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When did you last go on a date?

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By *ittle Miss Tinkerbell OP   Woman
40 weeks ago

your head

Do you like dating? What is a go to date for you?

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By *eroLondonMan
40 weeks ago

Covent Garden

September.

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By *IXEN200Woman
40 weeks ago

newcastle upon tyne

I've never been on a date ever

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By *exxyyDy11Man
40 weeks ago

North West

12 months ago before I joined fab. Was through tinder, I didn't feel a spark on the date sadly. But never say never. I'm still open to dating.

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By *eroLondonMan
40 weeks ago

Covent Garden

If you didn't know me any better, OP, you know that I love dating and woo'ing. It's my design for life!

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By *ral-pleaserMan
40 weeks ago

tredegar

For me id say something like arcade, can really see how someone acts playing a game or bowling and good way to communicate as well as childish fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

Alway do a social at a nice restaurant or pub , last one was in a nice spa near Lincoln

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

When I was late 20's, so 20 years ago now.

I don't drink, dance, smoke or date. Yes I am boring.

Thank you

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By *inxy777Woman
40 weeks ago

essex

Last date I went on over 7 years ago. . I’d love to go on one!

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

Never 🤷‍♀️

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By *MCMan
40 weeks ago

London/EA

3 weeks ago, an experience to forget to say the least 😬 on to the next!

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By *weetiepie99Woman
40 weeks ago

cardiff

I love 'dating'. I had a date about a week ago, went for a drink in Cardiff.

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By *exxyyDy11Man
40 weeks ago

North West


"Last date I went on over 7 years ago. . I’d love to go on one! "

Jeeezzz 7 years ago 😯😯

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By *ickeyandmouseCouple
40 weeks ago

nr Alicante

Out on a date ? Last night with my wife x

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By *ittle Miss Tinkerbell OP   Woman
40 weeks ago

your head


"September."

Me too. Seems like a million miles away now

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By *inxy777Woman
40 weeks ago

essex


"Last date I went on over 7 years ago. . I’d love to go on one!

Jeeezzz 7 years ago 😯😯"
haha!

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By *riel13Woman
40 weeks ago

Northampton

I have never been on one

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By *ittle Miss Tinkerbell OP   Woman
40 weeks ago

your head


"I've never been on a date ever"

Through choice or because the opportunity has never arisen?

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By *ittle Miss Tinkerbell OP   Woman
40 weeks ago

your head


"For me id say something like arcade, can really see how someone acts playing a game or bowling and good way to communicate as well as childish fun."

I love an arcade too. So much fun

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By *emorefridaCouple
40 weeks ago

La la land

Never done one I'll make an exception for you though OP

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By *parkle1974Woman
40 weeks ago

Leeds

As in date, date?

Nearly 4 years ago x

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By *hole Nuts n ChillCouple
40 weeks ago

B’stoke

21 October 1948 😆

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By *eliWoman
40 weeks ago

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October. It was okay, might repeat. Maybe.

Yes I do. I quite like dating. As in the act of going on dates and dating a person.

I don't have a set date. I do really want to have a festive date. With mandatory knitwear of some kind.

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By *estSussexGuy76Man
40 weeks ago

copthorne

I love dating! There is something exciting about getting to know someone and then going on that date.

Last date few weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

Dating is terrifying, I'd rather stay in my single bubble. But if I had too, something fun for the first date.. keep it light, don't wanna be forced to talk over dinner for hours!

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
40 weeks ago

Glasgow / London


"What is a go to date for you?"

That’s a tough one. I’d have to say April 25th. Because it’s not too hot, not too cold, all you need is a light jacket.

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By *ittle Miss Tinkerbell OP   Woman
40 weeks ago

your head


"What is a go to date for you?

That’s a tough one. I’d have to say April 25th. Because it’s not too hot, not too cold, all you need is a light jacket."

Only you

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
40 weeks ago

Glasgow / London


"Only you "

What?

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
40 weeks ago

Gloucestershire

I want to go on a date.

Escape room - good way to find out if you’ll argue or not

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By *inxy777Woman
40 weeks ago

essex


"I want to go on a date.

Escape room - good way to find out if you’ll argue or not "
oh I’d be too scared to!! .

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
40 weeks ago

Gloucestershire


"I want to go on a date.

Escape room - good way to find out if you’ll argue or not oh I’d be too scared to!! . "

That makes it all the more exciting

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

I’ve never been on a date

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By *luebell888Woman
40 weeks ago

Glasgowish

Not been on a date since I was 23.

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

I wonder what we define as date..

Likely never been on a traditional invitation to a dinner by a stranger kind of date.

If going out to an activity with a friend who is male.. then Saturday.

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By *arialoueWoman
40 weeks ago

Doncaster

18 yrs ago

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By *rincipessaWoman
40 weeks ago

your wildest dreams,

Don’t think I’ve ever been on a date since I was a teenager

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By *issMBWoman
40 weeks ago

North

I haven't been on a date. Not what you'd think of as a traditional "date" anyway. But I'd like to, maybe.

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

Hubby and I have regular date nights, albeit our expectations vary ...

I expect wining and dining.

He thinks the middle aisle at Lidl counts (which he gets very excited about bless him)

However. He is mistaken.

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

Something I don't understand..

When people are stating that they have never been on a date. what does that mean exactly?..

Is it that you slowly got to know someone who was nearby to you and they became your long term partner without specifically asking them to out on a date?

I haven't been on a date for years. (Doesn’t really interest me)

There was a point about 10 years ago though where I was a serial dater..went on loads in a short space of time.

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

I've never been on a "date" per say honestly, in the traditional form.

I've had meet ups though

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By *ife NinjaMan
40 weeks ago

Dunfermline

Three years ago. It was awful. I was out of practice and she was looking for something better 🤷‍♂️

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By *elix SightedMan
40 weeks ago

Cloud 8

February. Nice woman and it lasted a couple of months but didn’t work out.

Will start the old merry go round in the new year.

Hate the process be it can be exhausting and somewhat frustrating, but I love meeting someone I really like and finding out they like me too.

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By *zeroMan
40 weeks ago

Glasgow

About 2 years ago. Lovely woman but we just didn't click in the way we hoped.

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago


"Something I don't understand..

When people are stating that they have never been on a date. what does that mean exactly?..

Is it that you slowly got to know someone who was nearby to you and they became your long term partner without specifically asking them to out on a date?

I haven't been on a date for years. (Doesn’t really interest me)

There was a point about 10 years ago though where I was a serial dater..went on loads in a short space of time.

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In my case, my first two LTR's were with people I had been friends with already for a few years. My last LTR was with someone I met on fab. I never intentionally sought any of those relationships. I've never actively looked for a partner and been on dates with potential suitors.

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

A proper date that I've not had to organise all myself - pre kid(s) days 🙃

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago


"Something I don't understand..

When people are stating that they have never been on a date. what does that mean exactly?..

Is it that you slowly got to know someone who was nearby to you and they became your long term partner without specifically asking them to out on a date?

I haven't been on a date for years. (Doesn’t really interest me)

There was a point about 10 years ago though where I was a serial dater..went on loads in a short space of time.

In my case, my first two LTR's were with people I had been friends with already for a few years. My last LTR was with someone I met on fab. I never intentionally sought any of those relationships. I've never actively looked for a partner and been on dates with potential suitors."

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By *IXEN200Woman
40 weeks ago

newcastle upon tyne


"I've never been on a date ever

Through choice or because the opportunity has never arisen? "

The opportunity has never arisen

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By *ittle Miss Tinkerbell OP   Woman
40 weeks ago

your head


"Never done one I'll make an exception for you though OP "

Let's go

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By *ellinever70Woman
40 weeks ago

Ayrshire

Isn't a date just spending some time with someone doing something?

Like the cinema, dinner, a walk, a gig?

Don't you people ever do anything with people you also have sex with?

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By *o_yeur_eyes_onlyMan
40 weeks ago

Londontown

Had a great date 3 weeks ago..... Invited the lovely lady over, cooked a simple but yummy dinner, some Bailey's and G&T's later we were dancing, kissing, and exploring.....

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

A proper date - earlier this year via Bumble. The lady in question was lovely.

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By *tevieboyyyMan
40 weeks ago

Waterlooville

Married, I have dates with my wife, and I have mate-dates and holidays with a few lovely (platonic) female friends; they pay their own way.

Last mate-date was a week ago, 10am till 11pm, lots of coffee, a few towns and some lush food!

Normally have mate-dates a couple of times a month, and about 3 or 4 long weekends in the summer for holidays.

Wifey likes to be at home - getting her out next month for a long weekend near Coventry.

For me, mates are more important than FWB, though FWB still sought.

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By *ittle Miss Tinkerbell OP   Woman
40 weeks ago

your head

Ive realised everyone's definition of a date is probably different. To me there's lots of different types, I go on dates with my friends, people I want to get to know, current partners etc. The question was for whatever you class as a date.

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago


"Ive realised everyone's definition of a date is probably different. To me there's lots of different types, I go on dates with my friends, people I want to get to know, current partners etc. The question was for whatever you class as a date. "

Oh, well in that case, on Saturday with a friend.

Before that, 3 weeks ago with my fwb.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
40 weeks ago

North West

Is sitting naked in a hotel room, eating curry, watching footy and talking about all sorts of nonsense, included as "date"? If so, the answer is July.

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By *ittle Miss Tinkerbell OP   Woman
40 weeks ago

your head


"Is sitting naked in a hotel room, eating curry, watching footy and talking about all sorts of nonsense, included as "date"? If so, the answer is July. "

It could be 😂 Was it fun?

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
40 weeks ago

North West


"Is sitting naked in a hotel room, eating curry, watching footy and talking about all sorts of nonsense, included as "date"? If so, the answer is July.

It could be 😂 Was it fun? "

Oh yes. Much fun. And later, fun

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
40 weeks ago

North West

Also in early August, we went to a posh cinema, sat on a double sofa and watched Deadpool (romantic) then spent the rest of the afternoon reclined Roman-esque, nibbling nibbles and eating cake. And kissing.

Also fun.

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By *tevieboyyyMan
40 weeks ago

Waterlooville


"Ive realised everyone's definition of a date is probably different. To me there's lots of different types, I go on dates with my friends, people I want to get to know, current partners etc. The question was for whatever you class as a date. "

A date ... is to strengthen a relationship with no expectation of anything physical or emotional.

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By *emorefridaCouple
40 weeks ago

La la land


"Ive realised everyone's definition of a date is probably different. To me there's lots of different types, I go on dates with my friends, people I want to get to know, current partners etc. The question was for whatever you class as a date. "

Good point, I tend to catch up with my mates. And I go out with the other half, guess it depends on word usage. To me dating is when you're establishing a relationship.

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By *ueen_MeadhbhWoman
40 weeks ago

sligo

1998

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

Last date was three weeks ago unfortunately i didn’t feel a sexual attraction towards him …. I’m up for going on more dates you never know i may find the one

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By *r MzchiefMan
40 weeks ago

Vhesterfield, Derbyshire

With someone other than my wife about 4 months ago and a fabulous time I had with a lovely lady.

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By *eordie.Woman
40 weeks ago

The Sticks


"I've never been on a date ever"

Me neither

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By *sWyldWoman
40 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I went on a match. Com date last weekend. It was drinks. He ghosted me

I'm going on a Tinder date tomorrow night. We shall see if it goes any better.

I've never really liked the dating game but it's a necessary evil sadly.

Keep it simple for a first date. Drinks or coffee.

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By *host63Man
40 weeks ago

Bedfont Feltham

So far back can't remember.

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By *ife NinjaMan
40 weeks ago

Dunfermline


"I went on a match. Com date last weekend. It was drinks. He ghosted me

I'm going on a Tinder date tomorrow night. We shall see if it goes any better.

I've never really liked the dating game but it's a necessary evil sadly.

Keep it simple for a first date. Drinks or coffee.

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These apps are all bollocks. I tried the purple one. I actually got two 'meets' from that, but they both ghosted afterwards. It's not just men.

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By *ust want fun 888Man
40 weeks ago

nearby

An actual date? Many years ago

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By *elix SightedMan
40 weeks ago

Cloud 8


"Last date was three weeks ago unfortunately i didn’t feel a sexual attraction towards him …. I’m up for going on more dates you never know i may find the one "

**Checks a globe to see how close this place ‘Wales’ is**

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By *exySiren01Woman
40 weeks ago

RCT

An actual date....I've never been on one

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
40 weeks ago

Chichester

Feck probably a few years ago now. Tbh women just don’t seem to be interested in dating trans women I find , good enough for a fuck experience though it seems

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

A while back.

Like to take a girl out on the bike for a ride in the dales.

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

Meet Rei at a sauna 5 weeks ago really clicked and going on are 1st date this Saturday hotel, pub, pizza and hotel again planing our uk road trips and pride dates for next year to

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

Fairly recent. I enjoy dating sometimes. Other times it’s a stressful headache

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By *ngrylookingpenis123Woman
40 weeks ago

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Years ago, I haven't got the time or mental energy for dating anymore.

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

Probably 4/5 years ago. I met a guy on tinder and we went out on quite a few dates but generally I’m not open to date so avoid them

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By *issolvedOrdersMan
40 weeks ago

Bristol

June! Says it all really

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By *olden RatioWoman
40 weeks ago

Buckinghamshire

2019, put me right off! 🤣

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

Saturday!! On Tina’s birthday… was the best date ever

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By *sWyldWoman
40 weeks ago

Edinburgh

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By *sWyldWoman
40 weeks ago

Edinburgh

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By *sWyldWoman
40 weeks ago

Edinburgh


"I went on a match. Com date last weekend. It was drinks. He ghosted me

I'm going on a Tinder date tomorrow night. We shall see if it goes any better.

I've never really liked the dating game but it's a necessary evil sadly.

Keep it simple for a first date. Drinks or coffee.

These apps are all bollocks. I tried the purple one. I actually got two 'meets' from that, but they both ghosted afterwards. It's not just men. "

While I agree it's not great, there is always hope. I'm very much embracing my dating era. I didn't do it in my 20s.

Also I wouldn't rule out dating someone I met here either. Although I'm not looking for a swinging relationship.

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By *yn888Couple
40 weeks ago

Kidderminster

We try to date at least once a week, we go for walks or drinks. It's important to go and do things together. The best part is looking at her enjoying herself or catching her eye during conversation and seeing that smile and then that look of.. can we go home now.. well unless we find a quiet spot.

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
40 weeks ago

London

Probably last millennium.

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By *rHotNottsMan
40 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I love going on dates , bag of chips & a park bench , a weekend in Paris & everything in between ! I’m going on a date tonorrow to see Smile2 , back row

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By *artfordBlokeMan
40 weeks ago

Dartford

2001, God knows how it all works these days

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

Probably about 20 years ago.

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By *sWyldWoman
40 weeks ago

Edinburgh


"I love going on dates , bag of chips & a park bench , a weekend in Paris & everything in between ! I’m going on a date tonorrow to see Smile2 , back row "

Sign me up for date weekend on Paris. My favourite place in the world. Tired of going there solo

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By *rgasmicChemistryCouple
40 weeks ago

east coast

God knows we havnt had anytime to ourselves for years lol our date night is H layed in the bath reading her book and me sat in the bathroom with her lol sad but it works for us lol x J

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By *leaningdutiesMan
40 weeks ago

South London

Date night tomorrow, it has been a while since our last

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By *ulieScrumptiousWoman
40 weeks ago

North West

Saturday. Sharing a bottle of wine, flirting and watching the world go by outside one of our favourite bars. 😍

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

I love dating!

Dinner, drinks, shows, movies, bowling, ice-skating, arcades, crazy golf, go-karts, theme parks, trips to the beach, pottery/art classes, dance classes, bike rides, walks with a picnic, zip-lining... don't you dare just invite me for a coffee and call it a "date".

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

Ummm.. October 2016 with the Ex-wife before we split.

Been turned down ever since (not by her as I never asked her lol)

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By *r Mind CandyMan
40 weeks ago

Cheshire

I went on a date 2 weeks ago.

We went to a pink Floyd, dark side of the moon 50th anniversary concert, which was amazing.

We had so much fun and definitely got us both very much in the mood for connecting on a deeper, more intimate level back in the playroom

I do love a good date! 😁

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

Been a hot minute would rather go on a date then tinder get more of a connection then

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By *rHotNottsMan
40 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"I love going on dates , bag of chips & a park bench , a weekend in Paris & everything in between ! I’m going on a date tonorrow to see Smile2 , back row

Sign me up for date weekend on Paris. My favourite place in the world. Tired of going there solo "

Deal

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
40 weeks ago

Gloucestershire

This could easily turn into a 'Fancy a date' thread

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
40 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania

1990

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By *ddie1966Man
40 weeks ago

Paper Town Central, Essex.


"Last date I went on over 7 years ago. . I’d love to go on one! "

Minxy, I'll take you for an afternoon tea or coffee any time.

X

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago


"This could easily turn into a 'Fancy a date' thread "

Where we going?

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By *avrick180Man
40 weeks ago

Pontypool

Can't remember it's been that long

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
40 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

I’d like a date tonight. Anyone in London feeling the same?

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By *ocothumpaMan
40 weeks ago

Herts

Kinda, Friday

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By *ruceyyMan
40 weeks ago

London

Literally on Sunday!

Love a date, never feel nervous with them, just rock up and see if we connect with vibes. Sometimes you do, sometimes you don't, and it doesn't matter how hot they are if there isn't that chemistry for me.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
40 weeks ago

Gloucestershire


"This could easily turn into a 'Fancy a date' thread

Where we going?"

A quaint little 'tea' room

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago


"This could easily turn into a 'Fancy a date' thread

Where we going?

A quaint little 'tea' room "

Make mine a specialist tea then....latte 😘

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By *ags73Man
40 weeks ago

glasgow-ish


"Do you like dating? What is a go to date for you?

"

Possibly it was a date when I first met someone I went out with four years ago?

I don’t think I had dates from the online dating before fab.

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
40 weeks ago

wonderland.

Before Mr. I'd never really been on dates...and all the years I was single I tried to avoid it. Had one or two kinda ones in the past.. but nothing proper really.

We go on a date every week.... we have breakfast, lunch or dinner.... depending on his shifts... its lovely x

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

If dates are what you are into, I recommend trying a speed dating event.

They avoid all the time spent on an app playing message ping pong. And you'll interact with loads of people in a short space of time.

It was a while back when I went to one, but it was interesting- & surprisingly fun.

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By *reachersdaughterWoman
40 weeks ago

Someplace

Last week

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By *ik NaksCouple
40 weeks ago

Wigan

Me and mr nik go on date night/day at least once a month so our last date was 2weeks ago when he took me to bingo 🤣🤣 xx

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By *tevieboyyyMan
40 weeks ago

Waterlooville


"If dates are what you are into, I recommend trying a speed dating event.

They avoid all the time spent on an app playing message ping pong. And you'll interact with loads of people in a short space of time.

It was a while back when I went to one, but it was interesting- & surprisingly fun."

Went to a speed dating event a festival in the summer. Was fun, went to the 'friends' section and met some amazing people. There were over 10,000 people at the festival so never saw them again which was fine!

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By *riar BelisseWoman
40 weeks ago

Holibobs

We date most weekends

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

A date!?? Fucking hell. I'm still trying. Fab really isn't the place for that but I never even match in the stupid swipey apps. I get it. Old and past it. pffft.

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By *eroLondonMan
40 weeks ago

Covent Garden


"If dates are what you are into, I recommend trying a speed dating event."

Love should never be rushed. ❤️


"They avoid all the time spent on an app playing message ping pong."

But...but...I enjoy long and sustained messaging! I'm a slow burn.


"And you'll interact with loads of people in a short space of time."

I much prefer quality over quantity, young Sirrah. 🌈

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By *ags73Man
40 weeks ago

glasgow-ish


"If dates are what you are into, I recommend trying a speed dating event.

They avoid all the time spent on an app playing message ping pong. And you'll interact with loads of people in a short space of time.

It was a while back when I went to one, but it was interesting- & surprisingly fun."

I want to do speed dating but the paper bags on head version

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By *reat me rightWoman
40 weeks ago

Rotherham

Sometime in 2017

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
40 weeks ago

Bradford and Stockport

Would love to date any of the ladies who could fancy me. I have been trying out several of the dating apps recently, a very few responses that don't seem to be going anywhere, one lady that I've seen once (no, there wasn't any shagging, if you must know).

Happy to travel, further if we've spoken before. DM me?

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By *tew008Man
40 weeks ago

edinburgh

2005 I think

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago


"If dates are what you are into, I recommend trying a speed dating event.

Love should never be rushed. ❤️

They avoid all the time spent on an app playing message ping pong.

But...but...I enjoy long and sustained messaging! I'm a slow burn.

And you'll interact with loads of people in a short space of time.

I much prefer quality over quantity, young Sirrah. 🌈"

You're like the yoda of dating

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By *ung nine inchMan
40 weeks ago

leeds

Yesterday mmf

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago


"Feck probably a few years ago now. Tbh women just don’t seem to be interested in dating trans women I find , good enough for a fuck experience though it seems "

I’ve dated/been in a relationship with a trans lady before

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
40 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

I think I've just agreed to go on a date with a lovely forumite in a few weeks.

Best I behave myself. A four hour window and a couple of glasses of wine in a beautiful city. Well well well.

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By *heTattooedDomMan
40 weeks ago

Winnersh

Last night. Tuesday nights are date night for my partner and I.

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By *JandCMCouple
40 weeks ago

cardiff

Last went on a date around 34 years ago.

Been with the wife for 33 years but she was never a date, just a one night stand n still hasn't left yet.

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By *fricanspiceCouple
40 weeks ago

luton / Bulgaria

Every day is a date day for us .

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By *ools and the brainCouple
40 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.


"Last went on a date around 34 years ago.

Been with the wife for 33 years but she was never a date, just a one night stand n still hasn't left yet."

Yeah same really probably 38 year's ago.

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By *exyScientistsCouple
40 weeks ago

Castlebar

1997 both of us together. One and only date 🥰

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

Friday was my last date which was fun, will be going out on a date with her again on Saturday

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By *heSofaDestroyersCouple
40 weeks ago

HereAndThere

We try do do at least one date night every month,

Dinner and noir market booked for November

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By *io--Man
40 weeks ago

Near Blackpool

Never

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

Yesterday

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

Saturday

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By *hagTonightMan
19 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.

I went on a facebook date today. I met her in a group I am on there, yes. I like dating, we went for a nice walk, we will see each other again too

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago

Long time ago

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By *estructionDollyWoman
19 weeks ago

The Deep Dark Woods

A 'proper' date just over a week ago. It went so well we haven't spoken since I've given up on dating again

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By *bitofaslutWoman
19 weeks ago

Cannock

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By *bitofaslutWoman
19 weeks ago

Cannock

I've never been on a date.

I just kinda fell into my relationships and after 33 years I don't want to date for a while.

Wouldn't say no to cake & coffee with some good conversation, walk on the beach at dusk. Not holding my breath though lol

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By *ynamicnatureMan
19 weeks ago

Doncaster

Last Thursday, it was awesome,

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By *ulieScrumptiousWoman
19 weeks ago

North West


"Saturday. Sharing a bottle of wine, flirting and watching the world go by outside one of our favourite bars. 😍"

This was a lovely date! ❤️

My most recent date was rope class on Friday evening. 🪢❤️🪢

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By *l69Woman
19 weeks ago

London

Ages ago prob over a year now

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By *issilia AmoriWoman
19 weeks ago

St Albans/ North Welsh Borders

Last week, was lunch and a lovely walk along the canal with cake and coffee on the way back

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
19 weeks ago

North West


"Saturday. Sharing a bottle of wine, flirting and watching the world go by outside one of our favourite bars. 😍

This was a lovely date! ❤️

My most recent date was rope class on Friday evening. 🪢❤️🪢"

Oooooooooo where do you Rope? Feel free to PM etc. if you'd like. I want to try a rope class one day.

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By *urvyLady4BlackMenWoman
19 weeks ago

Norwich

Such a long time ago and I love dating.

I'm scared to go back onto the apps though.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
19 weeks ago

little house on the praire

Quite awhile ago now

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By *ooleyMan
19 weeks ago

preston

A few weeks ago. It was nice, saw each other a few times after. Then it fizzled out and we decided the spark wasn't there.

We're probably still going to end up fucking again, so we'll see what happens!

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By *0CC72Man
19 weeks ago

Preston

When was Tony Blair PM?

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By *lubchuckerMan
19 weeks ago

Oxfordshire

Last date i went on was 2018, not been on one since then.

I don't think i'm dating material

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
19 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania

1990

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By *mileyculturebelfastMan
19 weeks ago

belfast

Never actually been on one.

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By *elloWoman
19 weeks ago

alpha centauri

I went on a date sometime around 2002 , I remember it was with a guy I had met in a nightclub the weekend before, we went to a spoons, I got rather tipsy and when my mum pulled up to give me a lift home she find me pushing the guy against a shop front snogging his face off.

We saw each other for a few months but always at his place, I just remember always being naked and ordering pizza.

I think that was probably the only outside date I've been on ever.

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By *elloWoman
19 weeks ago

alpha centauri


"I went on a facebook date today. I met her in a group I am on there, yes. I like dating, we went for a nice walk, we will see each other again too "

Lovely, glad you had a good date

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By *hagTonightMan
19 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.


"I went on a facebook date today. I met her in a group I am on there, yes. I like dating, we went for a nice walk, we will see each other again too

Lovely, glad you had a good date "
Hi _ello, thanks, yes, it was fun too

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By *sWyldWoman
19 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I love dates and even when I meet people from here ,I want that date vibe . The chat, the flirtation, the kisses and the being left a horny wet mess.

Which is more than can be said for my last actual date 🤣😂

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By *ngrylookingpenis123Woman
19 weeks ago

.

Maybe 8 years ago maybe longer, I struggle to remember. I hate dating.

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago

1984

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
19 weeks ago

Leeds

Saturday, with my wife.

The mr

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago

Last year…food and drinks in Manchester prior to me realising that I’m not made to just enjoy vanilla ice cream. I like all flavours

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago

Last week. It was lovely

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
19 weeks ago

The bottom of the River Ankh

Errr ... Last year sometime... It turned into an absolute disaster 🤣

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago


"Errr ... Last year sometime... It turned into an absolute disaster 🤣"

Oh dear that’s not good

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By *adbod11Man
19 weeks ago

wantage

Had loads over the years with previous partners. Not looking to do it again.

For guys it is a big investment in time and money with diminishing returns.

It would have to be someone very special to make me want to date again.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
19 weeks ago

The bottom of the River Ankh


"Errr ... Last year sometime... It turned into an absolute disaster 🤣

Oh dear that’s not good "

No it wasnt he got pissed , insulted my husband then got tearful when I had a go at him forit.. Not to mention the barrage of shit he sent me on telegram after I'd got rid of him because I wasn't replying...

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago


"Errr ... Last year sometime... It turned into an absolute disaster 🤣

Oh dear that’s not good

No it wasnt he got pissed , insulted my husband then got tearful when I had a go at him forit.. Not to mention the barrage of shit he sent me on telegram after I'd got rid of him because I wasn't replying..."

WTAF sounds like you’re better off not replying. Totally rude unnecessary behaviour

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
19 weeks ago

The bottom of the River Ankh


"Errr ... Last year sometime... It turned into an absolute disaster 🤣

Oh dear that’s not good

No it wasnt he got pissed , insulted my husband then got tearful when I had a go at him forit.. Not to mention the barrage of shit he sent me on telegram after I'd got rid of him because I wasn't replying...

WTAF sounds like you’re better off not replying. Totally rude unnecessary behaviour "

I told him to fuck off and subsequently blocked him.... I seem to be a fuckwit magnet 🤣🤣🤣

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By *lternative lifestyleCouple
19 weeks ago

Louth

Yesterday we have date nights all the time, nice meal, a drink then home to have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago


"Errr ... Last year sometime... It turned into an absolute disaster 🤣

Oh dear that’s not good

No it wasnt he got pissed , insulted my husband then got tearful when I had a go at him forit.. Not to mention the barrage of shit he sent me on telegram after I'd got rid of him because I wasn't replying...

WTAF sounds like you’re better off not replying. Totally rude unnecessary behaviour

I told him to fuck off and subsequently blocked him.... I seem to be a fuckwit magnet 🤣🤣🤣"

Oh it’s fine I joined that club years ago I’m an honorary member

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
19 weeks ago

The bottom of the River Ankh


"Errr ... Last year sometime... It turned into an absolute disaster 🤣

Oh dear that’s not good

No it wasnt he got pissed , insulted my husband then got tearful when I had a go at him forit.. Not to mention the barrage of shit he sent me on telegram after I'd got rid of him because I wasn't replying...

WTAF sounds like you’re better off not replying. Totally rude unnecessary behaviour

I told him to fuck off and subsequently blocked him.... I seem to be a fuckwit magnet 🤣🤣🤣

Oh it’s fine I joined that club years ago I’m an honorary member "

🤣

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By *elloWoman
19 weeks ago

alpha centauri


"

For guys it is a big investment in time and money with diminishing returns.

."

do you have any idea how much having your nails and hair done cost, and the cost of makeup, hair removal and perfume , a nice outfit and what sort a woman is letting the guy pay for the entire date! It costs a bloody fortune to get dolled up even before the date starts.

And time! It would take me minimum 2 days to get date ready

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago


"

For guys it is a big investment in time and money with diminishing returns.

.

do you have any idea how much having your nails and hair done cost, and the cost of makeup, hair removal and perfume , a nice outfit and what sort a woman is letting the guy pay for the entire date! It costs a bloody fortune to get dolled up even before the date starts.

And time! It would take me minimum 2 days to get date ready"

Aannnnddddd breath 😂😂

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By *ouble-SidedCouple
19 weeks ago

Voldsøy

26th Feb 🫶 It was the first I've been on in years! We had a nice meal. It was lovely, but the music was too loud to chat properly. Zoo date next week, I'm so excited! 🥰

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
19 weeks ago

Reading

Nearly wrote ‘December’ but when I checked my calendar it was actually 12 February 🤦‍♀️

Earlier comment about a zoo date has made me happy this morning 🥰

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By *a LunaWoman
19 weeks ago

o o OO o o

Years ago. The last vanilla date I went on was awful and put me off to be honest.

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By *eoBloomsMan
19 weeks ago

Springfield

February 14th ❤️

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago


"Years ago. The last vanilla date I went on was awful and put me off to be honest.

"

I echo this one 100%

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By *ellinever70Woman
19 weeks ago

Ayrshire


"

For guys it is a big investment in time and money with diminishing returns."

Spoken like a guy who's tried too hard and expected too much

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