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"If a man 'doesn't mind' a sex act with another man , I fail to see how he is straight ????? I mean ......... I'm vegan but I don't mind eating this cow ???" ,,, correct | |||
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"If a man 'doesn't mind' a sex act with another man , I fail to see how he is straight ????? I mean ......... I'm vegan but I don't mind eating this cow ???" I get it. It’s very much in the “you don’t look at the mantelpiece when you’re poking the fire” territory. I am not attracted to men. I am not turned on or aroused by men, men’s bodies etc. But a man sucking my cock? Yeah, that can be very enjoyable. Does that make me gay or bi? I don’t know, and more importantly, I don’t care. It is a meaningless label to me, so is of no consequence | |||
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"If a man 'doesn't mind' a sex act with another man , I fail to see how he is straight ????? I mean ......... I'm vegan but I don't mind eating this cow ???" I get your point and this is not about the op’s question, but I know people who are vegetarian but the odd time 2/3 times a year would have meat. I wouldn’t really not call them vegetarians. Like, if have a drag off a smoke are you suddenly a smoker? I would say no. | |||
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"If a man 'doesn't mind' a sex act with another man , I fail to see how he is straight ????? I mean ......... I'm vegan but I don't mind eating this cow ???" 😂😂😂 this made me laugh | |||
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"If a man 'doesn't mind' a sex act with another man , I fail to see how he is straight ????? I mean ......... I'm vegan but I don't mind eating this cow ??? I get your point and this is not about the op’s question, but I know people who are vegetarian but the odd time 2/3 times a year would have meat. I wouldn’t really not call them vegetarians. Like, if have a drag off a smoke are you suddenly a smoker? I would say no. " If my cat turned into a dog once or twice a year... I'd have some questions  | |||
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"If a man 'doesn't mind' a sex act with another man , I fail to see how he is straight ????? I mean ......... I'm vegan but I don't mind eating this cow ??? I get your point and this is not about the op’s question, but I know people who are vegetarian but the odd time 2/3 times a year would have meat. I wouldn’t really not call them vegetarians. Like, if have a drag off a smoke are you suddenly a smoker? I would say no. If my cat turned into a dog once or twice a year... I'd have some questions "If your cat turned into a dog twice a year you'd probably have more money than question | |||
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"If a man 'doesn't mind' a sex act with another man , I fail to see how he is straight ????? I mean ......... I'm vegan but I don't mind eating this cow ???" Is it a male or female cow? | |||
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"If a man 'doesn't mind' a sex act with another man , I fail to see how he is straight ????? I mean ......... I'm vegan but I don't mind eating this cow ??? I get your point and this is not about the op’s question, but I know people who are vegetarian but the odd time 2/3 times a year would have meat. I wouldn’t really not call them vegetarians. Like, if have a drag off a smoke are you suddenly a smoker? I would say no. " ************* If you had a drag off a smoke life insurance would 100% say you were! | |||
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"If a man 'doesn't mind' a sex act with another man , I fail to see how he is straight ????? I mean ......... I'm vegan but I don't mind eating this cow ???" Very simple. The guy predominantly, and out of preference, happily leads a straight life and therefore defines himself as such. Obvious to me, but clearly some people struggle with accepting the obvious. | |||
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"If a man 'doesn't mind' a sex act with another man , I fail to see how he is straight ????? I mean ......... I'm vegan but I don't mind eating this cow ??? I get it. It’s very much in the “you don’t look at the mantelpiece when you’re poking the fire” territory. I am not attracted to men. I am not turned on or aroused by men, men’s bodies etc. But a man sucking my cock? Yeah, that can be very enjoyable. Does that make me gay or bi? I don’t know, and more importantly, I don’t care. It is a meaningless label to me, so is of no consequence " People make such a big thing of this I’m with you if it feels good why not and no never seen a bloke and thought you’re hot just fun … | |||
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"Hypothetical: You consider yourself a straight guy but are OK with an MMF. At one point, your dared to be blindfolded and sucked off BUT you won't ever know who did the sucking. Would you then consider yourself not straight for taking part?" Sounds like the safest option if they didn’t want to experience bi-sex. | |||
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"If a man 'doesn't mind' a sex act with another man , I fail to see how he is straight ????? I mean ......... I'm vegan but I don't mind eating this cow ???" But what if the Cow "identifies" as a Vegan? | |||
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"If a man 'doesn't mind' a sex act with another man , I fail to see how he is straight ????? I mean ......... I'm vegan but I don't mind eating this cow ??? I get your point and this is not about the op’s question, but I know people who are vegetarian but the odd time 2/3 times a year would have meat. I wouldn’t really not call them vegetarians. Like, if have a drag off a smoke are you suddenly a smoker? I would say no. If my cat turned into a dog once or twice a year... I'd have some questions "Careful now, you’re walking the letter line here | |||
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"Sexy woman: "Hey, would you like to eat my pussy?" Jimmy Somerville: "I'm GAY as a tarantella so yes". ...Doesn't happen." Is that one of those fuck off big spiders? | |||
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"All power to your elbow " Is that where I'm going wrong? I thought is was all about the wrist action🤣 | |||
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"All power to your elbow Is that where I'm going wrong? I thought is was all about the wrist action🤣" Depends on the size, with Big Harold it's a workout for the shoulders. | |||
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"All power to your elbow Is that where I'm going wrong? I thought is was all about the wrist action🤣 Depends on the size, with Big Harold it's a workout for the shoulders. " 🤣🤣 | |||
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"As long as they're good at sucking I don't care. Man or woman.... Oh and they have to do cum in mouth or face. Wont accept cum dodgers" Cum dodgers that's brilliant | |||
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"Ive been sucking a guy in a carpark ( yeah the height of romanticism ) and as soon as his friends came out of the bar I was a dirty fag etc, etc. The thing about gay/bi/trans people we are tough as fuck! I like to be dominated but when the guy recoiled like I was the source of evil in their lives and they tried to attack me, I fucked them up! Heck I like a cock in my arse consensually! Not when a bunch of hetro-repressives wanna get their abuse on! ( please note I couldnt post this in its original form because of wordblocker listings on the site" So you got to suck cock and then fuck a bunch of blokes up. Sounds like you had a good night!! Lots of fun adventure and excitement. I would've loved to see you dressed up kicking the sht out of some blokes. It would be so entertaining. As for being offended I don't get offended but have no interests in male connectivity. | |||
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"Hypothetical: You consider yourself a straight guy but are OK with an MMF. At one point, your dared to be blindfolded and sucked off BUT you won't ever know who did the sucking. Would you then consider yourself not straight for taking part?" Why does it matter? | |||
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"Straight guys that don't mind a BJ from a guy. this is an easy one,a straight guy would not have a BJ from another guy because that isnt a straight thing to do,IF he says he is straight but has the BJ from a guy then he is a liar "Quite a simplistic view. As I said above, I am not turned on by guys in any way, I don’t fancy then. But if someone sucks my cock, it feels good, and that person is male, you feel that I am definitely gay or bi? Firstly there is a little bit more to it than that. Secondly, why do labels matter to so much that you get angry and call people “liars”? Labels don’t matter. | |||
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"Straight guys that don't mind a BJ from a guy. this is an easy one,a straight guy would not have a BJ from another guy because that isnt a straight thing to do,IF he says he is straight but has the BJ from a guy then he is a liar
Quite a simplistic view.
As I said above, I am not turned on by guys in any way, I don’t fancy then.
But if someone sucks my cock, it feels good, and that person is male, you feel that I am definitely gay or bi?
Firstly there is a little bit more to it than that. Secondly, why do labels matter to so much that you get angry and call people “liars”?
Labels don’t matter. "Is liar another label for someone who doesn’t want to admit that they are untruthful? | |||
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"Jesus wept, the OP didn’t come here for multiple lectures on the definition of straight/gay, he just wants to suck a closeted cock! " Fair, but I feel the continued comments is helping him by keeping the topic on page one. I can’t imagine a straight man would comment in the thread accepting the offer. But probably PM’d | |||
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"Jesus wept, the OP didn’t come here for multiple lectures on the definition of straight/gay, he just wants to suck a closeted cock! Fair, but I feel the continued comments is helping him by keeping the topic on page one. I can’t imagine a straight man would comment in the thread accepting the offer. But probably PM’d " Well let’s keep it on page 1. I really hope the OP finds the willy of his dreams | |||
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"Jesus wept, the OP didn’t come here for multiple lectures on the definition of straight/gay, he just wants to suck a closeted cock! " The most sensible comment on this post! The guy want to suck cock - though don't know why he specified a straight guy? There have been loads of other threads on this forum about why so many men hid their nature or can't admit to being open to a same sex encounter, that wasn't the question! I wouldn't mind a cock to suck | |||
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"Jesus wept, the OP didn’t come here for multiple lectures on the definition of straight/gay, he just wants to suck a closeted cock! Fair, but I feel the continued comments is helping him by keeping the topic on page one. I can’t imagine a straight man would comment in the thread accepting the offer. But probably PM’d Well let’s keep it on page 1. I really hope the OP finds the willy of his dreams "Free Willy | |||
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"“I’m a pacifist but I’ll punch your fucking lights out.”" Having been punched by a self proclaimed pacifist I tend not to believe it particularly when people label themselves as anything. Sometimes they doth protest too much. The proof is in the pudding, whatever that means. I have known that I was bisexual long before I told I’d anything about it physically and still most of the time I’m not attracted to men and don’t even think about it, but sometimes a cock is fun to play with or it’s fun to let another man play with it. I only label myself as bi to save others from confusion. I’m not confused about it at all. | |||
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"If you are a straight guy local to me that doesn't mind a BJ from a guy, please let me know. I do ask straight guys, but always worried about causing offence." I would just ask anyway. If they don’t want to, they won’t. If they do, they do. I think the use of labels on here for straight guys can be viewed quite flexibly by some and isn’t always entirely as accurate as most might imagine. | |||
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"As long as they're good at sucking I don't care. Man or woman.... Oh and they have to do cum in mouth or face. Wont accept cum dodgers" I always swallow cum, it would be rude not too, then I lick the guys cock dry for good measure. I regularly receive great comments from guys while telling me I am a very good cock sucker. I think many are surprised by my technique. I believe in making love to the dick! | |||
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"Sexy woman: "Hey, would you like to eat my pussy?" Jimmy Somerville: "I'm GAY as a tarantella so yes". ...Doesn't happen. Is that one of those fuck off big spiders? " No, it was in that dean martin song 'amore' i think it's a spanish dance.. | |||
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"Before bj straight, after bisexual simple, you can’t be a virgin twice!" Again, simplistic logic. Bisexual people (in definition terms), find people of more than one gender physically attractive. I don’t find men physically attractive, and have zero interest in having a romantic relationship with a man. But I have been sucked more than once by men. I still don’t find them attractive, but have had some nice blowjobs. I don’t really care what definition you want to use for me, I know I don’t find men attractive. It’s a grey area, with no real need for rigid definition. | |||
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"So I'm straight after all? Who knew." Yes you are | |||
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"Before bj straight, after bisexual simple, you can’t be a virgin twice! Again, simplistic logic. Bisexual people (in definition terms), find people of more than one gender physically attractive. I don’t find men physically attractive, and have zero interest in having a romantic relationship with a man. But I have been sucked more than once by men. I still don’t find them attractive, but have had some nice blowjobs. I don’t really care what definition you want to use for me, I know I don’t find men attractive. It’s a grey area, with no real need for rigid definition. " It all depends on a persons' definition of the words: gay, bi, straight... But (to me at least, (and I think it was the original idea)); bi-SEXUAL means someone who involves themselves 'sexually' in both men and women. | |||
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"Before bj straight, after bisexual simple, you can’t be a virgin twice! Again, simplistic logic. Bisexual people (in definition terms), find people of more than one gender physically attractive. I don’t find men physically attractive, and have zero interest in having a romantic relationship with a man. But I have been sucked more than once by men. I still don’t find them attractive, but have had some nice blowjobs. I don’t really care what definition you want to use for me, I know I don’t find men attractive. It’s a grey area, with no real need for rigid definition. It all depends on a persons' definition of the words: gay, bi, straight... But (to me at least, (and I think it was the original idea)); bi-SEXUAL means someone who involves themselves 'sexually' in both men and women." Of course it does. If people are going to use labels the definitions of gay straight and bi are pretty clear. 🤷♀️ | |||
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"Before bj straight, after bisexual simple, you can’t be a virgin twice! Again, simplistic logic. Bisexual people (in definition terms), find people of more than one gender physically attractive. I don’t find men physically attractive, and have zero interest in having a romantic relationship with a man. But I have been sucked more than once by men. I still don’t find them attractive, but have had some nice blowjobs. I don’t really care what definition you want to use for me, I know I don’t find men attractive. It’s a grey area, with no real need for rigid definition. It all depends on a persons' definition of the words: gay, bi, straight... But (to me at least, (and I think it was the original idea)); bi-SEXUAL means someone who involves themselves 'sexually' in both men and women." That’s not the definition though. The definition clearly specifies attraction. | |||
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"Straight guys that don't mind a BJ from a guy. this is an easy one,a straight guy would not have a BJ from another guy because that isnt a straight thing to do,IF he says he is straight but has the BJ from a guy then he is a liar
Quite a simplistic view.
As I said above, I am not turned on by guys in any way, I don’t fancy then.
But if someone sucks my cock, it feels good, and that person is male, you feel that I am definitely gay or bi?
Firstly there is a little bit more to it than that. Secondly, why do labels matter to so much that you get angry and call people “liars”?
Labels don’t matter. "labels do matter,they help you define who you are and what you are after and my opinion of difference does not make me angry,it means my head is screwed on the right way.if we are looking for a man with 1 leg called geoff and pete with three legs pops up and says he identifies as geoff is that ok? no it isnt | |||
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"Straight guys that don't mind a BJ from a guy. this is an easy one,a straight guy would not have a BJ from another guy because that isnt a straight thing to do,IF he says he is straight but has the BJ from a guy then he is a liar
Quite a simplistic view.
As I said above, I am not turned on by guys in any way, I don’t fancy then.
But if someone sucks my cock, it feels good, and that person is male, you feel that I am definitely gay or bi?
Firstly there is a little bit more to it than that. Secondly, why do labels matter to so much that you get angry and call people “liars”?
Labels don’t matter.
labels do matter,they help you define who you are and what you are after and my opinion of difference does not make me angry,it means my head is screwed on the right way.if we are looking for a man with 1 leg called geoff and pete with three legs pops up and says he identifies as geoff is that ok? no it isnt"Reminds me of the joke ‘what do you call a woman with one leg?’ Answer: Eileen | |||
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"Straight guys that don't mind a BJ from a guy. this is an easy one,a straight guy would not have a BJ from another guy because that isnt a straight thing to do,IF he says he is straight but has the BJ from a guy then he is a liar
Quite a simplistic view.
As I said above, I am not turned on by guys in any way, I don’t fancy then.
But if someone sucks my cock, it feels good, and that person is male, you feel that I am definitely gay or bi?
Firstly there is a little bit more to it than that. Secondly, why do labels matter to so much that you get angry and call people “liars”?
Labels don’t matter.
labels do matter,they help you define who you are and what you are after and my opinion of difference does not make me angry,it means my head is screwed on the right way.if we are looking for a man with 1 leg called geoff and pete with three legs pops up and says he identifies as geoff is that ok? no it isnt
Reminds me of the joke ‘what do you call a woman with one leg?’
Answer: Eileen"well I think it is a wind up,ya cant say 1 thing but be the other secretly.we smoke but can we say we are non smokers to meet people who only meet non smokers?no because that would be a lie on our behalf which is wrong to do | |||
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If the logic that’s being touted by a lot of people were true then most people would be on the scale towards bi/gay
Why does it matter? Isn’t it possible to fancy a person regardless of their gender because you are d*unk/high/horny?
Didn’t we all do things when we were young that we wouldn’t do now & didn’t define us?
Suck a dick… Eat a pussy… treat people with kindness & respect , don’t put limits on your behaviour that you believe reflect some societal norm that doesn’t mean ANYTHING
We’re living in an age where technology has allowed us the opportunity to experience things that our forebears had to struggle to achieve
As long as you’re not harming anyone be yourself & don’t think that if you kiss another man you’re going to turn into a frog … | |||
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"Before bj straight, after bisexual simple, you can’t be a virgin twice! Again, simplistic logic. Bisexual people (in definition terms), find people of more than one gender physically attractive. I don’t find men physically attractive, and have zero interest in having a romantic relationship with a man. But I have been sucked more than once by men. I still don’t find them attractive, but have had some nice blowjobs. I don’t really care what definition you want to use for me, I know I don’t find men attractive. It’s a grey area, with no real need for rigid definition. It all depends on a persons' definition of the words: gay, bi, straight... But (to me at least, (and I think it was the original idea)); bi-SEXUAL means someone who involves themselves 'sexually' in both men and women. That’s not the definition though. The definition clearly specifies attraction. " Where? | |||
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" .. ... .... Labels don’t matter. labels do matter,they help you define who you are and what you are after and my opinion of difference does not make me angry,it means my head is screwed on the right way.if we are looking for a man with 1 leg called geoff and pete with three legs pops up and says he identifies as geoff is that ok? no it isnt Reminds me of the joke ‘what do you call a woman with one leg?’ Answer: Eileen" . I thought Eileen was what you call women with come on them! | |||
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"If a man 'doesn't mind' a sex act with another man , I fail to see how he is straight ????? I mean ......... I'm vegan but I don't mind eating this cow ???" I think he means Fab straight | |||
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"This is a website where a crosdressing man can make his wife wear a synthetic penis around her waist, get her to rail his ringpiece into the sunset, and people will still call him straight. Labels on here are meaningless." Then why are you labelled TV/TS Betty ? | |||
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"I don’t get why people are so keen to label others. Makes no sense to me. " Yours says 'man' | |||
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"Before bj straight, after bisexual simple, you can’t be a virgin twice! Again, simplistic logic. Bisexual people (in definition terms), find people of more than one gender physically attractive. I don’t find men physically attractive, and have zero interest in having a romantic relationship with a man. But I have been sucked more than once by men. I still don’t find them attractive, but have had some nice blowjobs. I don’t really care what definition you want to use for me, I know I don’t find men attractive. It’s a grey area, with no real need for rigid definition. It all depends on a persons' definition of the words: gay, bi, straight... But (to me at least, (and I think it was the original idea)); bi-SEXUAL means someone who involves themselves 'sexually' in both men and women. That’s not the definition though. The definition clearly specifies attraction. " You not attracted to the cock in your mouth when you a savouring all it’s meaty delights? | |||
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"If a man 'doesn't mind' a sex act with another man , I fail to see how he is straight ????? I mean ......... I'm vegan but I don't mind eating this cow ??? But what if the Cow "identifies" as a Vegan? " m8 ....... all cows are vegan. They eat grass. Cept the vampire ones and they struggle with lift off to be fair ..... | |||
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"All the mental gymnastics people go through to avoid being bi. We all wear labels, wear them with pride "This, be what you are. The only reason they lie is to deceive people who don’t want to meet them. | |||
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"All the mental gymnastics people go through to avoid being bi. We all wear labels, wear them with pride "Possibly, but there's a lot of people trying to convince straight folks they are really secretly bi but just don't know it yet. | |||
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"All the mental gymnastics people go through to avoid being bi. We all wear labels, wear them with pride
Possibly, but there's a lot of people trying to convince straight folks they are really secretly bi but just don't know it yet. "Judging by my inbox plenty of guys know it. But I find it frustrating this whole thing about pressuring straight guys that they are latently bi. I enjoy the company of straight guys. I don’t even think of them sexually. It’s not difficult to respect who people are and what they are. | |||
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"Straight guys that don't mind a BJ from a guy. this is an easy one,a straight guy would not have a BJ from another guy because that isnt a straight thing to do,IF he says he is straight but has the BJ from a guy then he is a liar
Quite a simplistic view.
As I said above, I am not turned on by guys in any way, I don’t fancy then.
But if someone sucks my cock, it feels good, and that person is male, you feel that I am definitely gay or bi?
Firstly there is a little bit more to it than that. Secondly, why do labels matter to so much that you get angry and call people “liars”?
Labels don’t matter.
labels do matter,they help you define who you are and what you are after and my opinion of difference does not make me angry,it means my head is screwed on the right way.if we are looking for a man with 1 leg called geoff and pete with three legs pops up and says he identifies as geoff is that ok? no it isnt"Nah, labels don’t define me. If you think they labels define you, that’s fine. I have no idea if the relevance of Geoff / Pete and their 1 / 3 legs, that got a bit messy and confusing | |||
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"The question that always fascinates me is a lot of guys are happy partner up with bisexual woman but I’ve noticed straight women aren’t so accommodating if a guy is bisexual. I do think you’d have to be attracted to a man to get the erection to get a BJ? Or am I am being all caveman?" No, I don’t have to find a bloke attractive to enjoy a blowjob. Having said that, I don’t have to find a woman attractive to enjoy a blowjob either. Intercourse is different. I couldn’t shag a bloke, and would struggle to stay hard if I didn’t find a woman attractive That might be just me though | |||
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"Sounds like some of you are straight with regards to whom you fancy and when it comes to relationships but 'bi-SEXUAL' when it comes to sex. (Which is what: 'bisexual' sounds like it means to me). I mean if you caught George Michael sucking a herd of cocks would you say to him: "And the bastards said you were gay... Anyone can see you're straight!" The definition of bisexuality specifically mentions attraction though, so the situation is not as black and white as some people like to pretend Where in the label: 'BISEXUAL' does it mention: 'attraction'? (It doesn't). " OED, wiki, and a few other sources I looked up. | |||
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"The question that always fascinates me is a lot of guys are happy partner up with bisexual woman but I’ve noticed straight women aren’t so accommodating if a guy is bisexual. I do think you’d have to be attracted to a man to get the erection to get a BJ? Or am I am being all caveman? No, I don’t have to find a bloke attractive to enjoy a blowjob. Having said that, I don’t have to find a woman attractive to enjoy a blowjob either. Intercourse is different. I couldn’t shag a bloke, and would struggle to stay hard if I didn’t find a woman attractive That might be just me though " Interesting... Amazing how complex all this is lol | |||
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" A real straight guy would be confident in their sexuality and get that hard dick in their mouth! " You wouldn't see real men like Erasure turn down a throbbing cock. | |||
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Let people label themselves if you’re concerned about someone else’s sexuality or their history, explore monogamy instead. | |||
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"Sounds like some of you are straight with regards to whom you fancy and when it comes to relationships but 'bi-SEXUAL' when it comes to sex. (Which is what: 'bisexual' sounds like it means to me). I mean if you caught George Michael sucking a herd of cocks would you say to him: "And the bastards said you were gay... Anyone can see you're straight!" The definition of bisexuality specifically mentions attraction though, so the situation is not as black and white as some people like to pretend Where in the label: 'BISEXUAL' does it mention: 'attraction'? (It doesn't). OED, wiki, and a few other sources I looked up. You needed google to find out if a guy sucking your cock was bisexual, homosexual or straight? " Lol! It's 'dear derdrie' all over again! | |||
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"If a man 'doesn't mind' a sex act with another man , I fail to see how he is straight ????? I mean ......... I'm vegan but I don't mind eating this cow ???" I’m a vegan 🌱 | |||
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"Jesus wept, the OP didn’t come here for multiple lectures on the definition of straight/gay, he just wants to suck a closeted cock! " Well said | |||
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"As long as they're good at sucking I don't care. Man or woman.... Oh and they have to do cum in mouth or face. Wont accept cum dodgers I always swallow cum, it would be rude not too, then I lick the guys cock dry for good measure. I regularly receive great comments from guys while telling me I am a very good cock sucker. I think many are surprised by my technique. I believe in making love to the dick!" Impressive | |||
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"All im saying and in the most respectful way you can't expect a curious straight guy to come in the forum and be like yeah I do they want no one to know ever ! x" I’m keen to try this one out | |||
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"Imagine walking in on 2 straight guys sucking cock. I wonder if ‘that’s only 2 straight guts sucking cock’ is the first thing that crosses your mind " Are they vegans? That seems to be an important thing now. | |||
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"It gets more like deliverance in here everyday. " Diddle um dum dum. Diddle um dum dum .... Soooooooeyyyyyy piggy piggy piggy ..... | |||
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"Sounds like some of you are straight with regards to whom you fancy and when it comes to relationships but 'bi-SEXUAL' when it comes to sex. (Which is what: 'bisexual' sounds like it means to me). I mean if you caught George Michael sucking a herd of cocks would you say to him: "And the bastards said you were gay... Anyone can see you're straight!" The definition of bisexuality specifically mentions attraction though, so the situation is not as black and white as some people like to pretend Where in the label: 'BISEXUAL' does it mention: 'attraction'? (It doesn't). OED, wiki, and a few other sources I looked up. You needed google to find out if a guy sucking your cock was bisexual, homosexual or straight? " No I didn’t. I have no interest in labels, but checked a few sources for another poster who seemed confused on the subject. The irony is that they cared more about labels and they were wrong. | |||
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"If you are a straight guy local to me that doesn't mind a BJ from a guy, please let me know. I do ask straight guys, but always worried about causing offence." he identifies as straight | |||
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"Seriously, does it really matter what you are?" No. Labels are sad | |||
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"Slightly off subject. If a guy can self suck, and does so. does that make him gay ?" Does having a wank mean a straight guy is actually gay? | |||
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"People have said attraction has to come into it. That’s simply not true. Most of us at some point have had sex with someone of the opposite sex that we didn’t find physically attractive. If you find the idea of sexual activity with the same sex a turn off and you’ve never done it, you’re straight Bi curious would be someone open to the idea of it but with no actual experience If you experience sexual activity with the same sex and don’t like it and never repeat it, you’re straight, but if either you liked it or repeat it (those usually go together) then you’re bisexual. Gay is obviously the flip side of straight. Where the lines are a little less clear is when it’s just a BJ. If a guy has only ever had a BJ and never stuck their dick in an arse or pussy, are they still a virgin? Your answer to the question will affect your thinking on if a “straight” guy lets a man suck his cock on multiple occasions is bi or not. I’d say if it only happened once he can reasonably claim to be straight. The term “oraly bi” is often used for a man that will let a guy suck his cock but he’d never fuck or kiss another man. I think that’s reasonable as well. We like using labels but we don’t need the labels. Just explain what you like and don’t like, what you’ll do and not do, where your personal boundaries are. Most of the men we meet describe themselves as straight on their profile. Some say they do this because most women and couples won’t meet bi men. Not sure if that’s true or just a line. Some of the men we meet are having their first bi BJ and are doing so because they are horny and can’t get a woman to do it. They all get hard and they all cum. Some say they only cum because they are watching Mrs suck Mr. But at the end of the day, a BJ is a BJ. If you cum you must have enjoyed it. We don’t usually contact men first and we seldom even do so if they say they are straight. But we have done so and it has lead to a meet. We wish the OP good luck, hope you get what you seek, isn’t that what this site is all about? Mr " In the textbook definitions, attraction is front and centre. The analogy of having sex with a woman you don’t fancy doesn’t work, as in the example given, you’re portraying a man that finds women attractive … he may not be particularly keen on the individual he is having sex with, but she is still the gender that he finds attractive, so part of his brain is halos to proceed. Maybe look up some definitions rather than making up your own! | |||
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"Completely illogical. I couldn't get off to the thought of a guy's lips around my cock. Like biting a balloon, it'll just deflate." I don’t get off to the “idea” of a guy’s lips around my cock. I get off to the sensation of a person’s lips around my cock, if they are good at sucking. M/F/T … | |||
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"Completely illogical. I couldn't get off to the thought of a guy's lips around my cock. Like biting a balloon, it'll just deflate. I don’t get off to the “idea” of a guy’s lips around my cock. I get off to the sensation of a person’s lips around my cock, if they are good at sucking. M/F/T … " That only works for you bi guys, straight guys don't want sex with guys - it's a big turn off for us. K. | |||
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"Completely illogical. I couldn't get off to the thought of a guy's lips around my cock. Like biting a balloon, it'll just deflate. I don’t get off to the “idea” of a guy’s lips around my cock. I get off to the sensation of a person’s lips around my cock, if they are good at sucking. M/F/T … That only works for you bi guys, straight guys don't want sex with guys - it's a big turn off for us. K." Again, please look at the definition, rather than your own pre-conceptions. Look at it another way. If I say I am bi, and meet a guy or a couple, and then am only interested in being sucked rather than reciprocating or engaging in other activities, then I haven’t represented myself fairly to them. That has come up in conversations that I have had with couples on here, who are looking for fully-bi guys rather than straight guys who are happy to have their cock sucked by a guy. It’s a grey area, there is no simple answer that satisfies everyone. And the textbook definition specifies “attraction”, so I can’t honestly say I’m bi. | |||
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"Let's call a spade a spade if a straight guy gets head from a guy his not straight not sorry. Don't care if he likes men each to their own but his not straight. That’s your opinion, but it doesn’t stack up with the definition. You’re entitled to your own opinions, but not to your own facts. it is facts that you can't accept but it's fine Maybe look up some definitions. I didn’t write them! I am absolutely fine with accepting facts thanks mate! " I know what definitions are what but thank you | |||
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"As this thread draws to a close, I’ve had some interesting DM’s. 2 abusive messages, I won’t go into the details, but both blocked now. And 2 offers of blowjobs! Result...on that note can I say I think women are shit at blowjobs. Happy to sift through the shit/abusive messages. Just title it "Dickhead" so I know what to expect ladies." Not sure I can agree that all women are shit at blowjobs. I’ve had some incredible experiences with ladies who had real skills | |||
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"People have said attraction has to come into it. That’s simply not true. Most of us at some point have had sex with someone of the opposite sex that we didn’t find physically attractive. If you find the idea of sexual activity with the same sex a turn off and you’ve never done it, you’re straight Bi curious would be someone open to the idea of it but with no actual experience If you experience sexual activity with the same sex and don’t like it and never repeat it, you’re straight, but if either you liked it or repeat it (those usually go together) then you’re bisexual. Gay is obviously the flip side of straight. Where the lines are a little less clear is when it’s just a BJ. If a guy has only ever had a BJ and never stuck their dick in an arse or pussy, are they still a virgin? Your answer to the question will affect your thinking on if a “straight” guy lets a man suck his cock on multiple occasions is bi or not. I’d say if it only happened once he can reasonably claim to be straight. The term “oraly bi” is often used for a man that will let a guy suck his cock but he’d never fuck or kiss another man. I think that’s reasonable as well. We like using labels but we don’t need the labels. Just explain what you like and don’t like, what you’ll do and not do, where your personal boundaries are. Most of the men we meet describe themselves as straight on their profile. Some say they do this because most women and couples won’t meet bi men. Not sure if that’s true or just a line. Some of the men we meet are having their first bi BJ and are doing so because they are horny and can’t get a woman to do it. They all get hard and they all cum. Some say they only cum because they are watching Mrs suck Mr. But at the end of the day, a BJ is a BJ. If you cum you must have enjoyed it. We don’t usually contact men first and we seldom even do so if they say they are straight. But we have done so and it has lead to a meet. We wish the OP good luck, hope you get what you seek, isn’t that what this site is all about? Mr In the textbook definitions, attraction is front and centre. The analogy of having sex with a woman you don’t fancy doesn’t work, as in the example given, you’re portraying a man that finds women attractive … he may not be particularly keen on the individual he is having sex with, but she is still the gender that he finds attractive, so part of his brain is halos to proceed. Maybe look up some definitions rather than making up your own! " Wiki is not the place to source the definition of the English language. As per the Oxford English Dictionary…. Bisexual Sexually or romantically attracted to people of both sexes; engaging in sexual activity with both men and women. So it could be a sexual or romantic attraction or it could be just engaging in sexual activities. Everyone would agree that if you find both men and women attractive you are bisexual. But if you engage in sexual activity with both men and woman and enjoy that activity (being forced isn’t the same) then you’re bisexual. Maybe look up THE definition rather than making up your own! | |||
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"People have said attraction has to come into it. That’s simply not true. Most of us at some point have had sex with someone of the opposite sex that we didn’t find physically attractive. If you find the idea of sexual activity with the same sex a turn off and you’ve never done it, you’re straight Bi curious would be someone open to the idea of it but with no actual experience If you experience sexual activity with the same sex and don’t like it and never repeat it, you’re straight, but if either you liked it or repeat it (those usually go together) then you’re bisexual. Gay is obviously the flip side of straight. Where the lines are a little less clear is when it’s just a BJ. If a guy has only ever had a BJ and never stuck their dick in an arse or pussy, are they still a virgin? Your answer to the question will affect your thinking on if a “straight” guy lets a man suck his cock on multiple occasions is bi or not. I’d say if it only happened once he can reasonably claim to be straight. The term “oraly bi” is often used for a man that will let a guy suck his cock but he’d never fuck or kiss another man. I think that’s reasonable as well. We like using labels but we don’t need the labels. Just explain what you like and don’t like, what you’ll do and not do, where your personal boundaries are. Most of the men we meet describe themselves as straight on their profile. Some say they do this because most women and couples won’t meet bi men. Not sure if that’s true or just a line. Some of the men we meet are having their first bi BJ and are doing so because they are horny and can’t get a woman to do it. They all get hard and they all cum. Some say they only cum because they are watching Mrs suck Mr. But at the end of the day, a BJ is a BJ. If you cum you must have enjoyed it. We don’t usually contact men first and we seldom even do so if they say they are straight. But we have done so and it has lead to a meet. We wish the OP good luck, hope you get what you seek, isn’t that what this site is all about? Mr In the textbook definitions, attraction is front and centre. The analogy of having sex with a woman you don’t fancy doesn’t work, as in the example given, you’re portraying a man that finds women attractive … he may not be particularly keen on the individual he is having sex with, but she is still the gender that he finds attractive, so part of his brain is halos to proceed. Maybe look up some definitions rather than making up your own! Wiki is not the place to source the definition of the English language. As per the Oxford English Dictionary…. Bisexual Sexually or romantically attracted to people of both sexes; engaging in sexual activity with both men and women. So it could be a sexual or romantic attraction or it could be just engaging in sexual activities. Everyone would agree that if you find both men and women attractive you are bisexual. But if you engage in sexual activity with both men and woman and enjoy that activity (being forced isn’t the same) then you’re bisexual. Maybe look up THE definition rather than making up your own!" “Attracted”. Thanks for confirming | |||
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