FabSwingers.com forum: Fight or flight

By *parkle1974 OP Woman
8 weeks ago

Leeds

Which do you tend to lean towards?

Fight or Flight mode....

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By *exyScientistsCouple
8 weeks ago

Castlebar

Flight ✈️

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
8 weeks ago

Herts

Fight 💪

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago

If you start running you'll be running a long time.

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By *usyBusyElfWoman
8 weeks ago

Brum

Flight

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
8 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Fawn. Unfortunately.

I'd much rather be a fight or a flight person.

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By *929Man
8 weeks ago

newcastle

Fight. If I ran away I’d have sleepless nights for a long time

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By *antastic_Mr_Fox_76Man
8 weeks ago

District 13

Fight 👊🏽

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago

Fight, but flight with the right person

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago

Fight if it's worth it but most people/things aren't so I take the high road these days, if that makes me a flighter I'm okay with that.

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By *hilloutMan
8 weeks ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Depends on situation and context, but mostly fight.

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By *r John WickMan
8 weeks ago

The Continental

Flight.

I can’t be arsed to fight.

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago

"Fight if it's worth it but most people/things aren't so I take the high road these days, if that makes me a flighter I'm okay with that."

True, it often takes more courage to walk away from certain things!

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By *olfandtazCouple
8 weeks ago

Bristol

Depends on the situation, fight for some flight for others

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By *uperSalopian7Man
8 weeks ago

Shrewsbury

Flight

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By *heonlycunnilinguyMan
8 weeks ago

Yeovil

Flight if somewhere warm. More likely fight, as I am not that lucky lol x

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By *ee69Man
8 weeks ago

glasgow

Fight

Why I don’t really go out , was a total dick when younger almost ruined my life , I lead a quiet life now

Lot a folk will just laugh or bypass my comment but a have turned things around and it is possible .

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
8 weeks ago

1127 walnut avenue

Flight.....,..................,................around the corner, pickup a brick and smash them on the nut with it when they come after me..😹

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago

Never look for trouble,but I won't run....my knees won't let me

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
8 weeks ago

East Sussex

It depends. I'm not a heroine but if I need to I'll fight. I'm not going to put myself in danger if it's not worth it though.

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago

Fight

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By *iss CalicoWoman
8 weeks ago

Wakefield

Deffo flight

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By *amantha_NiteTV/TS
8 weeks ago

The Lake District

Being a typical Taurean,The Bull,I stand my ground.

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By *tlanshiaWoman
8 weeks ago

Chatham

The third, lesser spoken option, freeze.

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By *electableicecreamMan
8 weeks ago

The West

Situational.

I get ND sensory overload and am happy to take flight from sensory rich environments.

The same thing can be triggered by emotions and I've found the fight response quite useful when dealing with state service's.

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By *ell GwynnWoman
8 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

Ex fawn/freeze person, here.

Now it's mostly flight.

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By *eordieJeansCouple
8 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Fight. I’m not talking about some idiot having a go when I’m out with my friends. I will always walk away in those situations but if I’m in genuine fear for my life I fight.

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
8 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania

I take Arya Stark's advice - don't get into a fight with someone who can obviously beat the crap out of you.

Remember, "he who runs away." That's it. Just, "he who runs away".

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By *8on33Man
8 weeks ago

winfrith

"Which do you tend to lean towards?

Fight or Flight mode...."
Fight ,what do you mean fisty cuffs ?

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By *ool QuipWoman
8 weeks ago

Cheadle

Freeze

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By *r SproutMan
8 weeks ago

the middle

In my younger days it would have been fight. Now I’m older I’m not sure what I’d do

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By *ad NannaWoman
8 weeks ago

East London

Panic attack.

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By *ad NannaWoman
8 weeks ago

East London

I think I probably clam up, but if someone really was going to hit me my instincts would kick in, because I can't run 😂

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By *hrista BellendWoman
8 weeks ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Twonks-flight, loudmouths are easier to walk away from, than out compete.

Actual danger-fight I'm a big lass and am happy to restrain, by sitting on people

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
8 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

Fight

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago

Flight

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By *ustAnotherMan
8 weeks ago

wherever I may roam

Fight everything. Then flight when I realise I overreacted.

It's a conflict

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By *wingamajigsCouple
8 weeks ago

Folkestone

Unfortunately fight.

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By *oubleswing2019Man
8 weeks ago

Colchester

Deescalate and negotiate. I suppose it's a form of fight in that regards.

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By *agatoXXXMan
8 weeks ago

Gone and completely forgotten.

Depends on whether she's bigger'n me.

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By *rHotNottsMan
8 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

My default seems to be fight. Unless I’m out running and being chased by dogs , then it’s flight & can literally taste the metal in my mouth from the adrenaline

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By *anonfire96Man
8 weeks ago

Rainworth

Depends on the situation.

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By *cott14Man
8 weeks ago

Essex & SW Exeter/Taunton

Fight . Not always my best trait

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By *eliWoman
8 weeks ago

Many years ago it would be flight. Now it's mainly fight or fawn, occasionally flight if I'm having a sensory overload.

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By *asha86Couple
8 weeks ago

walsall

Depends on the situation... I tend to run towards danger unless I have my kids with me and then it's flight.

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By *vaRose43Woman
8 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

Depends on the situation

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By *otSoPetiteMortWoman
8 weeks ago

Hertfordshire

Despite my conscious self believing that flight is often the best option, from experience my adrenaline-fueled self will go for fight.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
8 weeks ago

chichester

Fight unless it’s obvious I can’t disable what’s infront of me from assessment.

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By *ripfillMan
8 weeks ago

havant

Fight … I don’t do fear

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago

Fight 👊

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By *d mirerMan
8 weeks ago

lost

I’ll fight if it’s the right thing to do

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago

Depends on the situation preferably walk away but don't mind a bit of rough and tumble

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