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By *enandjerry OP   Couple
12 weeks ago

Dumfries

[Removed by poster at 20/10/24 16:00:16]

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
12 weeks ago

East Sussex

I wouldn't risk my work life when there are so many other possibilities

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
12 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

I think if you’re not very careful you won’t be in a job and it’ll resolve itself.

This won’t end in a happy place. Back off and find your kicks elsewhere.

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By *haiababeWoman
12 weeks ago

North devon

Nope not at work. I stopped talki g to a guy online when i realsied we were both working seasonally at the same place.

I also declined to chat to a couple on here while we had kids in the same school

I do not s**t on my own doorstep.

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By *enandjerry OP   Couple
12 weeks ago

Dumfries

Reposted due to spelling error…..

Recently I (Ben) was at a work social event when I clicked with the new girl in the office, nothing happened except a bit of flirting and d*unken laughs but now she knows I like her and I know she wants a piece of me the flirting at work has gone in to overdrive!

Now the dilemma, do I mention that we are in the lifestyle or is it all to risky as obviously work is a world away from our play!

She knows I am taken but that ass drives me wild!!

Personally, I think it is too risky as I don’t want the office happily discussing my swinging life, what would you guys do?

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By *enandjerry OP   Couple
12 weeks ago

Dumfries

Thanks guys, this is exactly what I was thinking too but had to put it out there!

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
12 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon


"Thanks guys, this is exactly what I was thinking too but had to put it out there!"

A little advice with my work hat on..

Screenshot her messages and yours, save them in a file somewhere. If anything blows up you’ll want to be able to show it was all reciprocal. Be sure your screenshots include her number.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
12 weeks ago

East Sussex


"Thanks guys, this is exactly what I was thinking too but had to put it out there!

A little advice with my work hat on..

Screenshot her messages and yours, save them in a file somewhere. If anything blows up you’ll want to be able to show it was all reciprocal. Be sure your screenshots include her number.

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Sound advice.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
12 weeks ago

East Sussex

Op how old is the new woman?

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By *enandjerry OP   Couple
12 weeks ago

Dumfries


"Op how old is the new woman?"

She is 36

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By *enandjerry OP   Couple
12 weeks ago

Dumfries

Will be saving the messages ( but have been wise enough to keep everything PG rated and definitely never sent photos or anything)

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
12 weeks ago

East Sussex

Some women (and I'm not suggesting that applies here necessarily) find that flirting outrageously with a colleague is a safe outlet because if they overstep the mark it's easy to put a stop to it.

It also doesn't go unnoticed by coworkers and that's how rumours start.

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