FabSwingers.com forum: Honest opinion of our profile? Advice?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi all you fab people. We were just wondering if you guys have any tips how to make our profile any better help us meet this so called unicorn? X

Thanks in advance

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

You're twisting my horn.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have u been on here before as seen these pics

Also why didn't u leave feed back on the person u met

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The lady that saw us in town, was too scared to come say hi but recognised us for our pics and chats

You've seen these pics before? I certainly hope not lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The lady that saw us in town, was too scared to come say hi but recognised us for our pics and chats

You've seen these pics before? I certainly hope not lol

So it wasn't actually a meet in person then?

Pretty sure the idea of verifications is to confirm you've actually met someone - rather than 'possibly' recognised someone across the street and decided to give them a little green tick!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sniff sniff

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

She saw us in town. We didn't see her unfortunately. There is no ' possibly recognised' makes it sounds like your suggesting we're fakes or something. She said she saw us in an exact place at and exact time that we were there was too shy on her own to say hi. We are looking for a first meet so until that happens we will just have this one.

Gone on cam a few times and its ended up being a weird old man or something lol

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By *john121Man
over a year ago

staffs

"Hi all you fab people. We were just wondering if you guys have any tips how to make our profile any better help us meet this so called unicorn? X

Thanks in advance"

pretty much says it but ditch the warning,its a pointless exercise..

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By *icky1Man
over a year ago

Nuneaton

"Hi all you fab people. We were just wondering if you guys have any tips how to make our profile any better help us meet this so called unicorn? X

Thanks in advance"
its notthing wrrong with ur profile guys just keep trying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"She saw us in town. We didn't see her unfortunately. There is no ' possibly recognised' makes it sounds like your suggesting we're fakes or something. She said she saw us in an exact place at and exact time that we were there was too shy on her own to say hi. We are looking for a first meet so until that happens we will just have this one.

Gone on cam a few times and its ended up being a weird old man or something lol"

So not a 'meet in person' then? She saw you. You didn't see her - so you've never actually met?

Would explain why you haven't left her a verification - but if you read the rules - particularly the ones regarding confirming that you have actually met tyhe person being verified - you can see where people would be concerned!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would rather see more of your partner

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Hello O.P.

Stop answering the questions on your verification. It's no one's business but yours.

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

I don't think you will like my opinion...

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

So not a 'meet in person' then? She saw you. You didn't see her - so you've never actually met?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We've chatted load and we are going to meet, just want a single lady first, new to swinging you see.

Ah ok, get what you mean. So our profile looks like a fake one? We did the photo one. And we are looking t get our first meet. Lol.

Don't understand tho because for us to be fake with that verification.... That would mean the lady that verified us would have to be fake too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So not a 'meet in person' then? She saw you. You didn't see her - so you've never actually met?

Have to say we agree its alittle concerning about the veri , but apart from that we'd say loose the disclaimer as it means bugger all and just takes up space

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I like the photos, I like the 3 toothbrushes as it appears to me to be a simile for what you're looking for, although two toothbrushes appear to be doing something and one is on it's own alone and to one side. It would be better if one toothbrush was upside down and the other two 'heads' touching. A bit of toothpaste smeared on would look fun too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Okie dokie. Wel then if it has to be a meet in person then surely cam chats don't count either?

When you say see more of my partner I take it you mean T?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"I like the photos, I like the 3 toothbrushes as it appears to me to be a simile for what you're looking for, although two toothbrushes appear to be doing something and one is on it's own alone and to one side. It would be better if one toothbrush was upside down and the other two 'heads' touching. A bit of toothpaste smeared on would look fun too. "

I couldn't agree more Steve. One can always rely on you to get to the crux...... that's CRUX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We've chatted load and we are going to meet, just want a single lady first, new to swinging you see.

Ah ok, get what you mean. So our profile looks like a fake one? We did the photo one. And we are looking t get our first meet. Lol.

Don't understand tho because for us to be fake with that verification.... That would mean the lady that verified us would have to be fake too? "

Im sorry but its wrong to verify someone you havent met, we all talk to people in the chat rooms ect , but dont verify them, just my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We've chatted load and we are going to meet, just want a single lady first, new to swinging you see.

Ah ok, get what you mean. So our profile looks like a fake one? We did the photo one. And we are looking t get our first meet. Lol.

Don't understand tho because for us to be fake with that verification.... That would mean the lady that verified us would have to be fake too? "

Not really. Sadly there are lots of fake profiles verified by others - usually by webcam but some manage to persuade people to leave false veri's with offers of meets.

There was a profile with 3 pics in the top 4 most fabbed today that had done just that. Now suprisingly vanished!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Haha one toothbrush must have be filming

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I'd also lose the bit about not wanting to meet fakes. I've tried to meet several but they never turn up. Will fakes approach you? How will you tell if they are fake? Putting 'no fakes' doesn't really put fakes off, I imagine it encourage them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is why I don't do couples anymore no pics of the men and loads of the women

Come on couples show your men as I want to play with both of you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If that happens surely the people,leaving the verification would just delete them them?

How on earth does anyone get started on this site then lol

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"If that happens surely the people,leaving the verification would just delete them them?

How on earth does anyone get started on this site then lol"

Shag WAY below your average.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd also lose the bit about not wanting to meet fakes. I've tried to meet several but they never turn up. Will fakes approach you? How will you tell if they are fake? Putting 'no fakes' doesn't really put fakes off, I imagine it encourage them. "

Well maybe verifing someone you havent met for a starters lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If that happens surely the people,leaving the verification would just delete them them?

How on earth does anyone get started on this site then lol"

They meet!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This is why I don't do couples anymore no pics of the men and loads of the women

Come on couples show your men as I want to play with both of you

Ok thanks for that. Just thought that the women would want to see more of the female of the couple. Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If that happens surely the people,leaving the verification would just delete them them?

How on earth does anyone get started on this site then lol

Shag WAY below your average."

Oh granny

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

"If that happens surely the people,leaving the verification would just delete them them?

How on earth does anyone get started on this site then lol"

Who said we need verification to start????

I was here before, had a meet the next day after joining and it was brilliant...That was without any verification. The lady just took my number and rang me. Simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is why I don't do couples anymore no pics of the men and loads of the women

Come on couples show your men as I want to play with both of you

Ok thanks for that. Just thought that the women would want to see more of the female of the couple. Thank you

No we want to see both of you

Well I do anyway

Gorgeous pictures though very arty

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If that happens surely the people,leaving the verification would just delete them them?

How on earth does anyone get started on this site then lol

They meet!

That what we are trying to do lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slight niggle here with the 'curious couple' bit - it would kinda lead me to believe that you were both bi / curious as opposed to just 1 of you

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Well, I think there could be an equal number of pics of both just for equality purposes and nothing to do with me being bi and wanting to perv the guy even though he's straight.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If that happens surely the people,leaving the verification would just delete them them?

How on earth does anyone get started on this site then lol

Who said we need verification to start????

I was here before, had a meet the next day after joining and it was brilliant...That was without any verification. The lady just took my number and rang me. Simple"
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You got lucky then

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Slight niggle here with the 'curious couple' bit - it would kinda lead me to believe that you were both bi / curious as opposed to just 1 of you "

Ah rite thanks, never considered that. We ment it as curious to swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

haha the first picture looked identical to the bedroom in our old house so I had to look very hard at the photos (which is not easy with those mini ones).

It's not the worst task I've had to do today

Nice pics

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you

If you click on the pics do they not go big? We're on the iPad and it does it on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well they go bigger but apart from the first one they're still small (I'm on iPad too)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I think it mite be because we cropped them ?

You can zoom on your iPad

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I bet you get single men contacting you! You can block them though. Also, as you asked for honest opinions, it's 'discreet' if you mean keeping things quiet, 'discrete' means keeping things separate.

I quite like your profile. It's direct and to the point.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I bet you get single men contacting you! You can block them though. Also, as you asked for honest opinions, it's 'discreet' if you mean keeping things quiet, 'discrete' means keeping things separate.

I quite like your profile. It's direct and to the point. "

Yeh luckily that couple showed us how to do the message filter things

Oh no lol.... We mean discreet haha

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

Whilst I do not match your requirements, having had a look at your Profile, I have only one gripe.

That would be if I DID match you, I'd like to see pics of your other half. I often get suspicious of couples who only show the female half but NOT the male!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Whilst I do not match your requirements, having had a look at your Profile, I have only one gripe.

That would be if I DID match you, I'd like to see pics of your other half. I often get suspicious of couples who only show the female half but NOT the male! "

Thank you, we put some more up tonight

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Gone on cam a few times and its ended up being a weird old man or something lol

What you are describing is totally against site rules and once Admin see any reports that may have gone in from you saying this then the person who verifed you could be in strife very soon

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