FabSwingers.com forum: If there were more advanced filters

By *ruceyy OP Man
9 weeks ago

London

What would you set it to so that you avoid messages from people that are never gonna work for you?!

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By *viatrixWoman
9 weeks ago

Redhill

Height 😂😂😂😂

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By *ellhungvweMan
9 weeks ago

Cheltenham

What I have now works for me. The one thing I would like is to be able to define myself how long someone has been on the site before I let them through.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
9 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

How long spent on the text portion of my profile 💜

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By *mmaleiaWoman
9 weeks ago

East Northamptonshire

People who have already messaged & get through my filters

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By *isbehavingWoman
9 weeks ago

Huntly

"Height 😂😂😂😂"

I’ll second that

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By *illy IdolMan
9 weeks ago

Midlands

"How long spent on the text portion of my profile 💜"

You have text?

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By *onderlust69Couple
9 weeks ago

Central belt

"What would you set it to so that you avoid messages from people that are never gonna work for you?!"

Best filter is block hahaha

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By *alloSpaceboyMan
9 weeks ago

Carmarthen

Blocks on ‘straight’ men looking for a hook-up because I am bi.

Happy to receive approaches from those who are publicly bi or bi curious.

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

Mileage. They message from 50 + miles away wanting to meet up.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
9 weeks ago

Leeds

I’d make it a compulsory question on signing up.

Then the selection you would get to choose from on the people you’re looking for is……..

Eyebrows.

Natural?

Sharpie ?

The me

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By *r Mrs FuckableCouple
9 weeks ago

Stoke

"People who have already messaged & get through my filters

Just block them, it stops it

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By *emorefridaCouple
9 weeks ago

La la land

Messages must be longer than one sentence long. They'll have to think of something, more imaginative than want to meet now?

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By *r Mrs FuckableCouple
9 weeks ago

Stoke

"Mileage. They message from 50 + miles away wanting to meet up. "

Absolutely this. Would love to be able to set messages within a mileage radius.

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By *eordieJeansCouple
9 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Vagina depth.

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By *etwife8230Couple
9 weeks ago

Newport

Blocks on people having multiple profiles and messaging as different people once blocked 🚫

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By *xposedInTheSunCouple
9 weeks ago

Cambridgeshire

"Messages must be longer than one sentence long. They'll have to think of something, more imaginative than want to meet now? "

Bad idea - they'd just cut and paste something longer, so rejecting them would take longer as well.

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By *emorefridaCouple
9 weeks ago

La la land

"Messages must be longer than one sentence long. They'll have to think of something, more imaginative than want to meet now?

Bad idea - they'd just cut and paste something longer, so rejecting them would take longer as well.

Good point, I'll add have a massive alarm go off on all cut and paste messages. Especially if they sent it to you once already

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By *agatoXXXMan
9 weeks ago

Gone and completely forgotten.

I'd like one that filters out all the cl*que members.😁

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By *mily36CWoman
9 weeks ago

Beds (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

Profiles with just a cock as their main picture ... ah no, wait, that's a filter in its self

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By *antastic_Mr_Fox_76Man
9 weeks ago

District 13

Saggy beef curtains

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By *equila89Man
9 weeks ago

Tortured Poets Department

I’d say it goes height, face, body. In that order, from most important to least. The other stuff, like personality, enters the equation after ticking those boxes, maybe.

I do feel bad for guys (it’s only ever guys) who come here asking what’s going wrong, or thinking rewording their profile or taking a nice photo will make them more visible. This thread could be a refreshing crash course in realism.

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By *equila89Man
9 weeks ago

Tortured Poets Department

I have wondered whether restricting single men from contacting women would be a positive for the site. But then again, the real oddballs would make fake couple profiles I guess.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
9 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

When someone types ‘you’ve got lovely pics - wife looks hot’ it should come up with a warning to say ‘if you’re using this opener as a way in then just post it all in one message’

We normally get:-

Them - ‘You’ve got lovely pics - your wife is hot’

Us - ‘thanks’

Them - ‘fancy a fuck?’ *includes a cock pic.

Us - ‘no thanks’

Saves everyone the extra message then - we can no thanks in the first

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By *ay W. BeauWoman
9 weeks ago

Wolvo

Distance would be a great filter.

Tbh i imagine many people would adapt their profiles to get around filters just like they do with age, location, public profile picture.

Also you could set more filters then on meeting its all a lie.

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By *vaRose43Woman
9 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

Block profiles that include the legal disclaimer text that means their profile text looks long but isn’t

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By *equila89Man
9 weeks ago

Tortured Poets Department

"Distance would be a great filter.

Tbh i imagine many people would adapt their profiles to get around filters just like they do with age, location, public profile picture.

Also you could set more filters then on meeting its all a lie. "

This is a tricky one, I’ll contact people from further away when I’m certain I’m willing to travel and make a meet happen. But it’s whether they stay in touch, or are interested in keeping communication going over days. And if people have been let down in the past I suppose there might be some reluctance.

I just don’t contact ‘only meet right now, in this area’ profiles.

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By *ust another WonkoMan
9 weeks ago

here and there

A no contact with Wonko filter

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
9 weeks ago

Tamworth

"When someone types ‘you’ve got lovely pics - wife looks hot’ it should come up with a warning to say ‘if you’re using this opener as a way in then just post it all in one message’

We normally get:-

Them - ‘You’ve got lovely pics - your wife is hot’

Us - ‘thanks’

Them - ‘fancy a fuck?’ *includes a cock pic.

Us - ‘no thanks’

Saves everyone the extra message then - we can no thanks in the first

Oh come on, surely once you’ve seen their cock, you can’t resist? 🤷🏼‍♀️

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
9 weeks ago

your head

Attached cock pics

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By *eyond PurityCouple
9 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

"When someone types ‘you’ve got lovely pics - wife looks hot’ it should come up with a warning to say ‘if you’re using this opener as a way in then just post it all in one message’

We normally get:-

Them - ‘You’ve got lovely pics - your wife is hot’

Us - ‘thanks’

Them - ‘fancy a fuck?’ *includes a cock pic.

Us - ‘no thanks’

Saves everyone the extra message then - we can no thanks in the first

Oh come on, surely once you’ve seen their cock, you can’t resist? 🤷🏼‍♀️"

Well that’s the other thing - why do guys post cock pics to a couple? 😱 Their target audience is 50%…🤷🏻‍♂️

I’ve seen every cock imaginable now…I didn’t know there was so many varieties and not in a good way. I certainly don’t get cock envy that’s for sure

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By *ell GwynnWoman
9 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

I'd really like the option of blocking DM's that don't come from forum threads. I've not blocked single men because it's nice to chat to people off the back of some threads, but I sometimes miss those messages because of the volume of other messages that end up in my inbox despite me not showing up on any searches.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
9 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

Height

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By *aven.Woman
9 weeks ago

Not the North West...

Id like a dickhead filter

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By *r.XratedMan
9 weeks ago

Liverpool/ New York

"Vagina depth."

Ha. I always hit the top. Think of that hammer game at the fair

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
9 weeks ago

Tamworth

"When someone types ‘you’ve got lovely pics - wife looks hot’ it should come up with a warning to say ‘if you’re using this opener as a way in then just post it all in one message’

We normally get:-

Them - ‘You’ve got lovely pics - your wife is hot’

Us - ‘thanks’

Them - ‘fancy a fuck?’ *includes a cock pic.

Us - ‘no thanks’

Saves everyone the extra message then - we can no thanks in the first

Oh come on, surely once you’ve seen their cock, you can’t resist? 🤷🏼‍♀️

Well that’s the other thing - why do guys post cock pics to a couple? 😱 Their target audience is 50%…🤷🏻‍♂️

I’ve seen every cock imaginable now…I didn’t know there was so many varieties and not in a good way. I certainly don’t get cock envy that’s for sure

Sadly, to a small number of single men you are nothing more than an inconvenient appendage and therefore your preferences are by the by 😞

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By *r.XratedMan
9 weeks ago

Liverpool/ New York

"Id like a dickhead filter"

You have tude

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
9 weeks ago

your head

"Id like a dickhead filter"

This too!

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By *eordieJeansCouple
9 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

"Vagina depth.

Ha. I always hit the top. Think of that hammer game at the fair"

I don’t. Think of driving a smart car up the M6.

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By *issmorganWoman
9 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Distance, I mean 200 miles away really?.

Plus it would be good if you had to click on something to accept attached pics in messages, in case it's a dreaded cock shot.

Also a Way to stop filters being bypassed would be good , so no changing age or adding pics to get past them.

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By *acavityMan
9 weeks ago

Redditch

As a single male, I don't want to discourage any group from messaging.

That straight single male might be organising a gang bang.

The only filter would be message length.

100 characters?

Yes people could just hold a button and xxxxxxxxxx to make a message long enough. But it would be obvious.

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By *mily36CWoman
9 weeks ago

Beds (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

Also a Way to stop filters being bypassed would be good , so no changing age or adding pics to get past them. "

You can only change age once though so it can be a great deterrant already if you set the right age filters

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
9 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Anyone that uses the words 'meet now' in a message.

*unless they're Margot Robbie.

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By *ay W. BeauWoman
9 weeks ago

Wolvo

A racial fetish filter. Those who like being fetishised, those that don’t and those that are neutral about it.

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By *issmorganWoman
9 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Also a Way to stop filters being bypassed would be good , so no changing age or adding pics to get past them.

You can only change age once though so it can be a great deterrant already if you set the right age filters

Yeah, I love all the profiles that say age is wrong, I'm 55 but can't change it.

I think lies, you already changed it and now can't change it back.

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By *B69Woman
9 weeks ago

Wiltshire

Not so much a filter but being able to hide if your online or not

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
9 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

Filter out those that don't like a hand on their throat and my eyes burning into their souls as I make sweet love to them. Hard.

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