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By *JB916 OP   Man
14 weeks ago

Barnham

Hello everyone,

I have been on here a while, I'm struggling to get people to respond to me. I know I dint have a display picture before people jump on that but I try to send a long first message with stuff from the profile...I send a selfie too. But I still get no replies...

Does the site actually work for meeting people? I'm losing faith in it tbh....

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By *parkle1974Woman
14 weeks ago

Leeds

Tbh honest OP I wouldn't reply to you as you have 1 cock shot on your profile....is that how you see yourself?

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By *ohn.Wick.Man
14 weeks ago

The Continental

Look at your own profile and answer the following question.

If you looked at it, would you meet yourself based on what’s available?

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By *ave-and-LouiseCouple
14 weeks ago

Torquay

Unfortunately the no pictures would put us off. X

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By *JB916 OP   Man
14 weeks ago

Barnham

I send a pic with the first message usually

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By *ussle SproutMan
14 weeks ago

the middle

3 responses (4 including mine) so far OP. You aren’t doing too bad

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
14 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Yes the site works for meeting people.

Just not for everyone.

Setting up a profile isn't a guaranteed source of meets. It takes time and effort. And for most...a good selection of visuals and an interesting bio.

Most won't open a message til they've looked at yours, so no matter what you write or include it may go unread.

Don't put the cart before the horse.

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By *iberius61Man
14 weeks ago

Pontefract

Does it work? Yes, but it's a bit of a numbers game really and even choosing people who seem ideally compatible to you, response rate is still very low. For whatever reason half the people are not going to find you attractive. For your message there are many many more arriving in the same inbox, many of those also well thought out and carefully constructed. Basically it's a buyers market. You're a commodity that is almost certainly offered in better packaging and slightly more aligned to their detailed needs by someone else.

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By *radleywigginsMan
14 weeks ago

northwest

Hmm, I think most people are wondering why a ‘straight’ guy wants to meet a MM couple.

Better to be honest for the reason you don’t want to show any pictures other than your cock.

Soz mate

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By *eroLondonMan
14 weeks ago

Mayfair

Most people (especially women) will look at the profile in the first instance before even opening your message (or not), let alone replying, OP.

I think it's obvious why you're not having much luck...

But...I wish you luck. 🍀

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By (user no longer on site)
14 weeks ago

I think you get out of it, what you put in

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
14 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

No profile pic, just a cock pic, I wouldn't be interested, either.

You don't have to show your face, but full body pics with your face obscured would go a long way.

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By (user no longer on site)
14 weeks ago

I wouldn't read a long first message.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
14 weeks ago

Central

You have to be mutually compatible, not just having a one sided perceived compatibility. Most people are not mutually compatible, so adjust your expectations accordingly.

You must ask yourself how well anyone could possibly get to assess whether you might be compatible with them. Anything other than Yes, is a No. The onus is on you to let them take an informed decision upon you. They will look at your profile before reading your messages. Do what you can to let them see you and know what you can give them.

Cock pics aren't going to do it

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