FabSwingers.com forum: Fabs on your pics do you respond

By *uperS77 OP Man
8 weeks ago

Gloucester

Or do you just take it as a silent compliment have a smile to yourself and get on with your life

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By *assion8Man
8 weeks ago

Glasgow

Always acknowledge them and say thankyou. Only because they are few and far between

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By *929Man
8 weeks ago

newcastle

I view them as just a small compliment nothing more and always try and fab back since they were so kind to do so in first place

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By *asepaul71Man
8 weeks ago

Buxton

I often say thank you or wink when someone has fabbed my pics

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
8 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Ain't nobody got time for that.

Generally, no.

If I scan through recent fabs and someone stands out to me, it's not unheard of 💜

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By *agatoXXXMan
8 weeks ago

Gone and completely forgotten.

I'll usually respond, if I notice them.

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By *ellhungvweMan
8 weeks ago

Cheltenham

Generally I would just accept a picture fab and then move on with life. Winks are what I would normally respond to.

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By *ee69Man
8 weeks ago

glasgow

Don’t get loads but it is nice

I’m most a silent compliment

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By *uythetravellerMan
8 weeks ago

If I like the person(s) yes I will respond.. why not

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By *ealitybitesMan
8 weeks ago

Belfast

The reason the vast majority of women don't fab pics is because some people see it as an invitation to say hello.

I've never acknowledged a fab.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
8 weeks ago

chichester

"Ain't nobody got time for that.

Generally, no.

If I scan through recent fabs and someone stands out to me, it's not unheard of 💜"

This.

I mean a female / trans posting can often get hundreds of fans if not thousands quite fast in short time Good luck replying to that

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By *weet and SpiceCouple
8 weeks ago

Around the Midlands

"Ain't nobody got time for that.

Generally, no.

If I scan through recent fabs and someone stands out to me, it's not unheard of 💜"

Same here

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By *ravelling ChappieMan
8 weeks ago

Stroud

I occasionally check out the fabber, and have been known to respond. Rarely goes much further.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
8 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

99% on mine are from men, who as a segment of Fab I'm not interested in.

Why would I respond? 🤷‍♂️

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By *ustamanMan
8 weeks ago

weymouth

It's just a compliment

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By *r John WickMan
8 weeks ago

The Continental

I see no point, it’s just an unspoken compliment. Not an invite to get in touch.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
8 weeks ago

Coventry

The vast majority of the time just a compliment. Sometimes it's seems to be a return compliment on a fab we've sent. I figure if they were intrested they'd touch base with a wink or a message.

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By *r Mind CandyMan
8 weeks ago

Cheshire

I always respond to fabs with a thank you.

But I don’t get that many, I know I’m an acquired taste so really appreciate the few I do get.

However I totally understand it would be impossible for ladies and couples to respond to every fab they get.

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By *lderflower_AppleWoman
8 weeks ago

Basingstoke

I look on it the same way as maybe someone smiling at me when I'm out and about. I'll take a look at who's fabbed me and if they take my fancy I'll smile/fab them back. Very occasionally I might send a message, but in reality most people who fab my pics are hundred of miles away, so what's the point in opening comms?

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By *irty-pairCouple
8 weeks ago

South Essex

Like others here, we take them as compliments, but we have winked, messaged and met people following a Fab x

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago

If they are who we are looking for then yes we respond.

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By *ornycougaWoman
8 weeks ago

NORWAY Wherever I lay my hat

"The reason the vast majority of women don't fab pics is because some people see it as an invitation to say hello.

I've never acknowledged a fab. "

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By *ryingitout19Man
8 weeks ago

Wales

Don’t tend to respond to a fab as I take that as just liking the pic without necessarily wanting anything.

A wink or a message I would perceive as them trying to initiate some contact so would reply to those! Although I dod thank someone for a wink yesterday and was promptly blocked so doesn’t always work

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By *rSircumsizedMan
8 weeks ago

Risca

Not to the guys who fab my pics, but if a woman likes any of them (it isn't very often), then I'll drop them a thank you letter in the post.

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By *oxychicWoman
8 weeks ago

Nottinghamshire

I dont respond no , if they wanted to chat surely they send a message 😁

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By *aul.J.JMan
8 weeks ago

Sedgley

I always respond as they have taken the time to do that, I also fab in return if there are any pics in their profile

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By *ady SuzieXXXWoman
8 weeks ago

Chichester

I do have a look and often do make contact.

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By *sWyldWoman
8 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I rarely look to be honest

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By *r SproutMan
8 weeks ago

the middle

No, i just take it as a compliment.

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By *andPextraCouple
8 weeks ago

North West

No, just accept them as a silent compliment. If they want to speak to me they can message.

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
8 weeks ago

Reading

I've never even considered responding to people who have fab'd my pictures. If I were to do so it would take over my day job.

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago

Sometimes yes, more in hope if anything

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By *r SensualMan
8 weeks ago

London

Nope… as with the person above who said the same thing, the majority of my photos are fabbed by men which isn’t my target audience… the rest of the portion that make up my fabbed photos are existing friends.

Very flattering if someone likes something I’ve uploaded but it’s nothing more than that. Certainly don’t message every person who’s photos I fab either…

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago

Yes,,, with a thank you

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
8 weeks ago

Newcastle

I see a fab as the equivalent of a ‘like’ on fbook. It doesn’t really warrant a message. But I think the volume of Fabs will likely be very different for men, women, couples and TV/TS - some people couldn’t possibly respond to every fab… we’d be here all day 😂

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
8 weeks ago

Leeds

People responding puts me off fabbing them to be honest & it's why I don't fab blokes anymore.

I fab the pic because I like the pic not because I want to fuck them or have a conversation about it, I'd have messaged or winked if that was the case.

Mrs

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By *ister_ee_1981Man
8 weeks ago

Sunniest Exeter...

If someone like my pics enough to Fab them, then I smile to myself that I am not entirely invisible.

But I treat fabbing a pic and making contact as two separate things, and both independent of each other.

I will probably perve at them though...

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By *r Mrs FuckableCouple
8 weeks ago

Stoke

"Or do you just take it as a silent compliment have a smile to yourself and get on with your life "

And this is why we never fab male pics anymore, because they automatically think you want to shag em by messaging back. Just because I like a photo, doesn't mean I want to suck your cock.

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By *8on33Man
8 weeks ago

winfrith

yes I view them as the biggest compliment and shower them with gifts .

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By *imherjgCouple
8 weeks ago

andover

Tend to fab a couple of pictures back it’s a nice compliment

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By *hris 1000200Man
8 weeks ago

kells

"Tend to fab a couple of pictures back it’s a nice compliment"

As above, it's nice to be nice

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By *adger BrocMan
8 weeks ago

Co. Cork

Pic fabs are very much appreciated and are acknowledged with a thank you. I always return the compliment which has led to some ongoing fab friendships.

All part of the fun and enjoyment of the site.

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By *imples24Man
8 weeks ago

tamworth

Easier being a man as don’t get 100’s so yeah like to say thanks.

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By *otsossieMan
8 weeks ago

Chesterfield

Depends who’s fabbing and how enthusiastically.

Tbh my fabs have fried up since I got bored of taking photos of myself.

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By *electableicecreamMan
8 weeks ago

The West

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By *electableicecreamMan
8 weeks ago

The West

"Or do you just take it as a silent compliment have a smile to yourself and get on with your life

And this is why we never fab male pics anymore, because they automatically think you want to shag em by messaging back. Just because I like a photo, doesn't mean I want to suck your cock. "

You mean when I immediately respond to a fab with 9 photos of my glorious member I'm not increasing my chances of getting the ride? 🤦

I just thought they were all fakes!

I'm never gonna get the hang of this fab thing 😭

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By *ivilised matureMan
8 weeks ago

Barnes sometimes Dulwich Village

I always respond to fabs, winks and messages. But then I'm old school and think it's respectful and good manners

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago

I'm mostly get fabs from men but looking for women

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By *heonixrising500Man
8 weeks ago

Barnsley

I allways reply amd often chat or cam

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By *hilloutMan
8 weeks ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"Or do you just take it as a silent compliment have a smile to yourself and get on with your life "

The latter. I suspect the reason a lot of women hesitate to fab men's pics is they likely get a message in their inbox afterwards.

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By *arcobell21785Man
8 weeks ago

leeds

Always say thanks u don’t know where it might lead x

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By *hadesofmWoman
8 weeks ago

canterbury

"Or do you just take it as a silent compliment have a smile to yourself and get on with your life "

As a general rule, I don’t bother to acknowledge because it leads me down a path with 1000 messages that I don’t need.

On the very rare occasion that I see someone fab one of my pics and I like what I see on their profile, and they are within a suitable distance then I might reach out, either by returning the compliment by fabbing a pic or by wink or message.

I don’t think it’s ever actually gone beyond afew messages though.

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By *r SensualMan
8 weeks ago

London

"Or do you just take it as a silent compliment have a smile to yourself and get on with your life

The latter. I suspect the reason a lot of women hesitate to fab men's pics is they likely get a message in their inbox afterwards."

No need to suspect, it’s the EXACT reason why women DON’T fab men’s photos…. Not something I personally do or would ever, but I understand why. A lot of guys when snap at any attention their profile gets when their struggling to get noticed…

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By *ohnny DeeeepMan
8 weeks ago

durham

I don’t really take them as anything, if somebody fires a cheeky wink over then I might get a semi on.

But when it comes to fabs no attention is paid.

Unless they fab all of my work, then I might take it as a sign.

99.9% of my fabs are from fellas though tbf.

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
8 weeks ago

Newcastle

"Or do you just take it as a silent compliment have a smile to yourself and get on with your life

The latter. I suspect the reason a lot of women hesitate to fab men's pics is they likely get a message in their inbox afterwards."

Yep that’s why I don’t fab them. There’s plenty of nice men’s pics that I think are very nice but I can’t be arsed with the messages that inevitably come afterwards. Same reason I spy in ninja mode - if they can see you’ve looked at their profile you get the ‘Like what you see?’ message… 😶

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By *illy IdolMan
8 weeks ago

Midlands

Ladies, if you Fab my pictures, I promise you that I won't bombard you with messages afterwards🙏

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By *eroLondonMan
8 weeks ago

Covent Garden

I take it as a silent compliment. It's appropriate protocol.

In four years I've only broken that protocol twice, but they were forum dwellers.

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By *929Man
8 weeks ago

newcastle

I never ever message first even if someone winks

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
8 weeks ago

Newcastle

"I never ever message first even if someone winks"

I think if someone sends you a wink then that is a bit of an invitation to message

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago

I’ll always respond to a wink or a fab

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By *airyChestedDaveMan
8 weeks ago

Liverpool

"I never ever message first even if someone winks

I think if someone sends you a wink then that is a bit of an invitation to message

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By *929Man
8 weeks ago

newcastle

"I never ever message first even if someone winks

I think if someone sends you a wink then that is a bit of an invitation to message

Haha fair point I usually just wink back and see if they message me

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By *r SensualMan
8 weeks ago

London

"I never ever message first even if someone winks

I think if someone sends you a wink then that is a bit of an invitation to message

You’d think so… there’s been occasions where I’ve been winked, I’ve winked back and followed up with message only for them to unsolicitedly friend request and totally ignore the message, like what was even the point of winking in the first place 🤦🏾‍♂️

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By *ir-March-a-lotMan
8 weeks ago

london

99.5% of my fabbed pics are from men so I don’t respond

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By *r Mind CandyMan
8 weeks ago

Cheshire

"I never ever message first even if someone winks"

I don’t message first, but that’s only because I know how many messages ladies and couples get, I don’t want to add to that fabmin, however I will always send a well thought out message to all winks. As stated on my profile.

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By *aven.Woman
8 weeks ago

Not the North West...

As a female I wouldn't even take a fab as a compliment.

A woman could post a picture of her elbow and it'd still get them.

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By *r Mind CandyMan
8 weeks ago

Cheshire

"As a female I wouldn't even take a fab as a compliment.

A woman could post a picture of her elbow and it'd still get them.

True dat! Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago

If lucky enough to get a fab, i try and reply with a thank you.

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By *anchesterTaurusMan
8 weeks ago

Prestwich

"As a female I wouldn't even take a fab as a compliment.

A woman could post a picture of her elbow and it'd still get them.

Whilst I think you have a point, it's nice to get a compliment.

Sometimes when you get a lot of something, you tend to stop seeing it as specifical.

Most women on this site talk to men like they're pieces of shit, so for a man to get a compliment, even "you don't look like a complete c*nt", is nice

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By *ilveryFoxMan
8 weeks ago

Midlothian

I do thank any fans on my pictures but not to those outside what I’m looking for.

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By *vaRose43Woman
8 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

I always forget to check

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
8 weeks ago

ashford

I don't look tbh! X

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
8 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

I run a simple operation. If it's a guy that Fabs I see it as a back slap over a pint in the pub and a hurrah and hussar. If it's a woman, I would bombard with messages and try to geolocate her.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
8 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

I don’t even think to look

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
8 weeks ago

Reading

I rarely look at them tbh so no i don't respond.

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan
8 weeks ago

Older Hot Bearded Guy

Yes if I’m attracted

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By *esthetic21Man
8 weeks ago

Birmingham/Bristol

If they wanted to message you they would. So no

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By *hilloutMan
8 weeks ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"Or do you just take it as a silent compliment have a smile to yourself and get on with your life

The latter. I suspect the reason a lot of women hesitate to fab men's pics is they likely get a message in their inbox afterwards.

People are free to fab away mine to their heart's content.

I've never sent a message thanking for fabs. I think it's cringe and desperate. If the person was interested in more, they'd either wink or message directly.

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By *uffymayfairCouple
8 weeks ago

vera playa, Almeria

We will look at who has fabbed us and if we like some of their pics we'll fab them. Also it's a good way of opening the conversation, if someone fabs one of the pics it shows they've looked and could be interested in us

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
8 weeks ago

Newcastle

"Or do you just take it as a silent compliment have a smile to yourself and get on with your life

The latter. I suspect the reason a lot of women hesitate to fab men's pics is they likely get a message in their inbox afterwards.

People are free to fab away mine to their heart's content.

I've never sent a message thanking for fabs. I think it's cringe and desperate. If the person was interested in more, they'd either wink or message directly."

Absolutely agree

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By *electableicecreamMan
8 weeks ago

The West

Fab for a dick pic.

Bound to work

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago

Like to thank them

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By *iscoman7771000Man
8 weeks ago

birmingham

I see it as a compliment

And will reply

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By *esthetic21Man
8 weeks ago

Birmingham/Bristol

Creeps

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
8 weeks ago

South Down

I rarely look at who's fabbed my photos so no, I don't thank people individually. I also don't expect thanks from those whose photos I Fab.

As an aside, a new photo upload can get hundreds of Fabs in a short space of time (talking about women in general) and sending thank you messages to each individual could well trigger a message block for spamming.

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By *irk_Dastardly.Man
8 weeks ago

Marlborough

I see it as a compliment and will return a fab or two as it’s nice to be nice. I don’t message as it stinks of desperation and probably puts people of fabbing if they get messages for doing so.

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By *herry delightWoman
8 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

I see from the update page that have been now and then, but I don't look at who has as it's not what I am on this site for.

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By *ohnny DeeeepMan
8 weeks ago

durham

"I never ever message first even if someone winks

Oh exactly, I’ll message first if it’s to do with a forum thingy or if winked at but I won’t otherwise for the same reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago

95% ignore

5% reply

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By *ripfillMan
8 weeks ago

havant

If someone has been kind enough to take time out - both to drop into my profile and fab any of my pictures .. then I always say thanks. Yes

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By *Jblue321Man
8 weeks ago

Chester

Always check them out see if it’s mutual 😊

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By *im_1878Man
8 weeks ago

Formby

It’s that rare, I say thank you

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By *issmorganWoman
8 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Nope, I never respond to them,if I like their pics, then I may fab a few in return.

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By *unnesscoupleMan
8 weeks ago

Inverness

Often say thank you, always think politeness is appreciated.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
8 weeks ago

Central

I forget to look

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago

Just got my very first fabbed photo,just bought 💐&💝 and am currently driving around Dublin looking for them!

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By *ust another WonkoMan
8 weeks ago

here and there

Sometimes I will message saying thank you

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By *uffnmuffCouple
8 weeks ago

London

"Ain't nobody got time for that.

Generally, no.

If I scan through recent fabs and someone stands out to me, it's not unheard of 💜

Same here"
same here x

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By *ampireLoveMan
8 weeks ago

Essex & Bristol

I tend to say thank you to whoever fans my pics unless it’s part of a forums fab game

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By *iss Boot LoverTV/TS
8 weeks ago

Tetbury

Usually say thanks if they take my fancy.

Usually leads to nothing but you have to cast your net wide on here.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
8 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

It's a nice compliment

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By *endalshaggersCouple
8 weeks ago

Kendal

Depends.

Most of the fabs on our pics are of me from single guys, so I slightly smile knowing fabbing a pic is the closest they'll get to fucking me.

When we notice a couple has fabbed pics of both of us, then we'll have a gander at their profile and see if they're possibly of interest

C xoxo

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By *orphia2003Woman
8 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

Don't even think mine can be fabbed. Never taken notice

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By *outhstaffscoupleCouple
8 weeks ago

Cannock

Just take it as a compliment and have a look at their profile to see if we can return the favour

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago

I like to message and thank them when I can since it’s not often I get a fab

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By *atureguy281066Man
8 weeks ago

Manchester

always appreciate them and say thank you

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By *hat.coupleCouple
8 weeks ago

Dartford

I don't respond to fabs, I see our pics as an advertisement of ourselves, although its nice to get a fab we don't see this place as a popularity contest. I understand some people love the fabs and attention but we are here to have fun, this isn't a social media website x

Mrs x

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By *exxyyDy11Man
8 weeks ago

Darwen

When I first joined, I did try to be polite and thank people for fabbing pics. Some responded, most ignored the message. So I don't bother now unless they message me first.

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
8 weeks ago

London

No, I don't get a huge amount but I also generally forget that it's a thing too.

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