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"What do you think of the Facebook posts where women post a selfie in leggings after changing size and a predictable chorus of everyone saying how great they look ‘babe’. Were they such an awful looking friend before ? Someone I know just posted before & after pics, I think she looks so much sexier before but I’m not allowed to say that right ? " I wouldn’t advise it babe | |||
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"I think the implication is and always has been that women look better if they lose weight. It's what's kept the weight loss industry turning billions of £ profit for years. Therefore if you've dieted successfully to lose weight people are going to tell you you look better or what's the point. From what I see and hear very few do it for health reasons " Exactly this. I do think part of it is... when a woman loses weight, more often than not if she's been overweight, there's an increase in confidence. She wants to show off. Feels more confident in photos. Perhaps some women see that their friend is happier within themselves and wants to congratulate that? I think celebrating achievements can be really nice. It's situational really. | |||
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"What do you think of the Facebook posts where women post a selfie in leggings after changing size and a predictable chorus of everyone saying how great they look ‘babe’. Were they such an awful looking friend before ? Someone I know just posted before & after pics, I think she looks so much sexier before but I’m not allowed to say that right ? " You could, certainly make your Facebook feed more entertaining | |||
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"What do you think of the Facebook posts where women post a selfie in leggings after changing size and a predictable chorus of everyone saying how great they look ‘babe’. Were they such an awful looking friend before ? Someone I know just posted before & after pics, I think she looks so much sexier before but I’m not allowed to say that right ? You could, certainly make your Facebook feed more entertaining " If you saw the pic I’m sure you and most guys would agree | |||
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"What do you think of the Facebook posts where women post a selfie in leggings after changing size and a predictable chorus of everyone saying how great they look ‘babe’. Were they such an awful looking friend before ? Someone I know just posted before & after pics, I think she looks so much sexier before but I’m not allowed to say that right ? You could, certainly make your Facebook feed more entertaining If you saw the pic I’m sure you and most guys would agree " Safest bet ‘looking good’ If you’re after a laugh go with ‘😍🔥😍 | |||
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"Everyone is entitled to their opinion ..that’s the nature of the beast (good or bad)…. However to enforce your opinion onto their post, which they have clearly posted due to their pride of achievement, would not feel right in my opinion. There’s that word again, just my opinion on the matter. "So like a fab forum post with a few extra rules ? You have ti be nice etc | |||
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"What do you think of the Facebook posts where women post a selfie in leggings after changing size and a predictable chorus of everyone saying how great they look ‘babe’. Were they such an awful looking friend before ? Someone I know just posted before & after pics, I think she looks so much sexier before but I’m not allowed to say that right ? " If someone has done something that they consider an achievement, dont be a cunt and shit on that. Your opinion on her appearance is irrelevant to how she feels. | |||
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"I think if someone has worked hard and achieved a goal it's polite to congratulate them on succeeding. If it's not something I necessarily agree with I don't need to bring them down with my opinion 💜" I get that of course I am not against supporting and congratulating people who work hard to achieve their goals. But posting ‘you look gorgeous babe’ I believe overall does more damage than good, reinforces that someone’s value & popularity is determined by how they look , size of tits, how much weight lost etc And drives on further and further into mental health problems, when they have a bad day etc, stop training , put on weight etc the voices in the head ate not going to be very nice or accurate | |||
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"I have a friend who did this a few years back I thought she looked terrible but didn't say and shes put it all back on." I think better to say something positive if they’re doing it for themselves. Everyone’s confidence is more fragile than we think and sometimes a little encouragement is better than saying zilch | |||
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"What do you think of the Facebook posts where women post a selfie in leggings after changing size and a predictable chorus of everyone saying how great they look ‘babe’. Were they such an awful looking friend before ? Someone I know just posted before & after pics, I think she looks so much sexier before but I’m not allowed to say that right ? " Nothing wrong with losing weight and getting healthy, but social media and the press turn it into a popularity contest and that is unhealthy. I care more about personality than model looks and wouldn't be seen dead with someone so vain. If you're a looker, fair enough, but if you're chasing likes then adios senorita.  | |||
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"Trust me guys unless you're our ltp we don't want your opinion on how we look unless it's 100% positive. " I once had a boss who told me my knees would appreciate it if I lost weight. Which actually didn't annoy me, was a fair comment, just had knee surgery | |||
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"I think if someone has worked hard and achieved a goal it's polite to congratulate them on succeeding. If it's not something I necessarily agree with I don't need to bring them down with my opinion 💜 I get that of course I am not against supporting and congratulating people who work hard to achieve their goals. But posting ‘you look gorgeous babe’ I believe overall does more damage than good, reinforces that someone’s value & popularity is determined by how they look , size of tits, how much weight lost etc And drives on further and further into mental health problems, when they have a bad day etc, stop training , put on weight etc the voices in the head ate not going to be very nice or accurate " I do actually agree with the sentiment. It's goes along with revenge bodies etc, as if the most amazing thing we can do as a female is be slim and attractive. I'd rather be praised on being pretty resilient or intelligent, but that's just me. | |||
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"Everyone is entitled to their opinion ..that’s the nature of the beast (good or bad)…. However to enforce your opinion onto their post, which they have clearly posted due to their pride of achievement, would not feel right in my opinion. There’s that word again, just my opinion on the matter.
So like a fab forum post with a few extra rules ? You have ti be nice etc "I wouldn’t say you ‘have to be nice’ but would it not be better to write nothing at all than to take away from their achievement? Again, this is just my opinion so what I say has no ballast over what you’ll write on their post … that’s your choice 
We shouldn’t just go along with something that we don’t agree with…. But maybe their post wasn’t done for feedback? If they had asked for feedback like ‘what do you think looks best before or after’ then you could write your thoughts? To at way you’d get to explain to them why you chose it and they would understand as they had asked for feedback?
I’m intrigued, did you write this thread because you knew it would be wrong to post your thoughts on their post? Or was it a case of ‘most people agreed with me that I should write my opinion ‘ and so then you’ll post it on their post?
It’s all questions and discussions which is why forums are fun as it allows interaction and sharing thoughts which is always great | |||
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"I have a friend who did this a few years back I thought she looked terrible but didn't say and shes put it all back on. I think better to say something positive if they’re doing it for themselves. Everyone’s confidence is more fragile than we think and sometimes a little encouragement is better than saying zilch " I lied and said she looked great . | |||
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"I was on a residential course once where a guy took it upon himself to tell me I'd look better if I wore make up. On another occasion a man told me my trousers were too big and they'd look better if they were a smaller size. What earthly use were their comments to me? " F*** off is correct answer to both of those comments. What was on their heads? | |||
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"I was on a residential course once where a guy took it upon himself to tell me I'd look better if I wore make up. On another occasion a man told me my trousers were too big and they'd look better if they were a smaller size. What earthly use were their comments to me? F*** off is correct answer to both of those comments. What was on their heads?" I suspect they thought that my reason for existing was to be attractive to them. Unfortunately quite a few men think that way about women. The make up comment guy also told me he 'let' his wife play badminton once a week.  | |||
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"I was on a residential course once where a guy took it upon himself to tell me I'd look better if I wore make up. On another occasion a man told me my trousers were too big and they'd look better if they were a smaller size. What earthly use were their comments to me? F*** off is correct answer to both of those comments. What was on their heads? I suspect they thought that my reason for existing was to be attractive to them. Unfortunately quite a few men think that way about women. The make up comment guy also told me he 'let' his wife play badminton once a week. "Unreal. Hope his wife is shagging her badminton partner | |||
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" I’m intrigued, did you write this thread because you knew it would be wrong to post your thoughts on their post? Or was it a case of ‘most people agreed with me that I should write my opinion ‘ and so then you’ll post it on their post?
"I was just interested in what people think of those Facebook posts. I never comment on them, I never give compliments about peoples appearance unless it’s something they have done and then I complement the efforts , But I avoid commenting on those posts where there’s a million ‘you look gorgeous babe’ comments from guys hoping to get thier dick wet with a fave compliment. So no, whilst the little demon inside me would kinda like to comment ‘what the fuck happened to your peachy ass’ and you look like a scary monster that’s had all the fat sucked out your face, of course I would never be so mean, I press the horns back in and won’t comment , on Facebook. On here of course it’s different | |||
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" I’m intrigued, did you write this thread because you knew it would be wrong to post your thoughts on their post? Or was it a case of ‘most people agreed with me that I should write my opinion ‘ and so then you’ll post it on their post?
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I was just interested in what people think of those Facebook posts. I never comment on them, I never give compliments about peoples appearance unless it’s something they have done and then I complement the efforts , But I avoid commenting on those posts where there’s a million ‘you look gorgeous babe’ comments from guys hoping to get thier dick wet with a fave compliment.
So no, whilst the little demon inside me would kinda like to comment ‘what the fuck happened to your peachy ass’ and you look like a scary monster that’s had all the fat sucked out your face, of course I would never be so mean, I press the horns back in and won’t comment , on Facebook. On here of course it’s different "
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"I was on a residential course once where a guy took it upon himself to tell me I'd look better if I wore make up. On another occasion a man told me my trousers were too big and they'd look better if they were a smaller size. What earthly use were their comments to me? F*** off is correct answer to both of those comments. What was on their heads? I suspect they thought that my reason for existing was to be attractive to them. Unfortunately quite a few men think that way about women. The make up comment guy also told me he 'let' his wife play badminton once a week.
Unreal. Hope his wife is shagging her badminton partner ". | |||
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" I’m intrigued, did you write this thread because you knew it would be wrong to post your thoughts on their post? Or was it a case of ‘most people agreed with me that I should write my opinion ‘ and so then you’ll post it on their post?
I was just interested in what people think of those Facebook posts. I never comment on them, I never give compliments about peoples appearance unless it’s something they have done and then I complement the efforts , But I avoid commenting on those posts where there’s a million ‘you look gorgeous babe’ comments from guys hoping to get thier dick wet with a fave compliment.
So no, whilst the little demon inside me would kinda like to comment ‘what the fuck happened to your peachy ass’ and you look like a scary monster that’s had all the fat sucked out your face, of course I would never be so mean, I press the horns back in and won’t comment , on Facebook. On here of course it’s different "Have you considered that it’s possible the others commenting don’t share your opinion? That in fact they might think her achievement was to her benefit, or that they’re recognising her hard work? | |||
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" I’m intrigued, did you write this thread because you knew it would be wrong to post your thoughts on their post? Or was it a case of ‘most people agreed with me that I should write my opinion ‘ and so then you’ll post it on their post?
I was just interested in what people think of those Facebook posts. I never comment on them, I never give compliments about peoples appearance unless it’s something they have done and then I complement the efforts , But I avoid commenting on those posts where there’s a million ‘you look gorgeous babe’ comments from guys hoping to get thier dick wet with a fave compliment.
So no, whilst the little demon inside me would kinda like to comment ‘what the fuck happened to your peachy ass’ and you look like a scary monster that’s had all the fat sucked out your face, of course I would never be so mean, I press the horns back in and won’t comment , on Facebook. On here of course it’s different
Have you considered that it’s possible the others commenting don’t share your opinion? That in fact they might think her achievement was to her benefit, or that they’re recognising her hard work?
"I know many of them , they would say anything for the slightest chance of sex. And none of them said anything about her achievements or congratulations on hard work they just said ‘wow you look gorgeous babe’ and posted emojis with eyes popping out in shock and big love hearts. | |||
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"I know many of them , they would say anything for the slightest chance of sex. And none of them said anything about her achievements or congratulations on hard work they just said ‘wow you look gorgeous babe’ and posted emojis with eyes popping out in shock and big love hearts." She likely knew that was the kind of validation she'd get, and if not actively seeking it then was at least not fussed by the comments to leave them there publicly. Very few people would be unaware of the intentions of such. | |||
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"Are we living in a world where we are not allowed to make a compliment? If someone has made such an effort, surely they should be congratulated? No wonder people are always on about the ‘old school’ people. We could pretty much do and say whatever we wanted back then. That doesn’t mean we always did, but the politically correct police were not out hunting for us. What a mess the liberal elites have made here. Everyone is tiptoeing around the sensitive types, while having to negotiate bits of broken glass…" We have never been able to do and say whatever we liked. It's never been a good look to be unkind. | |||
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"Someone I know just posted before & after pics, I think she looks so much sexier before but I’m not allowed to say that right ? " Just post an insincere compliment like everyone else. Nobody puts before and after pics on Facebook to actually hear the truth. | |||
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"Are we living in a world where we are not allowed to make a compliment? If someone has made such an effort, surely they should be congratulated? No wonder people are always on about the ‘old school’ people. We could pretty much do and say whatever we wanted back then. That doesn’t mean we always did, but the politically correct police were not out hunting for us. What a mess the liberal elites have made here. Everyone is tiptoeing around the sensitive types, while having to negotiate bits of broken glass… We have never been able to do and say whatever we liked. It's never been a good look to be unkind. " I know, but when someone has made such an effort to lose weight, I don’t understand why they cannot be complimented. I wouldn’t be unkind, not even back in the day. | |||
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"Are we living in a world where we are not allowed to make a compliment? If someone has made such an effort, surely they should be congratulated? No wonder people are always on about the ‘old school’ people. We could pretty much do and say whatever we wanted back then. That doesn’t mean we always did, but the politically correct police were not out hunting for us. What a mess the liberal elites have made here. Everyone is tiptoeing around the sensitive types, while having to negotiate bits of broken glass… We have never been able to do and say whatever we liked. It's never been a good look to be unkind. I know, but when someone has made such an effort to lose weight, I don’t understand why they cannot be complimented. I wouldn’t be unkind, not even back in the day. " They can but it isn't obligatory. | |||
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"Someone I know just posted before & after pics, I think she looks so much sexier before but I’m not allowed to say that right ? Just post an insincere compliment like everyone else. Nobody puts before and after pics on Facebook to actually hear the truth." Or just don't use the attention seeking platform at all!! | |||
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