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By *mbi-Sextrous OP Man
11 weeks ago

Eastbourne

Does sex generally get better with a partner the more times you've met them?

I find even when people are up front with likes, turn ons, and the sex can be great from the get go. I do find the peak sexual experience is once you've met a few times and really honed in on those little turns ons, dynamics or even just verbal phrases that create a seriously special moment

Does anyone else find their best sex was with "best friends with benefits"?

How long does it take before your partner knows not just what you like, but how to really lean into that niche vibe that creates some of the best sex you've ever had?

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
11 weeks ago

London

Not really for me, it's always been about natural chemistry

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By *heBelladonnaWoman
11 weeks ago

A dazzling place you never knew

Sometimes.

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By *enk15Man
11 weeks ago

Evesham

With those I’ve had sex with more than once, the first time was always the worst out of all the encounters.

That’s not to say the first time was bad, it just always got better (for me anyway, they may say different

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

I think it can be with some people. Personally, I find I can get in my own head a bit following that first meet where they don't know what to expect. It almost feels like extra pressure following that if that first meet is absolutely explosive which is such a stupid and backwards way to feel. But I do wish I could over me that.

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By *ex HolesMan
11 weeks ago

Up North

No. I dip it then run.

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By *eekySweetheartWoman
11 weeks ago

Hampshire

I'm not sure. For me on here meeting someone new is half the turn on... and whilst I don't lose interest after the though and act of meeting them again is never that exciting x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
11 weeks ago

East Sussex

I think it depends. Sometimes the atmosphere and erotic charge of circumstances contribute to the experience making rapport instant.

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