FabSwingers.com forum: Is the problem

By *Misschiefx OP TV/TS
6 weeks ago

London

A lack of self awareness?

You know when you get a blank face message that says 'hi'. Is it because they have no self awareness and don't realise that they are also being perceived in this interaction?

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
6 weeks ago

Herts

I just assume they think they can make zero effort and get results. Probably reflecting their attitude in other aspects of their lives.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
6 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

The problem could be one of many.

Yes, a lack of self awareness about how a message like that portrays them.

Or just plain laziness.

Or an inability to construct a coherent sentence.

Or it was all they could accurately type whilst bashing one out with their other hand.

Who knows. 🤷‍♂️

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By *iker JackMan
6 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

Or it could just be a brief, very brief, introduction, hoping you may read their profile and say something back

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By *Misschiefx OP TV/TS
6 weeks ago

London

"I just assume they think they can make zero effort and get results. Probably reflecting their attitude in other aspects of their lives. "

Yeah I tend to make the same assumption

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By *Misschiefx OP TV/TS
6 weeks ago

London

"Or it could just be a brief, very brief, introduction, hoping you may read their profile and say something back

It's often a picturless profile that just says

"Regular guy looking for fun

To Sidney University..... "

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
6 weeks ago

Herts

"Or it could just be a brief, very brief, introduction, hoping you may read their profile and say something back

Can’t get more brief than a blank profile and a message that says ‘hey’ I guess.

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By *issmorganWoman
6 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Yes, I don't think some people realise they have to put a bit of effort into profiles and messages, if they want a response.

If I'm honest it baffles me why they don't.

It's not just men either, I'm half a couple and we've had hi, from couple accounts with no pics/one line of text too.

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By *rightonsteveMan
6 weeks ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"A lack of self awareness?

You know when you get a blank face message that says 'hi'. Is it because they have no self awareness and don't realise that they are also being perceived in this interaction?"

h.i. Is short for hugely ignorant.

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

They were told or are under the impression that this place is easy sex and everyone here is gagging for it.

Which is hilarious.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
6 weeks ago

Staffordshire

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By *avexxMan
6 weeks ago

cheshire

"Hi"

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