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By *unnoisseur OP Man
4 weeks ago

Stratford

Has porn made you a better or worse lover?

Pro: I first learned how to increase the chances of making a woman squirt through porn (no great squirt debates please).

Con: As the visual quality and availability increased with tech, the harder it is to be fully aroused in the real world.

No longer is a glimpse of naked flesh or a touch enough to redirect the blood flow.

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By *avexxMan
4 weeks ago

cheshire

tbh its very rare i watch porn, its not good for the brain or your cock

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By *unnoisseur OP Man
4 weeks ago

Stratford

"tbh its very rare i watch porn, its not good for the brain or your cock"

Unfortunately there is some truth in your point.

I know I might get some flack for this but I've met a few women who could do with watching some.

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By *ittleLiasonsWoman
4 weeks ago

Birmingham

Porn is responsible for this horrible squirting obsession men have. The aggressive battering of the fanny is not attractive and doesn't feel good.. if someone is going to squirt, guys need to just let it happen naturally. It's made men worst lovers in my opinion.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
4 weeks ago

Leeds

Porn is fake and gives unrealistic expectations so much so many become unsatisfied with real life sex.

As for some women need to watch it, maybe some men need to watch it less and have some realistic expectations not expecting the fake shite.

Mrs

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By *avexxMan
4 weeks ago

cheshire

"Porn is fake and gives unrealistic expectations so much so many become unsatisfied with real life sex.

As for some women need to watch it, maybe some men need to watch it less and have some realistic expectations not expecting the fake shite.

Mrs "
... this

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By *adja_lazloCouple
4 weeks ago

Solihull

"Porn is responsible for this horrible squirting obsession men have. The aggressive battering of the fanny is not attractive and doesn't feel good.. if someone is going to squirt, guys need to just let it happen naturally. It's made men worst lovers in my opinion."

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By *illie HardiganMan
4 weeks ago

Newport/Cardiff

It’s made me a better plumber.

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By *onjoliveMan
4 weeks ago

bournemouth

Porn is a fantasy, it’s when people forget that you get the unrealistic expectations from real sex. Fucking for 30mins…hmmm…

We all know in real life if you get shot you’re not getting up…but in the movie the hero always manages to soldier on. Same with porn. It should be taken as what it is, entertainment.

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By *ornycougaWoman
4 weeks ago

NORWAY Wherever I lay my hat

I'm sure it has played a big part in the decline of foreplay. Too much is men getting their cock sucked then straight to fucking.

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By *ellinever70Woman
4 weeks ago

Ayrshire

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No longer is a glimpse of naked flesh or a touch enough to redirect the blood flow."

This sounds problematic

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By *eathrow pineappleCouple
4 weeks ago

West London

"It’s made me a better plumber."
the best answer so far!

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By *ussexcouple40Couple
4 weeks ago

Sussex

"Porn is responsible for this horrible squirting obsession men have. The aggressive battering of the fanny is not attractive and doesn't feel good.. if someone is going to squirt, guys need to just let it happen naturally. It's made men worst lovers in my opinion."

So much so I have to tell people that exact thing on my profile

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By *oinerbillMan
4 weeks ago

warrington

"I'm sure it has played a big part in the decline of foreplay. Too much is men getting their cock sucked then straight to fucking. "

And the problem is ??

(I am joking sorry )

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By *akedMMan
4 weeks ago

Witney

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By *ty31Man
4 weeks ago

NW London

Pros- porn has maybe made people more open minded towards certain sexual acts or kinks and has helped to break taboo around them.

There's also an argument that in some porn has helped with body image by showing a range of body types as attractive (BBW, trans, amateur etc).

Also, there are a number of female porn producers who create content which is aimed at women and shown from a female perspective. This is especially true with the rise of content platforms allowing more freedom from mainstream porn studios

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Cons- mainstream porn is too often produced from a purile male perspective reducing the woman to simply a sex object and can be blamed for a rise in unrealistic expectations sexually amongst (mainly) young men- too many kids view it a too young an age.

Also, the mainstream porn industry has a certain toxicity about it- performers are too often exploited (financially and physically) plus there's a disproportionate number of porn stars who tragically take their own lives or end up in addiction. I don't think the industry as a whole has a suitable after-care system or takes enough accountablity for well being.

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
4 weeks ago

My boudoir - S Wales

Porn hasn’t made me any kind of lover. I’ve done that all by myself because I’m clever.

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By *ir Toot of the frostMan
4 weeks ago

Burton-on-Trent

"Porn hasn’t made me any kind of lover. I’ve done that all by myself because I’m clever.

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Dam you almost could of made a song out of that line

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By *ppicplCouple
4 weeks ago

Glasgow

Exactly- watching that aggressive finger-bang squirt porn is basically like watching a woman contracting a UTI in real time. I feel there’s only a tiny percentage of women who want sex as per standard porn, and sadly a lot of women who feel they have to pretend they enjoy getting vigorously deep throated and straight into doggy

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
4 weeks ago

your head

Neither. I watch very little of it and also understand it's all staged. I take my cues from the people I'm with at the time rather than actors on a screen.

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By *allipygousMan
4 weeks ago

Leicester

From my observations during group/gangbang situations most men have no clue how to properly pleasure a woman but this is exacerbated by the woman not saying what they like or don't like. It's easier to just let him get on with it and, unfortunately, go along his merry way thinking what a great lover he is.

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
4 weeks ago

Essex

Porn hasn’t had any effect on my sexual “skills” - that’s been practice, communication, experimentation and confidence.

Porn may have opened my eyes to new ideas/scenarios/fantasies - none of which would be possible without practice, communication, experimentation and confidence… and the compassion, care and assurance of men who have **not** done their learning from porn.

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