FabSwingers.com forum: First time attending a club

By *ona Diamond OP Woman
13 weeks ago

Blackburn

What should I expect? What do I wear? What's on tonight?

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By *moothdickMan
13 weeks ago

stoke

Don’t expect anything… u might get followed around by the aingle men elephant chain, depending if they allow single guys in…

Has for dress, wear something that ain’t to revealing, classy but sexy…. Take a naughty outfit with u, so u can change once you’ve sussed the atmosphere and feeling good …

I’d be yr chaperone to a club, anytime

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By *ona Diamond OP Woman
13 weeks ago

Blackburn

Thanks _moothdick. Wanting to go to one tonight. Just have no idea what to expect. X

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By *moothdickMan
13 weeks ago

stoke

"Thanks _moothdick. Wanting to go to one tonight. Just have no idea what to expect. X"

You’ll be fine …. U can always leave if u don’t feel comfortable but if that happens don’t give up…

But really hope u have a good time, fun and meet some nice ppl x

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By *heBelladonnaWoman
13 weeks ago

A dazzling place you never knew

Wear whatever you wish that adheres to the club’s rules.

Expect people to be just like people anywhere— some are for you, others may not be, some are pessimistic, some aren’t, etc. Be yourself. Chat. If you’re not keen to do anything, don’t. If you are, do. Sex is not a guarantee. Have an open mind. It’s basically a normal club but people will eventually be naked and fucking.

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By *octordigitsMan
13 weeks ago

nearby

"Thanks _moothdick. Wanting to go to one tonight. Just have no idea what to expect. X"

Have you selected the club yet ?

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By *moothdickMan
13 weeks ago

stoke

"Wear whatever you wish that adheres to the club’s rules.

Great advice

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By *r Mind CandyMan
13 weeks ago

Cheshire

"Thanks _moothdick. Wanting to go to one tonight. Just have no idea what to expect. X"

Expect to be followed round by a group of men furiously wanking!

Other than that, you will be welcomed by some of the most amazing lovely people you could ever wish to meet. Go and have fun OP 💋

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By *ona Diamond OP Woman
13 weeks ago

Blackburn

Possibly blackpool?

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By *octordigitsMan
13 weeks ago

nearby

Never been to the blackpool ones …. I m sure you ll have a blast

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By *uywithaSmileMan
13 weeks ago

Rossendale

If anyone annoys you, gives you a hard time or just won't take no for an answer or leave you alone just speak to any member of staff.

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By *cottish guy 555Man
13 weeks ago

London

Club play is good. Tell them it's your first time.

Have a great time whichever you choose.

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
13 weeks ago

Stockport

The big difference between swinging clubs and anywhere else you've been, is that if you fancy anyone, man or woman, you can just outright ask them. Instead of all the circumlocution of ordinary conversations. If the answer is yes you can continue with a perfectly open discussion of details then go get on with it straight away, or decide that they aren't really going to be up for what you want. Either way you can approach other people, with no hurt feelings on either side, no wasting time. And no means no, nobody is going to touch you without explicit permission (though you might attract a few wanking dead who follow at a distance).

Wear whatever you feel good in, whatever you feel sexy wearing. It might be a leather catsuit and heels, or as little as a smile and a dab of perfume behind the ears...

Top tip - I print up a few "Polly Chromatic" cards on my home computer before going, just an ordinary business card type thing but with my fab profile name, to give out to fresh acquaintances. It's too easy to meet someone nice but mishear or forget their name, and neither of you know how to get in contact again! If I don't get a message from them, at least I know that it's because they didn't fancy me, rather than forever wondering whether I lost a potential friend just because they couldn't recall whether I was "Polly" or "Poppy"...

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