FabSwingers.com forum: Unread Messages

By *allGuy1000 OP Man
16 weeks ago

Reading

Hi, I’m new and still trying to figure out how things work on here. If I send someone a message and it remains unopened. It disappears from my message sent after a week. Is my message still in the recipient inbox?

I understand that people can be inundated with messages and might not get round to reading them. Do I send another message? I’d hate to be that guy!! 🫣

Thanks in advance xx

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By *elix SightedMan
16 weeks ago

Cloud 8

To be honest OP, the best thing you can do is delete all your sent items. It stops you worrying about whether it’s been read or not.

If you get a reply - great. If not, move on. 😊

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By (user no longer on site)
16 weeks ago

I haven't read the last 100 or so messages i've received... I deleted them all because they were all one-liners, filthy and proved that they hadn't read my profile.

Why would anyone message someone based solely on looks without reading what they are into? - They could be into drinking rat piss.

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By *r MzchiefMan
16 weeks ago

Derbyshire

"To be honest OP, the best thing you can do is delete all your sent items. It stops you worrying about whether it’s been read or not.

If you get a reply - great. If not, move on. 😊"

I agree. Ive learned my lesson. I read profiles start to finish, agonise over whether i might fit with them then i might send a message but delete it from the sent list straight away. If I get a reply can always take it from there. I never send a second if the first is not answered. Unfortinately i dont get unsolicited messages.

such is the life of a solo male profile.

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By *tephanie63Woman
16 weeks ago

BRIDGWATER

"Hi, I’m new and still trying to figure out how things work on here. If I send someone a message and it remains unopened. It disappears from my message sent after a week. Is my message still in the recipient inbox?

I understand that people can be inundated with messages and might not get round to reading them. Do I send another message? I’d hate to be that guy!! 🫣

Thanks in advance xx

It might still be in their messages unread.Usually if they delete it a line with "deleted" appears on your copy.

I personally wouldn't advise sending another message and as above delete your sent messages..

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