FabSwingers.com forum: Couples meeting couples….

By *he Silver Fux OP Man
15 weeks ago

Uttoxeter

Because so few couple profiles have any pictures of the males in them (other than possibly one or two pictures of their cock, and let’s face it, it could be anybody’s cock, how can you tell?) how do you actually manage to connect with other couples? How do you judge attractiveness / compatibility if the guys are reluctant / too scared to show any pictures of themselves? Is it just the bi women that connect, get together and the guys just come along and reveal themselves at the last minute? Genuinely puzzled. It’s usually single male profiles that get a bashing on Fab but I think couples profiles are even worse…

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By *icecouple561Couple
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15 weeks ago

East Sussex

We just don't meet them. For whatever reason we're not going to be compatible.

The ones with no pictures of the guy are usually where he's not interested bin being involved as anything more than a voyeur. That's fine though, everyone does this swinging lark differently.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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15 weeks ago

East Sussex

Some couples do send photos of the guy with a first message though

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By *he Silver Fux OP Man
15 weeks ago

Uttoxeter

"Some couples do send photos of the guy with a first message though"

And then the recipients realise why the husband is reluctant to reveal anything on the public profile.. 👹

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By *ung nine inchMan
15 weeks ago

leeds

Hey I play with mrs as mf couple

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By *he Silver Fux OP Man
15 weeks ago

Uttoxeter

"Hey I play with mrs as mf couple "

Thanks for your input Danny. What’s your couple profile name?

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By *ynecplCouple
15 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Think the lack of male photos on couples profiles is because the profile is controlled by the male and they lack imagination. Also it reflects what the male is interested in eg his desire to look at the female form. We had to make a real effort include photos of Mr Tyne as he is normally the one taking the photos.

Our rules are simple if we don't see a photo of both of them we are not meeting. It doesn't have to be in public. Also the social meet solves the problem of establishing compatibility for us.

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By *bostCouple
15 weeks ago

glasgow

It’s a tough one. Most people are more interested in seeing the women. And let’s be honest, blokes very rarely photo well.

We do share photos of us both early in any chat though.

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By *andadbodMan
15 weeks ago

Liverpool

When the mrs and myself had our couples profile, we had equal amount of shots of both of us, we did notice though that a lot of couples just had female pics up, the mrs would request shots of the guy which would be sent in the message, not sure why some couple prefer the just have the female on display to be honest, unless it’s as already stated, the male is just a voyeor.

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By *urreyNotSoNewbiesCouple
15 weeks ago

Surrey

We find meeting couples at clubs or parties is easier, you can judge 4-way attraction better in person than by photos anyway.

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By *aomilatteCouple
15 weeks ago

Midlands

If there's no photos of the Man or they don't send any with a message we simply don't reply. We get winks and messages off couples and the Women look very attractive, however if there's no photos of the Man we don't respond.

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By *rindnbump V2Couple
15 weeks ago

Our little world of Kinky Fuckery in Durham

From our experience, the couple profiles who only show the female in their public gallery are usually those that are predominantly looking for girl on girl fun, with the guys watching and sometimes joining in, if everyone is happy.

With regards to compatibility, we wouldn't meet anyone without exchanging face pics and always have a social prior to agreeing to play.

We have had socials where the person / people look nothing like the pics they have sent.

It's the joys of the lifestyle, but you do on occasion find a diamond

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By *endalshaggersCouple
15 weeks ago

Lake District

We have pictures of both of us in public gallery - granted, more of me but it seems like most couples even if they meet other "couples" really want the female and accept the other guy comes along as collateral to a degree.

Don't understand profiles where it's meant to be two of you yet only one has pictures....

C xoxo

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By *eyond PurityCouple
15 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

We assume that as it’s only pics of one that it’s only them playing however that hasn’t been the case a lot of the time.

So we go to the next assumption that posting pics of the guy is going to harm their chances of meeting 😬

We don't bother with profiles when its all the woman and cock pics of guys - it never ends well.

We scroll by now so it’s a good filter.

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By *orl1971Couple
15 weeks ago

Glasgow

We have a few pics of Mr but more of Mrs. Is that acceptable?

We meet single guys and couples although we’re straight and most couples seem to be bi-fem. Pics of females always seem to get much more interest than male pics but you can see body pics of Mr so nothing is being hidden.

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By *onderWomanWlvWoman
15 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

And then the recipients realise why the husband is reluctant to reveal anything on the public profile.. 👹"

Hahaha, it's always this isn't it.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
15 weeks ago

Leeds

It's difficult & we've stopped trying to meet couples, I'm not into ann invisible man or just a cock.

I just assume if there's no pics it's because he's ugly.

Asking for pics is like pulling teeth 9 times out of 10 you'll be sent the same minging cock pic that's already on the profile.

Mrs

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By *icecouple561Couple
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15 weeks ago

East Sussex

"It’s a tough one. Most people are more interested in seeing the women. And let’s be honest, blokes very rarely photo well.

We do share photos of us both early in any chat though. "

I'm straight. I am interested in seeing the guy.

Men photograph well. There are loads of profiles with great photos of guys.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
15 weeks ago

Leeds

"It’s a tough one. Most people are more interested in seeing the women. And let’s be honest, blokes very rarely photo well.

We do share photos of us both early in any chat though. "

No, I wanna see the man that I'm expected to have sex with.

Mrs

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By *icecouple561Couple
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15 weeks ago

East Sussex

"It’s a tough one. Most people are more interested in seeing the women. And let’s be honest, blokes very rarely photo well.

We do share photos of us both early in any chat though.

No, I wanna see the man that I'm expected to have sex with.

Mrs "

Me too.

What do people think, that I'm just going to have sex with a guy because his wife's attractive to my husband? What does that say about their attitude towards me and the effort the guy is likely to put in?

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By *he Silver Fux OP Man
15 weeks ago

Uttoxeter

"Think the lack of male photos on couples profiles is because the profile is controlled by the male and they lack imagination. Also it reflects what the male is interested in eg his desire to look at the female form. We had to make a real effort include photos of Mr Tyne as he is normally the one taking the photos.

Our rules are simple if we don't see a photo of both of them we are not meeting. It doesn't have to be in public. Also the social meet solves the problem of establishing compatibility for us. "

Well done - you two have a 12% HtWR (Husband to Wife Ratio). That puts you in the 90th percentile for couple profile picture mix ratio

Obviously we understand why there are so many pictures of the Mrs 😍 but he’s a good looking guy too! Congrats!

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By *fricanspiceCouple
15 weeks ago

luton / Bulgaria

We always send picture of us both together to couples we are interested in and we feel genuine

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By *he Silver Fux OP Man
15 weeks ago

Uttoxeter

And then the recipients realise why the husband is reluctant to reveal anything on the public profile.. 👹

Hahaha, it's always this isn't it. "

Hot wives and less than average husbands is a definite lifestyle trope / cliché / truism.

It’s almost as if society has put enormous pressure on women to look after themselves but looks the other way when men let themselves go… 🤔

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By *lue morphoCouple
15 weeks ago

North West

Mixed it up, just for this thread 👀 x

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By *nityCouple
15 weeks ago

stowmarket

Joint accounts should have pics of both in our eyes, they don’t have to show what could be on offer later should a meet take place.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
15 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

It’s also not good when you ask for pics of the guy as it’s only the lady on the profile pics and if he sends them and they aren’t to our taste then having to say ‘you aren’t for us’ basically means, we fancy your partner but not you.

So straight away there’s that awkwardness 😬

I’d rather avoid that and have pics of both so we can decide if there’s interest or just move on.

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By *sWyldWoman
15 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Didn't you realise we are only ever supposed to fancy the women or be thankful 2 people fancy you..

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By *oralltherightreasonsCouple
15 weeks ago

WELLINGBOROUGH

Pictures of both of us

Still no couples interested

Probably that's reason why

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By *ea monkeyMan
15 weeks ago

Manchester (he/him)

And then the recipients realise why the husband is reluctant to reveal anything on the public profile.. 👹

Hahaha, it's always this isn't it.

Hot wives and less than average husbands is a definite lifestyle trope / cliché / truism.

It’s almost as if society has put enormous pressure on women to look after themselves but looks the other way when men let themselves go… 🤔

You really just went there…

Shots fired! 😂😂

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By *ulieScrumptiousWoman
15 weeks ago

North West

We have pictures of both of us on our couple's profile. And we try to keep it close to 50/50. I can understand if it's a hotwife or cuckold profile but if the guy is expecting to join in then he needs photos ffs.

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By *onderlust69Couple
15 weeks ago

Central belt

"Because so few couple profiles have any pictures of the males in them (other than possibly one or two pictures of their cock, and let’s face it, it could be anybody’s cock, how can you tell?) how do you actually manage to connect with other couples? How do you judge attractiveness / compatibility if the guys are reluctant / too scared to show any pictures of themselves? Is it just the bi women that connect, get together and the guys just come along and reveal themselves at the last minute? Genuinely puzzled. It’s usually single male profiles that get a bashing on Fab but I think couples profiles are even worse… "

Pics of both of us on our profile, we wouldn't meet for a social without seeing both on a couples profile

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

Our friends pics has us both and we always share our pictures. You’ve got to see the product you are buying (or not buying)

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By *J_OuizziCouple
15 weeks ago

Nottingham

We are both on our profile pictures and we expect the same of others.

Sure it's great to see some lovely pics of a hot lady, but if we can't see the hot fella too then it's likely a no from us.

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By *he Silver Fux OP Man
15 weeks ago

Uttoxeter

And then the recipients realise why the husband is reluctant to reveal anything on the public profile.. 👹

Hahaha, it's always this isn't it.

Hot wives and less than average husbands is a definite lifestyle trope / cliché / truism.

It’s almost as if society has put enormous pressure on women to look after themselves but looks the other way when men let themselves go… 🤔

You really just went there…

Shots fired! 😂😂"

Tea Monkey - as a single good looking guy you also capitalise on the 🧌 husband situation… 😉

You got to go there, bloody Lounge Forum

needs a kick up the arse - all those tedious “which do you prefer” posts can feck off

Fab disrupters, anarchy, 24 hour bans! 🥳

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By *issmorganWoman
15 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

I'm half a couple and it's so hard to meet other couples who are looking for the same and where theres attraction for all.

This is why my other half and I kept out single profiles (we met here).

It's been easier to meet other couples at socials and clubs to be honest. At least then you can see both people immediately and chat to see if you're looking for similar and attracted to them.

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By *orl1971Couple
15 weeks ago

Glasgow

It would be interesting to see how many husbands actually get to play in a couple situation.

You have meets with single guys where the single guy will only care what the woman looks like. Then you have meets between bi-fem couples where there is no full swap where the husband’s good looks aren’t an issue.

Sounds like most of those ugly husbands are a sympathy shag gone too far for those hot women who unfortunately married them

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By *ik NaksCouple
15 weeks ago

Wigan

Every couples meet that we’ve had has always been everyone involved otherwise it just doesn’t happen. We’ve never took one for the team and can’t speak for the other couples that we’ve met but we’ve always had hot and horny fun xx

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