FabSwingers.com forum: Women and couples

By (user no longer on site) OP
8 weeks ago

Are the above now put off, men due to this site?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *nesCouple
8 weeks ago

Milton Keynes, city of dreams

Not purely due to this site.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *rsKOTCTWoman
8 weeks ago

Leeds

Me personally - yes, I'm put off men sexually.

Don't get me wrong there's a few good eggs that can hold normal platonic conversation but overall I'm now strictly vagiterian!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *aven.Woman
8 weeks ago

Not the North West...

I was off men way before this site.

Been here just confirms how pathetic men can be when it comes to sex and how i'd never want a relationship again.

But some have a lovely penis so it's not all bad.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
8 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

I already knew the majority of people are not my people.

I wouldn't say I'm any less interested in the majority than I was before I came here 💜

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
8 weeks ago

Leeds

Im as straight as they come, and this site has put me off men. Makes me wonder how some people manage to get dressed in the morning.

The mr

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *lirtyfun123Woman
8 weeks ago

essex

Yep definately, this site has opened my eyes and to make matters worse I browsed a couple of fb groups that have completely knocked any trust I had out of me. Sometimes I really wish I could unsee things

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *AYENCouple
8 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

There's Fab men and normal men - we always hope that a Fab man can be a normal man, but it hasn't happened yet - so we find normal men in real life. K.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *eavenscentitCouple
8 weeks ago

barnstaple

I'm sometimes put off, some attitudes to women and women's sexuality are out of the ark. I have met some lovely fun men as well.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By * and R cple4Couple
8 weeks ago

swansea

We've given up with men on this site, Thankfully tho the men we have met in group socials and clubs have been great.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *eliWoman
8 weeks ago

Nope.

Some behaviour by men on this site has made me wary, a little cautious, a tad cynical before. But then I remembered I don't want my past to dictate my future and make me jaded. I like trying to take people for who they are, not what my previous scars tell me they could be.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *mmaleiaWoman
8 weeks ago

East Northamptonshire

I’ve met some decent guys off here, the rest on here put me off purely because they can’t read, they’re dick lead & it’s quite off putting, even for a ‘sex site’

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
8 weeks ago

East Sussex

Not due to this site. I was pretty good at recognising dodgy men before we joined.

Some of the behaviour and attitudes I've seen from men on fab reinforced my opinion that there's a minority of men who have a very low opinion of women and some feel a sort of ownership of their partners. However I think it's too easy to fall on to the habit of criticising men and that's not helpful

I have to say that my eyes have been opened to certain distasteful traits a minority of women possess too.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
8 weeks ago

East Sussex

Also most men are ok

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *eroLondonMan
8 weeks ago

Covent Garden

She's referring to me... ... ... ... ... ... ... ⬆️

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ot really famousMan
8 weeks ago

monaghan

"Are the above now put off, men due to this site? "
...and here you are ...the author of another man bashing thread...

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *eordieJeansCouple
8 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

No. I judge people on how they act not on how others do.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *vaRose43Woman
8 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

No not at all

There’s a minority of men who treat ladies here like some sort of commodity, or who have more red flags than Moscow 1945, but the vast majority are fine.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ora the explorerWoman
8 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *lderflower_AppleWoman
8 weeks ago

Basingstoke

Nope, I understand that in every walk of life people will be people. There are good and bad men and women everywhere.

I do think there can be tendancy for some men to be misogynistic here with the 'imbalance' of men to women and couples, but that's not to say they wouldn't act similarly in real life. Equally I'm sure some women here actually inappropriately, but as I don't interact with them I can't comment.

Like life in general I constantly remind myself here that any comments or actions I see or am in the receiving end of, are not of my doing, and are merely a reflection of that individual's inadequacies and lack of social understanding... And I hit the block (and report - if required) buttons.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *weetiepie99Woman
8 weeks ago

cardiff

No, most men I meet are not from finding them here anyway

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

Post new Message to Thread