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First time in a club

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
42 weeks ago

I'm thinking of going to a club in Leeds for the very very first time, over the weekend, been having the gitters. Any suggestions on what to expect, I will be going as a single man.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
42 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Go with zero expectations of play.

Don't follow people around.

Just chat and be 'normal'.

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By *icky KlungespeareMan
42 weeks ago

St Leonards

What Tina sed.

If you try "too" much on your first visit, it can play on your mind after the event and put you off going again.

Clubs largely exist because humans want to meet other humans they might want to have some sort of sexual activity with at some point.

Soak it up the first time, if anyone takes a shine to you that's a bonus, but use it mostly as a "first day at school" experience.

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By *eardedman7Man
42 weeks ago

Berkshire

In the same boat, not sure whether to go with someone

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By *erry bull1Man
42 weeks ago

doncaster

Don’t go with the expectations of jumping on every lady in there ,

Be polite and respectful and they will find you

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

I go to Pandora in Leeds, don't be nervous, everyone's so lovely

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By *ife NinjaMan
42 weeks ago

Dunfermline

Quest is smaller and has a really friendly atmosphere

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By *he MinionMan
42 weeks ago

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Just remember to bring a snorkel and behind those front doors and reception desk, everyone is naked having sex with anyone and everyone. All day long. Constantly....

Get that idea out of your head and think of it more as a friendly pub where you may see some naked people and even some people having sex and you'll be fine. Chat to people. They are there to meet people too. Chat to both people when chatting to couples not just the lady. Yes she may well look incredible and you cant take your eyes off her but tell the chap how lucky he is and it may help your case.

No expectations means no disappointmemt. Enjoy it, everyone went for their first time at some point.

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