FabSwingers.com forum: Message disappeared!

By *valiceslut OP TV/TS
21 weeks ago

London

Hi all - been on fab for years but this is the first time the following has happened:

Received a wink from a young (29) cis female profile. Two pics and two line non explicit profile with a tag saying she is inundated with messages so will answer selectively. Can’t recall how long she’s been in the site but sense it’s six months ish.

I send her a message saying thank you for the wink and perhaps when my wrist heals, we could catch up for a show or a coffee or a social. Send her a few face pics and say no worries if not for her but have more if she wants to see anything nawty.

She replies back saying a coffee would be great and she’d like to see more pix and what I was into.

I sent her some more pix and that I was into everything except pain or power games.

Then I was chatting to another couple about books etc. looked back and found all correspondence with the cis woman had gone! Never happened to me … almost makes me wonder whether I had actually sent her messages or chatted with her lol and for the life of me I can’t even remember her name lol

Even the original wink has gone!!

Serious erasure of her existence … now is that possible? Not interested in rights and wrongs here … just the phenomena of obliterating a perception of reality? I find that fascinating…. I did wonder whether I’d dreamt it lol

Any thoughts

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By *ell GwynnWoman
21 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

They've gone UNLOS?

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By *bi HaiveMan
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21 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

They deleted their profile.

That's why all traces vanished.

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By *valiceslut OP TV/TS
21 weeks ago

London

"They've gone UNLOS?"

UN involved…. Must be serious lol (or not as the state of affairs

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By *valiceslut OP TV/TS
21 weeks ago

London

"They deleted their profile.

That's why all traces vanished. "

Ah ok … that explains it … was thinking I was going a bit cuckoo lol

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman
21 weeks ago

Markfield

Stands for User No Longer On Site I believe.

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
21 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

Had it done to me. Very cagey about sending a face pic. A woman was badgering for a while and as soon as I sent she went UNLOS. Either a pic collector, someone trying to find out who I was or I am so pig ugly it put her off for life.

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By *valiceslut OP TV/TS
20 weeks ago

London

"Stands for User No Longer On Site I believe. "

Thank you x

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By *valiceslut OP TV/TS
20 weeks ago

London

"Had it done to me. Very cagey about sending a face pic. A woman was badgering for a while and as soon as I sent she went UNLOS. Either a pic collector, someone trying to find out who I was or I am so pig ugly it put her off for life."

Am sure the 3rd wasn’t part of it!

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