FabSwingers.com forum: Single straight men???

By *owboybear OP Man
6 weeks ago

torpoint

Yesterday I opened my flitters to join in on a forum game. While my filters were down I had loads of profile views from single men of which I had 5 messages and several winks. All the guys that winked at me or messaged me have on their profile that they are straight men. So it begs the question my message another straight man or wink??? What do you think guys???

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By *8on33Man
6 weeks ago

winfrith

not sure what the question is .

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By *obilebottomMan
6 weeks ago

All over

I just would not worry. Certainly about winks and fabs, especially from people on a forum 'game' thread. I do like to usually do that almost with everyone on a thread like that. Does not mean more than a nice friendly hello and I also often get the same. Messages, if inappropriate, is a different thing but just block/delete and put your filters back again if it worries you and you be sorted. Have a great day and enjoy chatting to whoever you like too.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
6 weeks ago

Herts

What’s the actual issue OP?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
6 weeks ago

Leeds

The Forum game was called "make someone smile". The instructions were send a Fab, a wink or a cheerful, friendly message to brighten someone's day. It didn't say only contact profiles you fancy shagging.

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By *owboybear OP Man
6 weeks ago

torpoint

No issue or problem just wondered why these guys claim to be straight then wink at other straight men and or send sexual messages. Why not just be open about being bi or straight

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By *owboybear OP Man
6 weeks ago

torpoint

"The Forum game was called "make someone smile". The instructions were send a Fab, a wink or a cheerful, friendly message to brighten someone's day. It didn't say only contact profiles you fancy shagging. "
no this was yesterday see we be a picture to the person above which is fine… but it wasn’t people from the forums that was messaging or winking it was randoms

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By *allySlinkyWoman
6 weeks ago

Leeds

You also posted you were "in" on the "make someone smile" thread

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By *owboybear OP Man
6 weeks ago

torpoint

"You also posted you were "in" on the "make someone smile" thread"
I did that’s this morning yes

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By *8on33Man
6 weeks ago

winfrith

"The Forum game was called "make someone smile". The instructions were send a Fab, a wink or a cheerful, friendly message to brighten someone's day. It didn't say only contact profiles you fancy shagging. no this was yesterday see we be a picture to the person above which is fine… but it wasn’t people from the forums that was messaging or winking it was randoms"
How do you know they weren't on the forum maybe they read the forum but didn't comment?

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By *esthetic21Man
6 weeks ago

Birmingham/Bristol

They have still been looking at you it doesn't show up if you have filtered them out

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
6 weeks ago

chichester

"The Forum game was called "make someone smile". The instructions were send a Fab, a wink or a cheerful, friendly message to brighten someone's day. It didn't say only contact profiles you fancy shagging. no this was yesterday see we be a picture to the person above which is fine… but it wasn’t people from the forums that was messaging or winking it was randomsHow do you know they weren't on the forum maybe they read the forum but didn't comment?"

This

most people are lurkers

People run their profiles how they choose. We don’t get to police other peoples choices in that

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
6 weeks ago

Central

People have many reasons for looking and contacting. But the age old trope about straight men being unable to have sex with men deserves to die.of course they can and do.

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By *eroLondonMan
6 weeks ago

Covent Garden

"What do you think guys???"

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I'm all for male solidarity on here, whatever their sexual persuasion.

That's what I think.

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By *ornycougaWoman
6 weeks ago

NORWAY Wherever I lay my hat

Take the compliment. I don't see the problem here

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By *hGlobbitsMan
6 weeks ago

Leeds

Some of them will be from straight-but-nosey gits checking out the competition. Some will actively want to touch you on the peepee. Some will not be interested in you either way, but just playing their interpretation of the forum game rules

Thing is there's no way of knowing who's who. Golden rule of Fab: just because a guy says he's a thing, doesn't make him the thing.

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By *hGlobbitsMan
6 weeks ago

Leeds

"People have many reasons for looking and contacting. But the age old trope about straight men being unable to have sex with men deserves to die.of course they can and do. "

Does somewhat undermine their status as a straight man though.

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By *glyBettyTV/TS
6 weeks ago

About 3 feet away from the fence

Somebody hasn't told OP about the "Fab-straight" phenomenon....

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
6 weeks ago

Leeds

Take it as a compliment OP.

Mrs

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By *eorgesdad69Man
6 weeks ago

nottingham

I sent a message to a straight guy on here and we ended up passionate lovers for 2 years, he didn’t want to be outed as being bi. So nothing wrong with sending a straight guy a message cos he may be curious but shy 💋

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By *issmorganWoman
6 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

I think not everyone who lists themselves as straight, are straight.

Some men and even women are fab straight.

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By *ulie.your. bottom. slutTV/TS
6 weeks ago

Glasgow

OP your just so hot, your turning straight men bi. Smile and enjoy it..

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By *ykmwyldTV/TS
6 weeks ago

Belpre

I wouldn't let it bother you in the least. Just take the compliment and don't worry about it. There is very few truly straight men anyway, regardless of what they say or have posted.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
6 weeks ago

Central

"People have many reasons for looking and contacting. But the age old trope about straight men being unable to have sex with men deserves to die.of course they can and do.

Does somewhat undermine their status as a straight man though."

No. If they're not attracted to men, they're not gay or bi.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
6 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Some people are fab straight.

Some people just like to show appreciation for a good image, particularly men to men as most are aware of how few fabs and attention male pictures get compared to female ones.

Some people would have been working from the smile thread without posting because they didn't want the attention but wanted to contribute to making someone smile.

Don't overthink it OP.

There are plenty of beautiful pictures I've fabbed that were of people I'm not actually interested in fucking, I just like the image 💜

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
6 weeks ago

"No issue or problem just wondered why these guys claim to be straight then wink at other straight men and or send sexual messages. Why not just be open about being bi or straight"

Maybe they are under the impression that they are straight, they can fuck guys as long as they don't find them attractive.

Or more likely they don't want to put bi/curious on their profile as they think it will put single women/couples off

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By *rightonsteveMan
6 weeks ago

Brighton - even Hove!

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By *rightonsteveMan
6 weeks ago

Brighton - even Hove!

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I couldn’t say.

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By *ellhungvweMan
6 weeks ago

Cheltenham

The lesson you need to learn OP is: don’t open your filters.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
6 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"The lesson you need to learn OP is: don’t open your filters."

Or do, and become exceedingly comfortable heading straight for the delete button. 🤷‍♂️😂

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By *aven.Woman
6 weeks ago

Not the North West...

Men complain when they don't get messages, complain when they do. Make your minds up!

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By *ellhungvweMan
6 weeks ago

Cheltenham

"The lesson you need to learn OP is: don’t open your filters.

Or do, and become exceedingly comfortable heading straight for the delete button. 🤷‍♂️😂"

Sun Tzu say greatest general is not one who wins great conflict, but one who prevents it in first place.

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By *londebiguyMan
6 weeks ago

Southport

Be flattered by the attention I would say.

You're lucky someone fancies you here.

Be glad.

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By *rightonsteveMan
6 weeks ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Men complain when they don't get messages, complain when they do. Make your minds up!"

I suppose it depends what the messages say. I get a lot that say something along the lines of ‘fuck off stevie’ which I find rather astonishing. A reply is a reply though and worth batting one out for.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
6 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"The lesson you need to learn OP is: don’t open your filters.

Or do, and become exceedingly comfortable heading straight for the delete button. 🤷‍♂️😂

Sun Tzu say greatest general is not one who wins great conflict, but one who prevents it in first place."

Ah, but the great 'Fuk Mi' say man who send message to person who not want fucky fucky with other men will always end up diddling own dong.

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By *londebiguyMan
6 weeks ago

Southport

"Men complain when they don't get messages, complain when they do. Make your minds up!"

Yes,precisely this.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
6 weeks ago

Herts

I suggest at least try gay as it’s once mess thing to worry about if you ever wind up in prison. Or Brighton.

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By *orth_London_Guy100Man
6 weeks ago

London

"I think not everyone who lists themselves as straight, are straight.

Some men and even women are fab straight. "

There seem still to be a stigma about guys putting bi or curious on their profiles. They think that it would put women or couples off. I also get loads of messages from "straight" guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

They are bi but they will say putting bi on your profile lowers yoir chances of getting meets with women.

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By *ansoffateMan
6 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

It's like totally... ya know?

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By *aughty_Smooth_OperatorMan
6 weeks ago

Birmingham

"Take the compliment. I don't see the problem here"

Exactly my thoughts after the game should have changed filters simple

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By *rightonsteveMan
6 weeks ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"They are bi but they will say putting bi on your profile lowers yoir chances of getting meets with women."

They are wrong. If you’re bi you’re gonna appeal to ladies and guys who want to only meet bi men and there are lots.

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By *eroLondonMan
6 weeks ago

Covent Garden

"The lesson you need to learn OP is: don’t open your filters."

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My filters are open, indiscriminately. "Delete", "Ignore" and "Encourage" are processes that I'm comfortable with...as a fully ➡️ straight ➡️ man.

🙂

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By *s-two-75Couple
6 weeks ago

Maybe it’s the profile name, might think it’s secret code…. bears quite a popular category on the

scene

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