FabSwingers.com forum: When above is not above

By *obilebottom OP Man
13 weeks ago

All over

Lots of threads ask to do something or say whatever about the poster above. Most people do just that but very noticeably some just skip the person above and go for someone else. I run quite a few threads and tbh I don't like it, especially if it is new people that will be put off and possibly not join in again. Personally I prefer to include everyone though I appreciate why it might be happening

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By *exxyyDy11Man
13 weeks ago

Darwen

Sadly I feel like fab can be a bit cliquey at times. Hence why this sort of thing happens.

But I absolutely agree, no one should be made to feel excluded on the forums.

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman
13 weeks ago

Markfield

Yeah.

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By *layfullsamMan
13 weeks ago

Solihull

"Yeah. "

Play hide the sausage during naked baby oil twister

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By *layfullsamMan
13 weeks ago

Solihull

"Yeah.

Play hide the sausage during naked baby oil twister"

Oops sorry wrong thread

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
13 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Sometimes it's a timing thing. Especially when there's a little rush to reply to the hot girl or popular poster.

But yeah. Sometimes people are just rude about it.

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By *ildmanYorksMan
13 weeks ago

Doncaster & Bembridge

I usually find that by the time I've checked the profile above and made my comment, at least 2 others have beaten me to it! So instead of pleasuring the lady who was above, it looks like I want to have the guy that replied before me!

🤯

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
13 weeks ago

East Sussex

It's akin to being last to be picked for the netball team. An experience I'm all too familiar with

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By *rT25Man
13 weeks ago

Rotherham

I think sometimes though the thread goes that fast its easy to miss someone above.

But I do agree that certain people again and again will just get thirsty over who they want haha

It is what it is

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By *rT25Man
13 weeks ago

Rotherham

"I usually find that by the time I've checked the profile above and made my comment, at least 2 others have beaten me to it! So instead of pleasuring the lady who was above, it looks like I want to have the guy that replied before me!

🤯

We've all been there. I just leave the post now rather than delete it

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By *layfullsamMan
13 weeks ago

Solihull

"It's akin to being last to be picked for the netball team. An experience I'm all too familiar with

Awwwwwww

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By *ensuallover1000Man
13 weeks ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

To be equitable, such threads often move at such a swift rate that inevitably a good few people are inadvertently lost amidst the proceeds.

However, it is indeed unfortunate that many will deliberately ‘hop’ over people in order to compliment a specifically chosen person 🙁

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

I'm glad my posts get skipped the person I'm flirting with usually misses it because of it

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
13 weeks ago

East Sussex

"It's akin to being last to be picked for the netball team. An experience I'm all too familiar with

Awwwwwww

It's fine I didn't like netball

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By *elix SightedMan
13 weeks ago

Cloud 8

"It's akin to being last to be picked for the netball team. An experience I'm all too familiar with

Awwwwwww

It's fine I didn't like netball

Mrs N preferred getball

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

"Sometimes it's a timing thing. Especially when there's a little rush to reply to the hot girl or popular poster.

But yeah. Sometimes people are just rude about it."

I think this is it in a lot of instances, I've done it where I've come after the person who's already replied, but just try and go back and do them... Wow, that sounded unnecessarily sexual 🤨

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By *layfullsamMan
13 weeks ago

Solihull

I get missed out lots on threads but it is what it is I’m a big boy lol

I think partly as someone said it’s that race for men to message the hot girl above and other times it’s just not fancying someone even though it’s not that type of thread

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By *IXEN200Woman
13 weeks ago

newcastle upon tyne

"It's akin to being last to be picked for the netball team. An experience I'm all too familiar with

I remember those days being picked last, for me it knocked my confidence.

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By *ir tootMan
13 weeks ago

Burton-on-Trent

"It's akin to being last to be picked for the netball team. An experience I'm all too familiar with

I remember those days being picked last, for me it knocked my confidence."

School was the worst for that..

Honeslty I try to take these forum games as abit of fun.

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By *IXEN200Woman
13 weeks ago

newcastle upon tyne

"It's akin to being last to be picked for the netball team. An experience I'm all too familiar with

I remember those days being picked last, for me it knocked my confidence.

School was the worst for that..

Honeslty I try to take these forum games as abit of fun."

I left school at 16 due to being pregnant and my confidence is slowly coming back now. School was awful

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

I spend ages looking at their profile and typing a response, only to discover the thread has had several new posters by the time I've clicked post

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By *urry BlokeMan
13 weeks ago

Stalybridge

It's not just 'those' threads though MB

I'd say, for many men here, someone picking up one on of your comments in any thread is like 1 in 20 - less so for the ladies

It's no sweat for me personally, but I do understand why, for some, the forums can appear a lonely place

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
13 weeks ago

East Sussex

"It's akin to being last to be picked for the netball team. An experience I'm all too familiar with

I remember those days being picked last, for me it knocked my confidence."

I knew I was no good at netball, I didn't expect people to pick me and it didn't particularly concern me. I feel a similar way about the 'one above' threads hence I rarely join them. At least we get a choice

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
13 weeks ago

East Sussex

"It's akin to being last to be picked for the netball team. An experience I'm all too familiar with

I remember those days being picked last, for me it knocked my confidence.

School was the worst for that..

Honeslty I try to take these forum games as abit of fun."

I don't know why they do it at school really, it's no more than a popularity contest when it comes down to it.

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By *ir tootMan
13 weeks ago

Burton-on-Trent

"It's akin to being last to be picked for the netball team. An experience I'm all too familiar with

I remember those days being picked last, for me it knocked my confidence.

School was the worst for that..

Honeslty I try to take these forum games as abit of fun.

I don't know why they do it at school really, it's no more than a popularity contest when it comes down to it. "

Yeah, I'm glad school is over and dome with, fucking shitshow.

Just hope don't people don't take the forum to much to the heart, really isn't good for you mentally either.

And that's coming from me 🤣.

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By *uzzieboyMan
13 weeks ago

taunton

"Sadly I feel like fab can be a bit cliquey at times. Hence why this sort of thing happens.

But I absolutely agree, no one should be made to feel excluded on the forums. "

Well said

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
13 weeks ago

East Sussex

"It's akin to being last to be picked for the netball team. An experience I'm all too familiar with

I remember those days being picked last, for me it knocked my confidence.

School was the worst for that..

Honeslty I try to take these forum games as abit of fun.

I don't know why they do it at school really, it's no more than a popularity contest when it comes down to it.

Yeah, I'm glad school is over and dome with, fucking shitshow.

Just hope don't people don't take the forum to much to the heart, really isn't good for you mentally either.

And that's coming from me 🤣.

I didn't mind school.

I think the forums can be difficult for some for sure.

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By *ir tootMan
13 weeks ago

Burton-on-Trent

"It's akin to being last to be picked for the netball team. An experience I'm all too familiar with

I remember those days being picked last, for me it knocked my confidence.

School was the worst for that..

Honeslty I try to take these forum games as abit of fun.

I don't know why they do it at school really, it's no more than a popularity contest when it comes down to it.

Yeah, I'm glad school is over and dome with, fucking shitshow.

Just hope don't people don't take the forum to much to the heart, really isn't good for you mentally either.

And that's coming from me 🤣.

I didn't mind school.

I think the forums can be difficult for some for sure. "

I'll admit I got bullied a fair bit, but it's all in the past now.

It certainly was for me, all these new people that i have to socialise with.. scary.

I feel alot more confident now though, it's still kinda difficult but it's better then 2 moths ago.

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By *ir tootMan
13 weeks ago

Burton-on-Trent

I am rambling again. Shit.

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By *rightonsteveMan
13 weeks ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Lots of threads ask to do something or say whatever about the poster above. Most people do just that but very noticeably some just skip the person above and go for someone else. I run quite a few threads and tbh I don't like it, especially if it is new people that will be put off and possibly not join in again. Personally I prefer to include everyone though I appreciate why it might be happening

I get that cos some guys can’t bear the thought of being seen to interact with a bi guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

People are gonna reply to the one they fancy, or as someone else said it's just a timing thing. Honestly, if people get upset about getting skipped they maybe shouldn't play in the first place, it's not that serious.

What does annoy me is the ones that go back and reply to someone.

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By *ecky and justCouple
13 weeks ago

Godalming

Well often get skipped but won’t take it personally..

the timing is sometimes frantic and we’ll often get caught up looking at someone’s profile for longer than we should..

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By *osey WalesMan
13 weeks ago

La La Land

What the above said.

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By *ik NaksCouple
13 weeks ago

Wigan

"Well often get skipped but won’t take it personally..

the timing is sometimes frantic and we’ll often get caught up looking at someone’s profile for longer than we should..

You’re not getting skipped this time 🔥🔥🔥 xx

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By *ecky and justCouple
13 weeks ago

Godalming

"Well often get skipped but won’t take it personally..

the timing is sometimes frantic and we’ll often get caught up looking at someone’s profile for longer than we should..

You’re not getting skipped this time 🔥🔥🔥 xx"

Right back at you..!

Got lost for a while in your videos..

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By *ik NaksCouple
13 weeks ago

Wigan

"Well often get skipped but won’t take it personally..

the timing is sometimes frantic and we’ll often get caught up looking at someone’s profile for longer than we should..

You’re not getting skipped this time 🔥🔥🔥 xx

Right back at you..!

Got lost for a while in your videos..

Need to take some better ones but thank you 😘😘 xx

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By *zami89Man
13 weeks ago

Stockton-on-Tees

😓😓

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By *iker JackMan
13 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

I think also that the ratio thing can mess it up sometimes.

Most “straight” men won’t admit to wanting to do whatever to the poster above if they are male so go higher up the thread seeking the woman.

That said I have seen diplomatic answers of “yes for a drink” etc

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