outside of fab wouldn't that be kind of stalking?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *neeyedwillieMan
13 weeks ago

Darlington

[Removed by poster at 03/11/24 12:57:34]

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *eroLondonMan
13 weeks ago

Mayfair

•

I agree. The provenance of a potential social/date often contributes to the decision making and whether to take things forward, or not.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iggi3 OP Man
13 weeks ago

•

I agree. The provenance of a potential social/date often contributes to the decision making and whether to take things forward, or not."

Most people on here aren't looking for regular though

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *eroLondonMan
13 weeks ago

Mayfair

•

I agree. The provenance of a potential social/date often contributes to the decision making and whether to take things forward, or not.

Most people on here aren't looking for regular though "

•

Likewise most people on here aren't looking for one-off encounters either.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iggi3 OP Man
13 weeks ago

•

I agree. The provenance of a potential social/date often contributes to the decision making and whether to take things forward, or not.

Most people on here aren't looking for regular though

•

Likewise most people on here aren't looking for one-off encounters either."

The quote "60% of the time works every time" comes to mind

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *eroLondonMan
13 weeks ago

Mayfair

•

I agree. The provenance of a potential social/date often contributes to the decision making and whether to take things forward, or not.

Most people on here aren't looking for regular though

•

Likewise most people on here aren't looking for one-off encounters either.

The quote "60% of the time works every time" comes to mind"

•

I work from empirical evidence and not from 'flimflam' figures. 🩶

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *erfHerder74Man
13 weeks ago

Inverclyde

I have a Quick Look, if there’s way too many I’m not interested, especially if they are very close together

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ony MannMan
13 weeks ago

Lagos, Portugal/ Ilfracombe Devon/ Anoover

"A verification means they are real and may meet if I put a little effort into a conversation.

It can be revealing to follow a verification and see what the lady I'm interested in has said about the men she meets.

Why would you want to know what she has said about the men she met. What does that change in terms of you being interested in her?"

That give me a chance to see her personality.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

Post new Message to Thread