FabSwingers.com forum: Just giving...not the charity site.

By *ruceyy OP Man
6 weeks ago

London

Are you ever in the mood to just give in terms of foreplay and not get anything for yourself? Do tell, kinky people!

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
6 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Absofuckinglutely.

5 hours of cock worship and staying on edge, living on that frustration and need until I see them again.

Big yes 💜

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By *vaRose43Woman
6 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

"Are you ever in the mood to just give in terms of foreplay and not get anything for yourself? Do tell, kinky people!"

Oh indeed. I get pleasure from orchestrating and giving pleasure.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
6 weeks ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Giving is getting. I love seeing other people’s reactions. I don’t understand the idea of there being nothing in it for me. Of course there is, look at the pleasure I’m providing, that’s giving me all the happy hormones in that feedback loop.

Mrs TMN x

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By *enelope2UWoman
6 weeks ago

Fife

Yes unfortunately most have other expectations

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By *ceKweenWoman
6 weeks ago

Bolton

Yes… I love to give

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By *hGlobbitsMan
6 weeks ago

Leeds

I fucking love being face down between a lady's thighs, seeing how long I can keep her balanced right on the edge. It's a little bit about control, a little bit about the pleasure of giving and a little bit about feeling like there's at least one thing I can do really well! The validation I feel when that leg starts to shake is very real

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By *rT25Man
6 weeks ago

Rotherham

Oh yeah! I'd be happy just giving

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
6 weeks ago

Reading

No i prefer reciprocation

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By *entlemanrogueMan
6 weeks ago

Motherwell

I like.to give, sometimes I loke to just take and other times it's both

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By *andyrod1Man
6 weeks ago

St Margaret's at Cliffe

I do like to be the one dishing out the foreplay, having my cock sucked really doesn't do anything for me, l would much rather be caressing and teasing with my tongue, the ladies pleasure is paramount!

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By *fweonlymeettwiceMan
6 weeks ago

Madrid

I would be more than happy going down on a lady until she told me to stop, but must be tidy and clean mmm

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
6 weeks ago

Leeds

Yes often, I enjoy spending time with the Mr's cock and don't expect anything in return.

Mrs

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By *2000ManMan
6 weeks ago

Worthing

One way sex is not my thing.

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By *angerouslemaisonsMan
6 weeks ago

Peterborough

I am often in the mood to just give but rarely are people in the mood to just receive I’ve found

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By *weetiepie99Woman
6 weeks ago

cardiff

My ❤️ is so full. Such giving people

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By *sWyldWoman
6 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Yes. I adore reactions and get such a thrill from giving them to someone. I also love the sensations of certain acts and do get so much pleasure from it.

However, as fun as that is for me, there does come a time where I also need to just feel them inside me. So I need to know that's also going to be happening at some point!

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By *heWelshMan1Man
6 weeks ago

Cardiff

I love seeing the other person enjoy themselves and I love knowing I'm doing a good job

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By *ornycougaWoman
6 weeks ago

NORWAY Wherever I lay my hat

Sometimes. I adore giving pleasure and could worship a cock for hours. For special people I would do an occasional blow and go or fuck and go meet

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By *ruceyy OP Man
6 weeks ago

London

"Sometimes. I adore giving pleasure and could worship a cock for hours. For special people I would do an occasional blow and go or fuck and go meet"

Have we technically got together if you just blow and go? 👀😂

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By *nkedguy777Man
6 weeks ago

Manchester

Yes absolutely

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By *eroLondonMan
6 weeks ago

Covent Garden

No.

I enjoy foreplay and desire mutually-satisfying reciprocal sex.

No way am I spending a monkey for the Churchill Suite at Claridges only for me to tickle her feet and for her to raid the mini bar.

These selfish sirens and inharmonious harlots - they taketh but never giveth away.

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By *ilver_foxxx69Man
6 weeks ago

Falkirk

Absolutely.

I love giving and enjoy knowing that she enjoying and getting pleasure from what I’m doing. I love oral and foreplay and do have a talent for it

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
6 weeks ago

hoorn, Netherlands

Yes, I'd happily have women ride my face and suck cocks all day long without any reciprocation

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By *r Mind CandyMan
6 weeks ago

Cheshire

Oh absolutely! Even when I’m teasing them and keeping them in denial for days, making her get me hard ready for another lady, ultimately I’m doing it for her benefit…… I can already hear the grones from some on here! but the mind fuck is the deepest most rewarding fuck!

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By *hGlobbitsMan
6 weeks ago

Leeds

"Yes. I adore reactions and get such a thrill from giving them to someone. I also love the sensations of certain acts and do get so much pleasure from it.

However, as fun as that is for me, there does come a time where I also need to just feel them inside me. So I need to know that's also going to be happening at some point!"

Well, alright. You drive a hard bargain, but I'm in

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By *ora the explorerWoman
6 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

Oh yes. I’m much more of a giver than a taker

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By *ee69Man
6 weeks ago

glasgow

Sometimes

The gratification of see a lady climax and happy is a major turn on for me , I’ve stopped before and just took it in rather than finish myself

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By *aven.Woman
6 weeks ago

Not the North West...

Hell.

No.

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By *uliette500Woman
6 weeks ago

Hull

On the other side of this point, does anyone else feel guilty if they are the recipient of such attention and the giver does not want anything back in return?

I find I can't just relax and enjoy the attention I'm getting because of the guilt I feel even if it is fully discussed and agreed beforehand.

One way enjoyment is maybe just not for me.

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By *moothdickMan
6 weeks ago

stoke

A simple yes… love giving a lady pleasure, watching, listening, connecting etc

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By *ore_Please81Woman
6 weeks ago

Edinburgh

100% YES……nothing gets me more excited than pleasing. And when you do get your reward it’s exquisite x

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By *he KakapoMan
6 weeks ago

A nice rock

No.. God no...

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By *inceIlkestonMan
6 weeks ago

Ilkeston

"Oh yeah! I'd be happy just giving"

It's fun, but only so far. Just dumped a fwb as she doesn't, doesn't kiss, doesn't touch, just lies there and cums several times.

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By *electableicecreamMan
6 weeks ago

The West

It's a nice thing to plan. Feels like a real treat in either direction

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By *eliWoman
6 weeks ago

But I do get something from it. It's far from a selfless act for me - I can find myself more aroused giving oral than receiving it. I get off on how someone responds to me, those little tells of pleasure, reciprocated lust that really heightens things for me.

I don't believe in tit for tat when it comes to sex but I don't think I'd enjoy it in a casual sex dynamic. Actually I know I wouldn't. It's not satisfying for me. I don't want to just be for someone's pleasure and mine isn't even a thought. Someone I know though? It's different. It's hard to explain why. And personal.

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By *ubmissive guyMan
6 weeks ago

Liverpool

I love lick and leave or facesitting only meets with nothing in return. if that counts and I'm not lying about nothing in return .

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By *rowley616Man
6 weeks ago

Scarborough

I mostly give.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
6 weeks ago

Wirral

No, that's not for me.

I like all of us to have fun and although I enjoy a certain amount of giving I'd rather it was give and take.

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By *ake_or_deathMan
6 weeks ago

Manchester

"Are you ever in the mood to just give in terms of foreplay and not get anything for yourself? Do tell, kinky people!"

Absolutely - giving is far more important to me than receiving (touching, stroking, caressing, kissing, licking). I can always bring myself off with my hand afterwards, but I can't inhale the aroma of a woman's body, feel her softness, or taste her arousal on my own and they are the things that are most erotic to me. So I suppose I am receiving in one way because I'm getting that satisfaction.

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By *iss KinkWoman
6 weeks ago

North West

Absolutely

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

For sure. Love a lot of foreplay

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
6 weeks ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"Are you ever in the mood to just give in terms of foreplay and not get anything for yourself? Do tell, kinky people!

Absolutely this! By being in that sexual situation you are receiving pleasure too, physical, mental or both. I don’t think of sex as transactional - I give you this, you give me that - but more of an overall experience. Same applies to swinging in ways that aren’t straight wife-swapping, or different BDSM dynamics. Just cos you’re not directly getting something from a tick list of sex acts doesn’t mean you’re not getting something out of it. Otherwise, why would you do it? 🤔

Mrs TMN x

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By *stwo2023Couple
6 weeks ago

Worcester

Yes but it's rare I don't get anything for myself. I can cum just from sucking his cock.

Evie

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By *teveAndHisMagicPicklenicMan
6 weeks ago

Ends

I have sex and most of the time don’t get oral.

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By *usyBusyGirlWoman
6 weeks ago

Brum

"I have sex and most of the time don’t get oral. "

Wtf?

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By *teveAndHisMagicPicklenicMan
6 weeks ago

Ends

"I have sex and most of the time don’t get oral.

Wtf?"

It doesn’t bother me. I always go down first and when you go with the flow it often can mean the person just wants you inside them afterwards.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
6 weeks ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Only if he is bound to the bed and blindfolded, so I can practice my craft upon him

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By *ig_eric_tionMan
6 weeks ago

IPSWICH

I do enjoy giving. I make it a priority.

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By *andynecklaceWoman
6 weeks ago

West Brom

Yeah but only with someone I really like...a fwb or fb? No

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