FabSwingers.com forum: Men - how physically exhausting do you find sex?

By *a Luna OP Woman
6 weeks ago

South Wales

It’s a quiet day for me and after perving a few vids on here it’s got me wondering.

How physically demanding do men find sex, in terms of energy, stamina, or physical exertion?

I’m asking about the physical side of sex -does it leave you feeling way too tired afterwards. Is it an uncomfortable workout for your muscles and stamina. It’s about understanding how much effort or energy it takes for you during the experience? Because sometimes I watch you men pumping away and my back and thighs ache on your behalf!

Do you sometimes just feel like sacking the whole thing off as it’s just too much effort? Does the pleasure of sex get to a point where the effort it takes to do the sex is just too much and you can’t be arsed?

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By *eckard2019Man
6 weeks ago

North West Durham

We pump away because you're worth it

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By *a Luna OP Woman
6 weeks ago

South Wales

"We pump away because you're worth it

Awwww good answer!

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By *ensuallover1000Man
6 weeks ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

Not tiring but….and I’ve mentioned this previously on here - cumming via a blow job bizarrely makes my legs go to jelly as though having just undertaken a particularly strenuous quad workout 😵‍💫😵‍💫

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By *a Luna OP Woman
6 weeks ago

South Wales

"Not tiring but….and I’ve mentioned this previously on here - cumming via a blow job bizarrely makes my legs go to jelly as though having just undertaken a particularly strenuous quad workout 😵‍💫😵‍💫"

Does the pleasure from the BJ make that sensation bearable though? Or do you tend to not get a BJ too often as it’s too intense a sensation?

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By *anzer FernandoMan
6 weeks ago

Over the seas and far away

It's a physical activity like any other. If you're fit, flexible and in shape your performance matches it. If not... Shagger's back is a thing, as are shagger's abs, and shagger's thighs. Some relatively recent, quite physical fun, left me hobbling around the next day (although I didn't notice anything while busy - the power of lust/hormones I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

I find I am very motivated by sex so my workout can last hours haha, the gym....max 1hr before bored

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By *neeyedwillieMan
6 weeks ago

Darlington

It's a demanding workout.

I'm known (at least to the women I know) for having some serious stamina and staying power. I can, quite litterally, go for hours and hours (aside from a few much needed water breaks). Thats not a brag. Just how I am and probably why my wife likes to pimp me out so much at the club lol.

Some women want picking up, throwing around. Its physically demanding. And trust me...I get that it's too much for some ladies as well. Some expect 5 mins and 5 hours later I'm still going and they're getting sore. I learnt a long time ago to play to my partners limits, not mine.

If you ladies really want to know how tiring just the basics can get, try dry humping something for 10 mins and see how knackered you get.

But do I want to stop? Not in the slightest. I might want you to do a bit of the work now and again just so I can catch my breath and I might occasionally only want a quickie but there's something about being able to go and go I love. Feels powerful if that makes sense.

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

Sexcercise is the best form of exercise . If your legs aren’t sore the next day you ain’t doing it right

free workout and you get to cum . Winner winner

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By *ensuallover1000Man
6 weeks ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

Does the pleasure from the BJ make that sensation bearable though? Or do you tend to not get a BJ too often as it’s too intense a sensation?

Oh it’s well worth it 😂👍🏻

But seriously, the muscular exhaustion in the legs is thankfully, only post ejaculation.

Curiously, said sensation is only linked to blow jobs as opposed to full sex - which is the really strange thing though.

I mean, I’m laying on my back and my legs are in no way even involved in the proceedings and yet here they are, trembling as though I’ve just done an intense round of pistol squats 😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫

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By *irtyDILF08Man
6 weeks ago

plymouth

I guess for me depends on the position. In the frog position it kind of aches the thighs after a while but pounding away from

Behind or missionary is not too much of an issue. I can only last about 10-15 mins first time

Round so no issue but second round tends to get tiring. But as a previous guy said your worth it x

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By *8on33Man
6 weeks ago

winfrith

to exhaustion

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By *r Mind CandyMan
6 weeks ago

Cheshire

If either of us can walk after, then we’re not finished!

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By *8on33Man
6 weeks ago

winfrith

"to exhaustion "
and beyond

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By *entfootloverMan
6 weeks ago

Sevenoaks

To simplify, I guess it depends on two things:

a) Your sex fitness level will probably mirror your general fitness level

b) How easy it is for you to cum. If you cum quickly, you never build stamina for long plan. If it takes you forever to cum, you probably had to compensate by building sex stamina - whether or not you have similar levels of stamina for general physical activities.

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By *rsteveMan
6 weeks ago

sheffield

I wish I could last long enough to be exhausted

it feels too good to last more than 10 mins. Or is that just me lol

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By *r Mind CandyMan
6 weeks ago

Cheshire

"I wish I could last long enough to be exhausted

it feels too good to last more than 10 mins. Or is that just me lol

Just you Steve! The rest of us are absolute studs 😂😂

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By *eroLondonMan
6 weeks ago

Covent Garden

"find sex" as in to locate it? Well, damsel, I have been known to scour the quadrants of this fair isle, traversing ravines, the green pastures and the rolling hills, the tributaries, and the nooks and crannies of every stately home and country estate...and let me tell you: it's very exhausting.

And when I've woo'd and beguiled the most agreeable of women into bed, it's even more exhausting.

Thank goodness for the missionary position — where I can at least rest my gyrating pubic region between her load-bearing thighs, as I thrust and pump with energy-sapping gusto.

Let's not forget the cowgirl position: a chance for me to rest my spine and lie flat whilst she does the hard work on my 'hard work'.

Sex is ennervating but pleasurable. If I make love like a fighter jet then I will tire quicker if I deploy my afterburners too often.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
6 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.

"It’s a quiet day for me and after perving a few vids on here it’s got me wondering.

How physically demanding do men find sex, in terms of energy, stamina, or physical exertion?

It's not very strenuous, I'm done in under a minute so I can easily recover enough to get on with watching football.

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By *alcon77Man
6 weeks ago

under the sun & the moon

In fact I want to have another long session.

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By *a Luna OP Woman
6 weeks ago

South Wales

So enlightening! Thanks guys 😘

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By *allerthanaverage79Man
6 weeks ago

Ayrshire

It all depends on how turned on I am!

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By *laytonAMan
6 weeks ago

Newport

Don't find it physically exhausting, although some positions can be more tiring to maintain for a long time. I do find though post orgasm can be left in a state of catatonic bliss, so relax quickly and can fall asleep especially if cuddled into the person.

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By *iko34Man
6 weeks ago

long eaton

At the time I don't find it exhausting as I do like sex and I'm not going to pass on it "I am male after all"

But sometimes I get up the next day and feel aches all over but it's part an parcel of it good time = aches lol

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By *WANDTGCouple
6 weeks ago

Borough of Greenwich

This is a very good question.

I had blood clots on both lungs and left leg a 2 years ago, so now after a good session I'm hanging out the window taking in gulps of air, plus my thighs cramp up if I'm in the wrong position.

We still carry on as before but it does take its toll.

Saying that we still squeeze in a double or triple session on occasions.

So it's not too bad

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By *onjoliveMan
6 weeks ago

bournemouth

It depends what you’re doing 😁

For me the most enjoyable sessions are ones that leave my legs like jelly due to physical extension. Not just from pumping/pounding away but foreplay. Massaging her body requires some strength/stamina as well as holding her legs/body in place whilst working away with my tongue and fingers.

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By *rsteveMan
5 weeks ago

sheffield

"I wish I could last long enough to be exhausted

it feels too good to last more than 10 mins. Or is that just me lol

Just you Steve! The rest of us are absolute studs 😂😂"

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By *electableicecreamMan
5 weeks ago

The West

It really depends. A couple of hours of hot sex often leaves me feeling energised and I've been known to get up and make a sandwich while my partner has a snooze. I do tend to pace myself, particularly if my partner is insatiable.

More recently it took me three days to recover from an all nighter.

I get jelly legs after an exceptional climax too

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By *aptainhornpipeMan
5 weeks ago

manchester

Sex is like any form of physical activity. It all depends on how long and how hard you go at it. Also what position you are doing it in. I could do cow girl all day long but missionary where I am supporting my weight on my hands is more tiring. Doggy takes little effort too but because you can go that much harder can fatigue after a while.

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By *rHotNottsMan
5 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

It can be up there with the best workouts leaving me soaking with sweat , heart racing, struggling to breathe, It’s just phenomenal.

It can also be much more relaxing , slow building , leg shakingly good!

It’s always worth it - the effort, the sore abs, the sore thighs, the burnt knees, the tingling skin, the bruises and bite marks

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By *oodmessMan
5 weeks ago

yumsville

I have chronic fatigue so it's more exhausting than you imagine and reason why I don't meet. I've met a few people and there's a lot of different types of sex but I certainly don't have the sex people have. Looking at people vid's and a few cam's, it does make me wonder if I could do any better (prob not), as some guys look a fucking boring shag.

I view some and just think that is not turning anyone on, they're not even slightly wet and hubby's done, the women look half asleep, or as you say they are banging as if it's rough sex, when they don't seem to be having rough sex, just hard pumping inny-outy.

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
5 weeks ago

London

Try pegging someone and you'll find out

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By *ee69Man
5 weeks ago

glasgow

When I’m lucky enough to be with a nice girl I don’t find it tiring just happy and exhilarating and obviously concentrating on her needs , after a can be a little tired but a have always had a quick recharge time thankfully and repeat cum too a find staying hard ok but a do notice a slight slow and tired feeling after a few rounds now I’m older , tbh as a get older as much as it’s fun to share time with a girl a would enjoy a couple off nice times with her and have her happy and actually really enjoy cuddles and hugs , maybe a bit vanilla but a really love the closeness and being open enough with a girl if she trust me enough to be that way , a really appreciate it more now , sorry a bit of a ramble there lol

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By *ife NinjaMan
5 weeks ago

Dunfermline

I find oral to be really enjoyable, but I'm kinda happy to then spoon. I find that relaxing, and more enjoyable than thrusting myself on top a lady. I also like the fact I can kiss her neck, and fondle her boobs at the same time

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By *8on33Man
5 weeks ago

winfrith

"It’s a quiet day for me and after perving a few vids on here it’s got me wondering.

How physically demanding do men find sex, in terms of energy, stamina, or physical exertion?

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Even though I'm not at the best end of my life for fitness I don't struggle where sex is concerned, when you enjoy yourself it's easy to find the stamina .

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By *hat.coupleCouple
5 weeks ago

Dartford

I've asked my husband this previously and he said that you get used to the strenuous nature of it, but you need to work on stamina. He has loads of it and can go for hours when we play but he can also pull a quickie if needed or wanted from whoever we are playing with. He used to sprint for Kent County when he was in his teens so he may have some muscle memory going on there too. Basically the more sex you have and the more frequently you fuck, the better and longer you can last.

Mrs x

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By *ir Toot of the frostMan
5 weeks ago

Burton-on-Trent

Errr pass?

Probably very I'm a 💀

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By *aven.Woman
5 weeks ago

Not the North West...

Joys of being female, I can just lay there.

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By *pandjMan
5 weeks ago

Sparkford

Only find it tiring when it's an early afternoon quicky then I just wanna go to sleep soooooooooo bad.

Ironic as I have trouble sleeping otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago

Know your worth kings 👑 Let her do the work 🦇

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
5 weeks ago

chichester

wouldnt say its tiring tbh

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