FabSwingers.com forum: Are you intentional

By *ickleTheWonderSchlong OP Man
9 weeks ago

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When trying to find someone. Do you kinda just see if connection develops with someone? Do you look for someone specific and if people don’t fit that then you won’t entertain that? Do you look for a specific kind of relationship and not settle?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
9 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

I rarely try to find people as specifics.

I have half an interest in finding a suitable sadist and have a few feelers out for it, but I'm not particularly invested, and I'm finding myself more drawn to simply exploring different things with people I had a very different dynamic with previously.

I tend to find if you put too much expectation and specific goals onto so thing you corrupt the way it would have formed otherwise. Let things be. See what flows without pushing it in a certain direction.

The people I adore are all so very different to each other. I'm open to exploring whatever feels right with people who have that chemistry 💜

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By *icecouple561Couple
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9 weeks ago

East Sussex

I'm a drifter, always have been but I know when to cut and run

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
9 weeks ago

Maidstone

It would be far too much hard work to be too specific in what I'm looking for. I'm very much a see what develops kinda person. Open mind, open legs

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

It never seems to get across the line when i set out on a mission

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
9 weeks ago

Leeds

We don't try and find people generally, things happen when they happen, I'm not actively seeking anything.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
9 weeks ago

Reading

No very little intention here. I agree with Prey that sunshine the more you look the more elusive it becomes. But then I'm not looking fir a relationship. If I were I would be more intentional and my focus would be very narrow. It's easy to put up with things for a few hours not so easy 24/7.

I have a couple of fwbs who i adore but no way could I be in a relationship with them nor im sure they with me. I'm definitely easier to take in small doses.

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By *emorefridaCouple
9 weeks ago

La la land

Nope not at all whatsoever. I accidentally stumbled into the relationship I'm in now. I don't have a type so having a list of attributes doesn't work for me, I work on the vibes being around a person gives me. Which for me is not something I can I intentionally find.

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By *ceKweenWoman
9 weeks ago

Bolton

I’ve learnt face to face is always the best way in getting to know a person as you never know whom tickles your fancy and it’s always the people you wouldn’t expect. Messaging is ok for a bit but then dwindles.

Go with the flow

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
9 weeks ago

North West

I wasn't looking for Mr KC but here we are almost 21yrs later. Other recent connections have been somewhat "accidental", finding someone attractive on e-paper and then actually falling for their personality and whole self after meeting them for real.

We're/I'm not looking for anything specific. So I must be a drifter too.

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