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By (user no longer on site) OP   
15 weeks ago

Hey all hope someone can help me out,

I've been on and off this site for just over a year and a half I have met a couple of people but they either couldn't verify me as they haven't been verified or just didn't verify me after the meet.

So my question is would anyone help me get verified either by cam or a social drink and chat, I search profiles and some do say they will just delete messages from people that's not been verified so I don't bother messaging them as I try to stick to what people want from their profiles.

I know this might be a stupid question and I know people are going to call me on it but I just don't know what the next step will be.

Thanks to anyone in advance that could help.

Happy Fabbing

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
15 weeks ago

A den in the Glen


"Hey all hope someone can help me out,

I've been on and off this site for just over a year and a half I have met a couple of people but they either couldn't verify me as they haven't been verified or just didn't verify me after the meet.

So my question is would anyone help me get verified either by cam or a social drink and chat, I search profiles and some do say they will just delete messages from people that's not been verified so I don't bother messaging them as I try to stick to what people want from their profiles.

I know this might be a stupid question and I know people are going to call me on it but I just don't know what the next step will be.

Thanks to anyone in advance that could help.

Happy Fabbing "

Yes. Meet me in Aberdeenshire. I'll get the first round in.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
15 weeks ago

Tbh I'm at the point where I might actually drive just to get it done with lol

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
15 weeks ago

A den in the Glen


"Tbh I'm at the point where I might actually drive just to get it done with lol "

No socials on your area?

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By *illy IdolMan
15 weeks ago

Midlands

There's a club in Leicester that do a newbie night on a Thursday. It's not too far for you and they will happily verify your account. You may also get chatting to others there who are willing to do the same.

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By *eroLondonMan
15 weeks ago

Mayfair

Hi OP, I'm sure someone will cam for you, however, are there any fab organised socials that you could attend within your area/region? It's a great way to meet people, to connect and exchange some coveted verifications. 🌈

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By *oxychicWoman
15 weeks ago

Nottinghamshire

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
15 weeks ago


"There's a club in Leicester that do a newbie night on a Thursday. It's not too far for you and they will happily verify your account. You may also get chatting to others there who are willing to do the same."

Thanks I'll have to check some clubs out see if I can get to a new member night

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By *oxychicWoman
15 weeks ago

Nottinghamshire


"There's a club in Leicester that do a newbie night on a Thursday. It's not too far for you and they will happily verify your account. You may also get chatting to others there who are willing to do the same.

Thanks I'll have to check some clubs out see if I can get to a new member night "
u can go to that as a new member no problem he's on about uniquez x

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By *illy IdolMan
15 weeks ago

Midlands


"There's a club in Leicester that do a newbie night on a Thursday. It's not too far for you and they will happily verify your account. You may also get chatting to others there who are willing to do the same.

Thanks I'll have to check some clubs out see if I can get to a new member night "

You are welcome, Miko. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
15 weeks ago


"Hi OP, I'm sure someone will cam for you, however, are there any fab organised socials that you could attend within your area/region? It's a great way to meet people, to connect and exchange some coveted verifications. 🌈"

Tbh I find it hard to find socials I look on the meet and events side but not many post around Nottingham or derby all like an 1-2 hour drive from me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
15 weeks ago


"There's a club in Leicester that do a newbie night on a Thursday. It's not too far for you and they will happily verify your account. You may also get chatting to others there who are willing to do the same.

Thanks I'll have to check some clubs out see if I can get to a new member night u can go to that as a new member no problem he's on about uniquez x"

Thank you I'll have to check it out

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
15 weeks ago

A den in the Glen


"There's a club in Leicester that do a newbie night on a Thursday. It's not too far for you and they will happily verify your account. You may also get chatting to others there who are willing to do the same.

Thanks I'll have to check some clubs out see if I can get to a new member night u can go to that as a new member no problem he's on about uniquez x

Thank you I'll have to check it out "

And good luck. A top tip if I may...

Once you have been verified, look at getting some anti-women cologne.

You don't want to end up like Willy and Nerø. They had to bat women off physically with tennis racquets and croquet mallets respectively once they became verified. They found the cologne and have struck a nice balance now.

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By *illy IdolMan
15 weeks ago

Midlands


"There's a club in Leicester that do a newbie night on a Thursday. It's not too far for you and they will happily verify your account. You may also get chatting to others there who are willing to do the same.

Thanks I'll have to check some clubs out see if I can get to a new member night u can go to that as a new member no problem he's on about uniquez x

Thank you I'll have to check it out

And good luck. A top tip if I may...

Once you have been verified, look at getting some anti-women cologne.

You don't want to end up like Willy and Nerø. They had to bat women off physically with tennis racquets and croquet mallets respectively once they became verified. They found the cologne and have struck a nice balance now."

It's true and it was exhausting. Lynx Africa was a saviour 🙌

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By *udamet666Woman
15 weeks ago

Kilbirnie


"Hi OP, I'm sure someone will cam for you, however, are there any fab organised socials that you could attend within your area/region? It's a great way to meet people, to connect and exchange some coveted verifications. 🌈

Tbh I find it hard to find socials I look on the meet and events side but not many post around Nottingham or derby all like an 1-2 hour drive from me "

Yet you said earlier you might drive to Aberdeenshire to get varified. ODD

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
15 weeks ago

A den in the Glen


"Hi OP, I'm sure someone will cam for you, however, are there any fab organised socials that you could attend within your area/region? It's a great way to meet people, to connect and exchange some coveted verifications. 🌈

Tbh I find it hard to find socials I look on the meet and events side but not many post around Nottingham or derby all like an 1-2 hour drive from me

Yet you said earlier you might drive to Aberdeenshire to get varified. ODD"

I think he was saying it tongue in cheek.

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By *eroLondonMan
15 weeks ago

Mayfair


"Hi OP, I'm sure someone will cam for you, however, are there any fab organised socials that you could attend within your area/region? It's a great way to meet people, to connect and exchange some coveted verifications. 🌈

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Tbh I find it hard to find socials I look on the meet and events side but not many post around Nottingham or derby all like an 1-2 hour drive from me "

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I can totally understand that. I think you may need to take a leap of faith and drive to one, stay for as long as you wish to or feel comfortable and then head home (I know it's easier said than done).

Some of the best socials have the best hosts: they will introduce you to some of the Fab stalwarts and to other newbies and ensure that you're not left out. Hope it all works out for you. 🌈

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By *ou345Woman
15 weeks ago

Derby

There's also the Attic in Derby that's not far. I'm sure there will be some there that can verify you if you get chatting.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
15 weeks ago

Leeds

No worries mate anytime.

I can confirm this guy looks real.

No need to thank me, just helping a brother out.

Cheeky wank ?

The mr

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By *eroLondonMan
15 weeks ago

Mayfair


"A top tip if I may...

Once you have been verified, look at getting some anti-women cologne.

You don't want to end up like Willy and Nerø. They had to bat women off physically with tennis racquets and croquet mallets respectively once they became verified. They found the cologne and have struck a nice balance now."

•

Never a truer word spoken by the luckless few about the two most fortunate men.

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By *oxychicWoman
15 weeks ago

Nottinghamshire

I have a chat to you and if that goes OK then meet for a coffee n cake no problem then veri u if that helps 🙂 im in your area ish🙂

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
15 weeks ago


"I have a chat to you and if that goes OK then meet for a coffee n cake no problem then veri u if that helps 🙂 im in your area ish🙂"

I would appreciate that and your ace for helping thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

Maybe this is why I struggle to get a meet, no verification.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
15 weeks ago


"Maybe this is why I struggle to get a meet, no verification. "

Now I find that hard to believe your a stunner 😍

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By *ir tootMan
15 weeks ago

Burton-on-Trent


"Maybe this is why I struggle to get a meet, no verification. "

It's because you stole the rum clearly.

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
15 weeks ago

A den in the Glen


"I have a chat to you and if that goes OK then meet for a coffee n cake no problem then veri u if that helps 🙂 im in your area ish🙂

I would appreciate that and your ace for helping thank you "

He shoots, he scores. Back of the net!

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By *rightonsteveMan
15 weeks ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I have a chat to you and if that goes OK then meet for a coffee n cake no problem then veri u if that helps 🙂 im in your area ish🙂

I would appreciate that and your ace for helping thank you

He shoots, he scores. Back of the net!"

PLAYA!

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
15 weeks ago

A den in the Glen


"Maybe this is why I struggle to get a meet, no verification. "

Because at 98, they probably don't have the motor neurone skills to write one.

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By *rightonsteveMan
15 weeks ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Op, go to the bisexual chat room on here and have a cam wank. Someone might give you a cam veri. Don’t be bashful as most of the guys furiously wanking there are straight.

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago


"Maybe this is why I struggle to get a meet, no verification.

Now I find that hard to believe your a stunner 😍"

A little unhinged and an amazing photo editor actually

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By *ir tootMan
15 weeks ago

Burton-on-Trent


"Maybe this is why I struggle to get a meet, no verification.

Now I find that hard to believe your a stunner 😍

A little unhinged and an amazing photo editor actually "

Just out of curiosity what do you use to edit?

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By *eroLondonMan
15 weeks ago

Mayfair


"Maybe this is why I struggle to get a meet, no verification.

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Now I find that hard to believe your a stunner 😍"

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"Stunner" would be stretching it a bit. If you haven't turned to stone from her gaze then she's probably acceptable.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
15 weeks ago

I'll like to thank you all for your advise I got verified by a lovely lady on cam today and I'll soon be checking out some clubs around the east/west midlands in due time.

If there is anyone that has information about new member events I would appreciate it dearly as going to a club on a main event night just might be too daunting for me where new members there might make it easier for me

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
15 weeks ago

A den in the Glen


"I'll like to thank you all for your advise I got verified by a lovely lady on cam today and I'll soon be checking out some clubs around the east/west midlands in due time.

If there is anyone that has information about new member events I would appreciate it dearly as going to a club on a main event night just might be too daunting for me where new members there might make it easier for me "

Surprised you found the time to reply. Thought you would be knee deep in fannybatter by now. 😂

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

Yes I’ll verify you! Here goes….

“ Good condition, reliable but a bit rusty! Like an old car!.. Overall good experience I’d give a 5 out of 10..”

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