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By *enegadeM OP   Man
14 weeks ago

Oxfordshire

Hello there and welcome to my ramblings

I was just curious if couples / single ladies actually search profiles to find if they have a match ? Or are you so inundated with messages that you’re kept busy searching that way instead?

Does that make sense ?

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By *iss KinkWoman
14 weeks ago

North West

Sometimes I do

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By *arialoueWoman
14 weeks ago

bradford

I don't browns profile un less I get a message ,but even that's few n far between

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
14 weeks ago

Leeds

I don't search on here or my singles profile.

I prefer to meet at socials.

Mrs

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By *JcuriousCouple
14 weeks ago

Derby

I've read it three times but not sure I understand

Miss S x

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By *iss DevilWoman
14 weeks ago

Bedford

That's how I found my partner, almost 6 years ago.

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By *aizyWoman
14 weeks ago

west midlands

Bit of both really, I am just getting back into meeting after a long break, I will be having a look for myself and seeing who msgs me, I'm in no rush tho.

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By *ornycougaWoman
14 weeks ago

Wherever I lay my hat

The only time I have ever searched was when I was abroad - more out of curiosity than actively hunting.

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By *ulieScrumptiousWoman
14 weeks ago

North West

I will look at the profiles of those going to socials and club events that I'm going to and maybe reach out. Searching would be my preferred way if I had more spare time though.

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By *ad NannaWoman
14 weeks ago

East London

I do search now and then.

I haven't found a profile I'd message yet.

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By *IXEN200Woman
14 weeks ago

newcastle upon tyne

I have a little browse but not often, I tend to look at people who message or wink at me

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By *enegadeM OP   Man
14 weeks ago

Oxfordshire

It seems not very many actively search …. Message admin seems to fill all the time up?

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By *inxy777Woman
14 weeks ago

essex

I just look if I get a message, oh and maybe see someone on the forums x.

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
14 weeks ago

Wherever

Yes OP, it does make sense.

I don’t look at messages as I prefer to search if there’s something I particularly look for.

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By *vaRose43Woman
14 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

I sometimes pop on the see who’s near if I’m visiting a new place. Not really to meet but just to be nosey.

Generally I don’t search though

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By *enegadeM OP   Man
14 weeks ago

Oxfordshire


"I just look if I get a message, oh and maybe see someone on the forums x. "

Do you find many lurking in the forums

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By *_hot_hornyCouple
14 weeks ago

Birmingham

We actively search/browse through profiles and the forum, and will interact with profiles that we like to see if it's mutual.

Think a lot of guys on here probably get tired of sending messages to an already full inbox and getting nowhere/left on read.

Seems only fair that we do a bit of the work to find what we're looking for instead of relying on serendipity or providence!

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By *enegadeM OP   Man
14 weeks ago

Oxfordshire


"Yes OP, it does make sense.

I don’t look at messages as I prefer to search if there’s something I particularly look for."

Ooo something particular… which box is this ?

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By *inxy777Woman
14 weeks ago

essex


"I just look if I get a message, oh and maybe see someone on the forums x.

Do you find many lurking in the forums "

oh a few! x

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By *enegadeM OP   Man
14 weeks ago

Oxfordshire


"I sometimes pop on the see who’s near if I’m visiting a new place. Not really to meet but just to be nosey.

Generally I don’t search though "

I like the near me …. But 9/10 they’re just browsing while working haha

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By *enegadeM OP   Man
14 weeks ago

Oxfordshire


"We actively search/browse through profiles and the forum, and will interact with profiles that we like to see if it's mutual.

Think a lot of guys on here probably get tired of sending messages to an already full inbox and getting nowhere/left on read.

Seems only fair that we do a bit of the work to find what we're looking for instead of relying on serendipity or providence! "

That seems like a very fair way to do business and also nail on the head with the ‘already full mailbox’

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By *enegadeM OP   Man
14 weeks ago

Oxfordshire


"I just look if I get a message, oh and maybe see someone on the forums x.

Do you find many lurking in the forums oh a few! x"

Sneaker types haha

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By *ongJohnSilva2.0Man
14 weeks ago

Right up your street


"We actively search/browse through profiles and the forum, and will interact with profiles that we like to see if it's mutual.

Think a lot of guys on here probably get tired of sending messages to an already full inbox and getting nowhere/left on read.

Seems only fair that we do a bit of the work to find what we're looking for instead of relying on serendipity or providence! "

Yes 100%, we read profiles, write out a profile relevant & well thought out message, and it gets left on unread 😂

I do understand though that women/couples get bombarded with messages so it’s easy for them to get lost in the post

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By *inxy777Woman
14 weeks ago

essex


"I just look if I get a message, oh and maybe see someone on the forums x.

Do you find many lurking in the forums oh a few! x

Sneaker types haha "

lol no, some really nice fellas! X

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
14 weeks ago

Essex

I have filters set to maximum. I’ll look for what I want, when I want.

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By *enegadeM OP   Man
14 weeks ago

Oxfordshire


"I just look if I get a message, oh and maybe see someone on the forums x.

Do you find many lurking in the forums oh a few! x

Sneaker types haha lol no, some really nice fellas! X "

Do you like a nice guy

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By *inxy777Woman
14 weeks ago

essex


"I just look if I get a message, oh and maybe see someone on the forums x.

Do you find many lurking in the forums oh a few! x

Sneaker types haha lol no, some really nice fellas! X

Do you like a nice guy "

yes, as long as respectful x

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
14 weeks ago

Sheffield

Yes course. I prefer to look at who’s attending any events these days though.

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By *enegadeM OP   Man
14 weeks ago

Oxfordshire


"I just look if I get a message, oh and maybe see someone on the forums x.

Do you find many lurking in the forums oh a few! x

Sneaker types haha lol no, some really nice fellas! X

Do you like a nice guy yes, as long as respectful x "

It’s all about respect

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By *eyond PurityCouple
14 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

We go on the hunt as 99% of the messages we receive aren’t compatible or too far.

We only look at profiles where the first pic is intriguing - if it’s a cock pic, blank, action shot we already know we do FAB differently and we aren’t going to be compatible.

K

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By *enegadeM OP   Man
14 weeks ago

Oxfordshire


"Yes course. I prefer to look at who’s attending any events these days though. "

Do you have a favourite event?

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By *enegadeM OP   Man
14 weeks ago

Oxfordshire


"We go on the hunt as 99% of the messages we receive aren’t compatible or too far.

We only look at profiles where the first pic is intriguing - if it’s a cock pic, blank, action shot we already know we do FAB differently and we aren’t going to be compatible.

K"

Ooo what makes for an ‘intriguing’ photo?

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By *tew008Man
14 weeks ago

edinburgh

lassie once winked at me by accident so I think they do

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By *aybeLadyWoman
14 weeks ago

West Dublin

I dont have to as I get so many messages.

But I do browse and send a wink if a guy catches my eye.

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By *lderflower_AppleWoman
14 weeks ago

Basingstoke

I don't often search, but if I get a wink or a fab I might peruse the profile and occasionally send a message if there's something in the profile that has piqued my interest.

I'm generally content just chatting in the forums and with those people I'm already engaged with and don't feel the need to seek out anyone else most of the time.

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By *enegadeM OP   Man
14 weeks ago

Oxfordshire


"I don't often search, but if I get a wink or a fab I might peruse the profile and occasionally send a message if there's something in the profile that has piqued my interest.

I'm generally content just chatting in the forums and with those people I'm already engaged with and don't feel the need to seek out anyone else most of the time."

I may of fabbed a few

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By (user no longer on site)
14 weeks ago

I search when I want to meet someone.

If I can't be arsed to reply I put filters on. I don't get inundated though, I must try harder with the boobage on display.

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By *ffervescentMan
14 weeks ago

winfrith


"I don't browns profile un less I get a message ,but even that's few n far between "
I brown in the sun .

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By *oralltherightreasonsCouple
14 weeks ago

WELLINGBOROUGH


"Hello there and welcome to my ramblings

I was just curious if couples / single ladies actually search profiles to find if they have a match ? Or are you so inundated with messages that you’re kept busy searching that way instead?

Does that make sense ? "

Wife will sometimes have a look, but yeah the singles messages come flooding in, we do try seek out genuine couples though, webcams good for that.

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