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What do people look for on others profiles and where are the local dogging sites in Nottinghamshire

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By *wazzle1 OP   Man
15 weeks ago

Mansfield

Hi, I've been on here a while now and still unsure as to why so many messages are ignored or just deleted with out response...

Also can someone tell me where the local dogging sites are?

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By *ffervescentMan
15 weeks ago

winfrith

maybe you treat this site as a sex site and as a result message strangers with sex in mind .

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By *ohn.Wick.Man
15 weeks ago

The Continental

Your profile is your shop window.

If it’s poorly dressed, it should come as no surprise that you have no response.

Local dogging spots? It’d be no good my telling you because you’re miles away.

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By *wazzle1 OP   Man
15 weeks ago

Mansfield


"maybe you treat this site as a sex site and as a result message strangers with sex in mind ."
... I'm not sure on what u mean there can u elaborate please

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By *wazzle1 OP   Man
15 weeks ago

Mansfield


"Your profile is your shop window.

If it’s poorly dressed, it should come as no surprise that you have no response.

Local dogging spots? It’d be no good my telling you because you’re miles away. "
so looking at my profile what would u say I need to look at?

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By *ffervescentMan
15 weeks ago

winfrith

Do you send sexual messages as an attempt to meet women here ?The best way to get interaction is to get friendly with them first ,so unless you are an Adonis and have a great profile not much chance of that .

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By *wazzle1 OP   Man
15 weeks ago

Mansfield

I try to do a mixture depending on the profile I'm looking at and I always include a profile pic

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By *elix SightedMan
15 weeks ago

Cloud 8


"Hi, I've been on here a while now and still unsure as to why so many messages are ignored or just deleted with out response...

Also can someone tell me where the local dogging sites are?"

OP if you were out shopping for clothes and saw a shop with its lights off and the only thing in the window was an unadorned mannequin, would you go in? Or would you assume there was nothing worth looking at…?

Most people will look at your profile before reading your message.

And as for dogging sites, round the back of Asda on a Saturday night. Dig out that Old Spice.

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By *ohn.Wick.Man
15 weeks ago

The Continental


"Your profile is your shop window.

If it’s poorly dressed, it should come as no surprise that you have no response.

Local dogging spots? It’d be no good my telling you because you’re miles away. so looking at my profile what would u say I need to look at?"

Everything.

Take a peek at my own, not as a rule to follow, but an example of bringing personality and information to the forefront.

I’m not saying mines the best out there, but it’s received many an unsolicited compliment, and I rarely get my mail deleted without reply. That tells me it works.

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By *allipygousMan
15 weeks ago

Leicester

D, I think you're on a wind up. That or you have no self awareness. I'm going to humour you and say just look at the profiles of the men who have so far responded to this thread then look at yours. See any difference?

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

I'm not in your age range but you've asked for advice on the open forums so...

●Majority of people will block you because you have no profile pic

□Majority of profiles will bypass you because there's no bio or what you've wrote is unappealing

◇Majority of people like to see personality in bio

☆you are in a sea of men and don't stand out unless your profile is interesting

* text speak is immature

¡it's easy to create an interesting profile but it's laziness for some that rely on being messaged. Would you message a blank profile?

I'm not being harsh, I'm being honest

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

I look for someone with similar interests and desires

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By *issmorganWoman
15 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Op you have no pics public at all and half your profile talks about how bad you are at taking them.

Would you reply to you?

Most of us check a profile, no pics would be a delete for me anyway and for many people. Practice taking a few pics, use your timer or record, then screenshot what you like.

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By *wazzle1 OP   Man
15 weeks ago

Mansfield

Far from it, I'm just used to face to face and not doing stuff over the internet... So for me it's a big change, so I'm learning as I go

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By *wazzle1 OP   Man
15 weeks ago

Mansfield

Don't worry I know your not being rude... Thanks for the help

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By *osey WalesMan
15 weeks ago

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If you are not the greatest at taking pics or promoting yourself online. Then maybe in person is better for you. Get yourself to some socials and or some clubs. At least you will have some veri's saying something positive about yourself

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