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By *iker Jack OP   Man
15 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

I miss intimacy.

The connection of the mind and the body

The slightest of touch or that look

What is intimacy to you and is it important?

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By *CB1975Man
15 weeks ago

Walsall

Exactly true, I find kissing very intimate, the look then lips meeting, tongues

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By *orphia2003Woman
15 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

I miss cwtches,

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By *issolvedOrdersMan
15 weeks ago

Bristol

I miss intimacy on a level that doesn’t come with the thinly veiled pretence of sex! Genuine intimacy without any ulterior motive

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By *CB1975Man
15 weeks ago

Walsall


"I miss cwtches, "

Forgive me if I don't understand....

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By *issolvedOrdersMan
15 weeks ago

Bristol


"I miss cwtches,

Forgive me if I don't understand...."

Welsh for a cuddle

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By *CB1975Man
15 weeks ago

Walsall


"I miss cwtches,

Forgive me if I don't understand....

Welsh for a cuddle "

Ahh thanks

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By *andadbodMan
15 weeks ago

Liverpool

Intimacy isn’t something you’d normally get in the swinging world.

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By *iker Jack OP   Man
15 weeks ago

Wolverhampton


"Intimacy isn’t something you’d normally get in the swinging world."

I think swinging is many different things to many different people

I got told by someone I talk to that what I want is not on here. As in not just sex.

Makes me think of why I am here.

Not a pity post. More a thoughtful Wednesday post

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

I don't feel comfortable with cuddles/intimacy from a guy and I don't look for it.

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
15 weeks ago

Maidstone


"Intimacy isn’t something you’d normally get in the swinging world.

I think swinging is many different things to many different people

I got told by someone I talk to that what I want is not on here. As in not just sex.

Makes me think of why I am here.

Not a pity post. More a thoughtful Wednesday post "

Personally I would have questioned them rather than taking what they say at face value. People have found all sorts of different types of connections on here. It's all about the mindset and meeting that right person. I wouldn't listen to negativity🤷‍♀️

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

The cuddles, stroking my hair, holding hands and kissing until our lips fall off.. I miss that. It is possible to have a level of physical intimacy with sexual partners but emotional intimacy can only be found in a relationship. It's important to me and I couldn't be with someone who didn't show both sides.

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By *icolasHidalgoDeCorazonMan
15 weeks ago

St Leonards

She knows never to eat my Spangles.

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By *rettyflamingoWoman
15 weeks ago

Where the flamboyance of flamingos live

I miss cwtches, there’s nothing like a good tight cwtch.

Love kissing passionately and yes that look you give each other. And so lonely sometimes x

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By *ell GwynnWoman
15 weeks ago

North Yorkshire


"Intimacy isn’t something you’d normally get in the swinging world."

I think quite a few people manage to find it, whether it's the emotional intimacy of friendship or the physical intimacy of a lover. Or both.

I really value it and have been fortunate enough to find other people who do too.

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By *eliWoman
15 weeks ago

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I've found emotional and physical intimacy with people on here without dating them, without being in a relationship with them.

The idea that you can only find those in relationships might be true to those who prefer an emotionally monogamous, more traditional relationship but it's far from applicable to all.

How intimacy looks to me? It varies. You can have different levels, can't you? There's also more than physical and emotional. I love social and intellectual intimacy, spiritual doesn't really factor in for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

The Connection is more important to me.

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By *ell GwynnWoman
15 weeks ago

North Yorkshire


"I've found emotional and physical intimacy with people on here without dating them, without being in a relationship with them.

The idea that you can only find those in relationships might be true to those who prefer an emotionally monogamous, more traditional relationship but it's far from applicable to all.

How intimacy looks to me? It varies. You can have different levels, can't you? There's also more than physical and emotional. I love social and intellectual intimacy, spiritual doesn't really factor in for me."

Yes! Social and intellectual intimacy are so important. The most rewarding connections are multifaceted.

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By *52203leeMan
15 weeks ago

Stafford

Well said nell true

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By *sWyldWoman
15 weeks ago

Edinburgh

The reassuring look or hand in mine that says 'I've got you'

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