FabSwingers.com forum: Would you go to a club solo?

By *olly Mistlehoe OP Woman
10 weeks ago

Somewhere

Curious if you would/wouldn't/do/don't?

I have and can't say it fazed me...

You?

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
10 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

Have many times. Actually preferred it.

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By *orphia2003Woman
10 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

Yes, done plenty solo. Some have been great, others quite lonely. Would never stop me doing it though.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
10 weeks ago

Reading

I am planning on it

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By *ir Toot of the frostMan
10 weeks ago

Burton-on-Trent

I really don't know, I guess I'd try at first?

Don't see the harm in trying atleast.

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By *oney HoneyWoman
10 weeks ago

York

As a woman I don’t find it too daunting now, but then as a woman you know there will be plenty of guys to chat to and you won’t be ignored. I imagine it would be more daunting for a guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

I have been quite a few times but I have to be in the right headspace for it. I never go hoping for it to boost my confidence but usually when I'm already feeling pretty secure of myself so I know I can chat to others even I get ignored by the majority of others. Finding a club buddy is still the goal though.

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By *inkyPair2018Couple
10 weeks ago

Wolves

Mrs here! I have twice.

Two different clubs and two completely different experiences on both occasions

One fantastic and one where I left early and went home rather deflated

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By *uzzieboyMan
10 weeks ago

taunton

Actually love to go to one but not plucked up the courage as yet

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By *he ExcaliburMan
10 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

"I imagine it would be more daunting for a guy. "

How come? I’ve never been to one but have been intrigued to try

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By *ellhungvweMan
10 weeks ago

Cheltenham

I have but I prefer to go knowing I have arranged to meet people there.

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By *ir Toot of the frostMan
10 weeks ago

Burton-on-Trent

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By *alaceman1975Man
10 weeks ago

london

As a single male it's all difficult.....my dream to do so

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
10 weeks ago

your head

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By *leasinglipznhipsWoman
10 weeks ago

Yes I have and always come away with new friendly faces.

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By *ir Toot of the frostMan
10 weeks ago

Burton-on-Trent

"As a woman I don’t find it too daunting now, but then as a woman you know there will be plenty of guys to chat to and you won’t be ignored. I imagine it would be more daunting for a guy. "

It took alot of nerve to even make an account here, but I would like to attempt to go to clubs next year.

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By *ll-Knight-longMan
10 weeks ago

Derby/Notts(Long Eaton)

Having been to a few clubs as a couple for years, when I went as a solo I was aware of the differences I would find as a singe older male. I have only been solo during daytime sessions which is more relaxed

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
10 weeks ago

Horsham

Having social anxiety, I would find in daunting to go on my own.

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By *enelope2UWoman
10 weeks ago

Fife

I go everywhere solo so it's nothing new.. yes

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By *cotty_01ukMan
10 weeks ago

birmingham

Yeah I'd go excitement

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By *azjaMan
10 weeks ago

Swindon /Algarve

Luv to go with a friend, who wants to go?

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By *eroLondonMan
10 weeks ago

Mayfair

Nø.

They hold no mystique for me, 'never have done. I find the very notion alien to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

Would go. As an older guy more problematic? Thought about it, but in the West Mids not sure which clubs are best for meand would I get in ?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
10 weeks ago

Central

Yes, all the time

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlongMan
10 weeks ago

Ends

Going on Sunday for the first time on my own. It’ll be fine.

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By *eep80Man
10 weeks ago

middlesbrough

I have many times and I prefer to go alone

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By *ust want fun 888Man
10 weeks ago

nearby

"Curious if you would/wouldn't/do/don't?

I have and can't say it fazed me...

You?

I don’t have a clue about the clubs, but I somehow think it might be different for women, I really don’t know

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By *arlequin_tearsMan
10 weeks ago

Sheffield

Have been to clubs solo lots of times.

Although I do like to know at least one person going as well. As it's nice to have someone to chat to.

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By *uzzieboyMan
10 weeks ago

taunton

Anyone wanna go as a couple I’d be keen

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By *zlakMan
10 weeks ago

Lowestoft

Yes I have been solo many times and met some lovely people.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
10 weeks ago

East Sussex

No I'm a scaredy cat

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By *ee04Man
10 weeks ago

Essex

Done it more times than I can count

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
10 weeks ago

Home

Yes because I'm single and have no one to go with me

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By *andynecklaceWoman
10 weeks ago

Someplace

Yes, I'm planning on going next week

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By *ansoffateMan
10 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

I would, but I don't really have the drive to do so.

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By *tsJustKateWoman
10 weeks ago

London

"Curious if you would/wouldn't/do/don't?

I have and can't say it fazed me...

You?

I have done several times.

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By *ccasionallyNaughtyWoman
10 weeks ago

Sussex

I travel for work sometimes and will always try and take myself off the the local club if there's one nearby- I've had some fabulous nights out at some of the Northern clubs over the years where I didn't know anyone! When I'm on "home turf" down South I'll usually be meeting friends at the club but as many of us don't live close by, I'll go in on my own and find my friends inside.

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By *tuvyMan
10 weeks ago

bedford

Been to jaydees a good few times and had loads of fun there meeting couples and single ladies

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By *glyBettyTV/TS
10 weeks ago

About 3 feet away from the fence

I usually go alone. As said by someone else, i like it better because I can just leave whenever I want.

I'm generally someone who prefers being alone, my social battery drains fast...

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By *atinaChica54Woman
10 weeks ago

Marlborough

Totally. Been to a club solo a few times & much prefer to be a social butterfly flitting around x

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By *NLOS123Man
10 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

I am this weekend

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By *arakiss12TV/TS
10 weeks ago

Bedford

Lots of solo adventures, mainly because I'm so unreliable when it comes to meet ups before getting to the club, traffic, life, losing directions.

Rather get there solo, at least I've made it that far. Then meet old and new friends.

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By *enryMillsMan
10 weeks ago

Wilmslow

If this site is anything to go by, going solo as a single male would be horrendous. Particularly if u went naked. Your cock would undoubtedly decide to hide in your pubes for the duration and u would feel an utter cunt sat there, naked and drinking on your own. It would also be full of other single males and probably, knowing my luck, the annual get together of the monster cock club. This site is depressing Enough but at least u get rejected on line and not in person

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By *enryMillsMan
10 weeks ago

Wilmslow

And furthermore, I would fucking love to be a woman on this site. They all moan about the cock pics and misogyny but they should try a week in my shoes. I get about 20 messages a week. 25% is site admin password reset. I moan about gay men and TS/TV/CD messaging me (not my bag that’s all) but I don’t block them cos that is virtually all the attention I get !!!!

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By *neeyedwillieMan
10 weeks ago

Darlington

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By *tew008Man
10 weeks ago

edinburgh

Yea I went to one but was pretty cliquey and guys seemed too competitive for any attention. So fecked off to a normal club

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By *neeyedwillieMan
10 weeks ago

Darlington

I do all the time. Its as much a social place as it is to misbehave for me. Rather go there than to a pub.

I know plenty of members and I'm.freinds with the staff so I'm never alone.

I frequent Club F in the North East and honestly, it's great. People come from all over the UK.

The issue, if you have them, isn't the clubs. It's the mindset you go with.

If you go with the intent to be social and you try being freindly and talking with people, you'll go far. If.you go thinking you're guaranteed a shag, you're shit out of luck.

I've seen the odd review saying the clubs has a clique going on but I've been there when some of those parties who visited where there and they sat on their own all night looking completely unapproachable.

Yes it's harder for single guys as they have to put extra effort in but that's how it is and how its always been. If you want women to fall in your lap, you have to prove, over time that it's a lap worth falling in. Being bold, having banter amd a good sense of humor can get you far in that environment.

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By *urenutsMan
10 weeks ago

waltham cross/Harrow HA1

Yes

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By *ickedwillyCouple
10 weeks ago

Bangor

Better with the wife

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By *phrodisiac2000Man
10 weeks ago

blazing Saddleworth

Yes definitely but I’d hope to meet with someone inside

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By *phrodisiac2000Man
10 weeks ago

blazing Saddleworth

It’d be nice if I was invited but I’d dare myself to go solo too

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By *zeroMan
10 weeks ago

Glasgow

Have done so most of the times I've went

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

I don’t go to pubs or nightclubs on my own, so why would I.

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By *eekySweetheartWoman
10 weeks ago

Hampshire

I prefer going alone. I'm quite chatty/ sociable but I also like to be able to do what and who I want and leave when I want

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By *phrodisiac2000Man
10 weeks ago

blazing Saddleworth

"I prefer going alone. I'm quite chatty/ sociable but I also like to be able to do what and who I want and leave when I want

Best way tbf

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By *luebell888Woman
10 weeks ago

Glasgowish

Been by myself quite a few times.

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By *airyboxMan
10 weeks ago

sheffield

"As a woman I don’t find it too daunting now, but then as a woman you know there will be plenty of guys to chat to and you won’t be ignored. I imagine it would be more daunting for a guy. "

It can be daunting but I don’t mind and I’m a chatty guy anyway. Not too bothered about it. Do prefer going with a club buddy but will happily go on my own.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
10 weeks ago

Leeds

I did recently for a ladies night, I was super nervous but everyone was lovely, I've been back alone since.

Mrs

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By *eliWoman
10 weeks ago

Nope. Mainly because I don't think clubs are for me.

I did attend a forum social at a club solo. Ended up with a fiancé from it so it's not all bad.

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By *ustincider888Man
10 weeks ago

Preston Ish

I only ever go alone.

I have nobody to take

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By *andyCaneCuntWoman
10 weeks ago

Not the North West...

I'm guessing it would be different for a woman than a man.

But I wouldn't, naked strangers don't do anything for me.

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
10 weeks ago

Maidstone

No. It's really not my thing at all.

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By *uacksplat.Woman
10 weeks ago

Star Trekking Across The Universe

i always go to clubs alone.

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By *eekendVixenCouple
10 weeks ago

Leicester

Vixen goes to events at Liberty Elite on her own and has a Single Lady membership there.

As stag I find it incredibly hot to hear what she has got up to with other guys.

It’s an amazing alternative angle to our hotwife relationship.

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By *osey WalesMan
10 weeks ago

Surrey

I have been to many clubs alone. Sometimes i've had great times and sometimes not.

It doesnt bother me going to a club alone. Going to a club alone or going to a club with someone are very different for a single guy

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
10 weeks ago

I would happily go alone if I trusted that the club was safe and I would be looked after if any issues arise.

In a way I would prefer less attention there than too much

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By *oxychicWoman
10 weeks ago

Nottinghamshire

Yes I have and yes I will again .I'm doing chams on Sunday solo 😊

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By *illy IdolMan
10 weeks ago

Midlands

I've tried it in the past and I wouldn't be in a rush to do it again anytime soon. It's like losing your mates in a nightclub.

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By *hesubtlegentMan
10 weeks ago

surrey

I’ve been solo to Abfabs when they have the social beforehand. It’s not as daunting as I see people I’ve met at other socials so there are plenty of friendly faces. Will be at the social there tonight.

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

I would love to go to one, I’ve just got to pluck up the courage

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By *mmaleiaWoman
10 weeks ago

Trowbridge

I’m going solo tonight, and I’ve only been solo before, it’s not the greatest, and I’m massively socially awkward, but it’s doable

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By *esiGalGuy123Man
10 weeks ago

Find me..

"Curious if you would/wouldn't/do/don't?

I have and can't say it fazed me...

You?

Yes but nervous!

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By *irk_Dastardly.Man
10 weeks ago

Salisbury

I’ve been to Kestrels a few times by myself. Just be sociable and it will be completely fine!

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By *en_Dover79Man
10 weeks ago

Oswaldtwistle

I'm usually always a soloist.

I find there are 3 types of couple..

Ones you hit it off with totally

One you get along well with and become friends even though you aren't what they look for.

And last the ones who act like single men are vermin and don't acknowledge you in any way.

The last type are quite rare but can deflate you if as a single guy you go and give a friendly hello

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By *ealMissShadyWoman
10 weeks ago

St Albans/ Welsh Borders

Always go alone. I love it

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By *mmaleiaWoman
10 weeks ago

Trowbridge

"If this site is anything to go by, going solo as a single male would be horrendous. Particularly if u went naked. Your cock would undoubtedly decide to hide in your pubes for the duration and u would feel an utter cunt sat there, naked and drinking on your own. It would also be full of other single males and probably, knowing my luck, the annual get together of the monster cock club. This site is depressing Enough but at least u get rejected on line and not in person "

You sir are hilarious

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By *ickyKlungespeareMan
10 weeks ago

St Leonards

For me the question would be phrased "Would you go to a club with someone else?".

To which the answer is "No".

Because the potential pleasure I extract from a club is premised upon going there on my own.

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By *ife NinjaMan
10 weeks ago

Dunfermline

Yes. I always do

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By *reative-mindMan
10 weeks ago

Exeter

But who would be there to hold my hand for courage?

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By *HUSH-Man
10 weeks ago

London

Done it twice now. Took the advice I was given by some kind forum members on here and both nights were great.

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By *ickyKlungespeareMan
10 weeks ago

St Leonards

"But who would be there to hold my hand for courage? "

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By *ife NinjaMan
10 weeks ago

Dunfermline

Clubs are incredibly safe and welcoming, regardless of your sex. Yes, there are people there who aimless walk about hoping for action, but in general, it's like a pub....just sometimes naked

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
10 weeks ago

Maidstone

"Clubs are incredibly safe and welcoming, regardless of your sex. Yes, there are people there who aimless walk about hoping for action, but in general, it's like a pub....just sometimes naked

You're not selling it. I wouldn't want to go to a pub by myself either... but a naked pub

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By *electableicecreamMan
10 weeks ago

The West

I wouldn't. Clubs hold no appeal to me at all

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By *ife NinjaMan
10 weeks ago

Dunfermline

"Clubs are incredibly safe and welcoming, regardless of your sex. Yes, there are people there who aimless walk about hoping for action, but in general, it's like a pub....just sometimes naked

You're not selling it. I wouldn't want to go to a pub by myself either... but a naked pub

OK, come with me then

. Pub only, if you want

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By * and R cple4Couple
10 weeks ago

swansea

Our local ish club definitely not people can't keep their hands to themselves when I'm with my husband so it's definitely not a place I would feel safe on my own.

The other clubs we have attended then yes I would.

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By *all me missWoman
10 weeks ago

South Wales

Yes i have done

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By *r TriomanMan
10 weeks ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

I've only ever been by myself; as I'm quite chatty and I like to mix, it's fine.

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By *eroLondonMan
10 weeks ago

Mayfair

"Clubs are incredibly safe and welcoming, regardless of your sex. Yes, there are people there who aimless walk about hoping for action, but in general, it's like a pub....just sometimes naked

You're not selling it. I wouldn't want to go to a pub by myself either... but a naked pub

OK, come with me then

. Pub only, if you want

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This ⬆️, dear gentlefolk, is the epitome of a smooth operator. 🙂

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By *oiluvfunMan
10 weeks ago

Penrith

I’ve been to 8 clubs as a single guy, to a total of 19 visits, and will most likely never go to another by myself. In no other avenue of my life, have I ever felt so unwanted….

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By *r and Mrs CACACouple
10 weeks ago

congleton

I don’t think I’d be brave enough to go, anxiety would get the better of me, saying that the Mrs is more likely to go out for ladies night at a club than a standard night.

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By *moothdickMan
10 weeks ago

stoke

Many times, only ever been to one club with a cpl that was planned … would love to find a gem club buddy

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By *moothdickMan
10 weeks ago

stoke

Fem

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By *onderlust69Couple
10 weeks ago

Central belt

"Curious if you would/wouldn't/do/don't?

I have and can't say it fazed me...

You?

Mrs WL has attended our local clubs solo

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By *enk15Man
10 weeks ago

Evesham

I would, but I haven't

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By *inkyandthebrain2023Couple
10 weeks ago

Cheshire

Yes we both have not so much now. We tend to go more events now hence going together.

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

I've often thought about it but not summoned the courage yet

I think the main thing that holds me back is thought of possibly catching something.. Based on 90% of people in my mail, who seem uninterested in testing and swing aplenty

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By *eroLondonMan
10 weeks ago

Mayfair

90% of clubbers will probably catch something from Midnight. 🦠

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
10 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

If I could get to any without a driver I would if there was an event I fancied and none of my partners or friends were free 💜

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By *ea monkeyMan
10 weeks ago

Manchester (he/him)

Yes, many times.

It can and does take a push of confidence, especially as a solo man. I’ve not gone for a while as the potential rejection has been too much. I’d rather go with a partner and share the experience

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By *iss KinkWoman
10 weeks ago

North West

Yes

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By *HUSH-Man
10 weeks ago

London

"I've often thought about it but not summoned the courage yet

I think the main thing that holds me back is thought of possibly catching something.. Based on 90% of people in my mail, who seem uninterested in testing and swing aplenty

I didn’t play on the nights I went. I just spoke to people. It’s a great way of cutting right to the chase with potential play partners. You can immediately pick up on any chemistry and take it from there. Great if you have limited time.

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By *agic.MMan
10 weeks ago

Orpington

"Curious if you would/wouldn't/do/don't?

I have and can't say it fazed me...

You?

Is this based on my comment on the other thread? 😅

Look I'm sure for some people that are a bit more extroverted it's not a big deal, for someone like myself it is one of the hardest things I could do...the mental pressure in that environment is not easily explained or understood unless you suffer from anxiety. Here's a small trivia about me - I used to be a stripper- that means I used to dance butt naked in fron of dozens of women/people without an issue...and you might say, that's even more nerve racking...but it really isn't, as all those people in that environment are there to see a naked man dance (it's already established) so I was just doing a job (there was a purpose for me being there). Now, on the other hand to be in a social environment where you need to go up to people and start talking to them without a clear purpose literally gives me panic attacks

. I personally need a friend that introduces me to other people in order to not feel awkward about myself in that scenario...and I don't know how else to explain it to the people who say "it's not a big deal" 🤭.

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By *antasdeerideMan
10 weeks ago

winfrith

"Curious if you would/wouldn't/do/don't?

I have and can't say it fazed me...

You?

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I've been to many clubs occasionally with someone mostly on my own ,when you're naked you're either comfortable or your not .

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
10 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Yes, but I'm lucky enough to make friends pretty easily, so I seem to be able to walk in and within 30 minutes know half of the people there

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By *imples24Man
10 weeks ago

tamworth

Not yet plucked up the courage to go. Reading a few things in the forum about them makes it more daunting. Don’t know what to expect what days they will accept solo single males. I need to grow a pair 🤣

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By *antasdeerideMan
10 weeks ago

winfrith

"Not yet plucked up the courage to go. Reading a few things in the forum about them makes it more daunting. Don’t know what to expect what days they will accept solo single males. I need to grow a pair 🤣"
Clubs vary vastly in who they let in ,how much they charge and how flexible they are with single Male entry but clubs make money out of guys walking over the threshold so chances are you'll get in most clubs at some point but it's a lottery as to who will be there ,just go I've had great experiences over the years .

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By *r Mrs FuckableCouple
10 weeks ago

Stoke

We met as two singles in a club, so definitely didn't phase us.

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By *imples24Man
10 weeks ago

tamworth

"Not yet plucked up the courage to go. Reading a few things in the forum about them makes it more daunting. Don’t know what to expect what days they will accept solo single males. I need to grow a pair 🤣Clubs vary vastly in who they let in ,how much they charge and how flexible they are with single Male entry but clubs make money out of guys walking over the threshold so chances are you'll get in most clubs at some point but it's a lottery as to who will be there ,just go I've had great experiences over the years ."

Thanks wish there was a meet and greet option or a chaperone service 🤣🤣

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By *oodo69Man
10 weeks ago

London (visiting frequently)

Trying to build up the courage and confidence.

Would love to, but feel is kind of a big step xx

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
10 weeks ago

Wherever

I have been by myself many times and have no problems going but good club buddy is priceless. Not an easy task to find one though.

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By *he Silver FuxMan
10 weeks ago

Uttoxeter

Yes - the experience as single guy has been down to the club itself and the regulars that go there and if it were a hosted / party night. I’ve only had a few times where I haven’t been feeling it and have left early. I had one time at the Attic where I left immediately though, the people that were there, to be perfectly honest, were quite disgusting (loads of Taxi drivers with BO wandering around… just… gross).

Going with no expectations and not simply on a mission to get my cock in someone is important. I’m lucky to have a couple of great clubs where I know many regulars and know the staff so wouldn’t hesitate to go out for the evening as a solo male.

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By *ather WickmasMan
10 weeks ago

The Continental

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By *obin444Man
10 weeks ago

Windsor

Yes

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By *ongJohnSilva2.0Man
10 weeks ago

Right up your street

Have done several times and met some great people

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By *herry delightWoman
10 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

It would very much depend on the type of club, Naked Occasions I have done and would again as it's a spa type club run by a woman. That's their all the time checking make sure everyone is ok.

Some of the more night time clubs no I wouldn't in fact I wouldn't go to them with a partner.

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By *heelerMan
10 weeks ago

Northants

Yes I would I'd pick a day visit when I know a few single females attend .

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By *hGlobbitsMan
10 weeks ago

Leeds

Contemplating it.

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
10 weeks ago

London

I'm not sure, never actually been to a swingers club.

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By *moothdickMan
10 weeks ago

stoke

"I've often thought about it but not summoned the courage yet

I think the main thing that holds me back is thought of possibly catching something.. Based on 90% of people in my mail, who seem uninterested in testing and swing aplenty

Next time I go the attic come with me… no expectations, just give u the feel to it and give u the courage of u like it to go alone ..

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

I’m going to have to pluck up courage. Xtasia maybe.

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By *antasdeerideMan
10 weeks ago

winfrith

"Not yet plucked up the courage to go. Reading a few things in the forum about them makes it more daunting. Don’t know what to expect what days they will accept solo single males. I need to grow a pair 🤣Clubs vary vastly in who they let in ,how much they charge and how flexible they are with single Male entry but clubs make money out of guys walking over the threshold so chances are you'll get in most clubs at some point but it's a lottery as to who will be there ,just go I've had great experiences over the years .

Thanks wish there was a meet and greet option or a chaperone service 🤣🤣 "
A lot of women on here would meet you in a club because they would feel if you weren't for them they could still have a good time .

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By *ongJohnSilva2.0Man
10 weeks ago

Right up your street

"I’m going to have to pluck up courage. Xtasia maybe."

I’ve done it several times mate. It is nerve wracking, but you soon get into it & everyone is great there

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By *Silver-Man
10 weeks ago

Mold

I've been to clubs often on my own

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

"I’m going to have to pluck up courage. Xtasia maybe.

I’ve done it several times mate. It is nerve wracking, but you soon get into it & everyone is great there"

Best time to go? Thanks

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By *ongJohnSilva2.0Man
10 weeks ago

Right up your street

"I’m going to have to pluck up courage. Xtasia maybe.

I’ve done it several times mate. It is nerve wracking, but you soon get into it & everyone is great there

Best time to go? Thanks "

Friday night single males are allowed. Make sure you get a membership first

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By *JcuriousCouple
10 weeks ago

Derby

If I was a single female I would.

Miss S x

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By *esthetic21Man
10 weeks ago

Birmingham/Bristol

If i was a weirdo yea

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By *imples24Man
10 weeks ago

tamworth

"Not yet plucked up the courage to go. Reading a few things in the forum about them makes it more daunting. Don’t know what to expect what days they will accept solo single males. I need to grow a pair 🤣Clubs vary vastly in who they let in ,how much they charge and how flexible they are with single Male entry but clubs make money out of guys walking over the threshold so chances are you'll get in most clubs at some point but it's a lottery as to who will be there ,just go I've had great experiences over the years .

Thanks wish there was a meet and greet option or a chaperone service 🤣🤣 A lot of women on here would meet you in a club because they would feel if you weren't for them they could still have a good time ."

I’d be happy to meet a lady in a club even if it was just as friends to help with the newbie nerves 😬

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

"I’m going to have to pluck up courage. Xtasia maybe.

I’ve done it several times mate. It is nerve wracking, but you soon get into it & everyone is great there

Best time to go? Thanks

Friday night single males are allowed. Make sure you get a membership first"

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By *iss DevilWoman
10 weeks ago

Bedford

I don't drive so it's very difficult for me to get to clubs. However, I did go to a sauna near me, on their bi events. It was strange as mostly straight men there and I wanted to see some bi action

. Also, being followed everywhere was a bit daunting even if funny at first, to see how fast someone was going to find me.

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By *inceIlkestonMan
10 weeks ago

Ilkeston

Not at those prices

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
10 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania

Only if it was a cantina on Tatooine.

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By *entleman JayMan
10 weeks ago

Wakefield

I used to go as a single guy. I’ve also been to a lot of group socials by myself.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
10 weeks ago

Wirral

I have but decided clubs weren't my thing.

If I ever went back I think I'd still go solo though.

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By *alm_one4Man
10 weeks ago

RM16

I have, many years ago, only twice though. First time I stood on my own looking like an uncomfortable thing out of place. Second time I did get chatting to a couple, nothing came of it, and again I ended up standing on my own watching. Seeing all the other single guys standing with hopeful looks on their faces put me off, didn’t care to be associated with that. Not been back to a club since.

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By *torm in a G cupWoman
10 weeks ago

Land of the Long White Cloud

I've only been once. I went with a fab friend, but the club was so friendly I would definitely go by myself next time I'm in the UK.

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By *urreyphotographerMan
10 weeks ago

kt16

I was a photographer at an event at a club...... my first experience.

Now I want to go again but not as a photographer. There's two clubs within 10 miles from me but I would prefer to go with someone.

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By *aggy dollsCouple
10 weeks ago

bradford

We have both attended clubs solo before we met, after all it's just loke going to any other bar right?

Mr H

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By *ellinever70Woman
10 weeks ago

Ayrshire

"We have both attended clubs solo before we met, after all it's just loke going to any other bar right?

Mr H"

I don't think all that many folk attend bars alone

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By *aggy dollsCouple
10 weeks ago

bradford

"We have both attended clubs solo before we met, after all it's just loke going to any other bar right?

Mr H

I don't think all that many folk attend bars alone "

As an ex bar manager I'd say you'd be surprised but admittedly it's more likely to be men rather than women. But my point (that I may not have made very clear) is that clubs aren't as daunting as people may think they are.

Mr H

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By *oney HoneyWoman
10 weeks ago

York

"I imagine it would be more daunting for a guy.

How come? I’ve never been to one but have been intrigued to try"

Maybe because there are generally more men than women in clubs and it’s usually down to the guys to make the first move to start a conversation, where as a woman you just need to sit there and look pretty and someone will always talk to you x

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By *oiluvfunMan
10 weeks ago

Penrith

"I imagine it would be more daunting for a guy.

How come? I’ve never been to one but have been intrigued to try

Absolutely this

Nobody speaks to the single guy in a club, unless he speaks first. And that's assuming he can find an 'in' with the EGOF's......

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By *heGentleman2024Man
10 weeks ago

North West

Since returning back, ive attended clubs on my own..obviously familiarised myself with people going in Telegram groups etc…Love it 🫶

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By *r M Gray88Man
10 weeks ago

Edinburgh

1000%

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By *ascaIMan
10 weeks ago

Cheshire Liverpool Manchester

Nah I’d shit me kecks.

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By *en_Dover79Man
10 weeks ago

Oswaldtwistle

Cobblers... I get approached by couples and females when I go..

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
10 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Being honest, no.

I'm glad I have my other half for club visits.

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
10 weeks ago

Sheffield

I have plenty of times yes x

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By *erry bull1Man
10 weeks ago

doncaster

Yes I would

And have done

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By *emboy AlexMan
10 weeks ago

Chadderton, Manchester

I already do, regularly. ^-^

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By *iandti2023Couple
10 weeks ago

Wokingham

Tina goes to clubs solo as she love that environment… me not to much so instead I drop her there and catch a late night gym sesh

don’t see what is wrong in visiting as singles if that is what makes you happy!

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

Probably not

Not sure I would fit in

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