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"I like a "dad bod" more to squish and jiggle with my jiggles. I like a gym fit bod too. " Can't go wrong with some jiggles first thing in the morning | |||
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"I like a "dad bod" more to squish and jiggle with my jiggles. I like a gym fit bod too. " I like the term dad bod but think it definitely is seen as a slimmer fat person. Like fat but not too fat. | |||
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"On here, just for sex, I want someone I'm physically attracted to so it would be more fitter bodies. If I ever wanted a relationship again I'd want the same to be honest. Call me shallow!" Even for sec, there needs to be that spark else it is just posh wank? | |||
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"On here, just for sex, I want someone I'm physically attracted to so it would be more fitter bodies. If I ever wanted a relationship again I'd want the same to be honest. Call me shallow!" Raven, one of my favourite things about you is that you’re honest. I believe the shit you say. I don’t think it’s shallow at all that you have a physical preference | |||
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"On here, just for sex, I want someone I'm physically attracted to so it would be more fitter bodies. If I ever wanted a relationship again I'd want the same to be honest. Call me shallow!" Not shallow at all, well maybe shallow lol but it’s preference, you need to be physically attracted to someone if it’s just sex or a relationship, so I totally agree with you, we like what we like. X | |||
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"On here, just for sex, I want someone I'm physically attracted to so it would be more fitter bodies. If I ever wanted a relationship again I'd want the same to be honest. Call me shallow!" It's not shallow it's preference. Nothing wrong with that. | |||
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"I don't find it a turn off or attractive. Not as a standalone thing. It's about more than someone's physical body for me. If I like the person and they've got a bit of tummy, bit of squidge... I'll find it attractive because it's their body."  | |||
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"I don't find it a turn off or attractive. Not as a standalone thing. It's about more than someone's physical body for me. If I like the person and they've got a bit of tummy, bit of squidge... I'll find it attractive because it's their body." Hmm I think I’d enjoy your answer in my other thread | |||
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"Holding onto some love handles on a man, or huge thighs is lovely. My only concern would be for their stamina. " So chubby? Chunky? Relatively still fit? | |||
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"Pickle I think you know my answer to this question. I have no body size preference at all. " Body size is fine. Fat is a totally different issue, a different look a different health matter..... Big yes ..... fat no | |||
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"Pickle I think you know my answer to this question. I have no body size preference at all. Body size is fine. Fat is a totally different issue, a different look a different health matter..... Big yes ..... fat no " Granny, if you could compare the two people I most recently did the Sex with, you'd get how diverse my "tastes" are, which can include fatness. I'm not exactly slim myself  | |||
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"Pickle I think you know my answer to this question. I have no body size preference at all. Body size is fine. Fat is a totally different issue, a different look a different health matter..... Big yes ..... fat no Granny, if you could compare the two people I most recently did the Sex with, you'd get how diverse my "tastes" are, which can include fatness. I'm not exactly slim myself "I got how diverse your tastes are. I was talking about my tastes. I don't judge overweight people. I don't fancy them either;not on sight anyway. | |||
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"I don’t like slim men I prefer well built (but fit) men A man waist should definitely be bigger than mine haha "I have never been attracted to very slim men. It's well built for me too. Chunky, thick set types....... but not wobbly ones. | |||
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"I don’t like slim men I prefer well built (but fit) men A man waist should definitely be bigger than mine haha
I have never been attracted to very slim men.
It's well built for me too. Chunky, thick set types....... but not wobbly ones."Exactly my type too Big shoulders , big arms and big hands too lol | |||
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"Pickle I think you know my answer to this question. I have no body size preference at all. Body size is fine. Fat is a totally different issue, a different look a different health matter..... Big yes ..... fat no Granny, if you could compare the two people I most recently did the Sex with, you'd get how diverse my "tastes" are, which can include fatness. I'm not exactly slim myself
I got how diverse your tastes are. I was talking about my tastes. I don't judge overweight people. I don't fancy them either;not on sight anyway. "Granny, your non-silhouette avatar took me aback. It's wonderful to see your face | |||
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"People are attracted to others that they see similar to themselves so fat women will go for fat men. No gym fit woman is going to want a obese man (unless there's some serious daddy issues.) " Why I go for men with a big penis ❤️ | |||
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"People are attracted to others that they see similar to themselves so fat women will go for fat men. No gym fit woman is going to want a obese man (unless there's some serious daddy issues.) " This is absolute nonsense. | |||
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"People are attracted to others that they see similar to themselves so fat women will go for fat men. No gym fit woman is going to want a obese man (unless there's some serious daddy issues.) " So, when I was overweight I went for overweight men, and now I'm slim my brain has been magically rewired to prefer slim men? | |||
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"Inspired by another thread, do you find bigger/ fatter bodies on men attractive? Or is it a turn off? " It’s both personality and physique for me - like a toned body and a dad bod!  | |||
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"On here, just for sex, I want someone I'm physically attracted to so it would be more fitter bodies. If I ever wanted a relationship again I'd want the same to be honest. Call me shallow!" Oh I don’t think that’s shallow…. I prefer deeper anyhow  | |||
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"Really the only physical turn off for me is a lack of hygiene. One of my partners is heavier than you are, the other is beanpole skinny, the other is a little gym hardbody. I still want to rip all of their clothes off and run my hands over their bodies. They're all fucking beautiful to me 💜" My kind of woman | |||
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"People are attracted to others that they see similar to themselves so fat women will go for fat men. No gym fit woman is going to want a obese man (unless there's some serious daddy issues.) " That doesn’t work the other way round. I’ve never been a gym fit woman so can’t comment on that bit. But a hell of a lot of gym fit men like the more fleshy lady. | |||
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"Pickle I think you know my answer to this question. I have no body size preference at all. Body size is fine. Fat is a totally different issue, a different look a different health matter..... Big yes ..... fat no " I agree on this. For me it's a heth issue but for atheistic reasons I prefer slimmer. | |||
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"People are attracted to others that they see similar to themselves so fat women will go for fat men. No gym fit woman is going to want an obese man (unless there's some serious daddy issues.) " Well this isn’t something people on fab will agree with I don’t think. A guy did a thread about this recently and people didn’t like the fact he was shocked that a big woman wouldn’t find big men attractive. I personally think that people should be able to see beauty in their body type and in people with similar body types. But I think especially surrounding weight and desirability people are, whether they declare themselves immune to societal influences or not, forming ideas of desirability in society. They’re not innate. | |||
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"People are attracted to others that they see similar to themselves so fat women will go for fat men. No gym fit woman is going to want a obese man (unless there's some serious daddy issues.) " That’s a complete load of bollocks. | |||
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"Define bigger/fatter? If someone is too fat to be able to have sex properly then that wouldn't work for me. Other than that so long as we're attracted to each other then cool 😏" I’d say fat to me is like someone that clearly has a big belly or waist, big elsewhere as a result - as in they have a fair amount of fat on their arms or legs etc. I’d describe myself as fat. And I think it can go right the way up to someone that is yeah- unable to move or do regular activity easily. | |||
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"Neither a turn on or turn off...to a limit. The people I've been intensely attracted to have been all shapes, sizes, heights, but they've all been relatively healthy. Some extra weight on someone who is fairly active is no deterrent for me if there's a spark. If someone looks uncomfortable, ill, lacking in energy, whether large or small, I'm probably not going to be physically attracted to them." I think that’s a clear reasoning thank you x | |||
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"No, I would disagree especially in regards to women's bodies. When I was 'young' thin/skinny was very much still fashionable. This has massively changed the past 20yrs. Gym fit women/curvier women, are now the desirable aspiration. Plus size is definitely bigger than what it used to be. Also vanity sizing is a thing. A size 10 is in no way what a size 10 used to be manufacturing wise. It used to be mainstream clothing shops you'd struggle to get a 16, definitely not an 18. Most shops stock size 20 in most styles now. " I hear you but these aren’t evidence of bigger people being more desirable in my opinion. Stocking clothes that fit more people is accepting more people are bigger than they used to be. Not that bigger bodies are sexy. Curvy women are desirable I agree. But curvy isn’t the same as someone being bigger. People still describe a size 14/16 as plus size (even on tv and reality TV). How obsessed in the last 20 years have the media been with women’s weight loss? fern Britain? Gemma Collins? Denise Welch? These are things I as a man remember. I’m sure for women my age or even younger can name way more. How much do you think society actually deems a size 18/20+ as sexy and desirable? More than in the past? I’m sure. But as in actively fits it into a typical standard of beauty? I’d argue no way. Look at the discourse around Lizzo? The way people have talked about Jorja Smith gaining weight (to maybe a size 18?) how people have talked about Adele LOSING weight? Society finds curvy attractive now maybe. Big bodies are still not sexy or desirable. | |||
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"No, I would disagree especially in regards to women's bodies. When I was 'young' thin/skinny was very much still fashionable. This has massively changed the past 20yrs. Gym fit women/curvier women, are now the desirable aspiration. Plus size is definitely bigger than what it used to be. Also vanity sizing is a thing. A size 10 is in no way what a size 10 used to be manufacturing wise. It used to be mainstream clothing shops you'd struggle to get a 16, definitely not an 18. Most shops stock size 20 in most styles now. I hear you but these aren’t evidence of bigger people being more desirable in my opinion. Stocking clothes that fit more people is accepting more people are bigger than they used to be. Not that bigger bodies are sexy. Curvy women are desirable I agree. But curvy isn’t the same as someone being bigger. People still describe a size 14/16 as plus size (even on tv and reality TV). How obsessed in the last 20 years have the media been with women’s weight loss? fern Britain? Gemma Collins? Denise Welch? These are things I as a man remember. I’m sure for women my age or even younger can name way more. How much do you think society actually deems a size 18/20+ as sexy and desirable? More than in the past? I’m sure. But as in actively fits it into a typical standard of beauty? I’d argue no way. Look at the discourse around Lizzo? The way people have talked about Jorja Smith gaining weight (to maybe a size 18?) how people have talked about Adele LOSING weight? Society finds curvy attractive now maybe. Big bodies are still not sexy or desirable. " I’ve always hated the dress size thing. I’ve seen profiles and threads on here saying no women over a certain size. It’s ridiculous. Me as a size 16 to 18 couldn’t be any different to someone who is 4ft at the same size. | |||
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"No, I would disagree especially in regards to women's bodies. When I was 'young' thin/skinny was very much still fashionable. This has massively changed the past 20yrs. Gym fit women/curvier women, are now the desirable aspiration. Plus size is definitely bigger than what it used to be. Also vanity sizing is a thing. A size 10 is in no way what a size 10 used to be manufacturing wise. It used to be mainstream clothing shops you'd struggle to get a 16, definitely not an 18. Most shops stock size 20 in most styles now. I hear you but these aren’t evidence of bigger people being more desirable in my opinion. Stocking clothes that fit more people is accepting more people are bigger than they used to be. Not that bigger bodies are sexy. Curvy women are desirable I agree. But curvy isn’t the same as someone being bigger. People still describe a size 14/16 as plus size (even on tv and reality TV). How obsessed in the last 20 years have the media been with women’s weight loss? fern Britain? Gemma Collins? Denise Welch? These are things I as a man remember. I’m sure for women my age or even younger can name way more. How much do you think society actually deems a size 18/20+ as sexy and desirable? More than in the past? I’m sure. But as in actively fits it into a typical standard of beauty? I’d argue no way. Look at the discourse around Lizzo? The way people have talked about Jorja Smith gaining weight (to maybe a size 18?) how people have talked about Adele LOSING weight? Society finds curvy attractive now maybe. Big bodies are still not sexy or desirable. I’ve always hated the dress size thing. I’ve seen profiles and threads on here saying no women over a certain size. It’s ridiculous. Me as a size 16 to 18 couldn’t be any different to someone who is 4ft at the same size. " *couldn’t be more different I meant to say | |||
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"People are attracted to others that they see similar to themselves so fat women will go for fat men. No gym fit woman is going to want a obese man (unless there's some serious daddy issues.) " Whaaaaaat? I mean... Its an opinion. | |||
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"People are attracted to others that they see similar to themselves so fat women will go for fat men. No gym fit woman is going to want a obese man (unless there's some serious daddy issues.) That’s a complete load of bollocks. " And yiu are basing this on what? He has a point | |||
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 News articles constantly proclaiming her massive weight loss. Then showing pictures of her looking exactly the same every few weeks. A better example would be Scarlett Moffat who dropped lots of dresses sizes, brought out a fitness dvd, then later recanted and publically admitted she'd lost the weight by not the means she said, and regained all the weight.
She seemed to have more support for just saying look I'm naturally falling into the weight category I am, and I'm not prepared to make myself unwell trying to be something else again.
Also curvy if you ask most folk equals bigger boobs, bigger bum, lesser waist, round hips. So that's generally a bigger size on most people by natural body shape. | |||
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"On here, just for sex, I want someone I'm physically attracted to so it would be more fitter bodies. If I ever wanted a relationship again I'd want the same to be honest. Call me shallow!" And a pretty penis.haha love it | |||
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"Some people just wear weight well. There are some “rugby” types that melt me. There are some skinny Minnie’s that bro h out a different side in me. I’ve had a few gym ripped lovers. It is 90% personality though. " Even my personality is overweight | |||
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"Some people just wear weight well. There are some “rugby” types that melt me. There are some skinny Minnie’s that bro h out a different side in me. I’ve had a few gym ripped lovers. It is 90% personality though. " Oh then I’m screwed. | |||
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"Some people just wear weight well. There are some “rugby” types that melt me. There are some skinny Minnie’s that bro h out a different side in me. I’ve had a few gym ripped lovers. It is 90% personality though. Oh then I’m screwed. " Them be the breaks. | |||
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"People are attracted to others that they see similar to themselves so fat women will go for fat men. No gym fit woman is going to want a obese man (unless there's some serious daddy issues.) That’s a complete load of bollocks. And yiu are basing this on what? He has a point " My own opinion. Also seeing the relationships/partners of loads of friends and family who have had encounters with those who look nothing like them, countless couples that you see in day to day life and in the media. Oh and that old saying… opposites attract. | |||
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"And by the way there’s plenty of size 18/20+ people that are healthy enough to do regular activities and not need to be carried out of bed by a crane. " I'm 16/18 and my occasional need for a crane (or human equivalent) is nowt to do with my weight/size. I was more or less the same size when I totally physically able. | |||
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"Pickle I think you know my answer to this question. I have no body size preference at all. Body size is fine. Fat is a totally different issue, a different look a different health matter..... Big yes ..... fat no Granny, if you could compare the two people I most recently did the Sex with, you'd get how diverse my "tastes" are, which can include fatness. I'm not exactly slim myself
I got how diverse your tastes are. I was talking about my tastes. I don't judge overweight people. I don't fancy them either;not on sight anyway.
Granny, your non-silhouette avatar took me aback. It's wonderful to see your face "Haa haaaaa don't make me laugh ! x It's four years old though. Hope you don't mind. | |||
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"People are attracted to others that they see similar to themselves so fat women will go for fat men. No gym fit woman is going to want an obese man (unless there's some serious daddy issues.) " That’s simply not true. I see loads of gym couples that are complete opposites when it comes to body type. | |||
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"People are attracted to others that they see similar to themselves so fat women will go for fat men. No gym fit woman is going to want a obese man (unless there's some serious daddy issues.) That’s a complete load of bollocks. And yiu are basing this on what? He has a point " I mean, I'm basing it on my own personal experience for a start. My husband and I have been in a relationship for almost 21yrs. We've always been vastly different in size/shape to each other and remain so now. | |||
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"Pickle I think you know my answer to this question. I have no body size preference at all. Body size is fine. Fat is a totally different issue, a different look a different health matter..... Big yes ..... fat no Granny, if you could compare the two people I most recently did the Sex with, you'd get how diverse my "tastes" are, which can include fatness. I'm not exactly slim myself
I got how diverse your tastes are. I was talking about my tastes. I don't judge overweight people. I don't fancy them either;not on sight anyway.
Granny, your non-silhouette avatar took me aback. It's wonderful to see your face
Haa haaaaa don't make me laugh ! x It's four years old though. Hope you don't mind."Catfish! I knew it | |||
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"It's not a turn on or turn off to be honest, I've dated slim, muscular and large - if I like the person I'll generally like his body. I've never been put off someone I like due to their size. Mrs " This for me | |||
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