FabSwingers.com forum: Sex drive

By *liza_13 OP Woman
8 weeks ago

Hamilton

Has anyone else’s sex drive just vanished?

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By *sWyldWoman
8 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Yes. A good few months ago now. The joy of perimenopause. Probably combined with men turning me all the way off.

Its left me feeling very frustrated and generally like I've lost my sparkle.

I'm now on HRT and trying to find my mojo again.

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By *r-8-BBCMan
8 weeks ago

LONDON

"Yes. A good few months ago now. The joy of perimenopause. Probably combined with men turning me all the way off.

Its left me feeling very frustrated and generally like I've lost my sparkle.

I'm now on HRT and trying to find my mojo again.

Good luck. I hope it works out for you

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By *r-8-BBCMan
8 weeks ago

LONDON

"Has anyone else’s sex drive just vanished? "

It's happened a couple of times with me. I put it down to antidepressants

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
8 weeks ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"Yes. A good few months ago now. The joy of perimenopause. Probably combined with men turning me all the way off.

Its left me feeling very frustrated and generally like I've lost my sparkle.

I'm now on HRT and trying to find my mojo again.

Oh, you’re not alone! X

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By *ewbootsandpanties99Man
8 weeks ago

Darkest South East Surrey

Yep, it's when life and home starts to get shitty. Mines really gone recently which is a shame, whenever I used to be down a good wank would always help me get my mojo back. Not this time, I really can't be bothered.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
8 weeks ago

chichester

Yeah at moment as I was injured last month

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By *lderflower_AppleWoman
8 weeks ago

Basingstoke

I lost mine for a while, when I was injured. Combined with work stress and perimenopause and depression caused by the injury.

Definitely seeing my mojo returning now though 😃

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By *ora the explorerWoman
8 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

Nope. Never in all my years. Wish it would sometimes

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
8 weeks ago

Tamworth

No, mine is in overdrive at the moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago

My sex drive hasn't gone,but I can't get a ticket to ride

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By *anchesterGuy1Man
8 weeks ago

Manchester

I have litterally just come out of one of those loss of mojo episodes, was stuck in a rut for 3 months but seem to be through it now.

Hence my appearance recently in the forums

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By *ellhungvweMan
8 weeks ago

Cheltenham

Mines still good - in fact I think it is in danger of getting a speeding ticket.

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By *ickle-Lilly-WillyMan
8 weeks ago

Ends

I didn’t have much of a sex drive for a bit earlier this year. My body was annoying me. I wasn’t feeling very sexy or aroused. But it has come back and I hope it never leaves me again.

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By *aribbean King 1985Man
8 weeks ago

South West London

I have lost it a bit although I'm kinda seeing someone and we haven't had sex yet she could relight my desire for it

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By *odgerMooreMan
8 weeks ago

gretna

No it’s constantly on standby… waiting for one of the lovely ladies to press my buttons

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By *herrybakewellCouple
8 weeks ago

Staffordshire

It's been reduced with stress.....but it's still there.

Mr.

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By *ister_ee_1981Man
8 weeks ago

Sunniest Exeter...

Mine very much fluctuates. At the moment I feel like a horny Teen, but then it falls off, then it comes back again.

Hope those who have lost theirs find it again!

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By *exisMan
8 weeks ago

fylde

Full speed for me

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By *tew008Man
8 weeks ago

edinburgh

does come back then fab puts it back in check

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By *d mirerMan
8 weeks ago

lost

Mine never goes as such , but it does often drop in terms of priority.

It’s had a bit of a sabbatical for a couple of weeks .

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago

Mine did in my early thirties, good knows why and I struggled it ruined my marriage, but now I’m back with a vengeance, like been a virgin again

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By *eroLondonMan
8 weeks ago

Covent Garden

Mine waxes and wanes like the wanton tide, ebbing and flowing every now and again. At any given stage it happens to us all.

Sometimes a kiss can ignite it.

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By *arry monk40Man
8 weeks ago

Telford

Still get morning wood but nothing after that and get no interest when I try and connect on here anymore bored of fake accounts

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago

"Has anyone else’s sex drive just vanished? "

Yes when I was on anti-depressants it was non-existent now it’s on and off because of depression/mental illness

I also think the time of year contributes to it

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By *enelope2UWoman
8 weeks ago

Fife

Nope...

Desire for finding a needle in this haystack has though

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By *laytonAMan
8 weeks ago

Newport

Yep, just feeling run down and stressed with work. So sex drive is in the garage at the minute too.

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By *esthetic21Man
8 weeks ago

Birmingham/Bristol

Alot of medication can cause this are you on any?

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By *hGlobbitsMan
8 weeks ago

Liverpool

"Nope...

Desire for finding a needle in this haystack has though"

Relatable comment of the day, right there.

I'm every bit as horny as ever. I just don't have the time or the inclination to spend what precious little free time I have firing carefully-crafted messages off into the void, never to be heard of again.

I've found more success in the real world of late, enjoying spending some time with one or two lady friends outside of Fab (if you can believe such a thing).

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
8 weeks ago

Stockport

I'm waiting for a wonderful woman to waken my wanton weary wentletrap...

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By *punk n gushCouple
8 weeks ago

kent

"Yes. A good few months ago now. The joy of perimenopause. Probably combined with men turning me all the way off.

Its left me feeling very frustrated and generally like I've lost my sparkle.

I'm now on HRT and trying to find my mojo again.

Oh, you’re not alone! X"

Excatly this I recently changed my hrt to a different combination and now feeling better

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By *mf123Man
8 weeks ago

with one foot out the door

Iv not had a sex drive in 4 years id sooner knock one out iv already reach the top of the mountain before theres no need to try climb higher unless i want to fall off

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By *liza_13 OP Woman
8 weeks ago

Hamilton

Glad I’m not the only one I would rather have a Chinese meal at the moment

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By *ora the explorerWoman
8 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

"Iv not had a sex drive in 4 years id sooner knock one out iv already reach the top of the mountain before theres no need to try climb higher unless i want to fall off"

❤️ you

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By *mf123Man
8 weeks ago

with one foot out the door

"Iv not had a sex drive in 4 years id sooner knock one out iv already reach the top of the mountain before theres no need to try climb higher unless i want to fall off

❤️ you

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like you too

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By *illy IdolMan
8 weeks ago

Midlands

"Iv not had a sex drive in 4 years id sooner knock one out iv already reach the top of the mountain before theres no need to try climb higher unless i want to fall off"

If anybody asks u who I am

Just stand up tall look 'em in the Face and say

I'm that star up in the sky

I'm that mountain peak up high

Hey, I made it

I'm the worlds greatest

And I'm that little bit of hope

When my backs against the ropes

I can feel it mmm

I'm the worlds greatest

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By *andy CanesWoman
8 weeks ago

south

Yes I could be a nun now

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By *ohnny DeeeepMan
8 weeks ago

durham

Mine depends, currently I’m ultra focused on stuff I want to do and it only appears a few times a week.

But then somebody comes along that inspires me and it can go into overdrive.

I think it’s more about wanting sexy time with a certain person rather than just needing a release.

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By *hilloutMan
8 weeks ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

On the contrary. It's running rampant, amok, out of control and very much one track at the moment 😈

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By *ora the explorerWoman
8 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

"Iv not had a sex drive in 4 years id sooner knock one out iv already reach the top of the mountain before theres no need to try climb higher unless i want to fall off

❤️ you

like you too

🤣❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

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By *mf123Man
8 weeks ago

with one foot out the door

"Iv not had a sex drive in 4 years id sooner knock one out iv already reach the top of the mountain before theres no need to try climb higher unless i want to fall off

❤️ you

like you too

🤣❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️"

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By *ucka39Man
8 weeks ago

Newcastle

Nope it's in reservation once I get other important things done. Then fitting in the time to unleash

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By *viatrixWoman
8 weeks ago

Redhill

Mine comes and goes to be honest…

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By *aven.Woman
8 weeks ago

Not the North West...

Mine has been MIA for the last 12 months. It can stay gone though.

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By *ell GwynnWoman
8 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

It fluctuates. Sometimes it buggers off for a few months, then it'll come back with a vengeance.

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By *appy HoHolly DeeWoman
8 weeks ago

Wherever

Yes, and as far as I know it’s much likely age related, my self confidence is also all gone so it kind of makes sense to me.

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By *ebdensteMan
8 weeks ago

Hebden Bridge

"Has anyone else’s sex drive just vanished? "

For me it happens every now and then - curse of being too busy at work and getting older

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By *ysizeMan
8 weeks ago

Nottingham (ish)

At an all time low to be honest,

Just can't be arsed.

Maybe it's the curse of the Forums? 🤔

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By *arialoueWoman
8 weeks ago

bradford

Yeah mine has for the past 10 yrs

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By *ruceyyMan
8 weeks ago

London

"Has anyone else’s sex drive just vanished? "

No it is here fiercely at the moment. It's CUFFING SEASON

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By *hesubtlegentMan
8 weeks ago

surrey

Mine is up and down. Am on meds at the moment for an injury and think that has a lot to do with it..

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By *rishVikingMan
8 weeks ago

Shankill

Mines on a resurgence

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By *rayson0702Man
8 weeks ago

Nottingham

I just can’t get enough!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago

"I just can’t get enough!!!!"

-Depeche Mode in 1981

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By *issolvedOrdersMan
8 weeks ago

Bristol

"Has anyone else’s sex drive just vanished? "

Not vanished, just become increasingly selective

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By *oubleswing2019Man
8 weeks ago

Colchester

For vanilla ? Zero interest/motivation

For Kink/Fet ? 100% motivated

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By *ripfillMan
8 weeks ago

havant

All good … v positive and very erectile

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By *avy999Man
8 weeks ago

liverpool

Mines through the roof at the mo

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By *eliWoman
8 weeks ago

Nope. I wish it would a little bit. Not fully gone, just enough to experience tapping out.

It did significantly drop (for me, anyway) when I felt a bit trapped in a, well I wouldn't call it a relationship as such... Stress in interpersonal relationships can affect it. That was quite a frustrating time for me.

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By *rettCoolMan
8 weeks ago

Dunfermline

"Has anyone else’s sex drive just vanished? "

My wifes

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By *ot MediterraneanCouple
8 weeks ago

Bedfordshire

No ! It’s full on right now

Even with sex I find myself playing through the day

I think of sex often through the day

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By *ake_or_deathMan
8 weeks ago

Manchester

Yeah definitely dipped at the moment. Not sure if it's mental health or age or something else. I still enjoy looking at nudes and the thought of certain sexual acts but in a slightly detached way. Maybe if I had a regular partner(s) I could get it going again.

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By *elboy1978Man
8 weeks ago

Fellgate

No I am always horny

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By *entleman JayMan
8 weeks ago

Wakefield

Mine has always been on the same level.

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By *ee69Man
8 weeks ago

glasgow

The drives fine

Finding someone nice to share with is the struggle lol

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By *ornym66Man
8 weeks ago

Col /ips

"It fluctuates. Sometimes it buggers off for a few months, then it'll come back with a vengeance. "

I'm the same

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