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By *hadesofm OP   Woman
8 weeks ago

canterbury

As a woman who settled down young I have found myself stuck in the mundane part of my life, and although I don’t regret my choices, I am missing something.

Wow factor.

I want to meet someone who makes me go wow, that I am stunned by my attraction to them, and for them to also be attracted to me physically.

I want all that lust and excitement and sizzle but I’m just not finding it. I’m bored of having men be excited by my personality first and then wanting my body as a second.

Am I over the hill? Any advice?

Does it just not exist once you’re over a certain age?

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By *r SproutMan
8 weeks ago

the middle

At 37 I would say you are far from over the hill.

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By *ool QuipWoman
8 weeks ago

Cheadle

No I got divorced earlier this year and met someone off here that I had the hottest three months I've ever had in my life. So no, you aren't over the hill

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By *heeky trucker100Man
8 weeks ago

barnsley

I met a friend a few years ago and it was instant attraction

Electric i would say from both of us.

She was 47 i was 51 at the time so age is not a factor.

Good luck i hope you find it as our horizons have expanded immensely

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
8 weeks ago

Leeds

You're 37?! Hardly over the hill.

If people aren't making you get that excited feeling then maybe look into why, could it be you? Maybe your expecting too much? Not enough? Are you still in a dull home life and playing away is guilt part of that?

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago

I’m over the hill,you’re definitely not

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By *hilloutMan
8 weeks ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Perhaps you just haven't come across the right person Op?

It can be a matter of circumstance crossing paths with someone where the wow effect can be mutual.

I've recently experienced this, and yes, it is glorious.

Here's hoping you come across something similar

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
8 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

At 37, I'm having some of the best times of my life OP.

You're not over the hill yet 💜

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By *neeyedwillieMan
8 weeks ago

Darlington

I'll just tell you the truth.

You hit a certain age and things change.

It really depends what you are looking for.

If you want a man to just lust after you then yeah, you'll find that but how much chasing do you want them to put in? Most men, not all, wise up as they get older and will only put so much effort in. Why chase what appears to not want to be caught sort of thing.

Personally I enjoy putting the effort into seducing a woman and happen to have a wife who encourages me to do it to other women as well (because thats our dynamic)..but because I'm married and been doing this for years I know who is worth investing my.energy into and who isn't just from experiance. By that I mean I've learnt to not be strung along and not be playing games.

And it's fair to say some.women just like male attention for the sake of it. I'm.not accusing you of anything there by the way. Its just a reality. So I learnt a long time ago to just give my attention to the ones lusting after me and not the other way around.

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By *agatoXXXMan
8 weeks ago

Gone and completely forgotten.

You still have the "Wow" factor from what I see.

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
8 weeks ago

Newcastle

Nope you just haven’t met the right person yet. Fireworks will be on the way I’m sure

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By *jk1978Couple
8 weeks ago

Cheshire

We have been together 25 years and every day I have that wow factor for k, feel lucky she’s in my life she’s beautiful sexy funny loving kind caring super intelligent woman (they say opposites attract) lol but you can find someone who thinks like that about you too

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By *hadesofm OP   Woman
8 weeks ago

canterbury


"You're 37?! Hardly over the hill.

If people aren't making you get that excited feeling then maybe look into why, could it be you? Maybe your expecting too much? Not enough? Are you still in a dull home life and playing away is guilt part of that?

Mrs "

I am happily married and play only with permission.

I haven’t met in afew years for a variety of reasons, including young children.

I have no guilt about playing when I play because I’m totally honest with everyone about what I want and what I’m looking for.

Maybe it’s because i have been out of the game for a while.

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By *ellinever70Woman
8 weeks ago

Ayrshire

I think your expectations based on your overall situation are just a bit unrealistic

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By *ell GwynnWoman
8 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

It exists at any age, I'm sure. You just haven't met the right person yet.

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By *ib.Man
8 weeks ago

Hampshire

Don't we all?

It gets harder the more you've been there it.

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